I don't know why I haven't paid much attention to this thread, some good stuff in here.

@soup, yeah go with the hippie chick for a while. Mini relationships are fun every now and again, and if she is leaving soon even better. Take some time off from gaming randoms.

@goldmund, the cig opener is probably responsible for over 50% of my bangs. So incredibly easy, and most girls who smoke do in fact poke.

@travesty444, NYC is an exception, though I don't see how you can get higher quality here than in Europe. Maybe compared to the rest of the US, but not europe.

Random thoughts/recaps from this weekend:

This weekend I met a cute girl and her # didn't save in my phone. Was pissed for a few min about that. Also then met a Portugese girl who opened me up. She was so cock hungry it was unbelievable. She straddled me at the bar, pulled out her fake tits and started grinding me. Fingering/jacking off on the couch. Tried to pull her in the bathroom but got kicked out.

In Dallas for work today, so many dudes out its unreal. Can't really do much though because of work so went into a restaurant and sat next to an ugly asian girl. I didn't even try to game her and she was into me. When she left she introduced herself and kind of stood there for a second hoping I would get her # or something. I just said nice meeting you and turned back to my food. Sucks to be an ugly girl in a non drinking environment.

I love the moment when you know that a girl wants to make out with you. That puppy dog look is priceless.

Went out to game last night and the little 22 yo from last weekends bbq hit me up at 11 with a text saying 'lets have a drink'

We met at a bar and were there for about 15mins...she was literally squirming in her seat.

Took her back and had a marathon sesh: the girl hadn't been fucked in months.

Pussy sometimes drops out of the sky.

Goldmund,

Have do you let any forum member shadow you when you game ? Would be great to see and learn from you. Same for soup or any non newbie in NYC.

Finally banged that girl I insulted last week after a week of texting bullshit. I haven't put that much work into a girl in forever. She was throwing out shit test after shit test. If I wasn't going off the grid in a few days there is no way I would have put up with her shit.

I can't stand girls who think being sassy is attractive. It's fucking annoying.

I want to keep banging her before I go off the grid but I might be better off trying to pull something new.

I don't mind meeting up with members as long as they are stand up guys with the proper mind set--and they by me a drink or two

(06-23-2014 10:01 PM)slubu Wrote:  In Dallas for work today, so many dudes out its unreal. Can't really do much though because of work so went into a restaurant and sat next to an ugly asian girl. I didn't even try to game her and she was into me. When she left she introduced herself and kind of stood there for a second hoping I would get her # or something. I just said nice meeting you and turned back to my food. Sucks to be an ugly girl in a non drinking environment.

I love the moment when you know that a girl wants to make out with you. That puppy dog look is priceless.

You're in Dallas brah?! Hit up Uptown!

I've been working my ass off lately and haven't had much time for game. Coupled with a harem collapse, and it's been a grim two weeks. Stacking cash is nice, but I need some ass!

There's something really hot about time limited relationships. It's an idea I've had for years. Two people get together for a set amount if time.. Nothing further.

It brings a type of death into the picture.. And you know what they say about death and sex.

My hippie girl is leaving in the middle of July.. I think she's really into me. I feel like I'm in high school again! But I don't feel pressure to get be in an endless ltr.

It's going to be sad when she goes but I can tell the passion is going to be strong because it's limited.

There's something to be said for working within limits. It focussed the energy.

When you are aware if your mortality you probably won't just sit around on your ass.. You'll most likely want to get shit done- fulfill your dreams.

I highly recommend time limited relationships.

(06-24-2014 09:34 PM)soup Wrote:  There's something really hot about time limited relationships. It's an idea I've had for years. Two people get together for a set amount if time.. Nothing further.

It brings a type of death into the picture.. And you know what they say about death and sex.

My hippie girl is leaving in the middle of July.. I think she's really into me. I feel like I'm in high school again! But I don't feel pressure to get be in an endless ltr.

It's going to be sad when she goes but I can tell the passion is going to be strong because it's limited.

There's something to be said for working within limits. It focussed the energy.

When you are aware if your mortality you probably won't just sit around on your ass.. You'll most likely want to get shit done- fulfill your dreams.

I highly recommend time limited relationships.

Soup, you're definitely transcending game into a new level.

Currently at a bar with a girl I met from Tinder and her friends. I'm with my wingman and we're outnumbered 4 to 2. There's another girl that I just matched with(like literally 30-40 mins ago) that seems like she's dtf since she said I can just come straight over to her house. But I'm here with my wingman and I don't wanna bail on him, what should I do?

2 of the girls here are 6's and the other two are 6.5-7-ish.. The girl that wants me to come over looks better than all of the girls I'm with collectively. Quality over quantity?

(06-24-2014 10:58 PM)game_ethic Wrote:  Currently at a bar with a girl I met from Tinder and her friends. I'm with my wingman and we're outnumbered 4 to 2. There's another girl that I just matched with(like literally 30-40 mins ago) that seems like she's dtf since she said I can just come straight over to her house. But I'm here with my wingman and I don't wanna bail on him, what should I do?

2 of the girls here are 6's and the other two are 6.5-7-ish.. The girl that wants me to come over looks better than all of the girls I'm with collectively. Quality over quantity?

Get "sick" and have to leave, go with the bish that is cuter

Also, that girl sent me a shit test today.

She saw me playing music and remarked about the girl in my band: "she's cute, you guys would be good together, you should ask her out when I leave"

I know she's talking logically, but something was off about that comment. If I said, "yes I agree" then she'd probably think that I was a pussy for not already getting the girl or for just being a "yes" man.

If I said "no" that would make me look all needy.

What I did was roll my eyes at her, because she was being silly. I then explained that the girl in my band has a boyfriend and that I see enough of her already.

I think that when girls try to take control of the frame by trying to push you into a yes or no answer, the best thing to do is not give a yes or no answer but bring up more complex things to re-gain the frame.

Or just stall if you don't know what to say. Change the subject.

(06-22-2014 02:35 PM)CJ Wrote:  Completely out-gamed a guy at a house party last night going for the same girl as me. I almost felt bad, as I had no issues with the guy, but he just couldn't compete.

I kinda feel like I should write a detailed topic about this, and similar encounters, where I've utilized my game to crush the opposition. Might get some good examples in there, that people can use.

Been a pretty busy week so far, but based on the couple responses, I'll definitely put this story up in a new topic as soon as I can (hopefully tomorrow), and I'll encourage others to post their own similar stories as well. I remember key turning points, two in particular, that I think will be beneficial!

Edit: Unrelated side-note, I've been experimenting with mixing texting and a couple phone calls, and it's greatly reducing my flake rate. I'm sure a lot of other seasoned guys are doing this too, but I feel I should at least put something up in the newbie forum, maybe an addendum to the Newbie Guide.

Quote:I go more by G Manifesto's policy of just calling. I'll send the first text so they know it's me and leave it alone till the next day to call them. When it's a girl who is a strong lead, it seals the deal right up, and if it's a lukewarm girl, I tease her a little and build more comfort to ask out. I must be the dullest kid when it comes to texting, but I do hate it with a passion, don't have time for it and hate waiting for a reply. I don't know how much it hurts my game or not though...

I recently just wrote this. I wholeheartedly believe that if a girl is DTF she will answer my call, and not put me through texting hell. I got two dates with legit hotties this week, and one who initially ignored my first text, but because of calling, removed shit tests and I'm seeing her now.

I think its nowhere near impossible to get a relationship with a girl who's willing to let you see other girls on the side. Actually I think its pretty doable, in fact. Had a brief discussion about the matter with my "limited time relationship girl" who's really into me. "If that would be the only way I'd get you then yeah maybe". We were a bit drunk but still.

Man.. I'm already starting to get nit-picky with the hippy chick...

What do you guys think of shaved head with beard look?

Goldmund, for sure dude. Drinks on me. Will PM you if you are fine with it ?

In other news, one of the girls I am seeing for a month said that if I really cared about her and heard what she said, I would delete my in tinder. A) it's been just a month b) she should have set an example by deleting hers then ask me c) I wouldn't eat out if home cooked food was the best ever. So work on your cooking

Few months back I would have given in and done that to please her. But this time I am going to end it with her. Don't know it it's right or wrong. But different.

(06-25-2014 09:59 AM)soup Wrote:  What do you guys think of shaved head with beard look?

If the man is thin: wannabe mystic, a bit cliche.
If the man is bulked and/or tattooed: gangsta, attracts girls who like to be dominated.

(06-24-2014 11:50 PM)soup Wrote:  Also, that girl sent me a shit test today.

She saw me playing music and remarked about the girl in my band: "she's cute, you guys would be good together, you should ask her out when I leave"

While, yes, this is likely a shit test of some sort, have you considered the possibility she might be into women too? If she's hippy/free love enough, I bet this could be a good opportunity since it's a time-limited relationship anyway.

Yeah, I'm pretty sure she's into girls.

Couchsurfing exploits from four years ago are still paying dividends.

Got messaged today from a chick who stayed at my place in 2010...didn't bang but we had fun...this was before I had strong game.

She told me that her best friend is moving to NYC and requested a cool guy take her around to show her a good time because she doesn't know anyone yet. Sent me her contact info. I fished her out through facebook...friend is a smoking Columbian chick from Miami.

Gonna show her a good time alright.

(06-25-2014 12:56 PM)soup Wrote:  Yeah, I'm pretty sure she's into girls.

Soup I don't know your background - are you a full time musician ?

(06-25-2014 03:03 PM)Goldmund Wrote:  Couchsurfing exploits from four years ago are still paying dividends.

Got messaged today from a chick who stayed at my place in 2010...didn't bang but we had fun...this was before I had strong game.

She told me that her best friend is moving to NYC and requested a cool guy take her around to show her a good time because she doesn't know anyone yet. Sent me her contact info. I fished her out through facebook...friend is a smoking Columbian chick from Miami.

Gonna show her a good time alright.

Can't wait to hear the report on this one Goldmund

Went on a date with a girl yesterday of tinder who had all the SIF red flags i.e. only got pictures of her face etc. I decided to risk it because I had nothing better to do. This was a big mistake as she was fucking HUGE. I had to talk to her for about an hour as well as buses run very irregularly to where I live and id only be walking around town on my own anyway.

Talking to her she was a caricature of a fat feminist I wasn't really listening as the cricket was on the TV which entertained me. I have another date lined up for Saturday day time but even though I have a free house my logistics are shite.

I have a terrible feeling this summers going to be shite since I left uni and moved back home, I need a plan to get out preferably abroad but id take having my own place in the UK.

Also need to start trying daygame as then I can actually see what the lizards look like, however there is one problem with me not having a clue what to do.