Post: #1

I'm not a guy that has any qualms about cheating. I'm feeling that dry streak from being cooped up in a hotel in Riyadh. Plus, having a devout Muslim girlfriend that's only gone as far as kissing isn't helping my situation.

But, last Thursday, I hit up an embassy party that was off the chain. The big problem was that I had a lot of her friends there. Somewhere down the line, I started getting a good vibe with a tight-bodied South African chick, which I'd give about 6.5-7. I started giving her shit with our conversation with her playfully hitting me before I drag her out to the dance floor to see what she's working with. That sexual tension was just there while I was just feeling up her body and she pressed against me. When I stepped out, she practically commanded me to get her phone number and e-mail. As I started holding her close after getting her number, one of her friends came out of nowhere and said, "You know he has a girlfriend, right?"

I wanted to slap that bitch so hard for cockblocking me like that. I knew if I could have gotten us out of there, I could have banged. In this situation, how would you have deflected that and continued running your game?

Post: #2

look up DATING DRAMA in my signature. bare in mind that the delivery of that bullshit is KEY KEY KEY. it's not like you're just giving her excuses looking like a statue (ex: "it's not true she's lying"), no, gotta be commited in what you say and hit on her emotional side. that's the gist of the attitude you can take (or not).

so i'd respond to that cockblock loud enough so that SA chick could hear: "yeah? so you know that we hate each other now, right? i fucking can't take it anymore with her. i'm so emotionally fucked i have no idea what to do with her. and here i am taking to that sweet girl who made me forget about the world for few minutes. am i suppose to be sorry? fuck no! she's so nice. what, i don't deserve to talk to nice people anymore? fuck you! who the fuck you think you are?!

to the girl: i'm sorry for that scene, i enjoyed so much talking to you, you're so nice and cool, i think i could open up to you so easily..

and when that cockblock would told "my GF" what i told her and my GF would come at me i'd add even more bullshit to the mix and make it more crazy... "what? so now you believe some girl who is just fucking jealous that we are so nice couple? can't you see that she will tell you anything to breakus down? how can you not see it it's so obvious. i should just fuck her for 2 minutes and leave her on the floor like a thrash for that, that would teach her a lesson. what a bitch! yeah i was talking to that girl yesterday so what? look, if i saw you with you guy friends somewhere i wouldn't make a scene or anything. do you even trust me at all? blablabla.."

in case of another confrontations, you simply push it farther and farther. it can create so much drama, jealosy plotlines and conspiracy with different girls it's crazy, there's no limit to it. but it has to be delivered in a way to provoke different emotions (jealousy, insecurities, i love you i hate her, i love her i hate you, i can't be with you, i can open up with you, vulnerabilities, etc) so the overall frame is to keep the fairy tail alive and possible. yeah i know..

Post: #3

I'm not sure about the comeback to be honest.
I'd just play it cool and be like "You think I have a girlfriend? She's my tutor (or family friend, or something like that). You must be mistaken."

Or something like "What's the problem?"

This looks really good though.

Quote:so i'd respond to that cockblock loud enough so that SA chick could hear: "yeah? so you know that we hate each other now, right? i fucking can't take it anymore with her. i'm so emotionally fucked i have no idea what to do with her. and here i am taking to that sweet girl who made me forget about the world for few minutes. am i suppose to be sorry? fuck no! she's so nice. what, i don't deserve to talk to nice people anymore? fuck you! who the fuck you think you are?!

Post: #4

I'd go with agree & amplify:
"Actually I have 99, and if you're a good girl, you can be the 100th."

Post: #5

Just tell her the truth. Yes, I have a girlfriend. I do it all the time in the DR and most girls don't care. Actually, I haven't had one girl that cared.

Post: #6

Lose the girlfriend

Post: #7

"Her? It's complicated."

Post: #8

This is actually a great fucking AMOG technique. Used it last night kind of accidentally. Last night I saw this guy who stole a girl away from me last week & he was talking to a very pretty blonde. I opened the blonde with "What's your favorite color?" & positioned myself between the girl and guy. Then I twisted her so I shut the guy out of the set.

I then asked her, "How the fuck do you know this dude?" She goes, "I'm his girlfriend." I reply, "no you're not, he's with a different girl every night." She told the guy that I said that and oh man he got pissed & told me, "How you gonna say? ArgghH!!!"

I left the set after that, but came to the conclusion that this is a great technique to add to one's toolbox to AMOG another guy. Another good technique is telling the girl that the other guy gave another girl herpes or another STD.

Ahahaha, the game is vicious man.

Post: #9

(09-21-2012 08:57 AM)patron Wrote:  Just tell her the truth. Yes, I have a girlfriend. I do it all the time in the DR and most girls don't care. Actually, I haven't had one girl that cared.

I think it depends which continents/country you're in (couldn't tell the OP's location from his profile/avatar); in Latin America and EE I think you're absolutely right, in North America, Europe, East Asia, Australia? Not so sure…

Post: #10

(09-22-2012 09:53 AM)HiFlo Wrote:  This is actually a great fucking AMOG technique. Used it last night kind of accidentally. Last night I saw this guy who stole a girl away from me last week & he was talking to a very pretty blonde. I opened the blonde with "What's your favorite color?" & positioned myself between the girl and guy. Then I twisted her so I shut the guy out of the set.

I then asked her, "How the fuck do you know this dude?" She goes, "I'm his girlfriend." I reply, "no you're not, he's with a different girl every night." She told the guy that I said that and oh man he got pissed & told me, "How you gonna say? ArgghH!!!"

I left the set after that, but came to the conclusion that this is a great technique to add to one's toolbox to AMOG another guy. Another good technique is telling the girl that the other guy gave another girl herpes or another STD.

Ahahaha, the game is vicious man.

Post: #11

(09-21-2012 09:05 PM)EisenBarde Wrote:  "Her? It's complicated."

I'd go with this, or maybe "Yeah, I have a whole harem waiting for me."

Post: #12

(09-22-2012 07:53 PM)seeker04542 Wrote:  

(09-21-2012 08:57 AM)patron Wrote:  Just tell her the truth. Yes, I have a girlfriend. I do it all the time in the DR and most girls don't care. Actually, I haven't had one girl that cared.

I think it depends which continents/country you're in (couldn't tell the OP's location from his profile/avatar); in Latin America and EE I think you're absolutely right, in North America, Europe, East Asia, Australia? Not so sure…

He's in Saudi Arabia. I am not sure how to handle that one..some cultures need a certain tweak.

Maybe he can say, yes I have many girlfriends, some cook for me, some help me to massage my shoulders blah blah..
Maybe some of the top tier cats can chime in.

I am guessing when you say South African chick you mean the black one? Or is it the white one? If she is black, she probably has higher interest in you (you are Arabian looking or white) and you can get away with the player impression.

Post: #13

XXL Wrote:look up DATING DRAMA in my signature. bare in mind that the delivery of that bullshit is KEY KEY KEY. it's not like you're just giving her excuses looking like a statue (ex: "it's not true she's lying"), no, gotta be commited in what you say and hit on her emotional side. that's the gist of the attitude you can take (or not).

so i'd respond to that cockblock loud enough so that SA chick could hear: "yeah? so you know that we hate each other now, right? i fucking can't take it anymore with her. i'm so emotionally fucked i have no idea what to do with her. and here i am taking to that sweet girl who made me forget about the world for few minutes. am i suppose to be sorry? fuck no! she's so nice. what, i don't deserve to talk to nice people anymore? fuck you! who the fuck you think you are?!

to the girl: i'm sorry for that scene, i enjoyed so much talking to you, you're so nice and cool, i think i could open up to you so easily..

and when that cockblock would told "my GF" what i told her and my GF would come at me i'd add even more bullshit to the mix and make it more crazy... "what? so now you believe some girl who is just fucking jealous that we are so nice couple? can't you see that she will tell you anything to breakus down? how can you not see it it's so obvious. i should just fuck her for 2 minutes and leave her on the floor like a thrash for that, that would teach her a lesson. what a bitch! yeah i was talking to that girl yesterday so what? look, if i saw you with you guy friends somewhere i wouldn't make a scene or anything. do you even trust me at all? blablabla.."

in case of another confrontations, you simply push it farther and farther. it can create so much drama, jealosy plotlines and conspiracy with different girls it's crazy, there's no limit to it. but it has to be delivered in a way to provoke different emotions (jealousy, insecurities, i love you i hate her, i love her i hate you, i can't be with you, i can open up with you, vulnerabilities, etc) so the overall frame is to keep the fairy tail alive and possible. yeah i know..

That's absolutely insane.....and I love it. I think with my current personality, I wouldn't be able to pull it off at this stage. Or at least not yet. Should be good to use in the future though once I get a lot better at game.

Takahashiryu Wrote:I'd go with agree & amplify:
"Actually I have 99, and if you're a good girl, you can be the 100th."

Sounds like more along the lines of what I'd say. Sarcasm mixed with playfulness is always a good combination.

patron Wrote:Just tell her the truth. Yes, I have a girlfriend. I do it all the time in the DR and most girls don't care. Actually, I haven't had one girl that cared.

This is what I actually did. Once the friend said that I have a girlfriend, I ended up saying that I do. But, I ejected right after the comment just because I didn't know how to keep pushing through without her friend guarding her or the potential of the rest of my girlfriend's friend to try to step in there.

thedude3737 Wrote:Lose the girlfriend

Eventually. After the way she had disrespected and emasculated me as a man before we started dating, I'm gonna end up dumping her. I'm still trying to figure out how she crept back into my life after I dumped her ass out of my life the first time around.

HiFlo Wrote:This is actually a great fucking AMOG technique. Used it last night kind of accidentally. Last night I saw this guy who stole a girl away from me last week & he was talking to a very pretty blonde. I opened the blonde with "What's your favorite color?" & positioned myself between the girl and guy. Then I twisted her so I shut the guy out of the set.

I then asked her, "How the fuck do you know this dude?" She goes, "I'm his girlfriend." I reply, "no you're not, he's with a different girl every night." She told the guy that I said that and oh man he got pissed & told me, "How you gonna say? ArgghH!!!"

I left the set after that, but came to the conclusion that this is a great technique to add to one's toolbox to AMOG another guy. Another good technique is telling the girl that the other guy gave another girl herpes or another STD.

Ahahaha, the game is vicious man.

Holy fuck, that would be amazing. Just don't be the one caught off-guard like I was. lol

Quote:

Quote:EisenBarde Wrote:
"Her? It's complicated."

Handsome Creepy Eel Wrote:
I'd go with this, or maybe "Yeah, I have a whole harem waiting for me."

Once again, I can't figure out why I didn't think of any of this when this happened. Another note taken down.

Moma Wrote:He's in Saudi Arabia. I am not sure how to handle that one..some cultures need a certain tweak.

Maybe he can say, yes I have many girlfriends, some cook for me, some help me to massage my shoulders blah blah..
Maybe some of the top tier cats can chime in.

I am guessing when you say South African chick you mean the black one? Or is it the white one? If she is black, she probably has higher interest in you (you are Arabian looking or white) and you can get away with the player impression.

I'm just a regular African-American expat just trying to get some pussy on the side in this crazy ass place. Certain tweak on culture just depends on where a person comes from and how they're raised, from what I believe. Now, if I can bang out a Saudi chick, that'd be great.

Your saying does fit in with the whole thing of being able to have four wives.

Thanks for your input, guys. I'm kind of kicking myself for not really thinking on the spot like I was supposed to. Just another thing I need to be prepared for out in the field. Always another weekend to hunt for some new pussy and get fucked up in Riyadh.

Post: #14

(09-22-2012 09:53 AM)HiFlo Wrote:  This is actually a great fucking AMOG technique. Used it last night kind of accidentally. Last night I saw this guy who stole a girl away from me last week & he was talking to a very pretty blonde. I opened the blonde with "What's your favorite color?" & positioned myself between the girl and guy. Then I twisted her so I shut the guy out of the set.

I then asked her, "How the fuck do you know this dude?" She goes, "I'm his girlfriend." I reply, "no you're not, he's with a different girl every night." She told the guy that I said that and oh man he got pissed & told me, "How you gonna say? ArgghH!!!"

I left the set after that, but came to the conclusion that this is a great technique to add to one's toolbox to AMOG another guy. Another good technique is telling the girl that the other guy gave another girl herpes or another STD.

Ahahaha, the game is vicious man.

You can't say it directly. You have to insinuate it and let the hamster wheel spin

Post: #15

(09-24-2012 01:27 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  

(09-22-2012 09:53 AM)HiFlo Wrote:  This is actually a great fucking AMOG technique. Used it last night kind of accidentally. Last night I saw this guy who stole a girl away from me last week & he was talking to a very pretty blonde. I opened the blonde with "What's your favorite color?" & positioned myself between the girl and guy. Then I twisted her so I shut the guy out of the set.

I then asked her, "How the fuck do you know this dude?" She goes, "I'm his girlfriend." I reply, "no you're not, he's with a different girl every night." She told the guy that I said that and oh man he got pissed & told me, "How you gonna say? ArgghH!!!"

I left the set after that, but came to the conclusion that this is a great technique to add to one's toolbox to AMOG another guy. Another good technique is telling the girl that the other guy gave another girl herpes or another STD.

Ahahaha, the game is vicious man.

You can't say it directly. You have to insinuate it and let the hamster wheel spin

If you or anyone else pulled this shit on me in my neck of the woods, knowing the staff, I'd have them throw you out of the venue. This guy sound like he has some solid game if he "stole" some hot chick from you, and is there again with another hot girl. Why AMOG him for the fuck of it? I can't stand this type of counterproductive cockblocking that gets both of you nowhere. Not only that, people remember this shit. It WILL come back to bite you, especially if its a place you frequent. Its time that could be better spent:
A) befriending him, getting in his social circle and banging the level of chicks he's banging
B) Gaming other girls

Post: #16

A lot of girls in NYC actually get turned on by the idea that you are a player. They think it's OK to fuck you because you are part of the "secret society" and you don't count as boyf material.

Post: #17

(09-24-2012 02:39 PM)rationalize_this Wrote:  If you or anyone else pulled this shit on me in my neck of the woods, knowing the staff, I'd have them throw you out of the venue. This guy sound like he has some solid game if he "stole" some hot chick from you, and is there again with another hot girl. Why AMOG him for the fuck of it? I can't stand this type of counterproductive cockblocking that gets both of you nowhere. Not only that, people remember this shit. It WILL come back to bite you, especially if its a place you frequent. Its time that could be better spent:
A) befriending him, getting in his social circle and banging the level of chicks he's banging
B) Gaming other girls

Cause it's fun to do, asshole. What goes around comes around. He cockblocked me like a total doucebag, the next weekend I cockblock him.

I don't need to hear this "be a better man and befriend him instead" bullshit from you. LOL. It sounds like you think 'the game' is a nice play where other players respect other players and let them all pass around girls to each other. You're high man. The game is a dog-eat-dog world.

Post: #18

(09-24-2012 03:41 PM)HiFlo Wrote:  

(09-24-2012 02:39 PM)rationalize_this Wrote:  If you or anyone else pulled this shit on me in my neck of the woods, knowing the staff, I'd have them throw you out of the venue. This guy sound like he has some solid game if he "stole" some hot chick from you, and is there again with another hot girl. Why AMOG him for the fuck of it? I can't stand this type of counterproductive cockblocking that gets both of you nowhere. Not only that, people remember this shit. It WILL come back to bite you, especially if its a place you frequent. Its time that could be better spent:
A) befriending him, getting in his social circle and banging the level of chicks he's banging
B) Gaming other girls

Cause it's fun to do, asshole. What goes around comes around. He cockblocked me like a total doucebag, the next weekend I cockblock him.

I don't need to hear this "be a better man and befriend him instead" bullshit from you. LOL. It sounds like you think 'the game' is a nice play where other players respect other players and let them all pass around girls to each other. You're high man. The game is a dog-eat-dog world.

No need to call me an asshole. I'd rather put my energy into more productive endeavors. Maybe its been awhile since i've been "cockblocked like a total douchebag", but by no means do I think the game is some utopia of hot girls that are perpetually passed around by the top players. (That was my fraternity in college). I just see it as passive agressive, why not confront the cockblocker then and there when it happened instead of waiting a week to retaliate. No way I would that shit fly on the spot. Elmech probably would have laid the guy out.

Post: #19

(09-24-2012 02:43 PM)soup Wrote:  A lot of girls in NYC actually get turned on by the idea that you are a player. They think it's OK to fuck you because you are part of the "secret society" and you don't count as boyf material.

Probably explains why NYC is my poosy paradise. I can't remember the last time I was approached in Miami, in NYC, multiple times per night. Can't wait to take a break from Miami and spend 2 weeks there next week.

Post: #20

(09-24-2012 04:20 PM)rationalize_this Wrote:  [quote='HiFlo' pid='274345' dateline='1348519304']
[quote='rationalize_this' pid='274302' dateline='1348515541']
I just see it as passive agressive, why not confront the cockblocker then and there when it happened instead of waiting a week to retaliate. No way I would that shit fly on the spot. Elmech probably would have laid the guy out.

Because getting physical in public is fucking stupid, will get you kicked out of the bar, and even perhaps get you arrested. Psychological 'damage' takes far more cunning and leaves a longer sting than throwing a fucking punch.

Not to mention getting in a fight over a girl you've been flirting to for 15 minutes is just flat-out psychotic, even by redneck standards.

Post: #21

(09-24-2012 04:40 PM)HiFlo Wrote:  

(09-24-2012 04:20 PM)rationalize_this Wrote:  [quote='HiFlo' pid='274345' dateline='1348519304']
[quote='rationalize_this' pid='274302' dateline='1348515541']
I just see it as passive agressive, why not confront the cockblocker then and there when it happened instead of waiting a week to retaliate. No way I would that shit fly on the spot. Elmech probably would have laid the guy out.

Because getting physical in public is fucking stupid, will get you kicked out of the bar, and even perhaps get you arrested. Psychological 'damage' takes far more cunning and leaves a longer sting than throwing a fucking punch.

Not to mention getting in a fight over a girl you've been flirting to for 15 minutes is just flat-out psychotic, even by redneck standards.

I really don't like your tone and attitude. I have a differing point of view on how to handle a situation, and you call me an asshole. Ad hominem attack very similar to how females debate? Most of your posts recently have a plethora of foul language and this underlying theme.

First, you're not doing much psychological damage to a guy by stirring the pot with the girl he's with. Second, I never said I'd get physical with the guy, thats an Emech move. If you actually read my above post i would just tell the bartender to get the bouncer/hostess that I know personally, and tell them this clown is harassing my girl, and have her corroborate. I probably don't get cockblocked like this because I don't frequent venues containing said douchebags, I dress sharp, I'm a regular so I get treated with respect, and my game is tight enough where interlopers like you mentioned would most likely be dismissed by the girl herself, or made fun of by me in a condescending way. Its amazing what tipping well, and just bantering and being polite with the staff and people around you can get you.

Post: #22

Emech does not punch dudes for cockblocking but I would epic cockblock the dude back every time I see him for the rest of his life until he learns and apologizes or tries to play bad-ass and then gets it.

Post: #23

(09-24-2012 05:03 PM)rationalize_this Wrote:  I really don't like your tone and attitude. I have a differing point of view on how to handle a situation, and you call me an asshole. Ad hominem attack very similar to how females debate?

I hope you're kidding about this 'tone' bullshit. Your very first reply to me was

Quote:If you pulled this shit on me in my neck of the woods I'd have them throw you out of the venue.

which is basically a big 'fuck you' to me. Isn't getting people thrown out of a venue something weaselly that girls do anyway rather than be direct and up front? Not a tactic used by someone who has game and can handle and/or defuse any situation verbally without resorting to weaselly tactics....

Post: #24

(09-24-2012 05:17 PM)HiFlo Wrote:  

(09-24-2012 05:03 PM)rationalize_this Wrote:  I really don't like your tone and attitude. I have a differing point of view on how to handle a situation, and you call me an asshole. Ad hominem attack very similar to how females debate?

I hope you're kidding about this 'tone' bullshit. Your very first reply to me was

Quote:If you pulled this shit on me in my neck of the woods I'd have them throw you out of the venue.

which is basically a big 'fuck you' to me. Isn't getting people thrown out of a venue something weaselly that girls do anyway rather than be direct and up front? Not a tactic used by someone who has game and can handle and/or defuse any situation verbally without resorting to weaselly tactics....

Its not a fuck you to you at all. Its simply how I would handle someone purposely trying to stir the pot if the reasonably wouldn't back off after obvious clues from myself. Obviously this would be plan C after trying reasonably to defuse the situation, and I don't see it as weaselly at all. The guy is trying to snake my girl, thats even LOWER value in my opinion. IF anything, the guy getting thrown out or told by the staff to cool it would get the girl wet depending on how you see it. But if you can reasonably defuse, which based upon the intent you approached with, I doubt would have been possible, then it could have the same effect on the girl.

hahaha @emech referring to himself in third person.

Post: #25

He's right! Asking staff to solve your beefs is very beta. You should be able to act on your instincts and the staff will back you but when the time comes if they respect you.

Although they seem to White Knight way too much. I tend to fight with bar staff if I don't know them personally.