Post: #51

I'd say 10-15.

Post: #52

In my country? Maybe 4-5 on average, seriously. There are girls who take the dick left and right but most of them had one guy who they lost virginity to, one guy who was "just once", one guy who was a long term boyfriend in their early 20s so they fucked him, and one guy who married them.

The "just once" dude is the most remembered.

In USA? judging by what I hear and what I saw, I'd say the average is about 8-9.

Post: #53

I'm not really a fan of RSD but Tyler/Owen gave a good tip on being in general a non judgemental guy especially in regards to a woman's sexual customs/mores. I was never a judgemental guy anyway but even more so now girls tend to tell me just about anything. Anyway I've know two girls with insane notch counts...both room mates of one of my LTR's. I would hear them getting smashed by minimum one guy a week...I was with that girl for two years so average that out lol

Post: #54

I don't even ask chicks for their body count. Even when they try to tell me, I'm like "naw I'm good. It doesn't matter," because every chick lies about this. Every chick. You are better off asking a fat girl her weight, or an old bitch her age. A chick having an extensive cock history is something that comes with the territory these days. I used to be sensitive about this, but now that I've gained more experience, I don't care. The more experience you have with women, the less you pedestalize them. I think the revelation of a high body count is a severe blow to someone who engages in such pedestalization.

Post: #55

To be honest, at this point, I'd rather deal with a girl at the 40-50 range than a virgin. Sure, other guys have been there before me, but the girl has gotten so used to being pumped and dumped that she knows the routine.

You deal with a virgin, just getting her to give it up is gonna be too much work, but the"spell" that they often fall under after can be anything from annoying to downright scary. Not worth the work or the ensuing aggravation.

Post: #56

The problem with girls that have limited sexual experience is that they have limited sexual experiece. Sleeping with an 18 year old is sleeping with a girl who feels a bit awkward in bed. Her tight body usually makes up for it, but she doesn't know what she likes. If you sleep with a girl who's in the 23-24 range, she usually knows what she wants and knows how to please a guy. Plus shes usually more open to rough sex which is always way more fun..
Given that it's more fun to be in bed with these girls who have had multiple sexual partners I don't really care that they potentially have a high notch count. If I'm searching for a potential LTR candidate, it might make a difference, but mostly I'm just looking a fun chick who I can fuck around with and bullshit with.

Post: #57

Whatever # a guy tells you of women he's slept with, divide by 2.

Whatever # a girl tells tells you of men she's slept with, multiply by 2, then add 2 chicks.

Post: #58

(12-25-2013 04:03 AM)markus85 Wrote:  I would hear them getting smashed by minimum one guy a week...I was with that girl for two years so average that out lol

Wow interesting story. When you look back on it , does it seem they were getting pumped and dumped and kind of wished they had a guy longer term, or were they themselves wanting different guys all the time?

Post: #59

Who gives a shit? I think only virgin obsessed mras care. I ain't going to marry her or have children.

Post: #60

A) Less than you think
B) But with more of an impact than you think

Post: #61

Call me cynical, but I assume they've all been the town pump, and that prevents me from putting them up in a pedestal. But if we are talking exact figures, it's an interesting discussion. I think sheltered girls are likely less than 3, but partiers it's probably really variable. Some may be all smoke and no fire, and maybe have banged less than 7. But others, like those who hang around guys a lot and are always getting shitfaced at parties, could have 30+.
I do believe that the biology of some of these girls could click in after that though, and remind them that they are giving away their only redeeming quality rather than holding it back. That could curb some from reaching truly ridiculous figures. However, there will always be a percentage that will put up some really big numbers (+100).

Post: #62

(12-25-2013 11:47 AM)Handsome Creepy Eel Wrote:  A) Less than you think
B) But with more of an impact than you think

For sure.

The average is 4 for women between the ages of 30-44.

Quote:Number of Partners

Males 30-44 report an average of 6-8 female sexual partners in their lifetime (Mosher, Chandra, & Jones, 2005).
Females 30-44 report an average of 4 male sexual partners in their lifetime (Mosher, Chandra, & Jones, 2005).
3% of men have had zero sexual partners since the age of 18, 20% have had 1 partner, 21% have had 2-4 partners, 23% have had 5-10 partners, 16% have had 11-20 partners, and 17% have had 21 or more partners (Laumann, Gagnon, Michael, Michaels, 1994).
3% of women have had zero sexual partners since the age of 18, 31% have had 1 partner, 36% have had 2-4 partners, 20% have had 5-10 partners, 6% have had 11-20 partners, and 3% have had 21 or more partners (Laumann, Gagnon, Michael, Michaels, 1994).
20% of American men and 31% of American women have had one sex partner in their lifetime (Laumann, Gagnon, Michael, Michaels, 1994).
56% of American men and 30% of American women have had 5 or more sex partners in their lifetime (Laumann, Gagnon, Michael, Michaels, 1994).

Now you might ask, how is it possible for men to have a higher average number of partners than women? The answer is that when a woman has more than the average number of partners - she has a lot more.

Post: #63

Who gives a fuck? I don't. Besides if you did hook up with a girl with a low number, you'd complain about how terrible of a lay it was.

Post: #64

Male insecurity check list:

How many guys has she been with before me?

Has she been with a bigger cock?

Has she been with black guys? (For white guys)

Can I make her cum?

Is she too hot for me?

Why does her pussy feel so loose?

How come she knows how to suck dick so well?

Why does she feel ok swallowing my cum or fucking me raw even though we just met?

Is she going to claim that I raped her?

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If you have these kinds of questions running through your head, it means you need to read more on this forum and that you are a newbie. You need to take the things we talk about and try them out.

My prescription is that anytime one of these thoughts come up, you have to go fuck ten girls.

Post: #65

(12-25-2013 11:35 AM)Menace Wrote:  Who gives a shit? I think only virgin obsessed mras care. I ain't going to marry her or have children.

merry xmas!

i dont care except as a correlation to STDs. Get tested and come back clean? you could have fucked 100 guys before I dont care - so long as you dont fuck any while you and me are

Post: #66

Post: #67

You know, I don't mind sluts but I do appreciate honesty. It was mentioned in the beginning of the thread. I can't stand lying because it signals to me that they view their lack of chastity as a problem which doubly means other problems. If I was forced, I'd rather date an honest slut than one who lied about her cock count.

My problem ends up being that girls want to "settle" down with me. Getting a LTR, but the last thing I want is to settle down with used goods.

Post: #68

frenchie, how can you say that you won't settle down with someone because of their notch count? Especially if your cock has been in hundreds of poon?

Honest question, no troll here.

Post: #69

(12-26-2013 01:27 AM)blkgatsby Wrote:  frenchie, how can you say that you won't settle down with someone because of their notch count? Especially if your cock has been in hundreds of poon?

Honest question, no troll here.

My cock has only seen at least 34 instances of different poon but thank you for thinking I'm at 100+.

It's a cruel double standard of mine that i've constructed mostly because i'm insecure about it and two because I can afford to be Choosey about it.

When it comes to a LTR and marriage I have a few steady rules. Most notably she can't have more notches than me.

It's a defense mostly against girls who have "eat, pray, love" moments of self discovery where they aren't done riding the carosoul and to avoid divorce rape. Although divorces happen for a handful of reasons, the biggest and easily mitigatable reason is a bored house wife who yearns for those carosoul years.

Once a girl has ridden it, nothing will ever satisfy her again. Ironically, I've been there when girls wants to start riding it again. (Young girls in LTR) Having been on the easy side of female hypergamy (the one where I get laid without effort) has me aware of their true nature. Coincidentally, it makes me wonder if they'd leave their dudes and stay with me? Am I that much better and more satisfying? There must be someone higher up on the food chain who could do that to me. I shouldn't have to worry about it and karma will most likely kick me in the ass for this.

This was one of the hardest lessons the red pill has taught me and one that I keep struggling with. Hypergamy isn't pleasant and one of my biggest fears is abandonment hence why I have issues rectifying it.

Again, this probably all stems of an insecurity regarding it. I just don't want to find myself on the recieving end of a LTR with a slut again. Lessons learned.

Post: #70

A man could drive himself insane worrying too much about this. Don't sweat the stuff you can't control.

Post: #71

(12-26-2013 10:01 AM)Vicious Wrote:  A man could drive himself insane worrying too much about this. Don't sweat the stuff you can't control.

I disagree, we very much have control over this. While women are the gatekeepers of sex, men (especially men like us) are the gatekeepers of relationships.

I had a friend of mine just turn 35. An elderly woman asked her to stay the night on Christmas so that she wouldn't be alone. That elderly woman was a successful business lady and never married. No kids, no husband, only a cat and some nieces/nephews.

The 35 year old friend said to me, "I'm really scared that that is going to be me one day."

Spinsters recognize spinsters?

Another reason why I think feminism is going to die. All of those "strong independent womyn!" end up divorced, alienated from their own children who want nothing to do with them(standard red pill awakening by children as well as the realization of the hamster), and then spend the hard years of 40-85 alone and without any male attention they've grown so used to getting when younger.

All women fear being alone and unrecognizable. The next fear is being unrecognizable with a man that doesn't get her loins wet for the rest of their lives.

Hmm, maybe men like us are the type of individuals women want to get into LTR with without fear of getting dumped? Who knows.

Post: #72

And how does the above pertain to controlling how many dicks a 25 yo girl has had?

Post: #73

The funny thing about this topic is that technically the number of cocks a woman has had really doesn't matter because there's no way to ever know the truth. The only way to know is in their attitude. Once they've ridden enough cocks their view of men and relationships changes. They become damaged goods. They think guys are stupid but we can read the slut on their faces like a huge fucking neon sign. But we're expected to ignore it and not judge them.

Post: #74

(12-26-2013 10:56 AM)Vicious Wrote:  And how does the above pertain to controlling how many dicks a 25 yo girl has had?

It doesn't if you look at how this thread has progressed

Either way, the third world looks better and better every day.

Post: #75