Post: #126

(05-10-2012 02:29 AM)NewToPUA Wrote:  After having been here for 2 weeks I have to agree. If you want to get laid dates are BY FAR the best option. I am 4/6 on dates and one of them was a virgin (which made it a lot more difficult). When going out at night its significantly more difficult. It is possible, but expect to work throughout the night and you probably will not succeed until an after-hours joint. For one, all the girls travel in packs - many times with other guys. So even if you get into the group its hard to get them to leave. Also, not all girls here are receptive to foreigners so you may get blown out of sets. Finally, although it is not as expensive as where I am used to going out, it definitely adds up going out here. If you buy bottle service everywhere and drinks it can get expensive going out. Also beyond just the $ involved, its incredibly draining physically. Being out until 5-6 am and hooking up until 8 am is hard on the body.

Dates are cake because you already know they are someone interested in you. You can screen your dates to know they speak decent english and like foreigners. Also, they are alone, so its easier to get them back to your place and seal the deal.

How did you get these dates in the first place? Did you work from the telephone numbers of girls you met in the nightclubs?

Post: #127

AlphaTravel: It seems you've been exploring far off the tourist track. What was Parking Toy like? If you're willing to go to Lard Prao, might as well also check out Sala Sod in Rangsit. The TU Rangsit campus students sometimes go there. It's roughly translated as "losing your singleness".

Also, what's your street and mall game like?

CrackerJack: I think that's the point of Rio's routine, to screen for girls who aren't really bound by custom and are more likely to be DTF. Anyway, that's still a good thing to keep in mind, so if the girl pulls away or doesn't want to touch your head it doesn't necessarily mean she's not interested. However she would most likely be coy and smiling about it, not stand offish like she's not interested. Also, many girls might be more lax about it since you're a farang so she might think these little bits don't apply. About the feet thing it's considered rude if you use your feet to point to something instead of using your finger, especially when it's a person. Generally men sitting with their ankle crossed 90 degree placed on their knee is fine as long as their foot is not close to the person sitting next to them, which is probably the case for the BTS. However it's not proper for girls to do so, although sitting cross legged thigh over thigh in an X shape is fine.

Post: #128

(05-10-2012 05:31 AM)the_conductor Wrote:  CrackerJack: I think that's the point of Rio's routine, to screen for girls who aren't really bound by custom and are more likely to be DTF. Anyway, that's still a good thing to keep in mind, so if the girl pulls away or doesn't want to touch your head it doesn't necessarily mean she's not interested. However she would most likely be coy and smiling about it, not stand offish like she's not interested. Also, many girls might be more lax about it since you're a farang so she might think these little bits don't apply.

How rude would you say it is for me to have a girl touch my head, or for me to put my hat on hers? I haven't had a girl seem offended in the slightest by doing it. Is it still considered very rude in Thailand? Or is it more of an old tradition? In the US it is/was considered rude to wear a hat indoors. However, almost no one under 40 would think of it as rude. Is the touching of the head thing similar here in Thailand?

Post: #129

Fuuuuuck i guess im flying to BKK tomorrow, will be there around 1

Really i was gonna just go back to China an then go back to the states an get ready for south america... but while im so close an other members from here are there, seems nows the time to go..

where should i stay when i get there till i find a apartment or some other nice type of monthly rental.

Post: #130

(05-10-2012 12:26 PM)Cr33pin Wrote:  Fuuuuuck i guess im flying to BKK tomorrow, will be there around 1

Really i was gonna just go back to China an then go back to the states an get ready for south america... but while im so close an other members from here are there, seems nows the time to go..

where should i stay when i get there till i find a apartment or some other nice type of monthly rental.

Hey friend, what made you leave the Philippines so fast. Thought you were staying there a couple of months and in Davao too. Im heading to Makati, Manila next week for a month after being in Saigon, Vietnam 7 weeks. Im getting a bit "Asianed Out" so I'm looking forward to returning to South America. In July i will be Colombia, so let me know if we can have a beer there like we did in Davao. Take care

Post: #131

I had to come to manila to fix my passport problem an i dont feel like flying back to davao. i just had the shit fined out of me to at immigration. the girls are hotter in Manila!! but ever taxi driver just about has tried to fuck me so far.. no my meter dont work, 800 pesos... or oh traffic heavy 600 pesos... i started telling them to suck my huge white dick.

damn your gonna be here next week? i thought about staying here for a month. i sure cant find any jun-n-dell type apartments here... shit i may have stuck around if i knew you were comming. i gamed a hot german chick today an a few girls at the mall yesterday (i just got here yesterday afternoon)

you will like here im pretty sure, alot more hectic then davao but the girls i have seen are alot hotter

Post: #132

Quote:What was Parking Toy like?

I've been a few times and it's good. Depending on the band can be pretty wild. Pretty far away though.

Quote:might as well also check out Sala Sod in Rangsit. The TU Rangsit campus students sometimes go there. It's roughly translated as "losing your singleness".

What is Sala Sod?

Quote:Also, what's your street and mall game like?

Needs improvement for sure. I need to be more proactive and hesitate less, be more quick off the mark as I just don't come up with a reason quick enough to stop a girl and talk to her most of the time and within a split second the opportunity is lost. I do OK sometimes but I've lost my mojo a bit recently, there was a time when I was stopping almost any girl I liked the look of in the street and finding a reason to talk to her. I seem to be making up too many excuses recently.

Post: #133

I am sure that you guys have your own routines to transition the date to your place, but I figured I would share something that has had a 100% hit rate for me so far (the last three nights).

What I have been doing is towards the end of the date I suggest we go to another venue/club. Every girl that I have been with says rca (although other places would work too) and I agree and say we should go there. But then I mention that I do not have my checked bottle card with me and we should go to my apartment to get it (you could also say cash or anything else). When we get to my place I say we should have a few drinks and I turn on a movie. And then we forget about going to RCA .

The best part about this one is I do not really need to escalate all that much before I get to my place - and since my game is not very tight there are fewer opportunities for me to screw up. Also, it requires minimal effort and cash because I only need to work on the girls for like 1-2 hours at the restaurant.

Post: #134

(05-10-2012 05:02 AM)the_conductor Wrote:  How did you get these dates in the first place? Did you work from the telephone numbers of girls you met in the nightclubs?

Some from night clubs. Some I met during the day. Mostly though I am meeting them through online dating.

Post: #135

All I do is make sure the date is near my hotel and we spend the night bar crawling round the area to all the good places, I take her into a few bars where I know the staff and get a warm welcome, and make sure to always be heading in the direction of my hotel, last drink of the night is always right next door in a 24hr bar and restaurant (they don't know my hotel is there yet). Works every time. I don't even bother with the suggestions of clubs and definitely don't ever leave the area my hotel is in, gives her more opportunity to go home.

Post: #136

I didn't make it to the airport in time for the bkk flight so now I'm in china :/

Post: #137

Because of being sick I cancelled dates the past few days so decided tonight even though I'm not 100% I was going out anyway. I called one girl who had said she earlier in the week that she wanted to go out tonight and she fobbed me off with an excuse. I then mass texted 5 other girls, 2 did not answer, 2 were already going out with friends and said I could join (I didn't feel like it would work in my favour if I did) and one said she would go out tomorrow and I could meet her and friends. So I ended up with no date. This is not normal! If I want to go out I can always get someone to join me. One of the girls who didn't reply texts me at midnight with some nonsensical reply and when I try and call her doesn't answer.

I need to shake whatever it is that's making me ill by tomorrow as I want to get out there and make the most of my limited time left in Thailand. It seems to come and go, I was convinced I was all good this morning but I keep feeling strange.

I must have ran out of luck in Thailand or something.

Post: #138

(05-10-2012 11:21 AM)RioNomad Wrote:  

(05-10-2012 05:31 AM)the_conductor Wrote:  CrackerJack: I think that's the point of Rio's routine, to screen for girls who aren't really bound by custom and are more likely to be DTF. Anyway, that's still a good thing to keep in mind, so if the girl pulls away or doesn't want to touch your head it doesn't necessarily mean she's not interested. However she would most likely be coy and smiling about it, not stand offish like she's not interested. Also, many girls might be more lax about it since you're a farang so she might think these little bits don't apply.

How rude would you say it is for me to have a girl touch my head, or for me to put my hat on hers? I haven't had a girl seem offended in the slightest by doing it. Is it still considered very rude in Thailand? Or is it more of an old tradition? In the US it is/was considered rude to wear a hat indoors. However, almost no one under 40 would think of it as rude. Is the touching of the head thing similar here in Thailand?

I wouldn't really sweat it. According to tradition, the one whose head has been touched can be offended, which in this case is you so the girl might be afraid to offend you, but she probably understands that you're a farang and that you don't mind. For people roughly the same age who know each other, it's actually okay to touch each other's head, and you see school kids slapping each other on the bald part of their crew cut all the time, though it's still rude to do it to strangers. It's certainly still not acceptable to play with, ruffle the hair of, or slap an elder person's head though, as in Thai culture one should give respect to those who are quite older.

As for putting your hat on her head, that's perfectly okay. Just don't ruffle her head with your bare hands, and you'll be safe.

Post: #139

(05-10-2012 02:01 PM)AlphaTravel Wrote:  

Quote:What was Parking Toy like?

I've been a few times and it's good. Depending on the band can be pretty wild. Pretty far away though.

Quote:might as well also check out Sala Sod in Rangsit. The TU Rangsit campus students sometimes go there. It's roughly translated as "losing your singleness".

What is Sala Sod?

Quote:Also, what's your street and mall game like?

Needs improvement for sure. I need to be more proactive and hesitate less, be more quick off the mark as I just don't come up with a reason quick enough to stop a girl and talk to her most of the time and within a split second the opportunity is lost. I do OK sometimes but I've lost my mojo a bit recently, there was a time when I was stopping almost any girl I liked the look of in the street and finding a reason to talk to her. I seem to be making up too many excuses recently.

Sala Sod is a night club near T.U. in Rangsit, close to Phahonyothin road. It's a bit north of the old Don Mueang Airport.

I'm gonna start doing day game seriously too. Since you are so close have you tried going to T.U. Tha Prachan campus?

And what are your top spots day or night game for getting numbers to set up dates in the first place?

You might want to check that the aircon is clean and not blowing directly on you. There's a thread somewhere here mentioning that it's been giving a few members colds. You are leaving at the end of this month right?

Post: #140

(05-11-2012 01:39 PM)AlphaTravel Wrote:  Because of being sick I cancelled dates the past few days so decided tonight even though I'm not 100% I was going out anyway. I called one girl who had said she earlier in the week that she wanted to go out tonight and she fobbed me off with an excuse. I then mass texted 5 other girls, 2 did not answer, 2 were already going out with friends and said I could join (I didn't feel like it would work in my favour if I did) and one said she would go out tomorrow and I could meet her and friends. So I ended up with no date. This is not normal! If I want to go out I can always get someone to join me. One of the girls who didn't reply texts me at midnight with some nonsensical reply and when I try and call her doesn't answer.

I need to shake whatever it is that's making me ill by tomorrow as I want to get out there and make the most of my limited time left in Thailand. It seems to come and go, I was convinced I was all good this morning but I keep feeling strange.

I must have ran out of luck in Thailand or something.

Good to hear I am not the only one that deals with some flakiness. The first two dates I set up the girls at the last minute said they could not go (I think they may have just made up excuses). For that reason I have a number of girls that I am talking to and seeing what they are doing - so I can call them/text them in case my date flakes. Like last night a girl said she was tired and wanted to reschedule for tomorrow. Thankfully, I had been talking to another girl I already hooked up with so invited her over instead. We will see if she flakes again tonight. If she does will delete the number.

Post: #141

(05-11-2012 09:19 AM)Cr33pin Wrote:  I didn't make it to the airport in time for the bkk flight so now I'm in china :/

Man, you're a mess right now bro hah. Let me know if you are comin to BKK.

Post: #142

Quote:I'm gonna start doing day game seriously too. Since you are so close have you tried going to T.U. Tha Prachan campus?

I have not.

Quote:You might want to check that the aircon is clean and not blowing directly on you. There's a thread somewhere here mentioning that it's been giving a few members colds. You are leaving at the end of this month right?

Yeah the aircon in my current room blows directly onto the bed and there's no way to stop it, even by changing the fan swing it still blows on me. The only option is to turn it off. I still don't feel great today, I can't even pinpoint exactly what it is but just not 100%. Trying to get as much vitamins in me as I can today.

Post: #143

(05-12-2012 03:23 AM)RioNomad Wrote:  

(05-11-2012 09:19 AM)Cr33pin Wrote:  I didn't make it to the airport in time for the bkk flight so now I'm in china :/

Man, you're a mess right now bro hah. Let me know if you are comin to BKK.

i know bro!! i got 30 days left on my visa for china then i have to go somewhere so BKK is still on my radar...until then you keep training an gaming there for me ha

Post: #144

(05-12-2012 05:36 AM)Cr33pin Wrote:  i know bro!! i got 30 days left on my visa for china then i have to go somewhere so BKK is still on my radar...until then you keep training an gaming there for me ha

The seven stitches above my right eye are making those two significantly more difficult right now lol.

Post: #145

(05-12-2012 03:29 AM)AlphaTravel Wrote:  Yeah the aircon in my current room blows directly onto the bed and there's no way to stop it, even by changing the fan swing it still blows on me. The only option is to turn it off. I still don't feel great today, I can't even pinpoint exactly what it is but just not 100%. Trying to get as much vitamins in me as I can today.

Get creative. Paper + tape should be enough to redirect the airflow.

Post: #146

Good idea. Will give it a shot.

Post: #147

(05-12-2012 06:14 AM)RioNomad Wrote:  

(05-12-2012 05:36 AM)Cr33pin Wrote:  i know bro!! i got 30 days left on my visa for china then i have to go somewhere so BKK is still on my radar...until then you keep training an gaming there for me ha

The seven stitches above my right eye are making those two significantly more difficult right now lol.

Do you guys all work/train MMA? I bet you guys have quite a bit more aesthetics to work with haha.

Post: #148

Alpha, I read that if you have your aircon on too cold it can cause problems as well. I had my aircon cleaned, directed it away from my bed, and turned the temp up to 24-25 and have had no problems since then.

NewToPua: I train Brazilian Jiu Jitsu and have trained Western Boxing a bit in the past as well. I'm a hobbyist. I'm in decent shape, but no 6 pack or anything. It's a fun sport and has a ton of advantages, both mental and physical.

Post: #149

Do you guys ever have to deal with girls calling you a player or asking you how many girls you bring back? Its happened to me a few times now (usually i still fuck them) and I think last night its one major reason the girl would not have sex with me (I was too tired and drunk to push through it since it was 6am - and she claimed she works today and wanted to sleep). Once I brought her back she put on a show saying she did not want to be like all the other girls I brought back trying to avoid people/cameras and stuff. I lied and said she was the first girl I brought back but she did not believe me. Any advice on this obstacle?

Post: #150

Yeah pretty much every girl wants to know how many girlfriends I have, how many thai girls I've slept with, whether I bring girls back all the time etc. I don't lie about it, I often agree and exaggerate it and say I have a 100 girlfriends or just laugh it off. It's never stopped me from getting laid in the end.