Post: #51

(10-02-2012 01:14 PM)Fisto Wrote:  

(10-02-2012 01:00 PM)Mr.Wynn Wrote:  yeah as a black male i can confirm this is true. around the end of 2008 i created a pof profile. we all know pof is predominantly white. I could hardly get anybody to respond & i'm not a bad lookin dude either. In around a 3 year period of gettin on there on & off i only successfully pulled & fucked 2 hispanic broads & both of them were overweight tho (although the 2nd one was a real freak). I didn't come off as the ghetto stereotype of a black male in my pictures or description. the white broads wouldn't give me the time of day for the most part & the black women seemed to be into white dudes or just didn't wanna cooperate. it got to the point to where i just decided to delete the damn thing a couple of months ago but it wouldn't let me, i could only "hide" my profile. if i want any kind of success online i have to go to a predominantly black site or else get shitted on

It took you 3 years of failure to quit? I'm a white guy, consider myself to be very good looking and I quit pof after 3 months (did bang a lot of 6s) simply because bitches have attitudes on there. I also noticed a lot of profiles that said "Only like black men". I think this is a case of not being honest about your shortcomings more than it is racial discrimination.

I'm a black man and I approve of this message

Post: #52

(10-02-2012 01:19 PM)Sourcecode Wrote:  That being said..ive hooked up with girls on OKC that say they dont date black guys..but ive banged on date 1

Yup.

Post: #53

(11-16-2012 11:59 PM)Sourcecode Wrote:  

(11-16-2012 11:44 PM)Timoteo Wrote:  

(11-16-2012 11:22 PM)_GQ_ Wrote:  Trick I learned on OkC. When you're looking at a chick's profile, look at the questions she's answered. Then scroll down a bit and near the button of the page on the right there is a search box. Search 'racial' and it should show you their answer to the following question:

"Would you strongly prefer to go out with someone of your own skin color / racial background?"

I messaged each woman that answered 'no' to this question than I thought was attractive enough to fuck. I received very positive responses from the vast majority of them.

I do my pipelining on Tagged, and one of the methods I use to try to gauge whether or not someone will be receptive is to look at their friends list. If there are black guys on her friends list, I know she's open. I'll initiate contact with women that may not have any black guys on her friends list if there's something else in her profile that gives me an idea that she may be a cool person. Most of the time I just holler at whoever I think is attractive and see if I get a response regardless of any other indicators, but sometimes I do a little digging.

I answered that question myself a long time ago. and set it to "mandatory"
that way i can click for quesions i care about.

that being said.
ive hook lines chicks that put yes.
Some women just need a little more coaxing...
some are just scared to be seen dating other races in public.
Some just put yes because,putting no would be a turn off the white guys. ( same reason why lots of porn starts wont fuck blacks on camera)

That is what I do. I setup the racial preference, interracial marriage, and kid with another race (she needs to choose either yes or don't care) to mandatory. That way you can screen out the girls who don't like black guys. So if a girl is searching for guys with high match% and she clicks on your profile, you know she has no problem with black guys.

If a girl has any black guys in her pics, I automatically send her a message. If she can put a black guy in her profile, she is probably open to black guys.


As for your last point, I see it as the opposite. A lot of girls would put yes on dating other races or won't mention that they don't black guys on their profile because they don't want to appear like they are racist. They think that white alphas will judge them if they think she is racist.

Post: #54

So I was browsing OKC the other day and came across this white chick who said in her profile that she gets tons of messages from black guys and that she doesn't like black guys lol. Decent looking girl, would bang, so I thought I'd troll her (I'm mixed, not 100% black). I notice she has a couple of pics with those massive hooped ear rings, so I message her this:

Black guys like you because you wear those stupid hooped ear rings.

She messages back:

Thanks for the advice. You're cute by the way.

Then I tell her that apparently her 'I don't like black guys' stance doesn't apply to all black guys. She replied by telling me that she does prefer 'lighter' black guys but it's not a race thing. She just doesn't like the whole 'ghetto' vibe. I can see how this affects the chances of a lot of black guys online, women will automatically assume you're a thug/ghetto whereas IRL if you dress a certain way and approach with intelligence and are well spoken you'll be received much better. Pretty obvious stuff really, thought I'd share the anecdote anyway.

Post: #55

99.9% of them online white chix are negro curious.Their just scared of messing up their chances with their prince charming white knight that they believe they deserve.Catch one on the sly and speak to her right and the panties will fall regardless.I've witnessed the guilt that potential suitors lay on broads for dating outside of their race...shit gets fucking nasty.If you ever wanna find out if a dude is racist just mention that his girl has been with a brotha...It can get comical.She coulda been on 50 dicks before him and he is cool with it...if he finds out one of them was black all hell breaks loose.I like toying with closet racist for fun.

Post: #56

(11-28-2012 08:25 PM)TheMachinist Wrote:  If you ever wanna find out if a dude is racist just mention that his girl has been with a brotha...It can get comical.She coulda been on 50 dicks before him and he is cool with it...if he finds out one of them was black all hell breaks loose.

Man you just made me laugh. I thought I was the only one that noticed this!

Post: #57

(11-28-2012 07:57 PM)_GQ_ Wrote:  So I was browsing OKC the other day and came across this white chick who said in her profile that she gets tons of messages from black guys and that she doesn't like black guys lol. Decent looking girl, would bang, so I thought I'd troll her (I'm mixed, not 100% black). I notice she has a couple of pics with those massive hooped ear rings, so I message her this:

Black guys like you because you wear those stupid hooped ear rings.

I'm crying because I've been using that as a Nightstick-lover detector for years. No girl in 2012 is wearing gold hoop earrings unless she down with the dark.

In regards to people with hate for brothers I flip the script on white girls all the time. I'll talk up a white girl and if I sense things ain't 100% going smooth... I'll just tell her more or less:

"Your a real nice girl, but I gotta go here nice talking yo ya... to bad I'm not into White girls like that... or else id maybe give you a chance and chat with you longer"

Only once has a broad lashed out at me in vicious anger, lashing out at me as a bloody racist with cusswords being toss around like nobody's business. More times then not they are in shock and then try to get approval from me desperately. Saying dumb shit like "oh my mailman is black"... "oh I got a Black friend"... "Oh my ex was Black" yadddda yaddda.

Post: #58

(11-28-2012 09:13 PM)kosko Wrote:  

(11-28-2012 07:57 PM)_GQ_ Wrote:  So I was browsing OKC the other day and came across this white chick who said in her profile that she gets tons of messages from black guys and that she doesn't like black guys lol. Decent looking girl, would bang, so I thought I'd troll her (I'm mixed, not 100% black). I notice she has a couple of pics with those massive hooped ear rings, so I message her this:

Black guys like you because you wear those stupid hooped ear rings.

I'm crying because I've been using that as a Nightstick-lover detector for years. No girl in 2012 is wearing gold hoop earrings unless she down with the dark.

In regards to people with hate for brothers I flip the script on white girls all the time. I'll talk up a white girl and if I sense things ain't 100% going smooth... I'll just tell her more or less:

"Your a real nice girl, but I gotta go here nice talking yo ya... to bad I'm not into White girls like that... or else id maybe give you a chance and chat with you longer"

Only once has a broad lashed out at me in vicious anger, lashing out at me as a bloody racist with cusswords being toss around like nobody's business. More times then not they are in shock and then try to get approval from me desperately. Saying dumb shit like "oh my mailman is black"... "oh I got a Black friend"... "Oh my ex was Black" yadddda yaddda.

That's classic shit right there!!! I've always wanted to turn the tables on them "I don't date black guys" type sluts.

Post: #59

(11-28-2012 09:23 PM)TheMachinist Wrote:  That's classic shit right there!!! I've always wanted to turn the tables on them "I don't date black guys" type sluts.

Think Sarah Palin. If even she fucked a black dude...

http://theurbandaily.com/1532415/sarah-p...lenn-rice/

Some will claim that the story is fabricated, but I remember that she never denied it when the story broke. I'm assuming it happened.

Post: #60

(11-29-2012 12:52 AM)speakeasy Wrote:  

(11-28-2012 09:23 PM)TheMachinist Wrote:  That's classic shit right there!!! I've always wanted to turn the tables on them "I don't date black guys" type sluts.

Think Sarah Palin. If even she fucked a black dude...

http://theurbandaily.com/1532415/sarah-p...lenn-rice/

Some will claim that the story is fabricated, but I remember that she never denied it when the story broke. I'm assuming it happened.

Conservative girls are more into black guys than liberal girls. Ever notice how the South has more interracial marriage yet despite the fact that the Northeast has "tolerant" liberal girls, those girls never seriously date a black guy.

Post: #61

Chix that were raised "redneck" are fun to play with but it usually turns shitty at some point.The family pressures always get to em.

Post: #62

This thread does seem a little like BS. But as a Black male. I can attest that OKC isn't the best site for chicks. Even the Black women want white men. But I have gotten pussy from OKC.

I have no doubt that I probably had to jump through a 55 point checklist. Wait and be patience. Prove that I was culturally well rounded extra. But the goal is to meet her in person and then let nature take it's course.

*

I like to add that it seems as if some Black guys go beginning for non-black women. Pussy is Pussy. If you come off as desperate for a non-black chick. She is not going to be interested in you.

Post: #63

Sometimes they have an advantage. I have seen a black girl only once say something on her POF headline message how she wants some white cream, something silly like that. However, I have seen a lot of women from various races, mostly white who say only black men need to apply, or seeking my black prince etc. this is fine of course, but the advantage is that if you are black you know she is down for black boys. Has a preference for the chocolate. You won't waste your time messaging the attention whores anyways.

One poster posted how those big loop earrings are a sign that a girl digs the chocolate. Well, I can usually guess which non black girl is into black men only. They have a look where they may look ghetto, tattoos on their boobs/chest, over provocative pictures of their booties, the pulled stretched hair back. Stereotype yes, but after opening their profiles and reading their jargon, you get the hint at what they are seeking even if they don't explicitly say it.

As well, I feel that race is always a touchy subject for a few. I never said to myself a black girl won't date me because of my skin colour. I feel it may be other factors such as simple preference. Too often black guys spin the reason why white women won't date them on race. Or are too afraid. Yes, there is some truth to this, but it seems much more of a bigger issue.

I have black friends, dated black girls so I mean to say this with a positive note. On average, black men imho are more alpha than other races. This is both a positive and a negative. The alpha attitude has gotten a lot into trouble etc (aside from social issues) but their pride, and mentality has hurt them at times in general. Having higher testosterone.....is it a benefit or disadvantage? Well, with women the same alpha attitude has allowed them to do well, but at the same time caused a disadvantage for them. Have women become smarter to not date the alpha men who won't stick around or leave them either impregnated and poor or cheated on? Have black men created a negative stereotype that other black men with good intentions don't have a chance?

Trying to find reasons why women won't date you is useless. Their hamster will spin off a million illogical reasons. Especially online.

Post: #64

(11-29-2012 10:27 AM)jammer Wrote:  Conservative girls are more into black guys than liberal girls. Ever notice how the South has more interracial marriage yet despite the fact that the Northeast has "tolerant" liberal girls, those girls never seriously date a black guy.

I thought I was the only guy who noticed this. I live in a super-diverse, super liberal area on the west coast, and most of the "liberal" SWPL white chicks here might as well be followers of david duke. You almost never see them with anything other than (mostly hipster looking) white guys.

You might see them with the occasional black guy, but less often than you would expect for a heavily black area. And your right it doesn't look like they take it all that seriously.

I saw a study that showed democrats are almost as (implicitly) racist as republicans, with only a slight difference in percentage lower.

Alot of people are hiding behind "tolerance" bs.

Post: #65

(11-29-2012 06:50 PM)OkStudies Wrote:  I thought I was the only guy who noticed this. I live in a super-diverse, super liberal area on the west coast, and most of the "liberal" SWPL white chicks here might as well be followers of david duke. You almost never see them with anything other than (mostly hipster looking) white guys.

You might see them with the occasional black guy, but less often than you would expect for a heavily black area. And your right it doesn't look like they take it all that seriously.

I saw a study that showed democrats are almost as (implicitly) racist as republicans, with only a slight difference in percentage lower.

Alot of people are hiding behind "tolerance" bs.

Seems like that is because a lot of them are doing it to cleanse themselves of guilt, not necessarily b/c they actually give a shit.

Post: #66

(11-28-2012 08:25 PM)TheMachinist Wrote:  99.9% of them online white chix are negro curious.Their just scared of messing up their chances with their prince charming white knight that they believe they deserve.Catch one on the sly and speak to her right and the panties will fall regardless.I've witnessed the guilt that potential suitors lay on broads for dating outside of their race...shit gets fucking nasty.If you ever wanna find out if a dude is racist just mention that his girl has been with a brotha...It can get comical.She coulda been on 50 dicks before him and he is cool with it...if he finds out one of them was black all hell breaks loose.I like toying with closet racist for fun.

One thing I've always found interesting is how many black guys like to brag about getting a white chick, which probably plays into it more than you realize.

Not a lot of "don't kiss and tell" attitude, which no guy wants to hear about his girl banging someone else, so some of those instances you may just be assuming are race related, when they are more about his girl having been with some low rent dirt bag who has to tell the world about it.

Post: #67

do any other black guys feel weird about getting with chicks that have a preferable to preference for black guys.

almost a feeling that my game want as tight as i thought. one woman i hooked up with had a husband. i later learned she had two other black boyfriends.

one girl i stayed in bed with for a couple days straight is pretty strict on getting with black guys..checked her computer and found only interracial porn and black fantasy stuff.

even as far as Hungary. i one night standed a girl and found out she already had a black boyfriend.

none of these girls seemed like the stereotype black guy Hunter. but they all were easy lays.

more girls than not, have been chicks that seem to have a fetish for black guys and in just filling that fantasy.

Post: #68

It kinda creeps me out to know that a white chick "only" fucks black guys...and most of those types I've met might as well be black their damn self.Like close yours eyes or talk to em on the phone and you'd swear you were talking to a sister types. I had to tell a couple of em "If I wanted a ghetto ass hood rat I'da just got a black chick."

Post: #69

(11-29-2012 08:18 PM)Sourcecode Wrote:  do any other black guys feel weird about getting with chicks that have a preferable to preference for black guys.

almost a feeling that my game want as tight as i thought. one woman i hooked up with had a husband. i later learned she had two other black boyfriends.

one girl i stayed in bed with for a couple days straight is pretty strict on getting with black guys..checked her computer and found only interracial porn and black fantasy stuff.

even as far as Hungary. i one night standed a girl and found out she already had a black boyfriend.

none of these girls seemed like the stereotype black guy Hunter. but they all were easy lays.

more girls than not, have been chicks that seem to have a fetish for black guys and in just filling that fantasy.

I understand the appeal of gaming and banging a chick that might not normally be attracted to black guys, but I find more often than not the chicks that do ARE normally attracted to brothers, and in some case will ONLY date black guys. As long as I find her attractive, I don't give it much thought. I'm pipelining a Romanian chick that's living in Sicily right now. I saw her pics, and in some of the pics there was this cute little girl that was obviously half black. I knew right there what the deal was. She immediately gave me her email, and we while messaging back and forth she told me that the baby's father is a Black American. I've come across more than one German chick that not only date exclusively Black, but they had to be Black American servicemen. Some chicks just get locked onto a certain preference, and that's that.

Post: #70

I stay away from non-black chicks that sticky date black guys. They try too hard and act extra extra ghetto for no reason. I don't date ghetto black girls. I sure as hell ain't dating a non-black one.

Post: #71

One of my good friends always joked that he would only date white girls with the "Lauren Conroad swag" and never a big booty white chick since he figured they were ghetto and predisposed to only like black dudes. Funny to see that sentiment being echoed here amongst other black dudes more or less lol.

Post: #72

(11-29-2012 10:09 PM)iWin Wrote:  One of my good friends always joked that he would only date white girls with the "Lauren Conroad swag" and never a big booty white chick since he figured they were ghetto and predisposed to only like black dudes. Funny to see that sentiment being echoed here amongst other black dudes more or less lol.

Don't get me wrong,if Ice T's wife Coco showed up at my door Im gonna dick her down but I wouldn't holler at her unless she thru herself at me.

Post: #73

(11-29-2012 08:41 PM)TheMachinist Wrote:  Like close yours eyes or talk to em on the phone and you'd swear you were talking to a sister types. I had to tell a couple of em "If I wanted a ghetto ass hood rat I'da just got a black chick."

some just get it into their heads that theyre somehow black by injection

Post: #74

At the end of the day I just like chicks that are comfortable in their OWN skin.

Post: #75

I agree with this. I have white women checking me out everywhere I go (I actually look like a model) but get few responses on OKC. (In fact, I get few responses from black women on OKC, though some (usually not good looking) do initiate communication.) Maybe my pics aren't that great, but I doubt that's the only factor.