Post: #1

This is a very awkward thing for me that I've now had happen a couple times. Thanks to facebook I've seen pictures of a few girls I banged 5+ years ago, and two have definitely "let themselves go" with another showing signs of going down that route. I suppose it's inevitable with most American women, but I wish I'd never seen these photos.

Post: #2

Yes, I too have had sex with an American girl.

Edit: that was funnier before I read the last sentence

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Post: #3

one girl i used to fool around with alot hasn't gotten really fat, maybe few pounds but she's short, but she has since died her hair jet-black and get really bad acne since i stopped talking to her, which was almost two years ago. would be so much better to have the opposite scenario: if you turned a girl down when she was ugly but nice and then you see her after five years nd shes become hot but still nice and still remembers you. that would be ideal

Post: #4

Just attend your 20th year high school reunion, when they hit 38. Lots of hotties that turn ghastly. The worst are those that let themselves go as soon as they hit 31 or 32. Lots of women can remain hot into their 40s otherwise.

Post: #5

Ya, but I'm talking about American girls in their 20s here, it's just sad. The worst part is one of them is about to get married... if I cared more I'd send the dude some old pictures of the girl, when I had her, and ask why he'd do this to himself!

Post: #6

So far the only thing I'm noticing with my previous hoes is that their skin isn't looking as fresh and supple, but so far the majority of them are keeping their shit together weight wise (but I tend to instinctively watch out for potential fatties anyhow).

I did talk to a girl who used to have the most amazing ass and she told me it's not keeping up as well as she'd like. Sad day for mankind.

Post: #7

This has happened to me a couple of times. I did my junior year of high school in the US. Years and years later Facebook comes along and I reconnect with a lot of the people I went to school with. A good portion of them are now whales, comparing them with the HS yearbook is just sad, some of them was grade A piece of ass.

Post: #8

On a related note, one thing that unnerves me is when I find myself feeling attraction to a certain type of woman in her late teens or twenties who's a few pounds--just a few--overweight, but nevertheless has a good shape, and all in all makes those few extra pounds look great. She's "pleasingly plump", to use an antiquated expression. If she could just stay that way until she's 40 or 45, and then get down to normal weight for the remainder of her life, everything would be fine. But the sad fact is that that's not likely to happen, especially in America. If she's pleasingly plump in her teens and twenties, she's liable to be obese in her thirties, and morbidly obese in her forties and afterward. So as delicious as some of those women might be in their youth, you have to accept that that deliciousness isn't likely to last long, and your attraction should probably only be conditional and temporary.

Post: #9

i hav banged couple of them ....then again banged when they were fat.

Post: #10

most high school chicks go off to college and come back with a much larger mid section.

Post: #11

this has happened to me...the only difference i see in their personality is they're way more open to fool around.
i guess the fatter they are the easier they are lol

Post: #12

One thing on a related note that bothered me was an ex that cut her hair short and dyed it an unnatural color. She was so pretty before she did that, I just don't get it.

Post: #13

Most girls that sleep w/ me immediately go into a state of depression and get fat from the subsequent eating disorder.


Naw I'm kidding. To answer the question, yes, I've fucked them skinny only to watch them balloon up years later. It's usually after they squeeze out a few too many puppies.


To flip this around...

Have you ever turned down an "ugly duckling", only to see her a few years later after she blossomed? And then she gives you the shoulder? One of these just hit me up on facebook. At 34 she is absolutely smokin'.

Post: #14

I'm 30 now, so that happens to me every week. Girls from high school, college, etc. Tons of them are hideous now, and they aren't even that old yet.

I was dating a girl that was 20 2 years ago, 22 now. In a year, she has changed a lot, and not for the better.

I'm nice to even the fat girls that are in love with me, because YOU NEVER KNOW. it has happened to me several times, and I thank god I was blessed with a pleasant temperament. This one chick I knew from a Vegas trip when I was 19, came out to California a little while ago and took a wild chance and called my number. I've had the same phone number since january 2000. I answered, we went out. She about 6'0, was quite chubby when I met her 10 years ago. Oh boy, She ain't chubby no more! She couldn't wait to show me her new body, new fake breasts, new everything.

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Post: #15

Happened to me, with a Japanese girl of all people. She was like a 7.5 and slim and when I saw her a year later, her face was fat and her body was formless. She was getting married. I feel bad for the dude, because that's only gonna get worse.

A Korean girl I banged was hot and is still cute, but her face has gotten a little fat in the 1.5 years since I was with her.

It's crazy how much some girls can change in as little as a year.

Post: #16

Has anyone gone to their high school reunion? I can only imagine how horrible some of my old classmates will look when it's that time.

Post: #17

(06-16-2011 07:58 PM)BusanCanuck Wrote:  Happened to me, with a Japanese girl of all people. She was like a 7.5 and slim and when I saw her a year later, her face was fat and her body was formless. She was getting married. I feel bad for the dude, because that's only gonna get worse.

A Korean girl I banged was hot and is still cute, but her face has gotten a little fat in the 1.5 years since I was with her.

It's crazy how much some girls can change in as little as a year.

Guys too, in 6 months all my friends now have a beer belly.

Post: #18

A high school squeeze of mine was SMOKIN' in high school. We didn't fuck - we only fooled around. I hadn't seen her since high school, but a few years ago she found me on MySpace, then we moved to Facebook. Twenty-something years later, she's a good 30 pounds heavier. She had moved to Florida, but came up to New York a couple of years ago for the holidays. Put it this way...I don't want to fuck her now. I saw her pictures on FB, and some were in a swimming pool. She's MASSIVE. All of the chicks that I knew in high school that reconnected on Facebook are considerably bigger than they were then, while almost all of the dudes are in decent shape.

Post: #19

My GF in HS was a smokeshow and now weighs literally 225lbs. It's embarrassing running into her with ppl who didn't know me back then. They must think , "how did you stick your dick in THAT!?" Anyone else have this problem?

PS, first post, this place is amazing........I feel like I have a home away from the normality of betas.

Post: #20

(10-26-2011 01:52 AM)TheAntiWhiteKnight138 Wrote:  My GF in HS was a smokeshow and now weighs literally 225lbs. It's embarrassing running into her with ppl who didn't know me back then. They must think , "how did you stick your dick in THAT!?" Anyone else have this problem?

PS, first post, this place is amazing........I feel like I have a home away from the normality of betas.

Yeah! I just pull out my yearbook and show them the "before" picture.

Post: #21

Yeah, have that trouble myself. Found an old pic of a HS GF, and lordy, she was hot at the time. Now not so much. Very nice person, but the years haven't been kind.

Post: #22

what about this

Post: #23

Here's a whole list of those "hottie to fattie" types
http://cavemancircus.com/2011/03/03/a-st...-pictures/

Post: #24

(10-29-2011 03:57 PM)Smitty Wrote:  Here's a whole list of those "hottie to fattie" types
http://cavemancircus.com/2011/03/03/a-st...-pictures/

Good score smitty! I shared that on facebook..I wonder how many "friends" this one is going to cost.

Post: #25

(06-13-2011 01:48 AM)CJ Wrote:  Ya, but I'm talking about American girls in their 20s here, it's just sad. The worst part is one of them is about to get married... if I cared more I'd send the dude some old pictures of the girl, when I had her, and ask why he'd do this to himself!

A woman I broke up with in April was 24, and looked nothing like her college Facebook photos of age 20 and 21. It was mortifying.