Post: #26

is what she did shady or is this just what normal woman do to men. I feel like she is a sociopath and faked everything. no we didn't have sex but we did mess around but she would stop herself everytime. or would stop me from getting further.

Post: #27

If she shared a bed with you, then she was ready to be fucked.
Why didn't you fuck her ?

Post: #28

Read rationale male and read up on the forum. You're starting from zero.

Post: #29

dude I tried to fuck her multiple times she just wouldn't let me go that far. I fingered her and sucked on her titties but she would always pull my hand away from her pussy. she would nevvvvvver let me fuck only want to passionately make out.
we shared a bed over 15 times easily

Post: #30

Are you a troll? If not, then what exactly do you mean by 'would never let me to fuck her'? If you're fingering her and doing all that sort of thing, last thing you gotta to do is to listen whatever bullshit is coming off her mouth, you just need to get in there like the ruthless motherfucker you gotta to learn to be, She'll love you. If she genuinely resists after a few tries, Then you piss off and show her the door. Don't waste time on cock teasers.

Post: #31

she genuinely stopped me from doing it like pulled my hand away 3-4 times. she just wouldn't let me do it I tried multiple times to pull her pants off but she would hold them up I mean I was aggressive to the point right before basically forcing her. she just wouldn't let me do it man. I have the feeling she was abused before or something. I mean she comes from a very very dysfunctional family.

Post: #32

She's gone now, it doesn't matter. Focus on the future and move on.

Overanalysing one dysfunctional woman is a waste of your precious time.

Post: #33

(07-08-2018 07:45 PM)Mercenary Wrote:  If she shared a bed with you, then she was ready to be fucked.
Why didn't you fuck her ?

I didn't read your post OP but if what Mercenary wrote is what happened then what happened was that she gave you a shot to fuck her, to amalgamate your relationship, but you didn't pull the trigger so now she's not talking to you because she thinks you're a pussy.

It's happened to me also a few times. Girls will give you one shot, you take it or you don't but there usually wont be a second shot to take.

Post: #34

(07-08-2018 11:12 PM)CaptainChardonnay Wrote:  what happened was that she gave you a shot to fuck her, to amalgamate your relationship, but you didn't pull the trigger

Or she has deep-seated sexual hangups in which case the juice isn't worth the squeeze.

Post: #35

every shot I had to fuck her I tried dude. She would never let me and pull my hand away from her pussy even after I was rubbing her clit sucking her tits. i tried every single shot I had and she would not let Me. I think something traumatic happened happened to her maybe abused or something along those lines. She would only want to make out. She definitely knows im not a pussy. my buddy thinks she might have maybe an STD or maybe is just messed up emotionally to have sex with me. she had an ex she said he was a huge piece of shit one night drunk she told me then just stopped talking about it. This chick is an absolute mystery man. something happened in her life I'm thinking.

Post: #36

OP, you cared and she knew it. You gave enough of a shit to fight with her about her drunk driving, etc, and she's probably enough of a trainwreck that being cared about was something different and interesting for a few months. You routinely failed her shit test about sex by continuing to show her love and approval even though she doesn't bang, which proves how valuable she is to you and that she's in control. That is boring. She won the game and is now moving on.

Most guys are savvy enough to tell her to fuck off with her loser problems and only invite her around if she's willing to put in the work to earn their approval. I don't mean holding hands, I mean deepthroating until her knees hurt like a retired construction worker who also went HAM in high school football. Why would she do all that work if you make it clear she doesn't need to, that you're her volunteer servant/savior/slave? She's probably gone No Contact on you because she's obsessed with some guy who doesn't care if she dies in a car crash and told her so, which is exciting for her. She'll work very hard to make him care, and thereby prove her point about her own value and win.

Next time this happens that a woman "takes your hand away", etc., if it's clear she won't budge, just act bored, go do something else (as suggested by our own Leonard D Neubache, begin making pancakes for no obvious reason), and send her ass home, then call another plate and fuck her. Withdraw your attention, approval, and interest if she doesn't give you what you need. People have to be trained and she was training you, instead of the other way around. You're 28, not 15. People fuck now. Life is short, your time is valuable, don't let some drunk bitch waste a night holding hands when you could be doing something worthwhile.

Post: #37

your exactly right. Isnt it weird that a girl that had a shitty upbringing would want a guy who cared for her though? I mean I wasn't super nice guy do everything for her, but I was good to her. She would give me money if I a paid for drinks etc. I've been with plenty of woman but never with one like her. In person she was the sweetest girl and very to herself. Why would she have me over and want to hold my hand and cuddle with me in bed? I regret not going or sending her ass home.

Post: #38

(07-09-2018 09:02 AM)kross1989 Wrote:  Isnt it weird

No.

Post: #39

either way if I played the game right or not this bitch is nothing but problems. family baggage always turns out bad for woman.

Post: #40

Kross

To learn from this you need to better understand the differences between women and men when it comes to attraction.

Women primarily respond emotionally while men primarily respond visually. A man sees a woman and is either visually attracted or not. His physical attraction to is primarily visual.

Attraction is not a choice,... its a response.

Its the same for women. Attraction is a response...not a choice.

The difference is that a woman's attraction response is much more easily affected by the guys behavior because it is more emotional over visual / physical.

If a man is physically attracted to a woman but doesn't like her as a person, is usually less affected by her personality (until he fucks her a few times any way and the novelty of new pussy fades)

But a woman can easily lose attraction for a man whose behavior creates a repulsive (the opposite of attraction) response. Even one that is physically attractive (good looking). And its even easier for the loss of attraction to happen before fucking him

Women want and respond (attracted) to a man they perceive as higher / bigger / better than them in some way. Older / richer/ famous/ authority figure / cool job / social circle etc...these are all emotional attraction inducing.

Beta/ needy/ weakness etc etc. are all repulsive. (You displayed all of these with your behavior)

It gets even worse with a girl who has severely damaged self esteem (as this girl apparently is). Why? Because in her subconscious she's worthless so by definition a guy who cares for her "worthless" self must be worth even less. That's why the more emotionally damaged a chick is the more she responds to being treated like shit.

The good news is that learning how much "asshole" to dial up in your game gets easier with practice.



Pro tip: Girl has tattoos and smokes? Start with medium-high asshole game and adjust accordingly

Post: #41

this is true. she smoked but had no tats. her dad has neck tats all the above. I think she basically starved herself to get skinny. Is it pathetic I still want her back and to respond to me I feel like such a pvssy

Post: #42

(07-09-2018 11:43 AM)kross1989 Wrote:  this is true. she smoked but had no tats. her dad has neck tats all the above. I think she basically starved herself to get skinny. Is it pathetic I still want her back and to respond to me I feel like such a pvssy

Eating disorder too...I just got a chubby

(07-09-2018 11:43 AM)kross1989 Wrote:  Is it pathetic I still want her back and to respond to me.

There's absolutely only one way to 100% guaranteed get her into you and that's for her to see you with another pretty girl.

In the meantime she's going to get pumped and dumped by guys with good asshole game (learned or natural) that dont give a shit about her...again and again

Post: #43

on social media or in person? I have plenty of pics with me with good looking chicks. how would that get her back?

Post: #44

Dude, you're 28 and acting like 15.
First of all calm down.
If you, as you say, meet and fuck other girls, what's the big fuss about this one? Oneitis?

Post: #45

(07-09-2018 12:37 PM)kross1989 Wrote:  on social media or in person? I have plenty of pics with me with good looking chicks. how would that get her back?

In person

The problem is you care more than she does (see my detailed explanation of "repulsion" above).

Thats the irony. Until you dont give a shit about her she cant give a shit about you (if ever)

Welcome to The Game

Post: #46

glad I came on this site. but she doesnt know I give a shit about her that's the thing I havent spoken to her in a month.

Post: #47

absolutly oneitis. I have fucked chicks since but idk man i developed an emotional connection with this one idk why or how but I just did.

Post: #48

(07-08-2018 07:50 AM)kross1989 Wrote:  ok me and this girl megan were talking for like 3 months going out alot going good etc. about 3 weeks ago she slows down texting. texts me 4 days later saying she is having family issues is super stressed out etc I'm like ok all good how about me and you go out Friday to take your mind off it. she completely ghosts me and doesnt respond at all. I text her saying no would be easier then standing me up. I've called her once texted her like 3 times since making sure she is doing good etc even hit her friend up saying hope megan is doing good tell her to text me etc to which she didnt respond. this was 2 months ago. she wont even open up my snapchat wont even look at my snapchats completely shut me the fuckkk out. what the hell is this all about? obviously were done but its confusing as shit. on top of that we booked a vacation to which we obviously didnt go because it was a 2 month ago. and I've been ghosted but good lord I am confused. she comes from a broken home. parents seperated mom a drunk brothers and other siblings on drugs etc. idk if maybe that somewhat explains her actions? I know we wont ever be together but the fact I got ghosted so hard is just shocking to me. thing is she lives 5 mins away and we frequent the same bars.

(07-09-2018 02:03 PM)kross1989 Wrote:  glad I came on this site. but she doesnt know I give a shit about her that's the thing I havent spoken to her in a month.

Uhhhh. Read your own OP....Guarantee you she does know. The problem is you gave her all the power and now in her mind youre the (or just another one*) " guy friend that got all creepy because Im not attracted to him ".

(07-09-2018 02:03 PM)kross1989 Wrote:  absolutly oneitis. I have fucked chicks since but idk man i developed an emotional connection with this one idk why or how but I just did.

I do...She's hot and you haven't fucked her. Girl game recognized



*It happens to all her nice guy orbiters. She only fucks bad boy / assholes that dont give a shit.

She cant help it...Attraction isn't a choice

Is any of this getting through?

Post: #49

(07-09-2018 02:03 PM)kross1989 Wrote:  absolutly oneitis. I have fucked chicks since but idk man i developed an emotional connection with this one idk why or how but I just did.

Dude, I meant what I said, relax, nothing to worry!
It's OK to have emotions for a girl, it's OK to feel attracted to a girl.
Whoever has met women, gamed them, fucked them, loved them for real will tell you the same thing.

What we are all trying to help here is you understand her side or her point of view here!
This will help you either get her back or move forward!

Post: #50

thing is she isnt hot at all has not body a d she hangs out with guys uglier then me.... I sound arrogant but its true. and she flaked ok me after 3 months of us dating. after promising something I felt like I had to fucking call her out for that.