(11-07-2013 04:17 PM)Que enspastic Wrote:  made a group entitled "leads" in which i placed 8 girls i'm setting up dates with.

Tip: If you have an iphone (I guess it also works on android) just put "lead" as their company.
You can always do a search on "lead" and it will only show those numbers.


I have this set for numbers I got through tinder. I put in "tinder location" and when I plan to go to a certain city I do a search on it, et voila, only girls from that city show up.

(11-08-2013 09:36 AM)Frontenac Wrote:  There have been times that I've been wishing for a night off to go see a flick or something, but I don't want to piss away all the work I've done so far in gaming a target.

Do you guys ever feel like taking off and just having time to relax by yourselves, and not having to constantly be at war?

That's where the flake nights work perfectly. They might have flaked, but you just got some quality time for yourself.

(11-08-2013 09:36 AM)Frontenac Wrote:  I'm juggling 4 right now, but I'm having trouble with two things. First, trying to keep the vibe going with all four, largely because I'm busy with work, and second, just trying to find time for myself. There have been times that I've been wishing for a night off to go see a flick or something, but I don't want to piss away all the work I've done so far in gaming a target.

Yeah it sounds like you are on the right track, I'm no veteran but I can relate to what you're feeling. Game is cyclical...eventually you'll run into a dry spell and be wishing you had the problems you have now.

Juggling 4 is completely doable, but you shouldn't think of it as "juggling" or being "at war" or anything else that frames banging girls as a stressful task. It's supposed to be fun and enjoyable, and it is. Once you've got the notch you are in total control, because you can walk away from the interaction at anytime and feel satisfied.

So with that, just do your own thing and fit the girls in on your own terms. Push their limits, invite them over last minute for an 11pm booty call, go radio silent for 1 week+, tell them to bring you home baked cookies, etc., and then just see what happens. You will be surprised what you can get away with. Some might stick around and some might bail, but either way you win.

Remember that you're the prize here, you're doing a damn public service by taking time out of your busy life to pleasure these girls. They should be so lucky to get 2 hours of your time. If they don't want to play by your rules then they're free to bounce...

Really have to work on my date game... I seem to have a hard time flipping the right switches and connecting with girls. Any people got any good resources on the actual dates themselves? I've tried flipping things up, but even when logistics favor.. I get weird results. Asian girl I went out with, had a good time, teased her, we were both laughing and having fun (most especially her) lead her quite a bit and did a few venue changes, made out in the rain, went back to her place and made out in her room for a while.

Last tuesday... got really nothing back from her now. Tried to set up something yesterday and it seems done. I've already gone through the process and from what I know it seems good, and from the reactions I get up until after the actual date itself, it seems great - the dates are good - but then after the fact it's just done. I wonder if it's just my ego thing getting in the way; trying to hard to get a girl to like me. More on a subconscious level or somesuch.

Its a crisp fall night. My balls feel alive in this brisk fall weather.

Might be getting my first repeat bang tonight in a while. The broad I took home from halloween, surprisingly has been mad chill and open to hanging out again. I didn't even fuck her that good but she was feeling my vibe so I guess that trumps all.

Like Toronto has fuked up my mind you get shocked when a girl acts normal here. Shes from Venezuela but has been here for 4 years but I guess the poison PC/Feminist mindset hasn't stained her mind yet.

We chilling tonight but I'm fuking tired as shit. Like I'm basically a Neanderthal right now and I can only do basic movements like speak short sentences, grunt, and walk around. If somebody offered me a line id probable due it if I knew it would amp me up for the night lol. I got work in the morning too. I really got no business going out. but this DJ is town that I really want to see so I just told her to come along for it.

I'm really trying to harem build. I need a reliable fleet and I can't keep relying on hunting new tail with school, work, and bullshit right now.

Banged out a girl off OKC earlier today and am meeting up with another in an hour for a drinks near my pad.

I've told both of these girls that they look like they might be fun to make-out with.. before I've met them.

Setting the frame for fun instead of an uphill battle.

tried to bang 3rd girl from 4 weekends. between 1-1.30am i was steering her back to my place but she had 5 friends waiting for her to join them and the social pressure was telling in the end. she spoke about her dread of the 'walk of shame'. i thought my half hour persistence and random babble coupled with leading while friends waited on her was decent - if i was her friend no fucking way i'd wait half and hour for her to make up her mind, especially if I had to catch a train home. but they did.

said she'll be back next weekend. need to bang another girl tomorrow. should close this one next weekend.

"ve told both of these girls that they look like they might be fun to make-out with.. before I've met them."

Smart tactic.

I utilize something similar to weed out the flakes.

Setting a Sexual Frame immediately may 'cost' a player 'dates', but in essence secures him more 'guaranteed' pussy.

No time to waste on girls trying to stretch shit out for multiple meetups.

No dice with that second OKC girl.

She was like 6' 3" blond Russian, could stand to lose a few. Got her back to my place and she's barely letting me get past 2nd base, but it's clear she wants to bone.

Maybe this is me man-hamstering, but I think I need to be going after girls who are more confident in their sexuality. Not sluts per se, but women who want to take off their clothes to show off their awesome bodies. They are proud of what they got and instead of getting insecure, are going to meet me at my sexual level.

My log for today,,do 9 daytime fun approaches ,,ask out your friend w benefits to cook for you on Sunday/Monday and try to bang that chick you dated on Wednesday again

The one time I go to sleep before 1 o'clock on a Friday I get a booty call text at 3:30 from a girl I've been trying to bang

Might have blown myself out here
   
   

Well have to wait and see how it turns out

(11-08-2013 08:49 PM)kosko Wrote:  Its a crisp fall night. My balls feel alive in this brisk fall weather.

Might be getting my first repeat bang tonight in a while. The broad I took home from halloween, surprisingly has been mad chill and open to hanging out again. I didn't even fuck her that good but she was feeling my vibe so I guess that trumps all.

Like Toronto has fuked up my mind you get shocked when a girl acts normal here. Shes from Venezuela but has been here for 4 years but I guess the poison PC/Feminist mindset hasn't stained her mind yet.

We chilling tonight but I'm fuking tired as shit. Like I'm basically a Neanderthal right now and I can only do basic movements like speak short sentences, grunt, and walk around. If somebody offered me a line id probable due it if I knew it would amp me up for the night lol. I got work in the morning too. I really got no business going out. but this DJ is town that I really want to see so I just told her to come along for it.

I'm really trying to harem build. I need a reliable fleet and I can't keep relying on hunting new tail with school, work, and bullshit right now.

I blackedout last night and got in a major scrap. Got stomped out after I kicked some dudes ass by his homies. I blanked and had to ditch that girl at the bar. Fuked up my night bad and my chances with her it looks like.

This one stings. Like its rare I come across chill girls in the city. This one looks to have gotten away and its really pissed me off.

I keep fuking up opportunities when I get something nice. It's been a recurring trend lately in all parts my life and it's disturbing me.

kosko, sounds like you had a feeling that it wasn't a good night to go out. You were way too tired and drained.

Quote:I really got no business going out.

Always trust your instinct when it tells you that. When you're tired or stressed your reflexes are off, you're not picking up what's going on or when shit is about to happen. If you were on top of your game you probably don't get into the fight in the first place and you don't get blindsided.

Quote:This one stings. Like its rare I come across chill girls in the city. This one looks to have gotten away and its really pissed me off.

I keep fuking up opportunities when I get something nice. It's been a recurring trend lately in all parts my life and it's disturbing me.

Relax, don't worry about it. There are always more hot girls, there's never any reason to think too much about any one that got away.

The "trend" is just in your mind. If anything, it sounds to me like you're pressing too much -- you made yourself go out last night even when you didn't really want to, because you're pressing. Sometimes a player has to kick back and let the game come to him.

got smashed on dfloor. had few girls grinding up against me but guys were just so thirsty that these girls were getting enveloped in a sea of dicks and i just stared mouth agape at how bad these guys were at pushing through their approach when the girl was trying to run away. saw one girl get approached by about 15 dudes one after another. it was insane.

most approached girl i've ever seen.

Thousands of Apologies drunk Post , can't find the drunk Lounge ....

3rd date with a 22 yr old SA Girl , promised to take her to a Trip to FL, she wants to go and another friend might be in the area for safety reason ??????

we kissed on second date, she was cold today and said she wants to wait some more , Bitch Please ..... I don't have patience.

Bishes be crazy want to get the most giving the least , she wants to go on the FL trip and not give it up , get the fuck out of here , I'm going to drink this bottle of wine all by myself.....

Make out with azn Pokemon. No bang tho );
WIll tell story later.

for the guys who have multiple girlfriends happening, maybe this lonely hearts club post will make sense to you.

I sleep with many more girls than the average guy. My women pyramid out into girls that I'm never going to talk to again, girls that I like to fuck but nothing more, and girls whose company I enjoy even when we aren't having sex. The bottom of the pyramid is all the girls I haven't met yet but that I'd still fuck.

Tonight is one of those nights where my pyramid has bottomed out.

I couldn't find a good opportunity to tap into any of the levels on the pyramid.

It just goes to show that being lonely and having pussy aren't always directly related.

Right now, I'm thinking about my ginger girl who has expressed that she wants to build more out of what we have (sex).

My other girl has been texting me pictures of all this great looking autumnal food that she has prepared, and is tempting me to come over there. Her ass is something to behold.

My third girl has been showing up at my shows lately like a stalker. She wants to go to the Russian bath houses with me, and is also down to find unicorns to fuck with.

One thing that they all have in common is a lack of tits.

Very well proportioned, tight bodies, but if you added up all their tits, you'd get one good pair.

I've read Roosh's posts about game not fixing things for him, and I sometimes think that I'm going to always have lonely moments.

I want to own all my moments. In a way, this is a day off, but I'd be curious to hear how you other players deal with these kinds of nights.

I'm thinking that this could be a good night off, tomorrow is another day.

@Soup - Seems like there are options at the top of the pyramid and you just didn't want to take them. No need to feel lonely about it. It's good to have a night to yourself. I haven't fucked in 2 months, but I'm content with how I'm handling other aspects without the women. You'll probably bang a college field hockey team tomorrow, so buck up.

So here is a girl from POF that I'm trying to bang.

This text exchange went down on Saturday (yesterday)

3:50pm Me: Hey I'm free tomorrow. Come grab a drink downtown.

3:52pm Her: Which downtown?

3:52pm Her: (the name of her city)?! Okay

3:56pm Me: (the name of my city)

4:04pm Her: I'm not too familiar with downtown. What are you thinking?

4:30pm Me: (Name of bar near my condo)

4:33pm Her: Lol last time I tried going there my gps crapped out, got lost and just went back home. Haha

4:42pm Me: I'm glad your living up to the hair color.

4:44pm Her: Oh cheap shot. Someone doesn't fight fair.

I decide to give her radio silence and I figure I will hit her up tomorrow (Sunday) to finalize the plans.

I then get these texts from her after I had fallen asleep.

11:50pm Her: Fired

11:54pm Her: Btw I'll meet you in (her city) tomorrow


How should I respond? I don't want to meet in her city. She asked me where to meet and I told her and now she is trying to make me go to her city after she already pretty much agreed to come to mine.

Quote: How should I respond? I don't want to meet in her city. She asked me where to meet and I told her and now she is trying to make me go to her city after she already pretty much agreed to come to mine.

Maintain your frame. Either you meet her in your city or you don't meet her at all. Besides, you should have other plates spinning so that this wouldn't bother you at all. Even if you don't have other options at the moment, always act like you do.

(11-10-2013 10:07 AM)Nascimento Wrote:  

Quote: How should I respond? I don't want to meet in her city. She asked me where to meet and I told her and now she is trying to make me go to her city after she already pretty much agreed to come to mine.

Maintain your frame. Either you meet her in your city or you don't meet her at all. Besides, you should have other plates spinning so that this wouldn't bother you at all. Even if you don't have other options at the moment, always act like you do.

Yeah but how do I cleverly tell her that.

"Nope you're coming to (my city) see you at 8"

Simple as that or should I say something more clever?

I would say 'nah, be at (original bar) for 8'

Something simple and to the point, nothing clever. If she makes an excuse, depending on her response I'd possibly just radio silence.

Other guys might have a different reply to this. I think as long as you maintain a dominant frame you can't go wrong.

So after a momentary couple days of a bit of bitterness on how it's gone lately, I put myself out there and got two numbers in the local starbucks and a great lead out at the bars. First two I chatted up, one is extraordinarily promising, though I'd like for her to be cuter, she was at least cool; geek, loves cars, etc. Decent enough to bang at least. The other at the starbucks is a religious girl, but I know more than enough to keep up and talk, so I'll see if I can pull that. She just moved here and plays tennis at the local CC. Super-cute girl.

Out at the bar, I made a few approaches that I wasn't feeling, finally started talking to this one girl that was absolutely adorable. Actually had a real discussion with her, she was intelligent and way more grounded than a lot of girls I meet. Turns out she's also 8 years older than me, and is 3 days from getting her MD. The conversation on age was interesting - she looks way younger.. she was like;

"How old are ya?"
"How about you take a guess."
"Hmm, 27."
"Ah, that's close enough."
"28?"
"Still close enough."
[laughing] "25?"
"Definitely close enough."
"Ohh, c'mon, really, how old are you?"
"I'm 22."
"No way!"
Her eyes went wide. Pretty funny. Then she was like..
"How old do you think I am?"
"I would have guessed 22 or 23, but I'm guessing a little higher after talking to you for a while."
She cringed a bit, but laughed and smiled at it too. Gave me a thumb up.
"Hmm, 27 then?"
Scrunching her face up she wags her thumb up more.
"Ahh, how old are ya then?"
"I'm 30."
"Ah, that's cool, it's within my range, let's grab a drink sometime." as I put my arm around her. She loved it. Solid eye contact. Great energy with her.

Closed her, seems real promising. She did peace corp for 3 years. That's gotta ground a person. Though her friend a few minutes later was like, "I need to tell you some advice here, I know you're 22, but it's pretty important - putting your arm around a girl you've just met is too much." Whew. Talk about a jealous friend. She was a chubby asian (who had an adorable face if she lost 20 pounds, she would have been gorgeous...). Obviously jealous of her friend getting the attention. I ignored the comment for the most part as I didn't want to have any shit mess up my vibe with the girl I closed.

(11-10-2013 12:04 PM)Plutoman Wrote:  Closed her, seems real promising. She did peace corp for 3 years. That's gotta ground a person. Though her friend a few minutes later was like, "I need to tell you some advice here, I know you're 22, but it's pretty important - putting your arm around a girl you've just met is too much." Whew. Talk about a jealous friend. She was a chubby asian (who had an adorable face if she lost 20 pounds, she would have been gorgeous...). Obviously jealous of her friend getting the attention. I ignored the comment for the most part as I didn't want to have any shit mess up my vibe with the girl I closed.

Thought this would be a good entry for the Players' Log.

Just picked up a new member for the rotation:

http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-11951-...#pid574932

...and one just stopped by to say that she's dropping off. Wasn't feeling it anymore myself, so no big deal. Just funny that she shows up 2 hours after the other one left.

I know that Frontenac of this time last year would have been nuked by someone dropping off, but now, a combination of Black Philip + RVF + desire to better myself has made this a non-event.

Amazing how the game works.