Post: #1

I’ve been thinking a lot about getting your date/company back to your place from the bar lately. While my ratio is pretty good I could always do with some variation.

Personally one I like to use requires some set up.
I’m in a couple of Metal music videos that were released in the early 00s by fairly high profile metal bands. At some point during the evening I touch & go on this fact, just casually mentioning it without lingering. I’m almost always interrupted with her saying something like “seriously” or “no way” so I insist like it’s nothing and that I’ll just show it to her later no bull.

After some time I tell her to drink up so we can bounce to another bar. This new place will conveniently be located on the way past our current location and my centrally located apartment. “Oh I live just down this street let’s stop by and get a drink and I’ll show you those music videos you asked about”.

Another version that I haven’t done for a long time since it’s a bit artifical (not recommended for newbies) but still fun is the shirt swap. It relies equally on that centrally located apartment. I order a soda with ice in a tumbler which pretty much makes it look like any vodka or gin. At some point when a waiter or other bar patron is passing I will make an erratic animated move with an arm, causing us to bump and me to spill some of the soda on my shirt. I will be smiles all around and telling the other guy not to worry about it, just laughing it off.

Then I tell her to drink up just like above and we move out and past my centrally located apartment (see the theme here?) at this point I will say how this is a Zegna shirt of Egyptian Cotton and I should really get run up to my place and swap shirt and and put the stained one to soak in water so the alcohol won’t ruin it. It will just be a couple of minutes and she can get a drink while she waits.

What I consider to be key is to not wait the night out until she’s starting to think about going home. It should be insinuated that we’re just stopping by at my place which is obviously not the intention but it gives her anti-slut reaction plausible deniability.

Your turn.
Wrote all this on my phone sitting on the rain so editing looks like shit.

Post: #2

The "let's have a drink at my place" is a great move, but the problem is when girls don't drink (at all). So you have two options:

1. Plant the seed during the date about your favorite band, video clips, pictures, whatever. At the end you can say "I want to quickly show you... it won't take long."

2. Do a home dinner date at your house. This is best for a date 3, after you kissed on a previous date. It's more of a backup move than a primary. I wouldn't do it before you have at least kissed, or else it will be wasted.

If your apartment is not so centrally located, find a cafe/bar that is close to it where you can hold the date. If your logistics are totally fucked, then schedule the date near her place and use the bathroom move, which is oftentimes easier than getting a girl back to your place if she's not drinking.

If the girl lives with her parents, doesn't drink, and has to leave by 10pm to catch the last bus home because she can't afford a taxi, you have to build strong attraction and hope for the date 3 bang at your place for dinner.

Post: #3

Lately I've been luring girls to an area where we both live away from. After they get drunk it's a given that they won't drive and we'll get a hotel room. Not the cheapest way, but my logistics sucks balls in the ATL.

Guitar game works well also. A pool table in your house is worth its weight in gold. Swimming pools and hot tubs. Zebras.

Post: #4

One move I've used with some success is to have her meet me at my place before we go out. My logistics are really tight, it's a 2 minute walk to several lounges/clubs. I'll say something like, "meet at my place at 8 and we'll walk over to x." When she gets there I'll tell her I'm running late and she should come up and wait.
This does 2 things:
1. She's been in the place so it wont be a big deal to go to it again.
2. If she wasn't drinking much it was likely because she had her vehicle, which is parked at my building.

Post: #5

(06-05-2013 07:09 AM)Aliblahba Wrote:  Guitar game works well also. A pool table in your house is worth its weight in gold. Swimming pools and hot tubs. Zebras.

Do you at least sarcastically tell them you have extra bathing suits, or is skinny dipping automatically implied?

And LOL at the zebra thread reference

Post: #6

The phrase,

"Let's get some drinks" is perhaps the greatest pickup line in the world. Works on all ages, in all situations.

She's underage or doesn't like alcohol? "Yeah, I meant we can grab some coffee or tea."

Bars are closed, or no coffee or tea shop? "Yeah, I know a great place to get some after-hour drinks." (Take her back to your place.)

She's underage but wants alcohol anyways? Take her back to your place.

Seriously the words "Let's get some drinks," have been said by me for ALMOST every single one of my bangs. It gets women to follow you.

Post: #7

Logistics are king in every way, so think about that before you start trying to bring girls home too.

Do you have roommates and is that an issue?
Do you live with your parents?
Do you live way outside the city in the burbs (or worse)?
Is your place a shithole?

And on the other end...

Do you live by yourself or have plenty of privacy?
Do you live within walking distance of the bar(s) you frequent?
Do you have a place that makes it easy to entertain (i.e. abundant alcohol, great view, plenty of things to do, unique appeal)
Is your bachelor pad spacious, clean and attractive?

All of these matter and should factor into your decision to bring a girl home... Why? Because your chance of success goes up depending on the perceived quality of your pad.

That said, I've brought plenty of girls home to some pretty shady spots when I was younger.

Post: #8

I live in a tiiiiiny studio in Dupont. I have no furniture yet except my bed. My past establishments have been roommate situations in absolute shitholes in Arlington that require cabs. I have had very little issues with just pounding shots with them and just saying the magical words, "Let's get out of here." I don't think I'm breaking anything new to the players on this board, but that's what works for me. I keep it simple and basic. Of course, tons of kino and a kiss is always included beforehand. "Let's get out of here" with a seductive smirk and smile. That's all I do. If it fails, I usually amp up the touching to embarrassing proportions. Flicking their tits. Pinching their asses or tummies. Borderline creep style caveman game. This may set off others, but that is pretty much my standard go-to. They sometimes challenge it, but after a little bit more persistence, it's usually in the bag. But, the flaking afterwards is of astronomical proportions. A week after still talking to a girl does not happen that often. MOST get instant buyer's remorse and I've gotten used to it.

Post: #9

Taking the Gmac challenge. My answers in BOLD

(06-07-2013 08:35 PM)Gmac Wrote:  Logistics are king in every way, so think about that before you start trying to bring girls home too.

Do you have roommates and is that an issue?

I sublet to my roommate, so while I'd much rather not have someone live with me, it does allow me to charge them more of the rent, control the parking spots, and live where I live.

Do you live with your parents?

Not for about a decade

Do you live way outside the city in the burbs (or worse)?
Within a block of the beach, slight view of my local pier, ocean, and palm trees from very small front patio and living room windows.

Is your place a shithole?

For what it is, I've done alright by it. Older 1-story without a lot of fancy shit but I've made it look half decent. It's a shithole because my roommate and I are busy and we entertain some and we're both volleyball players so there's almost always sand somewhere or dishes, towels/clothes, or volleyball gear laying around.

And on the other end...

Do you live by yourself or have plenty of privacy?

I don't have a ton of privacy (the walls are thin and so are the windows) but I have a sound machine, stereo, and fan in my room to cover up noise. Also key is that my roommate if home is happy to stay in his room and put on music or tv show if I'm entertaining/banging.

Do you live within walking distance of the bar(s) you frequent?

The main drag of stores/restaurants/bars is a mere two blocks over.

Do you have a place that makes it easy to entertain (i.e. abundant alcohol, great view, plenty of things to do, unique appeal)

Decent view, converted a closet into a nice bar, next to that is a glassware/shaker cabinet and next to that is a 16 slot wine rack that I keep reasonably-stocked at all times, tons to do, very unique to live that close to the beach (and pier and volleyball courts) AND the party.

Is your bachelor pad spacious, clean and attractive?

I do a lot with not a large place. Bedrooms are pretty small but the living room has plenty of seating, flatscreen, home theater audio with a nice 12" sub, video game consoles, premium channels, karaoke system. I also have access to a really nice (and usually deserted) hot tub with a heated pool that I can get into (and bypass the jet timer) at any hour. Plus between my garage and from making friends with neighbors I have nearly unlimited access to surf boards, wetsuits, beach cruisers, and any other beach/sport/entertainment stuff I could want including 24/7 access to a MUCH nicer patio on the house closest to the beach.

All of these matter and should factor into your decision to bring a girl home... Why? Because your chance of success goes up depending on the perceived quality of your pad.

That said, I've brought plenty of girls home to some pretty shady spots when I was younger.

I've brought girls back and banged them with my place looking pretty fucking messy, but since it's decently nice overall and I'm so close to the beach, I'm able to pull it off more than I thought I'd be able to.

If I keep my room nice I always get compliments from girls on how it looks. I've been making my bed since the beginning of this year every single morning. It's SO much nicer to have a made bed and picked up room in general, plus you'll get laid more effectively, and you can do a security sweep while cleaning up/making the bed.

(06-07-2013 08:56 PM)slothpiece Wrote:  I live in a tiiiiiny studio in Dupont. I have no furniture yet except my bed.

I've managed to furnish my place VERY cheaply. It took effort for sure, but with a decent time investment I was able to find everything I needed for my kitchen (large appliances and small), couches, dresser, end tables for my bedroom, bar paraphernelia, kitchen table, desk, entertainment center, etc...

Mostly Craig's List and some word of mouth/garage sales as well as stupidly letting an old roommate get into debt with me and then smartly taking all his nice stuff in partial trade (lamps, ceiling fan, outdoor heaters, patio furniture, home theater audio system...basically all the stuff that he had that was nice).

Post: #10

"Have you seen my fish tank?" works wonders.

Post: #11

(06-05-2013 12:27 PM)Hobnob Wrote:  One move I've used with some success is to have her meet me at my place before we go out. My logistics are really tight, it's a 2 minute walk to several lounges/clubs. I'll say something like, "meet at my place at 8 and we'll walk over to x." When she gets there I'll tell her I'm running late and she should come up and wait.
This does 2 things:
1. She's been in the place so it wont be a big deal to go to it again.
2. If she wasn't drinking much it was likely because she had her vehicle, which is parked at my building.

i do this. sometimes i have her wait in my room while i get showered and ready.

Post: #12

If it's a girl you barely know, you've never had issues with her snooping through your stuff?

(06-08-2013 03:55 AM)Que enspastic Wrote:  

(06-05-2013 12:27 PM)Hobnob Wrote:  One move I've used with some success is to have her meet me at my place before we go out. My logistics are really tight, it's a 2 minute walk to several lounges/clubs. I'll say something like, "meet at my place at 8 and we'll walk over to x." When she gets there I'll tell her I'm running late and she should come up and wait.
This does 2 things:
1. She's been in the place so it wont be a big deal to go to it again.
2. If she wasn't drinking much it was likely because she had her vehicle, which is parked at my building.

i do this. sometimes i have her wait in my room while i get showered and ready.

Post: #13

Your theme is right on. Logistics and location.

For a while I had an ideal setup where I lived in a beachfront apartment with a balcony and ocean view. There were cafes, bars, restaurants within walking distance. For dates, I'd suggest "meeting at my place, and then going out from there." I was younger then and somewhat surprised (happily surprised) at first that a lot of girls would in fact meet me at my place on a first date or bounce back to my place after meeting them earlier that night or day. A lot of these "dates" started and ended at my place. It seemed too easy. The key move was to have a glass or two of wine and then take a walk downstairs to the beach. There was a saying among my friends that the best bar in the city was my living room. My wingman was my apartment.

Times changed and I moved. That's how it goes, great things are often temporary. But I've recently made another move that greatly enhances my logistics both with going out and and for work. I can walk anywhere now. No beach though. Still, I'm planning for many logistically supported swoops. Central location. Critical. Our logistics defines our fate.

Post: #14

(06-07-2013 08:56 PM)slothpiece Wrote:  I live in a tiiiiiny studio in Dupont. I have no furniture yet except my bed. My past establishments have been roommate situations in absolute shitholes in Arlington that require cabs. I have had very little issues with just pounding shots with them and just saying the magical words, "Let's get out of here." I don't think I'm breaking anything new to the players on this board, but that's what works for me. I keep it simple and basic. Of course, tons of kino and a kiss is always included beforehand. "Let's get out of here" with a seductive smirk and smile. That's all I do. If it fails, I usually amp up the touching to embarrassing proportions. Flicking their tits. Pinching their asses or tummies. Borderline creep style caveman game. This may set off others, but that is pretty much my standard go-to. They sometimes challenge it, but after a little bit more persistence, it's usually in the bag. But, the flaking afterwards is of astronomical proportions. A week after still talking to a girl does not happen that often. MOST get instant buyer's remorse and I've gotten used to it.

You sound like regurgitated mystery method.

Post: #15

You should always have some props that you can drop as bait. Just bring it up sometime in the conversation, forget about it, and then bounce her back to your place later in the night to check out whatever it was.

Vinyl record collection
Guitars
Cool videos you have shot and some cool youtube clips saved
Pictures of a trip
Cooking skills
Pool table
Hookah
Old school 70s era fixed up moped (no experience with that, but a buddy swears its a deal closer when a chick gets on it)

Just calibrate to her interests. For chicks in the medical field I have some crazy interesting medical videos that always gets them interested. Hipster chicks go for the vinyl record collection and hookah. Club/bar girls go for the pool table. Adventurous chicks go for the fun exciting videos and pictures of your travels. Homebodies will be down to test out your cooking skills.

Post: #16

My line depends on the type of girl.

If she drink: "Lets grab a drink and listen to music in my "ROOM".

If she doesn't drink: "Lets play video games in my ROOM."

Depending on her response I know if she is considering sex that night.

Come on let's be honest, we all know no matter what we say, girls will know what's up.

If they don't know then you ain't getting laid because she is not thinking of having sex.

Post: #17

When I was studying abroad in Germany, I told a German girl I met off of POF to come back to my house so she could play a piano song for me. I made out with her that night and banged her a week later.

Post: #18

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Post: #19

(06-10-2013 07:12 PM)CaptainChardonnay Wrote:  Lately since its been sunny here in Montreal, I invite the girl out for brownies at a dessert place near my apartment. I get the brownies and then tell the girl since its so nice out that we should eat them on my rooftop overlooking the city. I walk the girl into my apartment, she becomes familiar with it as I grab a plate & spoons for the brownies and then we go up the elevator to the roof. Eat the brownies then take her back down to my apartment to do what ever.
Cost of brownies = $4CDN

Why go back down to the apartment? Rooftop sex is fun.

Post: #20

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Post: #21

(06-07-2013 08:17 PM)Samseau Wrote:  The phrase,

"Let's get some drinks" is perhaps the greatest pickup line in the world. Works on all ages, in all situations.

She's underage or doesn't like alcohol? "Yeah, I meant we can grab some coffee or tea."

Bars are closed, or no coffee or tea shop? "Yeah, I know a great place to get some after-hour drinks." (Take her back to your place.)

She's underage but wants alcohol anyways? Take her back to your place.

Seriously the words "Let's get some drinks," have been said by me for ALMOST every single one of my bangs. It gets women to follow you.