Post: #1

This is an informative post that I thought would be tremendously helpful to get a peek at how a Hollywood/Pop-singer artist would act with women that I stumbled across reading about method-acting (which is just a form of NLP frame training);

The actor is Jared Leto, Oscar-winner who also plays Joker in the new films Suicide Squad 1/2, was in Fight Club, Dallas Buyers Club...

Enough about that, you can Wiki him on your own time.

What's important is how he acts with women. This is just a tiny sliver of what he does, naturally, perhaps due to his fame and exposure to extremely hot women. I think this would be useful to incorporate his style of game.

Here is a post from Toronto Film Festival by Jada Yuan (NY Mag writer) who describes her experience with the actor:

For reference on what I am delving into, go to the link: http://www.vulture.com/2013/09/jared-let...-club.html

1) Jared assumes familiarity (he has met her before, but you can easily do this with women you met in the past);

2) Eye contact locked + kino immediately and also escalates smoothly by holding her hand slightly longer than normal to increase sexual tension.

3) His style as explained the writer has her "hat[ing] [her] womanly hormones for being so easily taken under its thrall."
(Tight black V-neck, skinny jeans, black blazer...)

4) In their interaction, he puts his arm around her waist... and teases her immediately. "Are you going to be nice to me this time?" --> assumes that she was a bully/mean to him last time (Testing her willingness to flirt back and building comfort/familiarity);

5) He actually flaked on her from his own invitation for hiking, to which he responds by saying "Uh-huh" with a grin and skeptical nod (this is classic DLV); You can easily do this with EVERY encounter while being mysterious and unobtainable by her

6) Whenever she says something for what she wants, such as the writer did in this instance to discuss about his acting, he went into what would be considered the gem of this post, to give her some value back by complimenting her and ignoring her initial request or question:

"She has the most beautiful eyes. It's almost impossible to pay attention to what she is saying. I mean, it's ridiculous."


This line, when said to a third party, is going to create tingles for her if you have built some attraction already. She knows he is doing it to throw her off (as seen in the post); but he remains consistent in trying to convince her of her 'beauty'.

This effectively makes her forget what she was going to ask/do and puts you back in control of what you want. In this case, the control over the conversation (and of her).

He does answer her questions in rapid-fire sequence afterwards, but not before messing with her mind and heart.

At the end of the chat, he says to her "Email me." (With a squeeze of her arm!) "Next time, you're in LA, just shoot me a note. It will happen."

Left her wanting and hoping for more.
Just a little hike with Leto.

Hope this post makes you interact with women a little more playfully and opens your mind to how the top desired men interacts.

Post: #2

These are great points. They are very useful to apply and I recommend that men should.

One important thing to remember though is that this writer is infatuated by a popular actor. Therefore, there is a huge difference in results when applying these points depending on one's social status.

I will give a personal example. I connected with an undergrad girl at the school cafeteria. I am usually dressed sharp (I goto business school) and talked to her nicely. After a month or so I see her in the University bar and I am dressed almost exactly as Leto (dark v neck, blue sport jacket and slim bootcuts). I approach and do almost all which Leto does. The girl's response is only slightly positive. Now out comes a group of other undergrad guys, dressed in just tee and jeans. But they seem to be the popular ones. One of the guy doesn't do anything, no eye contact, no teasing, spills his beer a little ie. He is not smooth at all, but just says hello to the girl. The girl gives him way more IOI than she gave me. And they just start talking and hanging together for the rest of the pub night.

I believe popularity trumps all. Actors have it on a different level. Good looking and sorta-game aware actors will have it hugely easy. Girls can say its all their style, game and behavior etc. But in truth it comes down to how popular this person is.

Post: #3

(03-23-2018 07:11 PM)bk19xsa Wrote:  But they seem to be the popular ones. One of the guy doesn't do anything, no eye contact, no teasing, spills his beer a little ie. He is not smooth at all, but just says hello to the girl. The girl gives him way more IOI than she gave me. And they just start talking and hanging together for the rest of the pub night.

I believe popularity trumps all. Actors have it on a different level. Good looking and sorta-game aware actors will have it hugely easy. Girls can say its all their style, game and behavior etc. But in truth it comes down to how popular this person is.

I agree with this because I think if you have a history with a person (and seems like that in your example) those people will automatically gravitate toward each other. But like OP mentions, Leto talks to the girl like they already have a lot of history between each other (although they don't).

I believe that using Leto's approach definitely helps, maintaining frame and physical contact to create sexual interest will keep a girl interested.