Post: #1

I gave the forum a quick search and wasnt able to come up with anything similar.

The question is meant in terms of women. Do you tell other men about things youve done with girls, how your relationship with girls is, who you like and are into, your game, etx. outside of the forum?

Im talking aquaintances, peers, coworkers, guys you go to school with. Most of these guys will be bluepill ofcourse. Good friends are ussually a given group of people you'd share these things with so they arent included. A better word would be locker room talk i believe.

Maybe its just my specific situation but once i've told some of the guys around me about my experiences with women (after theyve asked ofcourse) theyll begin to behave weird as fuck, like the whole vibe just turns creepy. This happens less often in the west in my experience.

They'll throw around negative comments, try to one up, try to seek validation, make excuses for themselves, just all around weird behaviour. These guys are otherwise totally normal people, it just seems when women come into the mix something goes off in their heads.

On a similar note, I also wanted to ask about gossip, since this sort of banter may fall under the same lines if one is talking about girls theyve banged/into that are known by the parties involved. Do you guys partake, do you only listen, or do you avoid it.

For both situations I am beginining to make it so that i only listen and not speak, not doing so has really made me feel like some validation seeking pussy in the recent days since ive returned to school.

Post: #2

It's similar to whether to tell other guys about the game/manosphere. Other guys need to show evidence of independent thinking, being sympathetic to our side and being discrete with sensitive information before they can be trusted.

Post: #3

No, I don't brag about conquests. Not my style. I will share teachable moments to men who will listen to avoid pitfalls and unstable women who can make a man's life miserable. I'm more of a LTR man myself, so I'm not trying for maximum notch count.

Post: #4

Best not to talk about your personal life, unless its with the inner core of Bros

Post: #5

Gossiping is for women.

Guys that talk like this are not much better. It can get back to the girl, which will make you look like a fucking idiot. The girl will then tell everyone she knows, and you will end up being ripped to shreds by women's gossip.

Post: #6

Online will vaguely share wisdom & give perspective...

IRL...You'll never hear me mentioning women or anything related to "women liking me" (I don't identify with such things)

As a result a guy can be monologuing and I'll just listen, joke and/or laugh as if I'm just drunk and clueless.

Worst shit is having someone say WANNA GO TALK TO GIRLS??

Also discret about who i actually hookup with. It's very hard to tell. Many times been out with friends and a 1min convo they seen had set the stage for a late night session.

All of a sudden I am GONE or as we part ways after the night Im google mapping chicks address who they saw me speak to for 1min.

For me it's just shit I do, no one needs to know anything and rather be overlooked rather than known.

Post: #7

This forum is also very well-read by a lot of people that aren't in the game community. You run the very real risk of doxxing yourself if you start bragging about a girl you notched. You're one stupid post away from a false rape accusation if you hooked up with some mentally unstable girl. If that's not a good reason for not bragging about your Mad Playa Skillz I don't know what is. Share knowledge, but don't share personally identifiable details.

Post: #8

^^
Correct.

Same goes for nudes or sex tapes. On my phone, I have naked pictures or sex videos of some of the best girls I banged, but I never send them to a friend for the sake of bragging, I never put them on the internet or cloud. I even delete the material where the girl's face shows. Not worth risking the girls' reputations or your security. Things can get ugly quick. Additionally, being discrete is a player virtue.

Post: #9

I tell my 2 close friends/send them pics most of the time. It's not for bragging as we've been friends for 30 years but mostly for sharing what were up to.

I also share with some forum members sometimes to give each other an idea about the locations.

With others I don't.

Post: #10

I did once when I got to talking about approaching women with a guy I know. He later told me some stuff and it made me feel bad about myself for approaching in the street. So really, I think I'd do it on a case by case basis.That is, I'd have to try to glean more if the other person would be able to at least consider my methods or just throw me under the bus.

This does remind me of another more well off dude I know. We always chat about all sorts of stuff and when it comes to women, this dude doesn't hold ANYTHING back. He'll show me pictures and go into all sorts of really graphic details about his conquests.

It's a bit overwhelming what he says, but at the same time, it's good for me to hear. It always helps to remind me I could really be killing it if I started caring and processing things less.

Post: #11

It depends on the context, I don't talk about it with my married friends for example. My current coworker is my age and single, he meets girls off Tinder, goes out partying, etc so yea I talk to him about girls, we're both basically doing the same thing. With friends I have on here we share photos, videos and talk about the chicks we bang all the time in Whatsapp groups.

Post: #12

I only talk to my closest friends about girls im sleeping with, where and how I got them.... etc etc.

I can't stand guys that brag about shit and you never know if theres a white knight around waiting to hate on you.

Post: #13

Yes, I do share my experience with women, not in a bragging way, but to learn from each other and they share their experience to me too.

It's just talking about "game" with your wings...

Post: #14

Very little. My game isn't that good still, but based on many people in my life I fear provoking resentment.

Post: #15

To close friends only, definitely not online.

Post: #16

I don't share personally detailed stuff with people I don't know, unless I feel a good vibe from them. You gotta have some social tact and discretion.

Post: #17

1) Some of the PUA people talk about the "secret society" that all women were born into, but that only a handful of men can join. They're not really wrong. Women generally prefer the really freaky, no-strings-attached primal gut-rearranging with men they are confident won't tell anyone how much they love to get choked, and will promote those men to their female friends.

2) Do not underestimate the power of haters. Would you tell the frigid middle-aged bitch in HR about your month in Kiev rawdogging blonds in nightclubs? Do you want other guys white knighting the women you game? No? Then maybe don't let that get out.

3) There is no faster way to a false rape rumor, than for a woman to find out the "blue pill" men in her life think she's a whore because she trusted you. Trying to salvage the relationship with an angry father or jealous boyfriend/husband by portraying herself as the victim are a common factor in nearly every one of these incidents that I've ever researched, and then them or her female friends pressuring her to make a formal complaint out of something she just said to get attention.

Post: #18

Nope. Everyone who doesn't know me thinks I'm a normal blue-pill guy. I prefer having stealth mode on with 99% of people.

Post: #19

I talk about women in general and things I like or dislike (common things like clothes etc) cause it conveys the right things about me. However I do not talk about my past experiences or philosophies etc.

Post: #20

"Do you tell other men about your conquests?"

I rather not, even when I trust the person. Doing so only incites jealousy.

Post: #21

There's a remarkable lack of discretion all around, really. Most people just can't wait to tell someone that they got some last night, like it's bursting out of them.

Reminds me of something out of "48 Laws of Power" - "Betrayal oozes from every pore", but in this case it just comes gushing out of their own mouths. Everyone wants to start drama, because their lives are so boring otherwise.

Bitches always yapping about the dick they got last night (sometime how much they got paid).

Guys gushing with a child's pride at fucking a 5 or the village bike. At work or at the club.

I do share, but only with my closest brothers (I could count them on one hand), and not with the (sole) aim of showing off or sharing a good story, but also to dissect the deed and analyse the details. A lot like here, probably.

And always be careful who you share details with, it could always bite you back in the ass - boasting that you fucked Fiona from HR can cause her to file a fake-accusation against you to preserve her non-existent honor.

Post: #22

I share with a few close guys. Most of them, and most times, I wish I hadn't.

I would advise telling no one. Type it out in your journal. Leave it on here anonymously to get the brag off your chest.

Telling your friends about a conquest usually ends up feeling like post-masturbating. When you're done you think, I'm not sure that was worth it.

I have one friend, a natural, who really enjoys the fun details because he's married now and doesn't get out with the boys to have fun as much as he used to. But even there, he doesn't want the facts, he wants a good fun story.

It's not about the conquest, it's about the story. <--That is key. A good story is relate-able. Make it relate-able.

Post: #23

I do not. I try to never qualify myself to anyone, including men, and I'm really put off by those who do. Even a lot of PUAs and other guys on "self-improvement Twitter" come off as so desperate for validation when they announce to their following that they just had sex--likewise when they brag about making money. For me, sex is about the conscious experience *in the moment*. I do it because I derive pleasure from it. I don't give a damn if anyone is impressed by me or not. Ironically, you can usually tell if a guy gets laid a lot by the way he carries himself.

"Any man who must say 'I am the king' is no true king at all."

Post: #24

Fuck it, I'll admit it, yes, I do.

I send snapchats nudes/post bangs to group chats and friends on a list in snapchat with girls I bang on the regular.

For what it's worth it's a good laugh and story to me.

I honestly could care less what a chick thinks of me, the reason I don't is because I don't shit where I eat, the girls I bang are 90% out of town.

The only girls that know of my conquests are through jokes (social circle), or the bartenders who see me.

There's a few guys I send snaps at work, but only because they shared shit first, so I know they're in on it.

As far as friends it's usually a few categories:

-Close bros are single/in an ltr/or married.
-Other players I know
-Bros who I know don't give a shit and look forward to it.

The only women that know I play around are my friends wives and gf's - and guess what ? It's gotten me bangs and dates with girls.

It's not some strategy, it's some PUA bs, it's not validation, it's a funny story that I want to share.


It all depends on HOW YOU FRAME what you say.

The way I do is through a funny story and one liners.

It's never off putting, creepy, or weird.


I don't help out random dudes, I've rarely helped out social circle friends, I have however helped friends on the rebound or divorced.

I don't "sarge", "neg", or "wing" with guy friends - we just go out and drink, if we bump into girls we try and have a good time.

I've never brought up the forum in person, (unless hanging with members), I don't go into strategy or any of that bs.

When I write up a bang report in the Just Had Sex thread - I on purposely describe venues wrong, locations, or small little things like a center, or starbucks or whatever.

The reason I write in such detail about the interaction is in the hopes guys on here can read it, and have an "Aha !" moment or try something I did that might work for them.

I'm going against the grain on this one, I could care less if its "looked down" upon by some random dudes online or guys who know of me in person.

It isn't my problem.

Post: #25

Not in a bragging way, but more of a "crazy shit I did with a crazy chick" way of entertaining storytelling, whether it's an awesome story or a nightmare.

Plus, it's a great way of learning from others' mistakes, rather than making them yourself.