Post: #176

(05-27-2017 10:26 AM)SmasherOfAss Wrote:  

(05-27-2017 02:57 AM)the high Wrote:  

(05-26-2017 10:03 PM)robreke Wrote:  I know I may get clobbered for this, but do black guys not want to date black women?

Black men who go after non-Black women are over-represented online. The overwhelming majority of Black men are into Black women. That's why I don't take these okcupid graphs that serious. According to okcupid Black men prefer Asian women over Black women? Not from what I've seen irl.

From what I've experienced, black guys aren't with Asian women because the women don't want to be with them. Maybe that's just the culture where I'm at (S.E. Wisconsin. Very ignorant, hood mentality in the black community with Asians having a much tighter family culture that promotes a pure blood line)..... or maybe i just like asians and am salty I've only had 1......

Not buying this. Let's face it, out of all races black men put the highest emphasis on ass. In the 80s and early 90s most black men would say they cant be with a white because they have flat asses. Now since then white American women have stepped it up in the ass department, and/or they became more comfortable about putting their...ahem.. assets on display.

Now Asian women are known for having the least amount of ass of all the races. I've never seen an Asian woman on the cover of King magazine and they rarely feature in hiphop videos in any capacity. Black american men are not generally checking for Asian women, average Black American preference is

1. Light skin black girl
2. White girl
3. Puerto rican or Dominican on East coast/ Mexican out West
4. Asian

Do some brothas catch yellow fever, especially among the more professional and affluent? Of course, no denying that. But those are outliers and no, they dont have it easy to get those women stateside. But their desires are far from the norm. If most brothas were secretly lusting after Asian women you would see way more high profile black celebs with the money and access in those types of relationships.

Post: #177

(05-27-2017 11:20 AM)azulsombra Wrote:  

(05-27-2017 10:26 AM)SmasherOfAss Wrote:  

(05-27-2017 02:57 AM)the high Wrote:  

(05-26-2017 10:03 PM)robreke Wrote:  I know I may get clobbered for this, but do black guys not want to date black women?

Black men who go after non-Black women are over-represented online. The overwhelming majority of Black men are into Black women. That's why I don't take these okcupid graphs that serious. According to okcupid Black men prefer Asian women over Black women? Not from what I've seen irl.

From what I've experienced, black guys aren't with Asian women because the women don't want to be with them. Maybe that's just the culture where I'm at (S.E. Wisconsin. Very ignorant, hood mentality in the black community with Asians having a much tighter family culture that promotes a pure blood line)..... or maybe i just like asians and am salty I've only had 1......

Not buying this. Let's face it, out of all races black men put the highest emphasis on ass. In the 80s and early 90s most black men would say they cant be with a white because they have flat asses. Now since then white american women have stepped it up in the ass department, and/or they became more comfortable about putting their...ahem.. assets on display.

Now Asian women are known for having the least amount of ass of all the races. I've never seen an Asian woman on the cover of King magazine and they rarely feature in hiphop videos in amy capacity.Black american men are not generally checking for asian women, average Black American preference is

1. Light skin black girl
2. White girl
3. Puerto rican or Dominican on East coast/ Mexican out West
4. Asian

Do some brothas catch yellow fever, especially among the more professional and affluent? Of course, no denying that. But those are outliers and no, they dont have it easy to get those women stateside. But their desires are far from the norm. If most brothas were secretly lusting after Asian women you would see way more high profile black celebs with the money and access in those types of relationships.

To be honest, your ranking isn't wrong. Most of the black guys I know don't check for Asians. Even me... orientals .... never done it for me. I would put number three above white women tbh but it's the states not darkknights mind.

Post: #178

(05-27-2017 11:18 AM)LEMONed IScream Wrote:  Funny discussion. As a European white guy, while I do consider black girls attractive generally and do think they have potentially the best bodies. There's something in them that just prevents me from having the sort of romantic/settling down feelings with them. I think one part of it is inherently tribalistic because naturally we tend to want our kids to look like ourselves, and I always saw myself settling down with a European white girl (possibly slavic) or an East Asian (Japan or Korea). But now I see this happens along many black guys too even in the forum, while black girls in Europe are on average much less "ratchet" than the type of loudmouth ghetto black girls in the USA I think there is SOMETHING that I can't quite put my finger on that makes them unnappealing as a match.

Sort of an inherent "manliness" in them? Hard to explain. But reading this and other topics on the subject online has made me realize it's not just my "problem"

It's not hard to explain. It's biology. No need to tiptoe around it.

Most people want their kids to look like them. i.e., same race.

Post: #179

(05-27-2017 11:18 AM)LEMONed IScream Wrote:  Funny discussion. As a European white guy, while I do consider black girls attractive generally and do think they have potentially the best bodies. There's something in them that just prevents me from having the sort of romantic/settling down feelings with them. I think one part of it is inherently tribalistic because naturally we tend to want our kids to look like ourselves, and I always saw myself settling down with a European white girl (possibly slavic) or an East Asian (Japan or Korea).

It's always interesting to me to hear some white men go on about the desire to have their kids look like them, while in the same breath expressing a desire to settle down with an Asian woman.
This may come as a surprise to some here, but the truth is this: your Hapa (half-asian) kids are not going to look any more like you than your hypothetical half-black kid is going to. Your half-black son/daughter is going to have many strongly African features. Your hapa son/daughter will, more often than not, look very Asian.
Anyone who has even glanced at a few Hapas and their families can see this, so I don't see how one could congruently talk about the need for familial resemblance and still talk about a desire for East Asian wives. It's completely contradictory.

(05-27-2017 12:09 PM)robreke Wrote:  It's not hard to explain. It's biology. No need to tiptoe around it.

Most people want their kids to look like them. i.e., same race.

Yes, he would like his kids to "look like him", yet at the same time likes the idea of having children with East Asian women.

Hapas usually do not look white, so if the goal was resemblance that's already out the window. Clearly there's more at play here than just wanting the kids to "look like dad".
You like what you like, and that's fine, but let's not beat around the bush.

Post: #180

(05-27-2017 02:57 AM)the high Wrote:  

(05-26-2017 10:03 PM)robreke Wrote:  I know I may get clobbered for this, but do black guys not want to date black women?

Black men who go after non-Black women are over-represented online. The overwhelming majority of Black men are into Black women. That's why I don't take these okcupid graphs that serious. According to okcupid Black men prefer Asian women over Black women? Not from what I've seen irl.

This is a valid point as well. If you're online, you will be exposed to a disproportionately large sample of black men whose dating preferences/histories are a little atypical for the black community. As I said before, the perspective I hold isn't unique and I've seen it among my close peers as well, but among the broader cross-section of black men I've met a general preference for black women (to the near exclusion of most others except the occasional PAWG or Latina) was the norm.

It's a bit of a myth that black men don't like black women or want to be with them. From where I'm standing, the average black guy has no such issues.

(05-27-2017 11:20 AM)azulsombra Wrote:  

(05-27-2017 10:26 AM)SmasherOfAss Wrote:  

(05-27-2017 02:57 AM)the high Wrote:  

(05-26-2017 10:03 PM)robreke Wrote:  I know I may get clobbered for this, but do black guys not want to date black women?

Black men who go after non-Black women are over-represented online. The overwhelming majority of Black men are into Black women. That's why I don't take these okcupid graphs that serious. According to okcupid Black men prefer Asian women over Black women? Not from what I've seen irl.

From what I've experienced, black guys aren't with Asian women because the women don't want to be with them. Maybe that's just the culture where I'm at (S.E. Wisconsin. Very ignorant, hood mentality in the black community with Asians having a much tighter family culture that promotes a pure blood line)..... or maybe i just like asians and am salty I've only had 1......

Not buying this. Let's face it, out of all races black men put the highest emphasis on ass. In the 80s and early 90s most black men would say they cant be with a white because they have flat asses. Now since then white American women have stepped it up in the ass department, and/or they became more comfortable about putting their...ahem.. assets on display.

Now Asian women are known for having the least amount of ass of all the races. I've never seen an Asian woman on the cover of King magazine and they rarely feature in hiphop videos in any capacity. Black american men are not generally checking for Asian women, average Black American preference is

1. Light skin black girl
2. White girl
3. Puerto rican or Dominican on East coast/ Mexican out West
4. Asian

Do some brothas catch yellow fever, especially among the more professional and affluent? Of course, no denying that. But those are outliers and no, they dont have it easy to get those women stateside. But their desires are far from the norm. If most brothas were secretly lusting after Asian women you would see way more high profile black celebs with the money and access in those types of relationships.

I would co-sign this. I personally love Asian girls, but I don't have much company among black men in that regard. Few of the black guys I know are quite as open to them as I am.

Not that I have a problem with this, mind you - less competition for me!

Post: #181

Definitely attracted to asian girls, personally, and have dated a couple in the past. Its just after exponentially more experiences of learning directly or indirectly that an asian chick I was digging was exclusively checking for white dudes, I stopped going after them.

May not be everyone's experience but its been mine. And they're the group I get by far the least response from on dating sites (OKC, match) as well. At this point, I see a cute asian on tinder, I swipe left. Nothing against them, its just a waste of the limited swipes available.

Still into asian looks, but Indian and Middle-Eastern girls i've always found the most attractive of anyone. Now thats a contingent I'd be willing to put time into cracking.

Post: #182

(05-27-2017 10:43 AM)thedarkknight Wrote:  

(05-27-2017 10:26 AM)SmasherOfAss Wrote:  

(05-27-2017 02:57 AM)the high Wrote:  

(05-26-2017 10:03 PM)robreke Wrote:  I know I may get clobbered for this, but do black guys not want to date black women?

Black men who go after non-Black women are over-represented online. The overwhelming majority of Black men are into Black women. That's why I don't take these okcupid graphs that serious. According to okcupid Black men prefer Asian women over Black women? Not from what I've seen irl.

From what I've experienced, black guys aren't with Asian women because the women don't want to be with them. Maybe that's just the culture where I'm at (S.E. Wisconsin. Very ignorant, hood mentality in the black community with Asians having a much tighter family culture that promotes a pure blood line)..... or maybe i just like asians and am salty I've only had 1......

Dude. Hood /lower socioeconomic people will struggle with Asians period. Even hood Asians will struggle with your average Asian.Those white dudes holding hands with Asians tend to have money.

In London, UK, Nigerian trainee doctors were smashing Asians left and right. They even had relationships. I am not joking. Four reasons why this could have happen:

(1) away from Asian community particularly parents ... being in a London medical school
(2) Chinese descent women are very very open to interracial in London esp with white dudes
(3) these brothers had status and education and had strong family values and were all round good guys. Just like your stereotypical Asian male but of a different race.Continental Africans share some similarities with Asians- Hard working and value education.
(4) from my recollection... the East Asians I saw weren't super religious. Spiritual, yes. Religious, no. If they were, they were Christian which most blacks are in the west.Again, just like the emphasis on hard work this is a cultural similarity.

I'm not saying these dudes were going to be brought home to the parents but they were defo fucking and having short term relationships. Girls were from Taiwan to Japan to Mainland China to Hong Kong. These brothers were Nigerian and Ghanaian.

Hell, I was in Kenya last month and my cousins husband worked with some Chinese ladies in Nairobi and they were extremely into fucking black men. I'm not saying your gonna be accepted. I'm not saying they won't prefer their own or a white dude but for short term fun:

(1) isolate from herd
(2) get your status and education up
(3) let her come to you. Give her enough data for her to see you as an "outlier" and outside the trend line her racist culture propagates. Also, direct game might not work so well with Asians... especially as a black.

Guess what? Online dating makes it extremely hard for you to be seen as an individual. You won't get social proof and you won't passively demonstrate value. You're just another black man. Might as well be a mugshot photo.

No racist.

Not every "brotha" is into fat bitches who rationalize it by saying "she got a fat ass though". For me, the thinner, the better, granted I appreciate a nice rack and cute ass. But as a black man who is really into Asian (along with damn near every variant of brown) women because of their thin bodies, demure nature, and their unique hair/eyes (call me a yellow fever patient if you must), I'll add another reason why the Nigerians were smashing Asian chicks with ease:

(5) They weren't in the United States.

At this point, I'm convinced that the negative black image is an American made concept. The only place I constantly feel this Black/Asian (or black/any other "minority") rift is in the United States. And I also believe that along with the handful of ghetto idiots who ruin it for all blacks in America, foreigners who tend to want to go to America tend to be more racist than those who seek to go to other first world countries. Why else would you as an immigrant choose to go to America over other nations that have universal healthcare, affordable universities, and an overall better quality of life.

Post: #183

Yeah I do co-sign what Ex said about Happas and white dudes.

That's pretty humorous. The number of straight-up racists you run into in china (hate chinese and all non-whites) with happa chinese kids is hilarious. Not saying lemon ice is racist, but just saying I don't really get the logic of wanting kids who look like you and then getting with an Asian woman. Your kid is going to be an obvious half-blood. I can spot a happa from 20 miles away.

You'd be better off doing a 23andme, finding out where in Europe your family is from, going there, finding a girl and knocking her up.

Not to mention, China is on the rise and Europe is on the decline, so good luck getting your kid to identify with a stagnant Europe when there is a burgeoning, wealthy China where he or she has many advantages and opportunities they simply wouldn't have in Europe. Just keeping it real.

Truthfully, I'd marry a Chinese woman for the connections more than anything. Being able to incorporate a business under a Chinese name and have a chinese face on your side is going to be more valuable than having a kid who looks like you in the long run.

tl;dr: if you want kids that look like you, then stop fucking outside of your race.

Post: #184

The other thing I agree with that has been said is that most black dudes are not into asian women.

I can confirm this in China. Most bros I know are fucking russian chicks. I've asked them about this and they've said, "The Chinese girls aren't that good looking and I have a far easier time with better looking white women since there aren't many quality foreigners in China."

Whenever I do meet a black dude here who really likes local girls he usually has a girlfriend who is no less than a 6 and sometimes significantly higher.

I don't think it's totally on the girls in many cases. I suspect many black guys show up here, get blown out at first by the Chinese girls (because they don't understand Chinese thinking), switch to white girls and never look back. It's a very rational move.

The good thing about China, as opposed to USA, is that you don't have parents polluting their kids' minds with shit like:

"Dont date black men, they beat their women!"

I'm not even shitting you, wealthy american-chinese tell their kids that stuff.

I know this because a close friend of mine (Chinese-American violinist) told me her mom said that to her when she was like 13. Not sure if she ever did date a black dude, but that's the sort of bullshit you're up against back home.

The irony of that statement about black men is that Chinese dudes in China can publically beat the shit out of their kids and no one says shit.

Anyway, Don't write Asia off just because asian chicks are whacky back home.

Post: #185

America does something to women who immigrate there.

Not saying things are perfect abroad but if you go to the source (Thailand, Malaysia, Indonesia) then you will have a much easier time pulling

Hell...head out to the west coast and you will find Asian girls to be much more receptive than the ones west of Cali.

Post: #186

One of the dating sites does annual studies where they show racial preference. I don't remember specific details, but I know it gels with what the OP is saying. Excluding their own race, all races found whites most attractive, and blacks least attractive.

It's hard out there for a black man.

Post: #187

(05-30-2017 10:17 PM)Mentavious Wrote:  America does something to women who immigrate there.

Not saying things are perfect abroad but if you go to the source (Thailand, Malaysia, Indonesia) then you will have a much easier time pulling

Women are hypergamous - they've evolved to be that way because their very survival depended on it. In the US, through subtle and not-so-subtle signals from the surrounding culture in which they are embedded, they come to internalize a certain hierarchy and they seek mates at or near the top of this culturally dictated hierarchy.

Once you leave the country for another culture, that other culture has different rules and has programmed its women differently, so you may find that your place in the hierarchy there is quite different than it is at home. This, in my experience as a non-white guy, is true even if you completely discount the "he's from the US" factor.

Post: #188

In America I don't think it is that well known that black men are not big into Asian women. When ever I mention this to white dudes they think I am saying crazy shit, I'm assuming most people just think blacks would hit anything.


Stereo-typically speaking, Asian bodies aren't really what black men are into and I don't think a lot of black guys have a fetish over Asian facial features the way white communities tend too.

The average black guy in North America would definitely take a black, latina or white person over an Asian person. Though I am not sure what any of this really proves, black men are clearly the least wanted on dating apps.

Post: #189

I personally know that Chinese women face a backlash family wise if they marry a Black guy because I've heard this directly from Chinese women on more than one occasion despite fucking these women in every way imaginable. You can fuck them but you they may not agree to be your girlfriend or wife.

Post: #190

(05-31-2017 11:58 AM)BassPlayaYo Wrote:  I personally know that Chinese women face a backlash family wise if they marry a Black guy because I've heard this directly from Chinese women on more than one occasion despite fucking these women in every way imaginable. You can fuck them but you they may not agree to be your girlfriend or wife.

Are you black or have I not been paying attention?

Post: #191

(05-31-2017 12:15 PM)Fortis Wrote:  

(05-31-2017 11:58 AM)BassPlayaYo Wrote:  I personally know that Chinese women face a backlash family wise if they marry a Black guy because I've heard this directly from Chinese women on more than one occasion despite fucking these women in every way imaginable. You can fuck them but you they may not agree to be your girlfriend or wife.

Are you black or have I not been paying attention?

You haven't been paying attention.

Post: #192

(05-30-2017 07:14 PM)Fortis Wrote:  Yeah I do co-sign what Ex said about Happas and white dudes.

That's pretty humorous. The number of straight-up racists you run into in china (hate chinese and all non-whites) with happa chinese kids is hilarious.

I'm not surprised. Even outside of China, this kind of thing is even more common than you'd think.

Post: #193

Regarding black men dating Asian women, here's my two cents as a black guy who's into "Pan-Minority"(black, Latina, Asian, Native, Mixed, etc.) dating/gaming:

1.Southeast Asian women(excluding Vietnamese and Singaporean women)

I find this group to be the easiest for black(and Hispanic) men to date or bang and even marry. They're usually very approachable towards black men. Sometimes, you can even have a few "stereotypical" qualities about yourself and have an easy time gaming them as long as you're not a full blown thug or bum.

Filipinas, Cambodians, Laotian, and Thai women are, hands down, the easiest Asian women for black men to hook up with in the U.S. outside of Americanized Japanese girls(which I'll touch on later).

Part of the reason for this is that Southeast Asians as a whole have largely adopted "urban/black culture" as part of their identity in the West so there's less social distance between blacks and Southeast Asians generally speaking.

Another reason is that Southeast Asian cultures(especially Filipino) are generally no where near as stoic or calculating as Northeast Asian cultures. If you have a fairly good job and have your head screwed on tight along with being a Christian, very few Filipinas and their parents will give you problems.

2. Vietnamese and Singaporean women

These are the two Southeast Asian groups that are more likely to scoff at the idea of dating a black guy. For Vietnamese, it's mainly traditional. Heck, a lot of Vietnamese people I've known have parents who are still hesitant with their daughters dating white men, never mind black men. Vietnamese people are very ethnocentric with regards to dating/marriage and I kind of respect that.

As for Singaporeans, they're very much a white worshipping group and they even look down on other Southeast Asians such as Filipinos. Singaporeans generally come to the U.S. as expats to fulfill their "Western fantasy" and black men aren't considered "Western" in Singapore which puts us at a disadvantage with them.

3. Chinese/Japanese/Koreans

I've only dated Americanized Japanese girls(of the Nisei/Sansei variety) out of this group. THEY were the ones who approached me as opposed to vice versa. I also had the pleasure of meeting their parents. I can't put my finger on it but Japanese seem to have the least stigma towards dating black men out of all the Northeast Asian girls.

As for Chinese/Koreans, both groups have parents who would disown them for bringing home a black guy(though not as bad as the last group in this regard). With Korean families, it's all about tribalism and sticking together. With Chinese families, it's all about status symbols and affluence with a dose of white worship. I've been friends with many Chinese girls(and guys) back in college and I even got to "date" some in the Student Center lounge(albeit it wasn't a romantic type of date).

Korean and Chinese girls are more receptive of black guys(especially decent ones) than one might expect, but they're raised to obey their parents no matter what and their parents only want them to bring home an East Asian or white guy home. Even a Filipino would have a difficult time being accepted.

I've had opportunities to get into relationships with Chinese girls but their parents were the number one catalyst for us remaining friends.

4. South Asian girls(Indian, Pakistani, Afghan, Bengali)

Easily the HARDEST group of Asian girls for black guys to date/bang, especially when you factor in parents. Every Indian girl I've met told me their fathers would literally murder them if they date a black guy. Pakistani girls told me the same thing. South Asians are very clannish and nepotistic when it comes to marriage on a level that's beyond East Asians due partly to religion and caste.

I could go on and on but, for South Asian girls, I would go the Indo-Guyanese or Indo-Trinidadian route.

That's just based on my experiences though. Feel free to disagree.

Post: #194

Any NON white guy in the US will do worse then his or her white counterpart. Duh, this is obvious. You're in a country where the majority is white. The girls I match all at least are attractive to Asians, its niche game.

Now lets flip the switch and go to Thailand and I can guarantee you even with the online bias towards foreigners (it is an anglo dating app) I am at even level if not much higher then my foreign counterparts.

What's better is to find a big African country with lots of tinder or Brazil and set up your profile and see how many matches you get then. I'd wager just as much as your white counterpart.

Bottom Line: Wherever you're the majority, your going to be at an advantage vs a minority where you play NICHE game. So take it for what its worth and stop complaining and adapt. Use the good pics for Tinder thread and go from there.

Post: #195

(12-09-2016 05:58 PM)LikeABaller Wrote:  

(12-09-2016 05:41 PM)the high Wrote:  

(12-09-2016 12:02 PM)LikeABaller Wrote:  ...
Asian women are very racist towards black men, no need to be PC about this.
Let me rephrase it, asian women are flat out racist. They will choose a average looking white guy over a good looking black guy any day. They are even racist towards their own race.

IMHO Indian and Asian guys have it far worse in the states than black men.
....

If you yourself aren't a Black or Asian male how are you at liberty to draw such a conclusion?

Call me a weirdo but I made many fake profiles on Thaifriendly to test the responses of girls.

Black muscular dude who was way better looking than me wasn't getting 20% of the attention I was getting. I made fake profiles of indian/asian/arab/white guy too.
My fake german profile got the most attention.

I'm a nerd when it comes to these stuff. Trust me, I did my homework.

You might say It will be different real life, on that I'll agree with you 100%.

So you used ThaiFriendly a notorious site for foreign (primarily white) hunters to test out your hypothesis? Come on I expected better data then that. At the very minimum use tinder and compare matches.

Post: #196

I may have a dis-advantage online, but lucky for me I can meet way more girls offline.

I rarely see guys approaching girls in public, Roosh stated in his last Q and A that 99% of men don't approach. I would agree with this stat.

So arguing about online dating seems pointless to me.

Post: #197

South Asians... pfft don't bother. Too much bullshit to even bother getting in a relationship with those lot. I just treat them like dudes to be honest. That's my level of romantic interest in them. No pussy is worth my head.

I learnt my lesson.

(07-26-2017 09:11 PM)time67 Wrote:  Regarding black men dating Asian women, here's my two cents as a black guy who's into "Pan-Minority"(black, Latina, Asian, Native, Mixed, etc.) dating/gaming:

1.Southeast Asian women(excluding Vietnamese and Singaporean women)

I find this group to be the easiest for black(and Hispanic) men to date or bang and even marry. They're usually very approachable towards black men. Sometimes, you can even have a few "stereotypical" qualities about yourself and have an easy time gaming them as long as you're not a full blown thug or bum.

Filipinas, Cambodians, Laotian, and Thai women are, hands down, the easiest Asian women for black men to hook up with in the U.S. outside of Americanized Japanese girls(which I'll touch on later).

Part of the reason for this is that Southeast Asians as a whole have largely adopted "urban/black culture" as part of their identity in the West so there's less social distance between blacks and Southeast Asians generally speaking.

Another reason is that Southeast Asian cultures(especially Filipino) are generally no where near as stoic or calculating as Northeast Asian cultures. If you have a fairly good job and have your head screwed on tight along with being a Christian, very few Filipinas and their parents will give you problems.

2. Vietnamese and Singaporean women

These are the two Southeast Asian groups that are more likely to scoff at the idea of dating a black guy. For Vietnamese, it's mainly traditional. Heck, a lot of Vietnamese people I've known have parents who are still hesitant with their daughters dating white men, never mind black men. Vietnamese people are very ethnocentric with regards to dating/marriage and I kind of respect that.

As for Singaporeans, they're very much a white worshipping group and they even look down on other Southeast Asians such as Filipinos. Singaporeans generally come to the U.S. as expats to fulfill their "Western fantasy" and black men aren't considered "Western" in Singapore which puts us at a disadvantage with them.

3. Chinese/Japanese/Koreans

I've only dated Americanized Japanese girls(of the Nisei/Sansei variety) out of this group. THEY were the ones who approached me as opposed to vice versa. I also had the pleasure of meeting their parents. I can't put my finger on it but Japanese seem to have the least stigma towards dating black men out of all the Northeast Asian girls.

As for Chinese/Koreans, both groups have parents who would disown them for bringing home a black guy(though not as bad as the last group in this regard). With Korean families, it's all about tribalism and sticking together. With Chinese families, it's all about status symbols and affluence with a dose of white worship. I've been friends with many Chinese girls(and guys) back in college and I even got to "date" some in the Student Center lounge(albeit it wasn't a romantic type of date).

Korean and Chinese girls are more receptive of black guys(especially decent ones) than one might expect, but they're raised to obey their parents no matter what and their parents only want them to bring home an East Asian or white guy home. Even a Filipino would have a difficult time being accepted.

I've had opportunities to get into relationships with Chinese girls but their parents were the number one catalyst for us remaining friends.

4. South Asian girls(Indian, Pakistani, Afghan, Bengali)

Easily the HARDEST group of Asian girls for black guys to date/bang, especially when you factor in parents. Every Indian girl I've met told me their fathers would literally murder them if they date a black guy. Pakistani girls told me the same thing. South Asians are very clannish and nepotistic when it comes to marriage on a level that's beyond East Asians due partly to religion and caste.

I could go on and on but, for South Asian girls, I would go the Indo-Guyanese or Indo-Trinidadian route.

That's just based on my experiences though. Feel free to disagree.