Post: #26

I know that feeling. After spending 6 months in Thailand, I went home for a "vacation", and felt depressed. I'm made to live abroad.

Post: #27

Dealing with this right now.

It sucks.

But, always be planning your next move. Be grateful for what you have and the experiences you've earned.

Before I started travelling, I still had a good time in life. Now, I know what's on the other side, and it's impossible to be content with things as they used to be.

Post: #28

Damn this thread hits home. I'm one month back in the States from two months in Brazil...

I work in a hospital and had to work nights because I couldn't stomach the thought of more interactions during the day with the women that work here.

I can't believe the retardedness of the women I see on Tinder and speak with, their sense of worth is ridiculously out of wack. As far as American women's attractiveness goes, we'll just say I didn't run out of likes on Tinder here before I turned off discovery.

Really disappointed in some of my friends and their dormant, decaying ways. Can't stand their significant others.

Can't stand how materialistic people here are, consumerism drives the country.

I'll echo the earlier statement of returning with enormous amounts of drive and motivation to make a substantial life here for myself only to realize my idea of a good life is not possible in this mess of a society.

I have a beautiful, sexy, sweet, compassionate, feminine, hard-body 7.5-8 Brazilian girl who wants a family with me and I know I just can't do it. Not here, maybe not ever but definitely not here... Fucked up because she's amazing and all she wants is to please me, wants the best for me.

I'm just working a ton right now, starting to plan my next trip abroad which will hopefully be longer (SEA?). I need to start focusing on an online business now that I've shot down grad school.

No way I can spend my remaining years of this life paying off a mortgage while working a 9-5 here, not possible. I've made some mistakes in my life but the one I regret the most is wasting all that money on college 15 years ago instead of using it to travel.

Post: #29

What about reverse culture anxiety?

I've been in Asia for over three years now without a visit home.

I refuse to return to Britian. Even if it's just a holiday.

How my friends can be content with their dormant existance there is astounding.

Post: #30

(09-25-2015 03:54 AM)JohnnyAppleSeeds Wrote:  I have a beautiful, sexy, sweet, compassionate, feminine, hard-body 7.5-8 Brazilian girl who wants a family with me and I know I just can't do it. Not here, maybe not ever but definitely not here... Fucked up because she's amazing and all she wants is to please me, wants the best for me.

I'm just working a ton right now, starting to plan my next trip abroad which will hopefully be longer (SEA?). I need to start focusing on an online business now that I've shot down grad school.

I hear you man, and I'm in the same boat now. What kind of online business do you want to start?

Post: #31

(09-25-2015 09:39 AM)LeightonBlackstock Wrote:  What about reverse culture anxiety?

I've been in Asia for over three years now without a visit home.

I refuse to return to Britian. Even if it's just a holiday.

How my friends can be content with their dormant existance there is astounding.

I just got back from Beijing China, the trip was my first time to a third world country with friendly, feminine and thin women. Though Beijing girls are not the best, they are still light years ahead of North America/Anglo-sphere.

I could easily get 7 dates in a week in Beijing, the thought of going on a date with an american girls is now consider depressing, even if it was easy. I have now lost all interest in the Anglo-sphere, and now realize I am simply a doormat and have for a long time accepted the little affection I could get. It is amazing how the other half lives in Asia. For an Asian man, it is mind blowing to know we are in demand.

Post: #32

China a 3rd world country? Maybe outside of the major cities, but they are rapidly catching up in many aspects-even surpassing the U.S.

Post: #33

(09-25-2015 03:12 PM)sdsb247 Wrote:  China a 3rd world country? Maybe outside of the major cities, but they are rapidly catching up in many aspects-even surpassing the U.S.

China is catching up, it definitely has high speed trains and sky-crappers, but its infrastructure is totally wack. Example, China still uses rick·sha and scooters as taxi.

Furthermore, there is a tremendous amount of manual labor and supply of labor. Just ask Suit, he is the one that call China a 3rd world country, and I totally agree, it is a country in transition.

Post: #34

There's a lot of cold hard truth in this thread. To be the optimist here, the consolation prize in all this is at least American chicks are pretty damn easy. I would say that as far as SNL goes, USA and Philippines are still my top two easiest countries of all time.

Post: #35

This thread is a wake up call. I haven't been back to the U.S since moving three years ago but I am actually looking forward to hitting Savannah,GA for two weeks or so. Perhaps having a secure job abroad can help with that, who knows. I think the cure is to elevate and work on yourself so much that you'll never come down to being a lame person upon returning back.

Post: #36

I still prefer the us quality of living long term compared to some of the 3rd world shit cities.

I am asian American and I guess sort of lucky that while many aa women suck, especially those who are white washed, loads of traditional women exist via social networking. Of course for ons it is depressing going on tinder and matching with only a select few.

But I got laid on a decent level in the states so for me its not so bad. Just much easier mode abroad.

Post: #37

I keep a regular girl in the US, can't be bothered going on dates with stupid sluts to try to get new ones. When I return from trips abroad, I don't feel shitty. Actually, if a trip abroad sucks (and some of them do, for various reasons), I feel good about returning. Other than the high cost of living and shitty dating market, the US is better than anywhere else I've been to as a place to live.

Post: #38

I've been back in America for over a year now since my last trip abroad, and my PSAD is as strong as it was on the day I got off the plane.

I have completely checked out of America. The days and nights here blur into one another.

It's all BULLSHIT.

When you step off that plane, you'll have thoughts of, "Man, I've been dating beautiful, feminine women, and I'm ready to take on the world."

Within a few days you realize all you've got is a giant shit sandwich.

Sure, you can bang good looking girls here, but getting girls without tattoos or psychological issues like narcissism, that's a challenge.

I have a blonde ex-frat guy friend from a very well off family here that works 60 hour weeks to come home to a house without children and a mid 30's woman that isn't attractive. What's the f'ing point, man?

What's the endgame? Rinse and repeat until you die? A life devoid of joy?

That same guy, he asks another guy I know, "Hey man, what do you do when your girl starts taking over? It's like she's taking the remote now, things like that, she's just kind of taking over?" The other guy goes, "Look, you just have to realize she really owns everything and you're a guest in your home. Once you realize that, you'll be happy. I got a shipping container and placed it on my acreage, and that's my one spot, she knows that's my one spot." F'ing incredible, that's an engineer and an accountant having that conversation, imagine how the proles are doing?

Another guy I know, pretty successful by 9 to 5 standards, I ask him how things are going. He goes, "I gotta make that promotion, man, my girl, she's an attorney, so she's got expensive tastes, you know." A few months later, I check in on him, he's like, "My girl's heading out to travel around the world. Not sure where that leaves us. We'll see when she gets back." Guy used to work for the top tech company and still has a great job, tall guy, easily works 60 hour weeks regularly, easy enough on the eyes, super outgoing personality, used to play football.

The most I ever worked, other than the 24/7 military, was 86 hours, clocked, in one week as a stock broker, and in the end, what was the point?

More money in the bank account? In exchange for your youth?

You can always make more money. You can never make more youth.

"Be a good corporate drone."

"Don't have gaps on your resume."

Why?

So that you too can end up in the same suck that other guys ended up in?

Wealth and income are relative, guys.

We're all collectively screwing each other over by working so many hours. The more you work, the more the next guy has to work to satisfy the ever-growing monster in bed next to him.

I'm not playing that game, the juice just isn't worth the squeeze at that price.

Is American pussy any better than foreign pussy?

No, it isn't.

Then why the hell are we paying such a high price for it in man-hours?

The amount of work required to get a nice girl with good values that's a 7 here in America is astronomical compared to the amount of work required to do the same abroad. And that's not just in work-hours, we can add gaming hours to that also, and it adds up, man, it adds up.

Why?

Because wealth and income are relative to the wealth and income of the men around you.

You could go the "player" route, too. But guess what, all these so-called players, they're sleeping with women that are sleeping with a bunch of other men simultaneously. These guys talking about "spinning plates," they are the plates, lol. They're getting sloppy 22nd's or more. Like the pic below, except with STD's splattering all over every guy and girl involved:



To each his own, but if you're going to do that, why not just pay a hooker? At least a hooker has the decency to charge, she values herself somewhat, a slut's giving it away for free. I'm kidding. Kind of.

That's not to say America isn't the best or one of the best places to create capital, it is, but it's also a giant shit sandwich for guys that aren't attracted in the least to BBW's, tattooed girls, promiscuous girls, narcissists, drug users, alcoholics, or confused young men. If you're into any of those, America's a wonderful place, a paradise, even.

Even if you find that unicorn in America, she can get fat and what are you going to do about it? She has you by the balls, legally. What are you going to do, go looking for another unicorn? Good luck with that.

You see ex-cheerleaders that weighed 120 lbs. turn into BBW's within a year, while the guy she married still looks like a fitness trainer. The guy stays because of the kids.

I can't even imagine being in that situation. What can he do? Cheat? Divorce, there's half your assets and child support payments for life. Ask her to lose weight? She doesn't care, "beauty comes in all sizes, she's not fat, it's her body type," never mind that she was 120 lbs. just 12 months prior, but, "muh body type."

On her end, if she bounces, she'll easily find some other dumbass to work 50, 60 hour weeks to support her narcissistic ass or several good looking unemployed dudes that don't mind STD's and give her 'gina tingles to bang her while she lives off the ex-husband.

Abroad, if you're on top of things even a little, a girl won't step out of line because she knows you can find another nice, young girl without too much trouble. Here in America, that's just not the case.

Sometimes I feel like the world's gone mad.

Post: #39

(02-05-2017 03:12 PM)Spaniard88 Wrote:  Sometimes I feel like the world's gone mad.

The world's not mad, you just woke up and saw it for what it was.

I checked out awhile back. Not sure when it exactly happened, but when I saw the other side, there was no going back.

In the end, it's all about time. Get busy living or get busy dying.

Post: #40

Sheeettt...Now y'all Mods see why I get all PTSD when rantin about the fear of Chanty Binxes, Trigglypuffs & Smugglypuffs invading Poosie paradises?

By the way, America ain't all that terrible, but I do agree that the consumerist culture here is depressing. Spending cash on the latest clothing produced at a cost of pennies from third-world labor from Communist China, or by under the barrel of a rifle in a child-labor sweatshop in Bangladesh.

One forum member here earns USD$ from YouTube advertisement & spends it in Mexico. Y'all still need American capital to live that First world lifestyle abroad.

Even my Venezuelan Latina friend told me that I should at least be happy that I'm legally allowed in live in USA and Canada. Ya don't know how bad the economy is in the rest of the world.

Even in Trinidad where they claim that it's the "3rd richest country in the Americas", you don't get complicated surgeries performed there like in the USA. Not even Canada comes close to life-saving cancer treatment & organ transplants like American healthcare, though it costs $$$$$.

Make use of the USD$ while you can. Not sure about Canadian dollars. I heard the Canadian Feds there think a 0,75$ dollar is overvalued. What does the Feds there want? A 0,60$ dollar? Euro might remain in the 1,06$-1,10$ range, while GBP might only go low as 1,20$ after this Brexit dilemma, but point is that 1st world dollars go a long way abroad.

Y'all need to learn how to be like MattHanson1990; earn American income, but spending it in a country where the USD$ is favored.

Post: #41

(02-05-2017 04:52 PM)jj90 Wrote:  In the end, it's all about time. Get busy living or get busy dying.

Well said.

Post: #42

I must have missed this thread the first time around. When I came back from South Korea and the Philippines, where the average girl weighs 90-100lbs soaking wet, only to see 160-200lbs women waiting for me when my jet landed in Chicago, I had to ask myself....why did you book a return ticket son?!

I'm working hard on getting my affairs in order to do some wife shopping abroad. The average American woman now weighs over 160lbs. Instead of putting up with what I don't want, I'm willing to travel to find sweet, feminine women with healthy bodies. The kind of woman you want to start a family with and settle down. I know they are out there, but it will most likely take moving out of the United States for good to find one, or perhaps a more conservative part of the country.

No matter what, PSAD is real, but there is a cure. Get back on the road and find the right woman for you. Don't settle for low-quality women, you'll only hate yourself in the long run.

Strive harder to earn what you aim for.

Post: #43

Two weeks back in Swedistan after my first visit to Kiev, Ukraine. The cold artic winter is creeping up and I have yet layed my eyes on a girl higher than 6.5.

Im glad I made my first trip there at the age of 21 because even though im unhappy with my living situation here, im also going to turn that into motivation for spending more of my time in the east.

This winter will consist of heavy lifting, alot of work and reading -trying to become better than I was yesterday.

I might pull A 7 or two if im "lucky"

Post: #44

(10-12-2017 07:11 AM)DraperJ.hank Wrote:  Two weeks back in Swedistan after my first visit to Kiev, Ukraine. The cold artic winter is creeping up and I have yet layed my eyes on a girl higher than 6.5.

Im glad I made my first trip there at the age of 21 because even though im unhappy with my living situation here, im also going to turn that into motivation for spending more of my time in the east.

This winter will consist of heavy lifting, alot of work and reading -trying to become better than I was yesterday.

I might pull A 7 or two if im "lucky"

Is the country of Agnetha and Anni - Frid now that bad for women?

Post: #45

(04-21-2015 11:18 PM)Spaniard88 Wrote:  It's time to give this affliction a name, guys.
There's a similar affliction, called Post-Vacation Blues, but it's not quite the same, as the effect is temporary, and not life-changing: http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Post-vacation_blues
Perhaps something like PSAD (Post Sensual Adventures Abroad Disorder).
Any other suggestions, guys (tongue in cheek)?

Seriously, I'm close to having the work experience. I just need to get fluent in Vietnamese and I will take a job working there making BIG MONEY.

In 2003 I was more like "America, Fuck Yeah!". Now I'm thinking more "Fuck America, Yeah!"

I'm so tired of working with these fucking millennial twats. The guys literally think the best way to get pussy is to BE a pussy. No wonder half of them want gender reassignment... it's the only way they could hope to get laid. The girls respond by acting like men. They drink like men, fuck like men, rant like men. These dumbass Tinder Twats think that they are getting what they want, but are left feeling hollow. What they don't get is that it's a competition between me and them to see who cares less... and if we are fucking... I'm always going to win. Always.

Post: #46

(10-12-2017 02:09 PM)EndsExpect Wrote:  I'm so tired of working with these fucking millennial twats. These dumbass Tinder Twats think that they are getting what they want, but are left feeling hollow. W

Post: #47

I'm thinking it's going to take me about another 2 to 2.5 years to be able to expatriate indefinitely, live a nice lifestyle anywhere on earth, and be able to go back and forth to the U.S. at will.

I just have to be able to stop myself from buying a plane ticket until then.

Gotta stay focused on the prize.

Post: #48

(10-12-2017 03:05 PM)scrambled Wrote:  

(10-12-2017 02:09 PM)EndsExpect Wrote:  I'm so tired of working with these fucking millennial twats. These dumbass Tinder Twats think that they are getting what they want, but are left feeling hollow. W

That's pretty much how I feel. I had to explain to a Millennial with a college degree in Psych that you can't catch cancer from someone else. Nobody is going to sneeze cancer on you. I swear to you previous generations could not have been this dumb or lazy.

The good news is that the guys are weenies and the girls are sluts. I'm pretty sure when I turn 40 I can still be hitting it with 25 year olds on the side.

Post: #49

(10-12-2017 03:05 PM)scrambled Wrote:  

(10-12-2017 02:09 PM)EndsExpect Wrote:  I'm so tired of working with these fucking millennial twats. These dumbass Tinder Twats think that they are getting what they want, but are left feeling hollow. W

Post: #50

RE: Nordwand (About Sweden)


I live in a city in north of Sweden with less than 100.000 people. I was born there and Im able to save 1.500 dollars/month due to finding a good place to live.

One could suggest that I should move to Stockholm for P*ssy but then I would just be stuck in the ratrace.

Im going to be on the Dating Abroad Podcast with Kyle Trouble soon where I will talk about the situation in deepth.

That girls are so-so depends on prefference but for me im all about EE girls.