Post: #26

Only to my closet friends. I made the mistake in my earlier years talking about my clubbing/dates/some bangs to my old work colleagues. They never stopped asking me about updates and stuff like ‘any luck at the clubs on the weekend’

Post: #27

Nope, unless the subject comes up, then I keep it vague and concise. The way I see it, bragging is something most people do when they achieve something monumental or rare/hard to achieve. Thus whenever I’m talking with a guy and he makes a point to go on and on about how he had sex with some girl, it makes it seem like he doesn’t get much female attention otherwise. Men who are more casual about the fact they get laid, by making it seem like less of a big deal imply that they don’t need to put forth much effort to get laid, because getting laid isn’t a big topic for them. Being vague/concise about your conquests also makes them more interesting to outsiders and inspires the rumor mill to make you bigger than your life actually is.

The 48 laws of power describes these phenomena well in law 4, which instructs you to say less than necessary, and law 30, which instructs you to make your accomplishments seem effortless.

This doesn’t mean I avoid the subject or anything like that: if it comes up I talk about it as much as I have to. But it’s not something I’d make a point of bringing up.

Post: #28

I call up Fortis every time I get laid and tell him the whole store.

Post: #29

Of course... We do have the 'I just-had-sex' thread for a reason!!

Post: #30

I used to share it with some guys in my social circle (not from work) , thinking that I was somehow underachieving compared to them since they were all good looking (e.g. "I've met a cute 20-yo Polish girl this week and we started dating" type), not bragging, just sharing, then realized they got all jealous inside and talked behind my back that I was a player to other people. Then I realized that most guys are beta and I am far beyond their level, even though I thought I was not.

I've stopped sharing anything game related with people, or about the girls I am dating/fucking. I only share with one ex colleague that has strong game and when I meet RVF members.

Post: #31

Long term it's stupid anyway, not sure if testosterone is the scapegoat, but one must mention it anyway. Unless it's a funny story, why would you ever tell someone about something not intrinsically good? Ehh, I guess it all depends where you are at that moment, "in the game."

Post: #32

Other men always tell me I am too ''mean'' to get any ''girlfriend''.

ha

Post: #33

(10-03-2017 04:24 PM)Palo_alto Wrote:  Other men always tell me I am too ''mean'' to get any ''girlfriend''.

ha

Me too but substitute "my wife" for "my girlfriend."

Post: #34

Most of my friends are beta male orbiters so I do not tell them anything. I feel like that 2 of them are waiting for my wife to dump me so they can bang her, lol. I have a few (more alpha-ish but not in the game scene) friends that I randomly send pictures of new conquests to without saying a word. I find speaking with men, that don't appreciate game, about conquests is an abject waste of time.

Post: #35

(09-26-2017 12:35 PM)Suits Wrote:  I call up Fortis every time I get laid and tell him the whole store.

Haha, Turnus and I do the same thing.

Post: #36

Only closest friends and guys I know that have repeatedly demonstrated they can get hot chicks in the interest of sharing tips and good post-up spots. I.e. Game recognize game.

Post: #37

Only with guys that get laid as much as me, more than me, or with guys that are interested in doing well with women(and with the latter group only if they ask or broach the topic).

And it always has to be in the context of a larger lesson at hand. I'm not the kind of guy who likes to brag/gossip and so if I'm going to speak about my comings and goings it's going to be in the context of something bigger than just that or just on the philosophy of male/female interaction.

There's a reason I avoid the I-Just-Had-Sex thread generally.

And honestly I'm not banging that many 7+s these days due to a lack of free time and some acquired responsibility. Those are the honest to god ones worth mentioning anyways. No point in even mentioning the flood of 6s.

Post: #38

I tend to be discrete about the details of my private life, including sex life. The more you share, the more exposed you are. Also I used to have a friend you was a pain in the ass in that sense. He would share his sex life in detail with a lot of exaggeration thrown in (the unbelievably hot girls in the stories became 6s once you saw them in pictures). I guess it put me off. I feel guys who need to brag about every girl they bang are insecure betas in need of reassurance rather than guys who really love women and sex.

Post: #39

Ive always said that theres no need to brag. People will find out about your conquests through example one way or another.