(12-03-2013 09:10 AM)Rosca Wrote:  It's not the best story but like after sitting and talking to this soccer chick, I noticed some things.

The things that stuck out from your post while reading it are these:

Quote:I used to hate blondes because they always seemed to act like a bitch to me, but my weapon of humor seems to stop that shit.

Quote:Roommate told me that the chick he's dating and her roommate said that they weren't into blacks.

I was pissed about it last night, my head kept overanalyzing shit.
But now that I'm awake, I realized I got two choices.

No, you have ONE choice if your goal is to get better with women. Use and improve on what's working for you!

What IS working for you:

* Using humor
* Being non-reactive to stupid shit women say

What ISN'T working for you:

* Being pissed off because 2 girls (out of probably THOUSANDS on your campus) said they aren't into black guys.
* Caring what color a girl's hair is and pre-judging her based on some bitchy reactions you had from blondes in the past which INCLUDES before you figured out how to use humor and non re-activeness to receive more positive reactions from blondes. A little hypocritical no?

Quote:It's probably my game that put me in shituations like this.

More your frame and outlook. Be chill, positive, non-reactive, use your humor to charm. It works for you. Give yourself time to think about a situation instead of just react/get pissed off/offended. Check yourself, keep your actions true to your goals.

Check yourself before you wreck yourself.

Woman from last night wiped her pussy juice all over my main towel. I made her squirt, but her pussy was funky even before that. My nose doesn't work so well. Do you guys think it will air out or do I have to wash the towel?

haha dude I love your questions.....I'd wash it

Hell, I'd wash it even if it smelled good... but I'm pretty OCD on all that.

(12-03-2013 02:27 PM)soup Wrote:  Woman from last night wiped her pussy juice all over my main towel. I made her squirt, but her pussy was funky even before that. My nose doesn't work so well. Do you guys think it will air out or do I have to wash the towel?

You're supposed to throw the towel at her (preferably her face) then when she reacts respond with, "It's not going to wash itself."

If she reacts negatively, throw shit on her.

Thanks Android.

I was sounding like a real bitch on that post.

+1 brotha

I just took a shower and used the towel to dry myself.

My nose doesn't work so well, but I think there's a pussy smell.

Last night I made her flood the bed and then wiped it all over her legs and shit. She was freaked out because she had to bartend right after.

Got a text today telling me she made 3x what she normally makes on a shift

Maybe pussy smell is good for business.

(12-03-2013 07:56 PM)soup Wrote:  I just took a shower and used the towel to dry myself.

My nose doesn't work so well, but I think there's a pussy smell.

Last night I made her flood the bed and then wiped it all over her legs and shit. She was freaked out because she had to bartend right after.

Got a text today telling me she made 3x what she normally makes on a shift

Maybe pussy smell is good for business.

Ali was right!

Ya what was he saying? Wipe of bodily fluids and then run the rag on your neck and face before you go out?

Totally just went way too direct too soon and both approaches I did today. By the second or third question I was asking how old they were!!1 ahhhh

One had a boyfriend and the other was working so I never even had the chance to go for a number.

I'm definitely done with dating sites for awhile because I feel like my day gaming has regressed because of the dating sites.

Took Phoenix's words and had a chill time today.
It's like when it comes to girls, it's best to just chill and not show any anger. That frame wouldn't help anybody. This school is small enough so it's best to chill out and not let what they say/do/allthenegativeshitonherewetalkabout get to me.

Saw my roommate, his girl and some other girls sitting in the caf.
In order to make this story easier to understand, I'll name em after Pokemon.

So here's how it started. Roommate and his Pikachu were talking about why the football players and I sit near the ice cream bar (to look at chicks ass as they walk by). Then it became a ongoing joke throughout the convo.

A new Pokemon came to the table, I'd say she's a Jigglypuff. Jigglypuff and I introduce each other and then she's telling me how she can sing. Then she showed me a video of her singing. I just take my headphones out, look at her and give her a thumbs up.

"Jigglypuff: How was my singing?
Me: It was alright
Jigglypuff:Haha Fuck you"

Then realizing that my roommate and his Pikachu is going to have a date soon. The topic of alcohol comes up. Roomie tells me he'll give me a tip after I get some tomorrow for him and Pikachu. Jigglypuff is all excited and starts talking about how she likes Bacardi and Vodka and shit. But the funny thing is that, she wanted me and my roomie to pay out our own dough for her!

"Jigglypuff: So if I bend over at the ice cream bar would you get me alcohol?
Me: Depends on the angle"

So by the end of the convo we all say our goodbyes and shit. Jigglypuff then says "Alright I'll come over tomorrow to pick it up!"

Thank you A.O and phoenix. Sometimes i gotta stop bitchin and keep on goin.

part of me thinks ill never be a player no matter how much i try

missing something

Rainy day, still mild temps

Great day to be ALIVE

Meeting up with a cute Cuban chica to visit a new H Mart, she wants to cook for ya boi...who am I to disagree? (Eurythmics song pops in my head) haha

Told me the other day she "likes girls", of course I downplayed it...

Met off FB (OF ALL PLACES)...I have long thought of FB as a glorified dating site, but I digress

Somehow, she ended up on my friends list. Noticed her one day, thought she was cute and shot her a msg. Since I only had pics of myself and the groomsmen from my sister's wedding she didn't know which guy I was. Done on purpose (camoflage game) A little light back and forth via email(....Finally got around to posting a pic. Boom she texts me three days ago.

Setting traps now...2 B continued

Picked up girl I met at the laundromat as detailed here: http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-14130-...#pid591924

She started crying saying her baby daddy has ptsd.

Her baby needs medicine.

Overall total disaster.

All I am thinking about is getting pussy.

We smoked together but she was totally closed off to anything sexual. Just some kisses and hand holding or whatver.

I need to do better. Re: quality of prospects and just maintaining these relationships. I don't know.

Real downer last night.

@Valhalla you're younger than me I believe you have decades to figure it out I wouldn't trip. Keep grinding on money and approaches. That's all you need to do. Put in the time.

(12-04-2013 09:34 AM)Valhalla Wrote:  part of me thinks ill never be a player no matter how much i try

missing something

Missing something???

Maybe, its Competitiveness.

You have to fight. You have to be willing to suffer for your prize.

You have to lose and lose and lose until you figure out how to win.

You only fail when you give up.

Maybe, it's Positivity.

Most people are too negative. They hate themselves when they really need to love themselves.

Game like your life depends on it and love yourself no matter what.

Do 1000 approaches and re-evaluate then.

(12-04-2013 01:29 PM)MY DETROIT PLAYAS Wrote:  she wants to cook for ya boi...who am I to disagree? (Eurythmics song pops in my head) haha

"sweet dreams are made of these"

Tinder is killing me. I'm getting a good vibe going when it start making my messages repeat x 4. Kills vibe instantly.

(12-04-2013 03:45 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

(12-04-2013 09:34 AM)Valhalla Wrote:  part of me thinks ill never be a player no matter how much i try

missing something

Missing something???

Maybe, its Competitiveness.

You have to fight. You have to be willing to suffer for your prize.

You have to lose and lose and lose until you figure out how to win.

You only fail when you give up.

Maybe, it's Positivity.

Most people are too negative. They hate themselves when they really need to love themselves.

Game like your life depends on it and love yourself no matter what.

Do 1000 approaches and re-evaluate then.

(12-04-2013 01:29 PM)MY DETROIT PLAYAS Wrote:  she wants to cook for ya boi...who am I to disagree? (Eurythmics song pops in my head) haha

"sweet dreams are made of these"

Now all you have to do is travel the world and the seven seas, because everybody's looking for something.

A little tired tonight after going out hard on Monday. Some chick gave a jaeger bomb and I ended up grabbing the bartender chick by the arm like a caveman. We didn't get kicked out but left because wanted no trouble.

My skinny blonde regular text me and is coming to hang which is good because I'm not looking to go partying tonight.

First night out after studying game and these forums. Had a great vibe going in, went out with a lesbian co-worker. (not hot lesbian, but one who wears guy clothes and basically looks like a man). In hindsight should have gone alone maybe. Opened a lot of girls, gained huge amounts of confidence. Midway into the night at this club a cute lesbian, friend of my friend joins us, cockblocking me at every turn, basically wanting my attention all the time, maybe she wanted my dick but she was my lesbian friend's catch, so to speak, so I didnt want to go there. Started to really annoy me, so I finish my drink, my friend gives me cash to go buy a round for us all three. I go by the bar and buy beers for me and the lesbian, and got a small glass of warm milk for the annoying one haha. She gets mad pissed at me (mission accomplished) and they leave. Then I open this blonde, go for venue change (afterparty at my place) and she's into it but says her friend has to come as well. I'm thinking awesome, but the friend turns out to be a total bitch, cockblocking again. I start to be pretty wasted at this point, which is my biggest weakness, drinking too much. How do you guys limit your drinking while out? Seems like there is no return for me when I start, and I need those few beers to approach. Anyway, I just leave them both there standing like idiots, plain and simple, didnt even go for number, and proceed to buy a pizza and take a taxi home. All in all I'm pretty happy with all this, since the difference compared to what I would have done earlier on is really big, if I think about approaches and opening girls.

OKC girl flaked so i texted my regular fwb...

me: what u doing later?
her: I'm having my girls over tonight. Don't say "gay" though lol
me: gay

Gotta work on getting one or two more girls to come over on the regular or "on demand" for when I'm trying to get it in.

I got bored of this other girl that would regularly come over so I'm not trying to have her over. Need fresh meat!

Tonight kicked off the 3 week holiday party season with an industry mixer where I opened a table of four chicks and a gay dude. One of the chicks at the table was seriously the hottest chick I'd seen since moving to the south but of course she was sporting a ring. Anyway, turns out two of the other cute chicks at the table will be out in Vegas at a conference I'm also attending next month. Sometimes I feel guilty about using the young professional industry events and happy hours as my personal playground but it is so easy to pull chicks from the other lame ass corporate drones that go to these things.

TLDR: It's holiday party season, boys. This is one of the best 2-3 week periods of the year to pad your notch count. Do it up!

I hit up one chick today. she didnt respond. I know she wants it tho because Ive banged her plenty of times before and she messaged me over the weekend. But she's kinda prudish so its not a guarantee.

When the boner says yes and the ego says no who do you side with?