Just banged a SIF on ODS (one day stand).

I guess it's better than jerking it.

I knew it was on because she showed up in full makeup.

Smashed my 18 yo. Was drinking little bit and just wanted to fit in something. She was on her period but still wanted it. Probably smashed lizards on their period less than 5 times.

Did 10 approaches at two different bars last night. Convo but no numbers. Might hit it again tonight. Should be day gaming at department stores right now. Too lazy

(12-12-2013 03:17 PM)Valhalla Wrote:  Trying to set up my first zero date bang with a different hot girl, the logistics are all in place. She has her own place. Not having my own is bothersome.

Met this girl very briefly from one of my courses, got her number and proposed we celebrate by going to the bars since school's almost out. she tells me to hit her up before x days before she leaves to some other state for the holidays. i think it will happen since there's a sense of urgency for her here. She's attractive.

I'm thinking of sending her a standard what's up text, then just straight up use soup's texting style.

something like, "tonight could be a good night to chill"

then when she replies, say something like "kinda cold, maybe we could drink at your place "

we'll see.

almost had it

then she asked if we could go clubbin first, i wasn't up for the idea.
no dance game.

she said she wanted to do more before she left and said maybe next time

it went like this
Me: got this bottle help me finish it
her: What's type of drinks blablabla
me: i tell her and she says ok and address
her: i wanna go out to the clubs tho
me: maybe later. can u host (shoulda said not tonite)
her: okay ;]
me: ill see ya soon
her: are we going out clubbing or no
me: no clubbin for me tonite though we can chill and drink(framed this wrong)
her:blabla its the last time imma be here for a while so id like to do more than just chill and drink on my last weekend
her: next time though :]

think i fucked up or she wasn't down

my plan was to bang then introduce her to my other girl for a 3som

unlikely there will be a next time

maybe I can salvage this and ask her if she's ever kissed a girl and broach the subject

Just keep it chill. She'll be back in a month. Hit her up then, same style. You get something back, game on, you don't hear anything, then it's a meh. Don't write it off, but stay chill on it. Pop her a funny text once a week or something but don't get into long drawn out convos. Sometimes, game is all about laying down seeds to harvest later.

Went to a rave party tonight. I kiseed a girl when the molly was just coming up, and after a while I saw her with another dude. She returned to me after a while (I laughed about it because I knew he wouldnt make it), and I slept at her place and fucked her a couple of times!

Looks like my game is improving, I think it is the 8th new notch this year, more than all previous years combined.

Here's how you pass a shit test:

I checked out a girl, sent her a salutation.

She checks me out and doesn't say anything.

I rib her for not messaging me.

She writes back: "I'm not interested in dating musicians"

I tell her: "We don't have to date " Then suggest that we text.

She gives up the phone number.

Anyone have any critique of my exchange?

(12-15-2013 01:34 AM)Valhalla Wrote:  

(12-12-2013 03:17 PM)Valhalla Wrote:  Trying to set up my first zero date bang with a different hot girl, the logistics are all in place. She has her own place. Not having my own is bothersome.

Met this girl very briefly from one of my courses, got her number and proposed we celebrate by going to the bars since school's almost out. she tells me to hit her up before x days before she leaves to some other state for the holidays. i think it will happen since there's a sense of urgency for her here. She's attractive.

I'm thinking of sending her a standard what's up text, then just straight up use soup's texting style.

something like, "tonight could be a good night to chill"

then when she replies, say something like "kinda cold, maybe we could drink at your place "

we'll see.

almost had it

then she asked if we could go clubbin first, i wasn't up for the idea.
no dance game.

she said she wanted to do more before she left and said maybe next time

it went like this
Me: got this bottle help me finish it
her: What's type of drinks blablabla
me: i tell her and she says ok and address
her: i wanna go out to the clubs tho
me: maybe later. can u host (shoulda said not tonite)
her: okay ;]
me: ill see ya soon
her: are we going out clubbing or no
me: no clubbin for me tonite though we can chill and drink(framed this wrong)
her:blabla its the last time imma be here for a while so id like to do more than just chill and drink on my last weekend
her: next time though :]

think i fucked up or she wasn't down

my plan was to bang then introduce her to my other girl for a 3som

unlikely there will be a next time

maybe I can salvage this and ask her if she's ever kissed a girl and broach the subject

2 things- I would avoid asking her questions.

The other is that you should either say "yes" to a girl or give her a mysterious answer, or don't get back to her until a later time.

I never say "no" to a girl. She asks me if I've ever been to such and such country in Europe, I say yes, even if I haven't.

You could have said: "I'm going out with some friends, maybe we can redezvous"

Then keep leading her on through the night. Eventually get her to meet you at your place.

Learn how to draw things out, otherwise you throwing the frog into boiling water and it going to jump out. Let that shit marinate.

Realizing another aspect of man hamster: making a girl hotter in your mind then she is. Not talking about pedestal, but I've noticed that some girls who I thought were really hot begin to lose their luster after a few bangs. What's up with that?

How can a guy be objective if he sees the girl as hot one day but not the next ?

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(12-15-2013 05:32 PM)soup Wrote:  How can a guy be objective if he sees the girl as hot one day but not the next ?

Objective beauty exists. So, therefore, the manner in which you're attempting to objectively decide if a girl is hot or not is flawed, and seeing her as "less hot" days later is the result of this flaw. You are confusing what your eyes see with the emotional rush that comes from sleeping with a girl for the first time. Your emotions are getting in the way of your rational ability to make objective decisions on her beauty.

The solution is to remove your emotions from sleeping with a new girl, but then of course you will lose the pleasure of sex and the motivation to sleep with her in the first place.

The curse of the player, as it were.

Do you have a point in the night where you realize that you won't be getting pussy? If so, do you just hold your cum in or do you give it hand relief?

There's a whole thread that argues against fapping, which I consider to be guys gaming themselves and superstitious, so do not argue about whether or not it's ok to fap here.

I think that a guy who goes out and really makes an effort to meet chicks is different from the guys who just stay at home and play wow without even trying okc. A guy who tries deserves an orgasm, be it by pussy or hand if there isn't pussy around.

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Got a date with an Asian in an hour. Will The west crack open the great wall of china tonight?

I dislike the intermission between getting the number and the first meet

It's game purgatory.

My 'during the week' girl is gone for 5 days in the middle of Kansas for family. Ahhhhhh. Not fun. Next free night is a date, but isn't till thursday.

If I'm not gettin' pussy I'm not going to wait it out when I'm guaranteed some later in the week. I can't go that long, man.

Once again my massive OKC pipeline came through: http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-11951-...#pid605201

Started dating a chick who used to work in the peace corps. Obviously lied about my profession. Should be a great reaction when she puts the pieces together.

(12-16-2013 10:37 AM)WestCoast Wrote:  Started dating a chick who used to work in the peace corps. Obviously lied about my profession. Should be a great reaction when she puts the pieces together.

Context?

(12-15-2013 07:04 PM)soup Wrote:  Do you have a point in the night where you realize that you won't be getting pussy? If so, do you just hold your cum in or do you give it hand relief?

There's a whole thread that argues against fapping, which I consider to be guys gaming themselves and superstitious, so do not argue about whether or not it's ok to fap here.

I think that a guy who goes out and really makes an effort to meet chicks is different from the guys who just stay at home and play wow without even trying okc. A guy who tries deserves an orgasm, be it by pussy or hand if there isn't pussy around.

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Got a date with an Asian in an hour. Will The west crack open the great wall of china tonight?

For me at least, when I actually go out and try (and fail), I NEED that release. Its not really a choice by that point as I get quite sexually frustrated by having all my senses played with throughout the night with no immediate relief in sight.

In general I try to avoid fapping, but after a particularly long night of bad results I make an exception. Double that if I went to the strip club and didn't pull.

Started gaming a girl here. She's playing hard to get but I know she's interested (maybe curious is a better word?). I'll see where it goes. If it goes anywhere, the story will be fun, but I'm not going to share any parts of the story if I don't get the whole thing.

If you have anxiety about women, all you have to do is think about how ridiculous their minds are, and how mercurial their value system is. It's essentially that of plankton. They constantly change and exaggerate things in their mind- both good and bad.

The trick to women is to get on the good side of the exaggeration.

^^^ This is why Mysterious Man Game works so well. If you create a lot of empty spaces in the information she has about you, she will fill those spaces with things she wants to believe about you IF the presentation you've created for her is congruent.

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(12-14-2013 02:05 PM)soup Wrote:  Just banged a SIF on ODS (one day stand).

I guess it's better than jerking it.

Personally, I consider banging fatties to be inferior to masterbation.

In my opinion, masterbation is more honorable.

When you bang a fattie, you give her validation.

I'm not judging in any way, I'm just stating my belief.

I don't believe in banging fat women, they don't deserve our sex.

Make them lose weight if they want sex.

Don't spend time, money, or effort on fat women.

It is disrespectful to yourself!

Only accept oral sex from them in rare circumstances.

Went out last night. Massive AA for some reason. I just cant seem to approach unless I'm drunk enough and that usually doesnt go very well either.

(12-17-2013 12:26 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

(12-14-2013 02:05 PM)soup Wrote:  Just banged a SIF on ODS (one day stand).

I guess it's better than jerking it.

Personally, I consider banging fatties to be inferior to masterbation.

In my opinion, masterbation is more honorable.

When you bang a fattie, you give her validation.

I'm not judging in any way, I'm just stating my belief.

I don't believe in banging fat women, they don't deserve our sex.

Make them lose weight if they want sex.

Don't spend time, money, or effort on fat women.

It is disrespectful to yourself!

Only accept oral sex from them in rare circumstances.

It's true, but what if you bring a girl back to your house, and you don't get that she's overweight until she's naked and ready to bone.

Are you going to just kick her out or take the pussy?

BTW I'm not talking about hugely obese women..

I def need to screen better, but once a girl is naked in my house, that's kind of past the event horizon.