(07-06-2013 11:31 AM)Jestx Wrote:  If possible try and add her on facebook to see more of her pictures/profile. It would give a better idea what you're dealing with.

thats not an option, the last thing I want is to have these gargoyles get my full bio and info then have them trolling me in perpetuity

(07-06-2013 11:48 AM)puckman Wrote:  

(07-06-2013 11:31 AM)Jestx Wrote:  If possible try and add her on facebook to see more of her pictures/profile. It would give a better idea what you're dealing with.

thats not an option, the last thing I want is to have these gargoyles get my full bio and info then have them trolling me in perpetuity

That's a good point. Maybe try and bait her into sending sexy pics of herself. Although I hate it, snapchat is good for girls sending those kinds of pics.

I just met a bot on Tinder.

First day using the app and I got 30+ matches. I green-lighted all girls who looked skinny and didn't appear ugly in their main pic. Unfortunately, many of these girls that were matches turned out to be pigs. I pulled out the day with a few matches with hotties.

I saw soup's script, but I am interested in hearing anyone's typical go-to lines that has had success with the 18-23 year old Tinder women.

(07-07-2013 12:16 AM)Sleek Wrote:  First day using the app and I got 30+ matches. I green-lighted all girls who looked skinny and didn't appear ugly in their main pic. Unfortunately, many of these girls that were matches turned out to be pigs. I pulled out the day with a few matches with hotties.

I saw soup's script, but I am interested in hearing anyone's typical go-to lines that has had success with the 18-23 year old Tinder women.

I usually think of something witty to comment on one of their pictures to get the conversation started.

another Tinder nut job last night. 33, night tits and body, never had a boyfriend, literrally the most pointless two hours I have had in a while. Same is true with any online dating sites, wookie's that generally have bad luck with men trying very hard to find someone. Still some promising convo's going, plenty of responses and matches in NYC, but just managing this is a giant time suck.

on the flip side, my day game thread is generally drama free and very rewarding. Out of a 10 number day on the Upper East Side two weeks, I am seeing a russian girl and a nj girl from barbados. Both very interesting, calm, 8 women, meeting ms barbados again tonight. The other girls dropped off and some I just quit contacting. There has to be something said for being old fashioned, manning up, and just approaching woman.

I know it's been said a bunch all ready, but I just downloaded this and I am impressed. I've only received two matches so far, but both ended in numbers and plans for later this week. Girls ages were 22 and 18, both around the seven range.

I'm going to get rather pale couch surfing if this thing really catches on here.

(07-06-2013 01:42 AM)Therapsid Wrote:  I haven't tried this yet, but I'm pretty sure that for older dudes its a waste of time. Younger dudes with style and babyfaced good looks are well served by photo oriented apps like this, though. Attract them visually and then blow them away when you actually have the game and confidence to back it up.

Doesn't add up. I agree if, for example, it's a 35 yo dude targeting women 20-25. With photo oriented apps he isn't going to have the results a studly 25 yo would have. But if the 35 yo is targeting women closer to his age he should do fine (if his photos look good), UNLESS the 35 yo women are just using this app as a cougar/cub thing to try to hook up with much younger men?

Think for my next attempt I'll try to get some even better pix, delete my account and start fresh, only target 30+ women and "like" every chick who doesn't look fat or ugly in their main pic.

(07-05-2013 05:39 PM)soup Wrote:  Me: Yes we can have tequilla and make out
Her: Sounds like fun

The "make out" line is great, I've been having success with it too. Plausible deniability and all that.

If she gives me shit like "I'm not really down with casual sex" I'll reply with something like "I just want to hold hands and watch The Little Mermaid."

Just got to New York today and set the thing on 1 mile radius (lowest setting). At least 10 matches in a few hours. Looks promising.

(07-06-2013 11:31 AM)Jestx Wrote:  

(07-06-2013 09:44 AM)puckman Wrote:  second Tinder date last night. drinks and some make out, nice girl, maybe a 5, bangable, but I kept thinking I would rather hire her than bone her. Two strikes Tinder, everyones picture always looks better than in person. If this 3rd date goes the same way I delete this shit off my phone for good, and only day game where I see the goods up front.

If possible try and add her on facebook to see more of her pictures/profile. It would give a better idea what you're dealing with.

Just creep. If they have Tinder 85% chance she has Instagram & Twitter too. All of my Tinder leads have had snoop worthy shit from either all three or one of those platforms.

(07-07-2013 08:58 PM)kosko Wrote:  Just creep. If they have Tinder 85% chance she has Instagram & Twitter too. All of my Tinder leads have had snoop worthy shit from either all three or one of those platforms.

I'm prepping a mini-guide on how to snoop girls using the iPhone/smartphone. There are a lot of tricks most people don't know about.

Friending on FB pre-bang can't be a good idea.

(07-07-2013 09:06 PM)BlurredSevens Wrote:  

(07-07-2013 08:58 PM)kosko Wrote:  Just creep. If they have Tinder 85% chance she has Instagram & Twitter too. All of my Tinder leads have had snoop worthy shit from either all three or one of those platforms.

I'm prepping a mini-guide on how to snoop girls using the iPhone/smartphone. There are a lot of tricks most people don't know about.

Friending on FB pre-bang can't be a good idea.

This x1000. My god I totally fucked it up bad trying this last night. This girl on Tinder had been flirty with me over text, sending me pics of herself in bikini, initiated text me late when she was drinking, it was going good. Then for some godawful reason I decided to ask for her "FB name" near the end of the convo which she gave to me. I looked it up and requested her, and not only did she add me as a friend but no more than 10 seconds later I was REMOVED as a friend (like I wouldn't notice? in some idiot girl logic move). Haven't texted her since obviously.

So beta. I cringe thinking about it still. Please heed this warning. Don't add any girl on FB unless THEY ask for it or you've fucked her already.

(07-07-2013 09:36 PM)Jestx Wrote:  

(07-07-2013 09:06 PM)BlurredSevens Wrote:  

(07-07-2013 08:58 PM)kosko Wrote:  Just creep. If they have Tinder 85% chance she has Instagram & Twitter too. All of my Tinder leads have had snoop worthy shit from either all three or one of those platforms.

I'm prepping a mini-guide on how to snoop girls using the iPhone/smartphone. There are a lot of tricks most people don't know about.

Friending on FB pre-bang can't be a good idea.

This x1000. My god I totally fucked it up bad trying this last night. This girl on Tinder had been flirty with me over text, sending me pics of herself in bikini, initiated text me late when she was drinking, it was going good. Then for some godawful reason I decided to ask for her "FB name" near the end of the convo which she gave to me. I looked it up and requested her, and not only did she add me as a friend but no more than 10 seconds later I was REMOVED as a friend (like I wouldn't notice? in some idiot girl logic move). Haven't texted her since obviously.

So beta. I cringe thinking about it still. Please heed this warning. Don't add any girl on FB unless THEY ask for it or you've fucked her already.

I would say this is the wrong move. If they ask for your Facebook, withholding it will build attraction and create an air of attraction around yourself.

(07-08-2013 01:58 AM)Sleek Wrote:  

(07-07-2013 09:36 PM)Jestx Wrote:  

(07-07-2013 09:06 PM)BlurredSevens Wrote:  

(07-07-2013 08:58 PM)kosko Wrote:  Just creep. If they have Tinder 85% chance she has Instagram & Twitter too. All of my Tinder leads have had snoop worthy shit from either all three or one of those platforms.

I'm prepping a mini-guide on how to snoop girls using the iPhone/smartphone. There are a lot of tricks most people don't know about.

Friending on FB pre-bang can't be a good idea.

This x1000. My god I totally fucked it up bad trying this last night. This girl on Tinder had been flirty with me over text, sending me pics of herself in bikini, initiated text me late when she was drinking, it was going good. Then for some godawful reason I decided to ask for her "FB name" near the end of the convo which she gave to me. I looked it up and requested her, and not only did she add me as a friend but no more than 10 seconds later I was REMOVED as a friend (like I wouldn't notice? in some idiot girl logic move). Haven't texted her since obviously.

So beta. I cringe thinking about it still. Please heed this warning. Don't add any girl on FB unless THEY ask for it or you've fucked her already.

I would say this is the wrong move. If they ask for your Facebook, withholding it will build attraction and create an air of attraction around yourself.

Possibly. But by that stage girls might just want to confirm you aren't a weirdo and by denying it they might think you have something to hide.

I have noticed a lot of leads fall off after I ask "where do you live" or ask for their number the soup way. Is it just me or have others gotten similar responses? Obviously the attraction is already there if they clicked "like", maybe I just need to build more comfort inside the app.

(07-09-2013 12:18 PM)Sleek Wrote:  I have noticed a lot of leads fall off after I ask "where do you live" or ask for their number the soup way. Is it just me or have others gotten similar responses? Obviously the attraction is already there if they clicked "like", maybe I just need to build more comfort inside the app.

I never ask "where do you live?"

I try to only say things that don't need question marks or to phrase questions in a way that are obvious and don't need the "?" at the end.

(07-09-2013 12:18 PM)Sleek Wrote:  I have noticed a lot of leads fall off after I ask "where do you live" or ask for their number the soup way. Is it just me or have others gotten similar responses? Obviously the attraction is already there if they clicked "like", maybe I just need to build more comfort inside the app.

I'm in SoCal and mid way between OC and SD, kind of in no man's land with a major freeway running through. What's been happening to me is I'll get hits that show they're a few miles away and then when they reply they're 50-60 miles away. I always ask what city they live in since they were most likely playing with tinder while driving down the freeway.

For someone like Soup in NYC the distance thing is not so much of an issue.

(07-09-2013 05:00 PM)RCron Wrote:  

(07-09-2013 12:18 PM)Sleek Wrote:  I have noticed a lot of leads fall off after I ask "where do you live" or ask for their number the soup way. Is it just me or have others gotten similar responses? Obviously the attraction is already there if they clicked "like", maybe I just need to build more comfort inside the app.

I'm in SoCal and mid way between OC and SD, kind of in no man's land with a major freeway running through. What's been happening to me is I'll get hits that show they're a few miles away and then when they reply they're 50-60 miles away. I always ask what city they live in since they were most likely playing with tinder while driving down the freeway.

For someone like Soup in NYC the distance thing is not so much of an issue.

Pendleton? Some pretty hot surfer girls down that way.

(07-10-2013 02:25 PM)puckman Wrote:  

(07-09-2013 05:00 PM)RCron Wrote:  

(07-09-2013 12:18 PM)Sleek Wrote:  I have noticed a lot of leads fall off after I ask "where do you live" or ask for their number the soup way. Is it just me or have others gotten similar responses? Obviously the attraction is already there if they clicked "like", maybe I just need to build more comfort inside the app.

I'm in SoCal and mid way between OC and SD, kind of in no man's land with a major freeway running through. What's been happening to me is I'll get hits that show they're a few miles away and then when they reply they're 50-60 miles away. I always ask what city they live in since they were most likely playing with tinder while driving down the freeway.

For someone like Soup in NYC the distance thing is not so much of an issue.

Pendleton? Some pretty hot surfer girls down that way.

No, more inland. Temecula area. I-15 goes right down the middle.

(07-09-2013 12:18 PM)Sleek Wrote:  I have noticed a lot of leads fall off after I ask "where do you live" or ask for their number the soup way. Is it just me or have others gotten similar responses? Obviously the attraction is already there if they clicked "like", maybe I just need to build more comfort inside the app.

It's just the nature of the beast. Sometimes girls take days or longer to respond to me. But when they do, I know it's on.

Tinder is a passive app in my mind. Girls hit it up when they're horny - they're not looking to book up their week with drink-dates like on OKC.

When a girl doesn't reply, I just wait a week or so and then prod her again. My favorite line to use is "did you die" - the girls always respond "LOL no sorry I've just been busy" or something. In that case, you've essentially reopened her, so just roll with it from there.

Can you manually set location? I couldn't seem to figure out how.

Would like to try pipelining with this.

OKCupid is not providing me with sufficient pipeline yield volume.

Tried the soup method for the first time tonight - just invited her to my place for a drink. I didn't get the notch but got a BJ after a lot of early resistance to any below the belt action. Turns out she had her tampon in... Lesson learned: be persistent, but patient.

Chick just left. Total time spent over here: 2 hrs.

never mind.

(07-11-2013 12:29 AM)crush Wrote:  Tried the soup method for the first time tonight - just invited her to my place for a drink. I didn't get the notch but got a BJ after a lot of early resistance to any below the belt action. Turns out she had her tampon in... Lesson learned: be persistent, but patient.

Chick just left. Total time spent over here: 2 hrs.

Sometimes you can tell when they are on their period.

She'll be like "we aren't having sex" but really wants it, or you see the tampon. Just mention that you aren't afraid of a little blood and keep making out with her until she's so aroused that she's down.

She'll say "ok" and then ask to use your bathroom so she can take out her bloody tampon.

This happened to me a couple weeks ago with a girl from Tinder.