(08-13-2013 03:22 PM)Millz Wrote:  Threw out some bait on my twitter seeming I've hit 1200 followers now.. Just said I feel like going to the art gallery/Naturl history museum but most people are too boring to even go and tons of chicks have hit me up.. Good times

Nice.

I don't use Twitter but I feel like I should learn more. Are those all people you know personally?

Or do you have a blog, business or real life persona where they would wanna come meet you?

Neighbor was walking down the stairs the other day. Really cute black chick. I didn't know she was foreign! Anyways, I was coming home from work and was walking up the stairs. She was coming down the stairs in heels and a nice dress. As she was coming down I said "hey" she said hey back.

"Are you going out tonight?"
"No im going back to work"
"Ah thats too bad"
"Hey you live here?"
"Yeah, up there on the third floor ... first corner on the right. You live here too right?"
"Yes I'm on the third floor as well. To the left of the stairs"
"I thought so, I've seen you here a couple times...you have an accent, where are you from?"
"Zimbabwe, my name is Charlete"
"Sharley?"
"No Shaw let"
"Oh ok, Charlette haha, I'm Chad"
"Nice to meet you Chad, I need to go but do you want to come over for my birthday party?"
"When is that?"
"This Saturday night!"
"Cool yeah I'll come over...Hey my phone is broken right now. I should have a new one by Thursday, but take my number and send me a text anyways."

So she took it down and we went our seperate ways. Zimbabwe flag here I come!

I've been on a dry spell this week.

Decided that I'm not going to bust a nut unless my dick is in a girl or if body forces me to do it via wet dream.

I have to say, guys who have really good looks do have it much easier. I have a handsome buddy who is getting into the game. He's taking down girls on average that are steadily higher quality than what I'm getting.

Instead of getting jealous, I'm going to up my game.

Met up for coffee with a japanese girl. Got her back to my house. Made a kiss after some resistance, but I have to get ready for work. Maybe we are going to hang later.

I've been experimenting with telling girls up front that I'm "not looking for anything serious just fun"

If they agree it's great because the you know that there is a high probability that they will be DTF with little resistance.

If they balk, then you can just go to the next girl.

This is a great way of letting out some of the tension (and there really is too much fake tension from girls in NYC), and setting the frame for an intimate experience.

Yesterday i saw an 8 getting into a supermarket. I decided I had to talk with her and got in too. Pretended I was shopping as well and made a situation opener, and had a fun chat for 5 minutes about Italian food. Ended up I couldn't close, but she works out at the same gym as me. Today I saw her at the gym, a 7 she looked sexier dressed up, talked with her but she wasn't feeling me and didn't engage conversation, maybe because she has a boyfriend (wearing ring), so I focused back on my training.

What do you guys do when girls call you out on your 'cold' personality?

I tend to hide my emotions a lot with girls and I come across a bit cold. 2 girls have told me they want to have a 'warm' feeling with a guy and I'm wondering if its just BS they are talking or if I am wrong here?

I think one of my regulars really likes me.

If she wants to stick around, she's going to have be open to the possibility of have threesomes. I've already made a porno with her.

I'm going to test the waters and see if she'd be ok with making out with another girl.

Then I'm going to mention my lesbian friend who wants to have threesomes.

Finally decided to get my "tired eyes" fixed with an injection of Restylane (filler). 6500THB. I look so much better.

The deep lines under my eyes were genetic and there was nothing I could do about it, so frustrating. I was tired of looking older than my age with girls asking me whether I'd slept and work colleagues wondering if I had partied the night before rather than gone to bed.

Should last 9-12 months and then I'll do it again.

I'm one of those guys that believe looking after your looks is really important, not just a minor afterthought.

(08-16-2013 12:11 PM)Que enspastic Wrote:  Finally decided to get my "tired eyes" fixed with an injection of Restylane (filler). 6500THB. I look so much better.

I'm one of those guys that believe looking after your looks is really important, not just a minor afterthought.

Be willing to do what other people aren't. That's a big part of success in anything. It's incredible to me the unwillingness of other people to do just a small amount of the things I'm willing to do. Then I look at successful people and think about how little I've been willing in the past to do compared to them. Really inspiring that you'd go to such a length and be really happy with the results.

yeah man. i agree.

of course guys will say something like: "you can still get girls", "your results at work do all the talking"

BUT

I want the dime pieces and I need to look sharp and fun. I know I can get girls, but getting higher quality means I need to be higher quality too.

I want to be perceived as alert and switched on at work. Perception is reality. People think you look like a waster, that's going to hit you hard whether it's fair or not. I never play the victim, I see the world as it is and act accordingly. I'm all about getting the best results possible. If you can fix it, change it. If you can't, accept it. I think that's a Buddhist proverb too ha.

(08-14-2013 06:56 AM)The Great Basilisk Wrote:  How serious are we talking?
Few months? Yes
a Year? Yes
More than that? If it still feels like it
Marry? NO

As long as you are not married or living together, you have no commitment.

No idea on how serious or for how long. I'm not opposed to marriage, but I'm not going to jump into anything here blindly. What makes it such a bad deal on the last point? Solely age, or is that your opinion on marriage in general (I respect that, but I also hold differing opinions)? And if solely age, why?

Currently standing as semi-serious but non-exclusive with her. But she's looking to be more serious down the road, and I am, too - as long as it's with the right girl.

I basically broke up with several girls over the past week. Stopped talking to several. Guess my game wasn't high enough to warrant stalking/constant bugging after dropping them, but at least it was good enough to screw them. I've got too much business stuff I need to handle and a single steady girl is much cheaper and easier to manage than 3-5 girls. I've run myself broke doing that. One steady girl with a good income means I do a lot easier on the money front, which is, as it stands, more important and critical to me than new pussy. I definitely need to set up my career a bit before I try to date multiple girls again.

I had an odd experience yesterday. I was spamming out messages on POF when one girl replied back almost immediately "Hi XY!"

WTF? How does this girl know me? I looked at her pic wondering if maybe I had met her for a drink once long ago. She did look a bit familiar but I was sure I had not had a drink with her. Then I worried wondering if she was a friend of a girl I was gaming or banging and I had been introduced to her, and I had just been busted.

I messaged her back, telling her I recognized her face but had forgotten her name. She responded with her name and I realized who she was-an SA girl I had texted with but never met. I checked my phone and she was still in my contacts.

We started texting and she immediately started qualifying herself, telling me all her good points and how she wasn't looking for anything serious. Obviously trying to sell herself on the SA angle. We made a date for next week, so now I'm going to be back in my fake sugar daddy role. Which is fine because I'm planning on signing up for SA again soon anyway since college is about to start.

My text conversation brought out something interesting with this girl. She told me that she was dating a POF guy now and that he was "very nice" but she wasn't sure if she really liked him. She told me she had gone out with a few others who were "sweet" and that she had been on Eharmony for a whole but the guys there were all "extremely passive". I wonder if Eharmony would be fertile ground for a player?

Anyway this girl clearly wants a dominant, assholish guy- she put it as "assertive"- which again bolsters my theory that many SA girls aren't just on the site looking for money, they are girls who are into submitting to a dominant guy even more than most girls.

Have a date with a nightclub waitress tonight that I cold approached last week. Tomorrow night going to stay in a hotel for a night of partying with a girl I banged for the first time last week

The city I live in is swarming with hot women right now. Everyone is returning for the start of college.

It is literally sending my dick into overdrive.

I am going to walk out of my apartment right now, go work out. I probably won't be back for the next couple weeks.

If you don't see me log in within a month, it means I have died doing what I love to do.

(08-14-2013 06:03 PM)LeBeau Wrote:  

(08-13-2013 03:22 PM)Millz Wrote:  Threw out some bait on my twitter seeming I've hit 1200 followers now.. Just said I feel like going to the art gallery/Naturl history museum but most people are too boring to even go and tons of chicks have hit me up.. Good times

Nice.

I don't use Twitter but I feel like I should learn more. Are those all people you know personally?

Or do you have a blog, business or real life persona where they would wanna come meet you?

My twitter basically started off as me following facebook friends and people I know irl which snowballed into tons of people following just based upon what I say.
I know alot of my followers in person but alot of the females I don't know want to get to know me more.
Twitter has become very interesting for banging chicks because they get to see alot more of your personality therefore are more likely to meet up with you.
I've banged quite a few this year from my twitter alone more so than pof and okc

(08-16-2013 06:13 PM)All or Nothing Wrote:  The city I live in is swarming with hot women right now. Everyone is returning for the start of college.

It is literally sending my dick into overdrive.

I am going to walk out of my apartment right now, go work out. I probably won't be back for the next couple weeks.

If you don't see me log in within a month, it means I have died doing what I love to do.

damn yo, how do you sober gamers go out at night and not want to kill yourselves.

Haven't been out in weeks. I hit up a bar near me and its pretty solid. One table of hot chicks and a few groups with mostly dudes. We're hanging with my buddies friends. One guy is awesome, the other guy is ok and seems to know most of the groups. The last guy is fuckin pathetic drinking himself to the point of vomiting because he just found out the girl he just moved in with is actually married to some dude that raped her as a teenager (or something fucked up like that, he was wasted I couldn't get a solid story out of him).

I sit back relaxed while the guys talk and all that. The hottest of the group of girls gets up. I time it so that I cut her off on her way back and say what up. Shes drinking a redbull, but is pretty out of it. On drugs or something and not making any sense, she kind of wanders off back to her friends.

Later this smokin black chick comes with her chubby pinup style friend. Both are definitely bangable. Puking dude is just passed out at the table and everyone had just left. They ask me for a smoke. I motion for them to sit down and grab one of the guys smokes and do the double smoke light maneuver. I start some light chit chat then the black chick starts adjusting her bra/cleavage and bitching about how some dude is supposed to meet them. I excuse myself to find my friend.

Another table gets filled with super hot girls, but there are too many dudes to deal with. My buddy has been texting/calling this chick all night. I ask if hes fucked her and he says "working on it" he can do everything but close. If he taught me his night game/laid back approach to making 'friends' and I taught him how to cruise through bullshit once you've got her isolated and interested we'd be slaying chicks left right and center. Hes almost blackout but says "were going to the girls house, she has a friend over" I say "only if its a hot chick" he phones and asks if its a hot chick.

sure enough the friend of his girl is BANGIN. a solid 7-8 (a bit of acne and a squareish face, but supremely fuckable). shes the typical party girl, super tanned, wearing daisy dukes. I smirk when I walk in. She just broke up with her boyfriend and complained about how he was a cheating asshole. within the first 10 minutes she also mentioned how a guy her friend was trying to set her up with was a boyish looking faggot and she likes real men.

I take note of this and tone up the aloofness/sarcastic asshole comments. She talks like shes on coke, long winded stories no one cares about. I move us 4 to the couch and she sits beside me, legs crossed towards me. I'm not drinking and shes getting more drunk and is getting restless. She wants a party and what I can assume is a former/current fuck buddy is trying to hit her up. Her friend says "nooo!!! you're staying we're having fun here" She stays for a bit and I start building some rapport about music, or in her words "nigger beats" I qualify her with "oh have you heard ____" etc. I zone off thru most of her stories and tease her a bit.

My friends girl phones this guy at a music festival saying they might be able to sneak in past the guard. Party girl starts going off about how we should like tooootallly go and have fun. My buddies girl says "but how will we get past the guard" party girl says "I'm a woman I'll have no problem getting past him" I retort with "what are you going to do, talk him to death?" she shuts up for a good 30 seconds and gives me that "I'm so wet right now" scowl and eye contact.

She ends up leaving to go fuck that guy so its just me my buddy and his girl. Hes wasted and trying the lamest shit. Shes pushed her self as far away from him as she can and even puts the pillow in between them because he keeps touching her.

After a bit of this I say "well I'm gonna head out, what do you want to do dude" she replies instantly saying "oh I can drive him home later." Weird considering her body language, either way they better be banging right now or I'mma beat his ass.

That being said, I was way too negative/mean towards the party girl, at the bar I was quiet because anything I said was lost on the other people so I just started looking down on them for continually repeating themselves and slurring their words. either way I need to start reframing their stupidity in my mind. I also feel like I'm on a different wavelength than people. I say stuff and just get crickets. Somehow they were talking about how one guy got caught with a girl and he got 'in trouble' by his girlfriend. I say "man its all about how you treat the situation" and told him the story of how I invited 2 girls I Was banging to the same bar and kept banging them even though they told me to go fuck myself. They just looked at me like "yeah... ok"

Also. Anyone got any tips for improving the loudness of your voice. No one can ever hear me and I mumble a ton. I've tried just going louder (I already talk from my diaphragm) but it doesn't sound the same and my voice gets hoarse quickly.

Pretty good for just expecting to grab a few beers after not going out for weeks.

Went to sleep at nine to wake up at eleven and troll the bars. Just woke up. I guess I saved some money.

Hit up a POF surfer chick. Tryin to instadate her for the Tropical storm coming our way. Waves should be good tonigh and all day tomorrow.

Work out, go through all my paperwork, plan for my Rio trip in two weeks, and suit up for the bar scene. Peacocking to the fullest tonight. Might hit the beach too.

Banged out my ginger yesterday.

Went out and got three numbers at night. No new notches.

I've decided to not jerk off until I get a new notch.

Been doing a lot of online. Been texting with this.. she's coming in from California once a month

Went out last night to meet up with a friend but he didn't even show up.

The bar is an old dive that a lot of service industry workers like to go to after their shifts before heading home. I've pulled a few SNLs in the place before.

I start talking to this half asian chick who is a 6, but could be a 7 if she didn't have a pixie cut. While I'm talking to the chick I'm playing a local version of Ship, Captain, Crew, where you play for shots instead of cash with the owner of the bar, who looks like Santa Claus.

After 4 rounds I start giving my shots to the chick since I have long drive home. While we're playing the owner starts giving me shit like he's trying to defend the girl from me like a shit test by proxy or something. I was able to handle the tests, which surprised the owner.

We played probably 10 more rounds until it was closing time, I'm walking out with the chick and I noticed that she biked to the bar, I told her to throw her bike in my car and that I would drop her off. Once we got to her place, I used the bathroom line to get in. She told me to excuse the slight mess before I walked in.

The place was a fucking pig sty! Plates and clothes all over the place, open takeout containers, it was gross, especially since she lives solo. I head into the bathroom and there's a shit ton of hair in the sink and I noticed a used tampon in the trash. I decided to abort, which caught the chick off guard when I started making a beeline for the door.

Has anyone ever had someone else make you qualify yourself in front of a chick before?

For once one of my friends does it right! My roommate set this drink night up with a girl he's banging and her single friend and told me to come out.

(08-17-2013 05:23 AM)WesternCancer Wrote:  Also. Anyone got any tips for improving the loudness of your voice. No one can ever hear me and I mumble a ton. I've tried just going louder (I already talk from my diaphragm) but it doesn't sound the same and my voice gets hoarse quickly.

Yes, I do. A professional tip I got for speaking live and with the media is to practice reading - out loud - Dr. Seuss books. Read them slowly, loudly, and enunciate.

Practice, practice, practice.

Well this night didn't workout at all! He didn't even bang his chick and the girl I was going dor doesnt like white skin! I havnt recieved that cold of a reception since that time me and this Phillipino guy crashed this all black party at a bar.

I'm conjecturing that I'm not man enough to pull tonight.

I made out with a couple girls. I had a ex-harem show up and try to take my attention.

No new bangs.

My Summer dry spell seems to be kicking in.

Maybe I need to grow a beard or work out more.

@Soup I get it. I've been murdering this year and since Monday afternoon to tonight, it's like I lost my game haha. Dammit.

Tonight a make out, a chick punched me for no reason and I fucked up with another one.

At 41 for the year so can't complain but haven't had a dry weekend in months. Fuck.

(08-18-2013 06:09 AM)McQueensPlayboyRules Wrote:  @Soup I get it. I've been murdering this year and since Monday afternoon to tonight, it's like I lost my game haha. Dammit.

Tonight a make out, a chick punched me for no reason and I fucked up with another one.

At 41 for the year so can't complain but haven't had a dry weekend in months. Fuck.

Yeah I'm at 39 for this year, and I'm just not eliciting the responses that I want.

I know what it's like to be the object of desire, and I know what it's like to not be.

I've seen how girls react to guys who are very attractive, and have at times been that guy.

Maybe something's off with my vibe.

Mind you, this is only with new girls. My regulars still crave the D.


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I sometimes think it's worse to have taken the redpill, built up all the power, and then have it taken away.

To use the Matrix analogy- imagine Neo loses his powers, and watches helplessly as his friend is killed. He's powerless to do anything at the time to help his friend, but he knows what it's like to have the power to do so.

Another analogy is the cat and the sliced turkey. If you don't let a cat ever have the turkey, he's not going to know what he's missing. Give the cat some turkey and he's going go nuts every time you take the turkey out.

I've been the cat, and I've had the turkey. I know the turkey is in the room, but I'm not allowed to have any.