Post: #1

I have this really weird thing where I fall in love quickly with a girl, days after meeting her.This doesn't always happen though. How do I stop this?

Post: #2

I used to have this same problem when I was a kid on Ecstasy.

But it would go away when the drug would wear off.

"How do I stop this?"

I think you just need to get in better control of your emotions. Be more like a Icicle.

How old are you (or age range) if you don't mind saying?

Post: #3

Im a younger guy, 19 years old...

Post: #4

swoop more and more girls on the same catagery you fall in love with.....you will less likely to developed foolish chemical feelings called love.

Post: #5

I wouldn't call it really weird, it's pretty natural.

I don't think you want to extinguish that feeling completely. What you want to do is not wrap it all up in one girl. If you find yourself caught in love, keep approaching other girls. Don't put all your eggs in one basket, as they say.

You shouldn't be in love a few days after meeting a girl. That should take a little more time, and be earned.

Post: #6

Geronimo -

I wouldn't sweat it too much.

A little more seasoning and age and this problem should work itself out naturally.

The best thing as others say is to swoop more girls (it is amazing how this cures so many of life's ills.)

Post: #7

Thanks guys.

Post: #8

I read somewhere that guys fall in "love" way faster than girls. What helps me keep them off the pedestal is viewing them as an investment rather than the flawless princess Disney beat into our heads growing up.

Post: #9

Learn to love your body more than who your with, it sounds like you haven't been hitting the gym enough or eating well.

Post: #10

At 19 this is fairly normal.

Going after more girls is definitely smart. You should also cease contact with girls that you're getting feelings for before you've even banged them. I'm not advocating throwing away any guarantees here, but you definitely decrease your chances of getting the bang if the girl knows you like her more than she likes you. Make sense?

Also if you've got more than one girl in your rotation, and you care more about a particular one, start seeing her less until this balances out.

Over time you should be able to condition yourself to care less.

Post: #11

I have two remedies for you.

1. Start looking at more girls, and start talking to more girls. This will help prevent you from getting locked on just one.

2. Watch this video(the whole thing), and burn its words into your mind. It is a good intro to the realities of gender dynamics for a young man.





3. Listen to more Tom Leykis, read more Roissy, and keep absorbing information about how women really work. You'll swallow that bitter red pill eventually.

Post: #12

Just imagine her taking a big, messy dump.

Post: #13

(07-13-2011 01:48 AM)Geronimo Wrote:  I have this really weird thing where I fall in love quickly with a girl, days after meeting her. This doesn't always happen though. How do I stop this?

How could it happen? It takes me over a year living together to fall in love with someone; maybe we're talking about different things? How could you fall in love with someone you never actually lived together?

Post: #14

I think you can fall in love with alot of women really quickly, problem is not doing it coming from a needy, oh I'm so sad if I lose you. Just being loving and not giving a shit at the same time. I haven't been able to do this, I'm so needy right now.

Post: #15

A true mack is a master of love, not a slave to it, he owns it.

Post: #16

(07-13-2011 01:48 AM)Geronimo Wrote:  I have this really weird thing where I fall in love quickly with a girl, days after meeting her.This doesn't always happen though. How do I stop this?

Perhaps you mean more of a crush?

In any case, I know the feeling of falling in love. I fell in love (or infatutation) with a girl in nineth grade and failed majorly. It took me 8 months to get over it. So in my case, perhaps I got stung early.

But what helps me not do that again is three things:

1. Being aware of it (think back on my past mistake)
2. Read Game (Roosh, Roissy, G-Manifesto, The Spearhead, etc)
3. Like everybody else says, think of different girls.

There's one girl I met on Cruise who is in Columbia that I want to fuck.
There's one girl in Brazil who lives near one of my best friends who wants to fuck me.
There's a girl in England who I am going to fuck.
There's a girl in the U.S. who definitely wants to fuck me.
There's an ex girlfriend of mine who has been chasing me for two years giving me a nice ego boost.

If you want, I can direct you to all the websites I read.

I'm 18 by the way, turning 19.

Post: #17

so how about first sight love.? ..or better say love at first sight?

Post: #18

(07-16-2011 11:10 AM)ANACONDA Wrote:  so how about first sight love.? ..or better say love at first sight?

Blindfold yourself

Post: #19

it's cause you're overly horny (natural at your age.) Crowd her out of your mind with constant, frequent approaching; like hard disk files get overwritten by new ones. She's just a genetic data file.

you're imagining there's something special about her but that's just your horniness latching on to whatever's in front of you.

plus, however special you fantasize her to be, she's still 100% useless if she's not demonstrably into you -- as in cuing you for sex.