(12-09-2013 11:31 AM)Valhalla Wrote:  good thinking soup

perhaps one can tweak it to, ""Hey im cleaning out my phone, you seem familiar. how did we meet/know each other"

Yeah man, don't do it.

Try WestCoast's idea.

I think guys should try getting into teasing out possibilities and loose ends with girls. You can project future possibilities with a girl without actually fulfilling them. Like just last night, I told a girl I was going to make her cum (which I can do easily), this got her pants off so I could fuck her. I decided to bust my nut early, and I don't know if she came or not, but it doesn't matter.

You tease things out by not making set plans, constantly being mysterious and ambiguous, but slowly guiding the interaction to the whirlpool/funnel that is your bang.

There's a good reason for this, and a lot of implications that, whether they are conscious of it or not, girls are very sensitive to. A man who has options can't be held down to one girl or making hard plans for a date.

You have to start thinking about all this from the perspective of a guy who's got a lot of women in his life, not a guy who is struggling. One of the beauties of this forum is that you can start to get a window into that man's world be reading our posts. Truth is that most of this forum deals with the struggle end of things (otherwise we wouldn't be here posting), but we have to start to imagine what the world looks like from the alpha man's perspective, just like we have to understand what it is like for a hot girl to go through life.

Imagine what it would be like to be a basketball player. When he looks out across a crowd of people on the street, he sees above them. He has the larger perspective. He can see the smaller dimensions from above. The people in the crowd can only see the faces that are right in front of them. They can't see the bigger movements of the crowd itself. We need to start taking this higher perspective.

Imagine what it would be like to be a male model.

Try to put yourself in that guy's shoes. Go hang with a guy like that. It's a whole other world that they walk through. You have to be a able to see the playing field with clarity, otherwise you are punching away into a fog.

I've noticed that seeds I set back last summer, a few of them have come back to fruition in some form recently.

It's made me more cognizant of actually setting seeds; something's happened, she gets back with her ex-boyfriend, etc etc, whatever, just leave seeds back for the future. Claim them later. It's assurance for the future dry spots. Just be super cool, don't be a dick - be alpha, but not jerk.

It's already been beneficial. The restart texts like you were considering Valhalla, I've also tried and got nothing out of them. Remembering the connection makes them 10x more likely to respond. And having a seed planted prior makes them 10x more likely again. Girls where I've restarted after a fizzle, if I remembered them, I usually got a response, but it's been vague, I was trying to push for quick coffee with one just yesterday. Girls where I've left longer term seeds I've gotten enthusiastic responses generally, or they've hit me back up.

Slim pickings from my pipeline today.

But, my regular girl is hounding me for the D.

Going to have her come over for a bit now and then maybe kick her out and see what's up with other girls.

One issue I have is that sometimes I'll go out to meet new chicks, and the girls at the bar/club are not as attractive as one of the girls I'm seeing.

Might've lost a chick from the team - she found a hairbrush last week in my bathroom and started crying. Now she says I "hurt her" even though I never lied to her and always gave her the good D when she needed it. In a way I was getting a little bored of her and she was getting a little too needy, but I still don't like to lose a chick, especially when I let her leave on not the best terms :/

(12-09-2013 08:29 PM)soup Wrote:  One issue I have is that sometimes I'll go out to meet new chicks, and the girls at the bar/club are not as attractive as one of the girls I'm seeing.

I have that all the time... ridiculously frustrating.

One girl I'm seeing is getting ridiculously clingy. Like, she was asking if I had plans for us this weekend - told her "I've got a few ideas, no worries, we'll have fun, but I'm probably not going to tell you ahead of time" and she comes back with "It's okay, I don't need to know the plans, I was just hoping you liked me enough to make plans".

Like, seriously. Feels a little over the top. Is this what girls feel like dealing with betas?

Girl i've been steadily banging asked me last night after I fucked her.

Her: Sooo..how many booty calls do you have?

Me: Hmmmmm...

and started to count on my left hand, moved to my right hand, left foot, right foot and told her, hold on....can i use your hands?

She dropped it then haha and didn't ask again. I won't obviously tell her, even if she was the only one, she's not. But I'd rather have her guessing and keep her on her toes.

How do you guys respond when a girl asks you that?

(12-10-2013 02:35 AM)Plutoman Wrote:  

(12-09-2013 08:29 PM)soup Wrote:  One issue I have is that sometimes I'll go out to meet new chicks, and the girls at the bar/club are not as attractive as one of the girls I'm seeing.

I have that all the time... ridiculously frustrating.

One girl I'm seeing is getting ridiculously clingy. Like, she was asking if I had plans for us this weekend - told her "I've got a few ideas, no worries, we'll have fun, but I'm probably not going to tell you ahead of time" and she comes back with "It's okay, I don't need to know the plans, I was just hoping you liked me enough to make plans".

Like, seriously. Feels a little over the top. Is this what girls feel like dealing with betas?

Yeah, mine is also getting kind of weird. She always comes to my house for like half a year. I been to her place twice. Now she's giving me shit for it.

I told her OK- next time I'm going to your place.

But, I'm also going to make myself slightly more un-available.

I don't want drama right now- want to have fun.

Had dinner with the early 40s Bulgarian chick (lived in Italy since her teens) with the body of a 25 year old last night and did not close. We'd been talking sex quite a bit at dinner and having a good time, brought her back to my place, but couldn't get any alcohol in her at any point as she had to drive south for an early morning appointment, so when the roommate came home that basically killed it. I had to be careful since I'm very much interested in scooping up my roommate's good friend who broke up with her bf very recently.

It's okay, my bedroom looks like a bomb went off at the moment. Just another reminder that you should ALWAYS have your logistics taken care of even when you don't think you'll need them. She called me and asked me if I'd like to have dinner with her on her way back south, out of the blue. I did give her a quick massage before she left and she was sexual again this morning via text. We'll see if she accepts the D next time we hang out (she's going to cook traditional Italian for me). If it doesn't happen then with some wine it'll probably never happen.

It's so fucking nice to talk to a girl who can hold a reasonable conversation and is still feminine. So nice for a change.

where are you guys meeting your lays? Day game?

I been feeling bummed out after banging my regular girls.

Just notched a Craigslist sugarbaby wannabe complete with porno style BJ.
Bought her dinner and drinks at an upscale restaurant
Cash exchanged: $0.00
Its all about frame control and presentation

When ever I get a message from a fat chick on OKC, I write back something like "Do you like big cocks"

The always take the question seriously and are like "yes" whereas a normal girl that I would try to hit up would say "gross, creeper!" or something.

I usually just ignore them, but now I'm thinking about how I could use the fattie to my advantage.

I'm going to ask her if she's ok with threesomes. Then I'm going to ask her if she has any hot friends who would be down to have a threesome.

This could pan out in me getting to fuck a girl by manipulating the fatty.

Some girl I banged last month texted out of the blue just now and came over. I gave her some raw dick.

Got me thinking about sex and the difference between raw and condom. I think one of the reasons raw is more exciting is because it's more risky and socially taboo. Obviously it's got higher resolution sensitivity.

Sex is definitely in the mind.

Can you guys ever stop your game when it could get you in trouble?

I'm navigating a local church social circle. Currently seeing one of the girls in it. So she's not at the church youth group and I left with chatting up another girl and her number and plans laid down. And there's like 3 more I was eyeing and started planting seeds with the flirtatious vibe.

The problem with this is that not only could the girls possibly talk, but everyone else in the social group does see it... but I don't even know how to stop. I left afterwards thinking that might have been a bad idea. I just walk into a group, I see the hot girls, I can quickly pick out the single ones... and I just want to bang each one of them. I want to turn off my game sometimes. :/

(12-10-2013 10:21 PM)soup Wrote:  When ever I get a message from a fat chick on OKC, I write back something like "Do you like big cocks"

The always take the question seriously and are like "yes" whereas a normal girl that I would try to hit up would say "gross, creeper!" or something.

I usually just ignore them, but now I'm thinking about how I could use the fattie to my advantage.

I'm going to ask her if she's ok with threesomes. Then I'm going to ask her if she has any hot friends who would be down to have a threesome.

This could pan out in me getting to fuck a girl by manipulating the fatty.

hmmm...fat girl just messaged me yesterday but I just ignored it.

On other news (threesome related) ... Asked the same girl I wrote about above if she had ever kissed a girl. She said yes. Then I kept on that and asked if she'd be down for a threesome and if any of her friends would be down. She said two might. So I said "foursome!". She just nodded with agreement. I'll report back soon, hopefully I have something to post on the threesome thread or foursome thread?

Had a weird thing yesterday.
Was fingering a regular on my couch, spidermanstyle.. She was getting totally wet and I felt her pussy juice everywhere, when all of a sudden her vagina started to feel different, slightly swolen while I was still totally going for it. I look down to see what's going on and apparently her period just broke out - from her knees to her pussy and ass, and both my hands and couch totally covered in blood/pussyjuice.

She was ashamed as hell. Made her take a shower and she ended with a bj afterwards, so all was well, but certainly not the best experience, and I hope my couch is ok, have to check it when I get home from work.

4 girls coming over in the following days and I wouldn't be able to explain a blood stained sofa.

(12-11-2013 10:34 AM)TimDV Wrote:  4 girls coming over in the following days and I wouldn't be able to explain a blood stained sofa.

Damn, you just left it? On your couch? WTF?

Either make her clean it or do it yourself IMMEDIATELY.

Guys, if you get blood on something, all you have to do is soak it with cold water, it'll come right out. You can't let that shit dry, that's when it stains. I spot clean my sheets this way if it ever happens, doesn't take that long and I'll be damned if I'm going to wash my sheets every time I have sex while a girl is on the rag. I just pop a dry towel under the sheet, get it nice and wet with multiple wet paper towels (or a wet towel), then pop a dry towel on top, rub them together and the sheet is dry enough to just air dry from there.

(12-11-2013 01:13 PM)AneroidOcean Wrote:  

(12-11-2013 10:34 AM)TimDV Wrote:  4 girls coming over in the following days and I wouldn't be able to explain a blood stained sofa.

Damn, you just left it? On your couch? WTF?

Either make her clean it or do it yourself IMMEDIATELY.

Guys, if you get blood on something, all you have to do is soak it with cold water, it'll come right out. You can't let that shit dry, that's when it stains. I spot clean my sheets this way if it ever happens, doesn't take that long and I'll be damned if I'm going to wash my sheets every time I have sex while a girl is on the rag. I just pop a dry towel under the sheet, get it nice and wet with multiple wet paper towels (or a wet towel), then pop a dry towel on top, rub them together and the sheet is dry enough to just air dry from there.

Also Hydrogen Peroxide will get it out. A slut taught me that.

(12-11-2013 01:16 PM)soup Wrote:  Also Hydrogen Peroxide will get it out. A slut taught me that.

Be careful with HP, it can weaken fabrics and stain as well. Best to start with the simplest cleaner (water dilution) if it's fresh and then move up as necessary to more risky cleaners.

Banged a chick for 3 hours this afternoon in a beach hotel
We kept talking about our blended sex aromas smelled so good
Towards the end I recalled Alis technique of attracting girls with another girls aroma so I wiped her pussy juice and saliva all over my face, neck and chest.
Going out to the bars tonight for a field test.

(12-11-2013 01:13 PM)AneroidOcean Wrote:  Damn, you just left it? On your couch? WTF?

She cleaned it with a wet towel, but I didn't inspect if all was gone - but it's ok, I checked and couldn't see anything too obvious.

(12-11-2013 07:31 PM)MrXY Wrote:  Banged a chick for 3 hours this afternoon in a beach hotel
We kept talking about our blended sex aromas smelled so good
Towards the end I recalled Alis technique of attracting girls with another girls aroma so I wiped her pussy juice and saliva all over my face, neck and chest.
Going out to the bars tonight for a field test.

Haha overkill?

(12-11-2013 07:31 PM)MrXY Wrote:  Banged a chick for 3 hours this afternoon in a beach hotel
We kept talking about our blended sex aromas smelled so good
Towards the end I recalled Alis technique of attracting girls with another girls aroma so I wiped her pussy juice and saliva all over my face, neck and chest.
Going out to the bars tonight for a field test.

I am waiting to hear back on this one!

Booshala and I had a double date w/best friends yesterday. Both of us have hooked up w/the girls. Funniest thing is that we started chatting between the two of us, and the girls went to the bar to get drinks. A couple dudes approached and started flirting and buying the drinks.

Novice/Immediate instinct is to immediately run up and save them, but we just continued chatting and shooting the shit. About 20 mins later, both of us are getting sleepy so we cut the charade short. Both girls are like omg, these guys are thai too. Both guys look at us suspiciously. Then Booshala gives a kiss to his chick, and I grab my chick. Both dudes look shell-shocked.

They shelled out 60+ dollars in drinks- about 20 mins of talking time- and just got "robbed". My girls excuse when she got outside- yea, we were talking in thai and the guys started talking to us in thai. They just wanted to make friends... Sometimes you can't help but laugh. I spank my chick on the ass, and just as I do the 2 prior dudes roll outside too and scurried away.

Ahh the life of playboy.