Post: #7076

(09-30-2018 02:09 PM)Aviel Wrote:  Guys I recently started promoting for a club and matched with a girl that dances there. We never spoke, and she doesn’t know I promote there since I started very recently.

She doesn’t even know me.

How would you approach? She’s hot

walk up and introduce yourself. run game like normal.

Post: #7077

Ya I will do that next weekend. I chatted a bit on Tinder with her, but not sure to ask her out or wait till the weekend when we go to work

Post: #7078

Girls on Tinder you think I should ask them out on dates or invite them to my club?

Post: #7079

I've recently updated my photos and im getting some really solid matches, and they follow along the convos. But.... when it comes to ask for the number , or setting up a date , which I usually do in the first convo (ask for the number, and suggest that we will have a date soon) . They all flake and tell me that they dont know me well enought lol. Im just tired of talking about pointless stuff, or building rapport.

I mean after all im not asking for numbers in the fifth line...

I thought it may be a shittest, and i tried to push a bit, but no result, in one of them with a really hot polish i managed to put myself in a desperate position, so i ruined that match haha.

Anyway, those are my experiences after changing the photos (huge match boost) , but difficult to close numbers. A year ago even tho i had worse photos, it used to be easier to close numbers

So anyway my point is. WTF? do I talk abot with a girl for more than 2h to build rapport? Plus what if theres still a lot of time till weekend and we have agreed to a date. Do i go totally silent? That doesnt seem wise, but talking over bullshit with an unknown girl for a week doesnt seem to be wise

Post: #7080

In this article - there is a really good sentence:
"...Shocked, it then asked almost 10,000 people why they bothered using it (tinder). Only 4% said that their motivation was to find a relationship. The most common response? For confidence-boosting procrastination."
https://www.fashionbeans.com/content/how...likes-you/

An entire article is not bad at all.

Well defined. "Confidence-boosting procrastination" - that's what most women are doing on tinder.

Today one 25 y.old whom i planned to meet today, asked me, for a second time - "can we meet on other day?".
I responded -"no - i suggest you to ask some naive, stupid guys for this type of things".
..and deleted her.

Post: #7081

If it pique's anyone's interest, These guys show how Tinder swiping can be automated :

https://www.oscaralsing.com/automated-ti...elligence/

This guy details a step-by-step approach to do this by creating a model that learns the kind of girls you like:

https://github.com/jeffmli/TinderAutomation

Post: #7082

Seems pretty pointless for most people, I can swipe 400 chicks and only get 10 matches. You can always unmatch the fatties.

Post: #7083

(10-09-2018 04:39 PM)DJ-Matt Wrote:  Seems pretty pointless for most people, I can swipe 400 chicks and only get 10 matches. You can always unmatch the fatties.

The problem is that Tinder degrades your Elo score for autoswiping. This provides an option for autoswiping that bypasses their detection.

I used to use a software for this called Tinderbox, which then morphed into Bernie.ai, which then got shut down by Tinder (https://www.bernie.ai/). It didn't work well.

Post: #7084

i see Bernie.ai asks you to select 60 photos, in my view you need at least 10,000 photos to build properly accurate model

But great stuff on the whole

Post: #7085

(10-09-2018 06:35 AM)yang2287 Wrote:  If it pique's anyone's interest, These guys show how Tinder swiping can be automated :

https://www.oscaralsing.com/automated-ti...elligence/

This guy details a step-by-step approach to do this by creating a model that learns the kind of girls you like:

https://github.com/jeffmli/TinderAutomation

I laughed at "bae-ta mining" and "date-a mining", guy seems like a beauty that made this.

Post: #7086

Anyone successfully outsourcing Tinder? My assistant’s account got shut down almost immediately. Had him make an account and swipe 25 per day use the free superlikes.

Had a feeling it’d get blocked. I think we tried it a few years ago and same thing happened. As soon as he started getting matches and replying it got blocked. I gave up on the idea.

Only thing I can think of is we used the same 4 pictures as another account which I’m currently using. But we are in different countries, with different phone numbers, different Apple ID, etc.

Tinder’s software can’t be that sophisticated can it? However, I remember Badoo doing this years ago, too. If you got blocked once they saved metadata from your profile pics and blocked new accounts based on that.

Post: #7087

If you upgrade, they dont really care how many accounts you have.

Post: #7088

(10-11-2018 12:42 AM)Ten Feet Tall Right Now Wrote:  Anyone successfully outsourcing Tinder? My assistant’s account got shut down almost immediately. Had him make an account and swipe 25 per day use the free superlikes.

Had a feeling it’d get blocked. I think we tried it a few years ago and same thing happened. As soon as he started getting matches and replying it got blocked. I gave up on the idea.

Only thing I can think of is we used the same 4 pictures as another account which I’m currently using. But we are in different countries, with different phone numbers, different Apple ID, etc.

Tinder’s software can’t be that sophisticated can it? However, I remember Badoo doing this years ago, too. If you got blocked once they saved metadata from your profile pics and blocked new accounts based on that.

I run duplicate accounts on a free plan and have never had issues.

Post: #7089

If you haven't re-uploaded your photos since the app redesign, do so now. They changed the aspect ratio so any old photos look bad. Delete them all and re-upload.

Post: #7090

Was looking through old pictures on my phone and found some Tinder screenshots:

Early-Mid 2017: 5,000....6,000 matches before I deleted

This morning: 80

Same main picture.

Post: #7091

Tinder is garbage for most men

Post: #7092

(10-14-2018 09:23 AM)NextStop100 Wrote:  Was looking through old pictures on my phone and found some Tinder screenshots:

Early-Mid 2017: 5,000....6,000 matches before I deleted

This morning: 80

Same main picture.

I think were all just gonna have to wait for that new Facebook dating rollout and see what happens.

Maybe it will be better or will be worse but at least the cards in the deck will be reshuffled

Post: #7093

I just uninstalled this app and have felt overall better. I won't preach against tinder as it's given me a few quality bangs. But at this moment of my life I need to cold approach more and swipe less. I feel more manly without using that shit. Will probably use it again when Setting a trip to a different location to increase my chances, but to be honest I hate social media and dating apps. End of story.

Post: #7094

Only 2 days into my "gold" subscription and so far it's bullshit.

For those who don't know, the bonus you get for an extra $5 is you can see who likes you and instantly match with them.
That's all well and good but so far it's all people way too far away from me or uggos and fatasses.

Pretty much what I expected but figured it's worth the $15 to learn and report back here. I'll have a final update in 28 days when it's over.

Post: #7095

Gold is an absolute scam tbh.

Tinder’s heyday was 2013-2015. It’s shit now

Post: #7096

I still do pretty well with tinder but im also 220lbs and have shirtless pics. I don't even have professional pics though that will change shortly. if you don't like an adonis with your shirt off or john stamos in your shirt you probably should go back to the drawing board

Post: #7097

(10-14-2018 05:53 PM)Hacknmash123 Wrote:  Gold is an absolute scam tbh.

Tinder’s heyday was 2013-2015. It’s shit now

Gold has always been a waste of money. Plus is still worth it for most guys because it lets you swipe more.

However, even as the biggest proponent of Plus, I cancelled my subscription a few months back and have been running multiple duplicate non-Plus accounts and been doing well enough to survive (1 match a day on each account).

Post: #7098

When I moved here to Bulgaria a handful of years ago getting dates off dating websites (one or two local sites, a few international ones including OkCupid) was a very reliable process. I could count on an average of one new date per week, with an acceptable number of those leading to bangs or short relationships (eventually one led to my latest LTR that lasted a few years).

Back to dating now those old websites are fairly deserted here, Tinder not surprisingly seems to be where most have moved.
Lots of local girls of all types and in all age ranges (I'm over 40 and I've expanded the search range all the way to 40) but even dragging conversations out of my very unspectacular number of matches is like pulling teeth. None of the fun and flirty pre-date chats I had frequently some years ago, just women who can barely be bothered to write uninspired replies many hours later.

It looks like I have to brush up on my cold approach skills again, even for casual bangs.

Post: #7099

(10-15-2018 09:57 AM)corsega Wrote:  

(10-14-2018 05:53 PM)Hacknmash123 Wrote:  Gold is an absolute scam tbh.

Tinder’s heyday was 2013-2015. It’s shit now

Gold has always been a waste of money. Plus is still worth it for most guys because it lets you swipe more.

However, even as the biggest proponent of Plus, I cancelled my subscription a few months back and have been running multiple duplicate non-Plus accounts and been doing well enough to survive (1 match a day on each account).

Are you running the multiple accounts using several phone numbers or fb profiles?

Post: #7100

I have been off of tinder for a few weeks now, and have no plan of going back. The few girls that I hooked on there are now in the rotation, and I am focused on cold approach once more. I was getting absolutely sick of the fact that girls were using the app as an instagram farm/funnel where they simply would post on their profile that "I'm not on here much, follow me on instagram" with their username. I think we've found the source of the instagram bubble: thirsty guys on tinder.