Post: #9876

How was the whole being a bull in a cuckhold situation thing?

I've been offered so many times and it's just too weird for me man. I don't like sharing at all, if a girl mentions that she's fucked a guy that I know or have met around me it's almost always an instant disqualification. I don't know.

How was it?

Post: #9877

New idea for finding "good girls," wife material, etc.

Preface....How do we typically meet girls?

-Cold approach - daygame, nightgame
-Social Circle - meet well-connected girls & guys, they bring friends, you fuck
-Online game

What about the good girls who don't go to clubs, who aren't on Tinder, and whose social circle you can't crack? Your only bets on meeting girls like that are if you meet her at Church or run into her at Whole Foods. Slim chances.

Here's my idea:

1. Be a successful business man
2. Be a good looking, high value male
3. (Important) Network your ass off. Have a career or job that requires constant contact. Real estate, business owner, exec...or most likely, sales.
4. Become friends with successful, smart, mid 30's - 60's men who are married. Become their drinking buddies. After a few beers, mention how you can't seem to find a good girl to settle down with. It'll come up.

5. ???

6. Connections introduce you to their YOUNG "virgin" daughter.

He's just as bearish of the dating market as you are. He doesn't want his daughter on Tinder. He's conservative enough to want his daughter to get married off early, instead of riding the career hamster wheel. He wants grandkids. He knows you're a good guy. He's okay with the age gap because...well it's 2020 and life expectancy is through the roof.

Pretty much what happened when Snowplow tried to snake Doc Holliday's daughter...but...it'll work.

Post: #9878

Well redbeard, while you're becoming their drinking buddy, you'd better not talk about your sexual conquests, that trip to Thailand, or the threesome you had last weekend. Don't drink too much and suck up to them a lot. Let them win at golf.

Seriously, nobody's going to let you fuck their daughter.

Post: #9879

Look at the amused mastery this baby has.





Top notch skills kid. I'm gonna have to make an in-depth post on the pickup skills babies have.

Post: #9880

(05-29-2017 12:57 AM)Eugenics Wrote:  How was the whole being a bull in a cuckhold situation thing?

I've been offered so many times and it's just too weird for me man. I don't like sharing at all, if a girl mentions that she's fucked a guy that I know or have met around me it's almost always an instant disqualification. I don't know.

How was it?

It was good, she was really into it. I would say do it at least once man. It was kinda weird with the dude being there (stayed in the living room while we went to the bedroom) and I was nervous having never done shit like this but after I got hard it was just another bang know what I mean. Did my thing, she loved it and I will see her again on tuesday.

As far the pussy hoarder thing I know what you mean, but its starting to bother me less and less. Im not at the "running train" carelessness nor do I ever intend to cross that line, but women are far too scandalous about having multiple partners that I have chosen not to let it effect me anymore.
I feel like if I really held women to that standard I would lose out on a good amount of bangs

Post: #9881

Special shout out to these ladies that always push me to give one more fuck less. as you turn me into a better player I hold each of you in a special place in my toilet

Post: #9882

Went to a burger place this weekend, I was in hurry though.

Anyways this blonde, solid 8, blue eyes and about 19-21 years old takes my order she immediately caught my attention but I tend to not game on girls while they are working, they always give this looking for orbiter vibe. The place was pretty dead, besides two dudes cooking in the back. When I got my food she says with a smile, "you have really pretty eyebrows."

To this I simply smirked and said thank you, while walking away. Did I mess up an obvious opportunity or was my original vibe on point? Hard to tell I suppose. The only thing to do would be to go next around the same time and see what happens.

Any opinions on this?

Post: #9883

Met a girl at a party the other day who doesn't have social media. No Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat, not even WhatsApp. Checked her phone just to see as well.

She didn't ask about my job until about 30 minutes had passed as well and when she did I commented that it's refreshing that she didn't immediately ask that filler (status evaluating) question.

Says she's recently come out of a 5 year relationship and doesn't feel comfortable getting physical quickly as it's "disrespectful". Showed that much as well keeping an almost awkward level of physical distance from each other at all times.

Then after a few drinks and hours later I'm making out with her. And then an hour later she's making out with another guy I know. Later on texts me saying can we move past this, we were all pretty wasted.

I feel that I'm losing the ability to identify good girls. I assume they're sluts until proven otherwise but it's become increasingly difficult to recategorise them as non-sluts as I keep seeing girls with these "good girl" traits still be sluts.

We all know there's a whole host of slut tells, what's been the strongest good girl tells in your experience?

(05-30-2017 10:57 AM)Oz. Wrote:  Any opinions on this?

She was trying to start conversation, I would have continued it and if you're in a hurry then just get the number after as long time as you can spare.

Though ideally your default response should be to banter with any working girls you see before they initiate conversation with you, because at the minimum you've made her smile and get better service.

Post: #9884

What a fucking weekend.

Had a blast in vegas at the music festival, got a few girls numbers, almost banged a cougar blondie with some fake tits, I did end getting wasted, matching a vegas local at the festival, took her back to my room and banged her, unfortunately woke up in the morning and she was a 5.5 at best, I banged her a few times also, great at sucking dick. Now she's been blowing my phone ever since.

I had a wedding on Sunday, which was super mellow, ended early also, I didn't even check into my hotel room, I ended up bouncing with this couple I know, there was barely any potential, and my friends wanted to do more blow but I was over it.

Ended up coming yesterday morning, had a girl come over, she couldn't bang, so she blew me topless, I love seeing DDD's hanging by my balls.

Road around for awhile, grabbed a beer and food at my favorite bar, then went home, tried getting a girl to come over, no dice, sick and on her rag.

From then on out I just chilled the fuck out.

Gonna hit the gym hard this evening, got a date after, also have another date lined up tomorrow and maybe a plate Thursday.

Can't complain life is good.

Post: #9885

2 teenagers on the street in 3 days telling me I look too old, target's friend today used the word "dad". I thought my ego was pretty dead but...fucking ouch! I don't look that much older than last year, do I? Still getting numbers but need to get some even thicker skin it seems. And maybe some botox.

Post: #9886

Had a married woman put it right on me tonight at the gym.

Don't often go to the muay thai class, mostly stick to the MMA but when ever I do, she's there.

Shes flirted with me before but always as part of general sexual banter between me her and the class instructor, whom I'm pretty sure has been fucking her, so I never really took much notice.

She's also only average looking, maybe a 6.5, but has that dirty look that you just know she'd be a good fuck.
Size 10, 32 year old mum but has a nice firm arse.

havnt seen her in a couple of months.

I'm walking down from the car park and she comes next to me and says hi, apologises if her hair looks greasy but she just put coconut oil in it.
I laugh and call her a soapy bitch and say she needs to wash more, she says no really, it's all nicely lubed up now and gives me the look.

I say it just needs pulling now then and give her pony tail a yank.

The normal instructor is not in tonight.

After the class I'm sitting on the floor stretching off and she's comes stands next to me yabbering on about her fitness goals and general shit.

I ask if she's trying to get a firmer butt, she says yeah but it's actually pretty good already.

I raise an eyebrow and study it for a second before motioning her to turn around so I can prod it.
She gives me an unamused look, so I laugh and motion that I'll just punch it gently to feel.

She turns around and I give it a little smack, then a pinch and finally poke it with my finger and say not bad.

After 10 mins I get up and go into the changing rooms and she follows me in, carrys on talking.

I start turning the convo sexual asking if she's got high T, she says yeah, I ask how she knows and if she has a high sex drive?
she says yeah and if she didn't groom she'd be really hairy. Starts showing me her lats and pecs.

I ask who's boss out of her and her husband, she smirks and then starts telling me he hates her going out because she just goes wild and doesn't end up coming back til the next day.

Says she hates getting older.
I say marriage can get boring and ask if she has a bit of fun every now and then? maybe with the trainer??

She says no way, not her type and besides she's married and wouldn't risk her eldest (not by her current husband) going through that again.

All the while we've been talking we've been giving each other the eye and shes been standing close but her saying that made me think she's prob just flirting for the sake of it again.

So I walk out to the car park and she walks with me and as we get to her car I say bye, she asks if I'll be there next time, I carry on walking to my car and say maybe.

She pouts and says you won't get to see me then and gives me a proper look right in the eye.

I smile and say maybe, she says come...you'll get to see me again and fixes me with another look.

I grin and wink and she gets into her car, then she's still looking at me right in the eye out of her car window, almost hanging around like a sad puppy dog waiting for me to go over and do something.

I don't and eventually she drives off.

Thing is, I don't especially want to fuck her, partly because she's not the fittest bird I could get and partly because she's married and it just doesn't feel right even though she's pretty much put it out on a plate for me.

Ironically, her husband is a guy I knew at school who was one of the leaders of the 'cool' group who used to pick on me a bit, so a small part of me thinks it would be funny if i now fucked his wife.

But a bigger part thinks it's actually beneath me to get 'revenge' 20 years later for something that doesn't actually bother me at all.

Post: #9887

One of my buddies let me know someone thought I was too forward with a girl at a party yesterday. Gotta remember to keep my game on the down low.

Post: #9888

(05-30-2017 05:46 PM)MediumRare Wrote:  Thing is, I don't especially want to fuck her, partly because she's not the fittest bird I could get and partly because she's married and it just doesn't feel right even though she's pretty much put it out on a plate for me.

Ironically, her husband is a guy I knew at school who was one of the leaders of the 'cool' group who used to pick on me a bit, so a small part of me thinks it would be funny if i now fucked his wife.

But a bigger part thinks it's actually beneath me to get 'revenge' 20 years later for something that doesn't actually bother me at all.

Post: #9889

(05-30-2017 07:55 PM)YoungBlade Wrote:  One of my buddies let me know someone thought I was too forward with a girl at a party yesterday. Gotta remember to keep my game on the down low.

So? Too forward? Would you rather someone thought you were a bitch?

What did you say - "Come get naked at my house, hoe". How bad could it have been?

Being socially uncalibrated and being "too forward" is a lot better than staying in your bubble and doing nothing. I'm sure you have room to improve, as everyone does. Don't kick yourself too much for going after what you want though, that's silly.

Post: #9890

(05-31-2017 03:26 AM)Eugenics Wrote:  

(05-30-2017 07:55 PM)YoungBlade Wrote:  One of my buddies let me know someone thought I was too forward with a girl at a party yesterday. Gotta remember to keep my game on the down low.

So? Too forward? Would you rather someone thought you were a bitch?

What did you say - "Come get naked at my house, hoe". How bad could it have been?

Being socially uncalibrated and being "too forward" is a lot better than staying in your bubble and doing nothing. I'm sure you have room to improve, as everyone does. Don't kick yourself too much for going after what you want though, that's silly.

I made a bet with a dude's fiancée where if I beat her in a game of pool I took her anal virginity, and if she won she got to use my dick. And I made her bend over the pool table and spanked her with the cue.

Post: #9891

So, did you win the bet?

Post: #9892

(05-31-2017 06:22 AM)Malone Wrote:  So, did you win the bet?

Lost. Either way I get laid. She made out with me in her car and was rubbin on my dick, but we couldn't stay gone too long or else it'd have been more suspicious.

Post: #9893

(05-31-2017 06:34 AM)YoungBlade Wrote:  

(05-31-2017 06:22 AM)Malone Wrote:  So, did you win the bet?

Lost. Either way I get laid. She made out with me in her car and was rubbin on my dick, but we couldn't stay gone too long or else it'd have been more suspicious.

Shit, just think somebody's about to wife that hoe up geez

Post: #9894

(05-31-2017 09:28 AM)MY DETROIT PLAYAS Wrote:  

(05-31-2017 06:34 AM)YoungBlade Wrote:  

(05-31-2017 06:22 AM)Malone Wrote:  So, did you win the bet?

Lost. Either way I get laid. She made out with me in her car and was rubbin on my dick, but we couldn't stay gone too long or else it'd have been more suspicious.

Shit, just think somebody's about to wife that how up geez

Yeah, and he even told me a story about how his last girlfriend was her friend who was a "cheating whore."

Post: #9895

(05-31-2017 09:59 AM)YoungBlade Wrote:  

(05-31-2017 09:28 AM)MY DETROIT PLAYAS Wrote:  

(05-31-2017 06:34 AM)YoungBlade Wrote:  

(05-31-2017 06:22 AM)Malone Wrote:  So, did you win the bet?

Lost. Either way I get laid. She made out with me in her car and was rubbin on my dick, but we couldn't stay gone too long or else it'd have been more suspicious.

Shit, just think somebody's about to wife that how up geez

Yeah, and he even told me a story about how his last girlfriend was her friend who was a "cheating whore."

Guess the guy in question has an MO for cheating whores then eh ?

Post: #9896

I think I've finally come full circle on understanding pickup. It's funny how you sometimes need to go through really stupid things to find out what really works.

My results recently have exploded. Before I get to why, I'll explain my journey.

- Terrible results with girls all the way through high school and early 20's.

- I find out about game material and start doing all these canned routines, negs, dhv's, etc.

- I get ok results, which make me believe this is the stuff I need to be doing. I act like an asshole, I play aloof, and everything else I'd been reading.

- Results are extremely inconsistent. I still get approach anxiety, I catch myself not knowing what to say next, I get good hooks and then they flake out. Other nights I kill it and everything is great.

- I keep reading everything about game like a fuckin sperg. Openers, transitions, body language, story telling, jokes. Everything I can get my hands on I read.

- Same results. One night is amazing, the next I get blown out over and over again.

- At this point I start getting mad. I can do little parlor tricks and get people to talk, but I don't have any consistency at all. And these parlor tricks don't work on the hotter girls that I want.

Back to square 1.

- I fucking hate what I'm doing when I go out. I feel like I have to put on some kind of persona so that I can get any results.

- I stop all the bullshit and wipe my memory clean of these autistic strategies of picking up women, and I think to myself "I'm a cool person, I'm going to be myself, people can take it or leave it."

- My new goal when going out. Have fun. Get out of your head and HAVE FUN.

- BOOM! Results explode like a volcano.

- I'm now naturally not giving a fuck what people think about me. I go up to girls and open with ridiculous lines, or absolutely nothing at all. I spin girls around like a top, get them making out with their girl friends, grab their drinks, etc. I do anything I want to do. I'm the party, be apart of it or not, that's your choice.

- I'm now incredibly silly with girls. I make weird faces to girls, I stick out my tounge at them, I make animal noises, all of it makes them laugh their asses off.

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Fuck all that game manual bullshit.

Here are the rules.

1. Get out of your head. When you're in your head, you're reacting. Get her in her head.

"Uh what do I say next?"
"I really want to fuck this girl"
"Should I say a or b?"
"I wonder if this girl likes me?

STOP THAT SHIT. GET THE FUCK OUT OF YOUR HEAD.

Quote from Archie: If I'm reacting, all problems, no pussy. If she's reacting, all pussy no problems.

2. Have Fun.




3. Say the things you want to say without hesitation.

Hesitation or resistence will kill your chances. Just do it and assume it will work.

4. Never put women on pedestals.

They are all the same. I now see all attractive girls as 10/10's that need to show me that they are fun to be around. Can this girl hang out with me and my crew? Her tits, nose, chin, eyes, cheek bones won't cut it. She needs to bring something else. The pedestal is what hurts almost every man out there.

"Oh man that girl is so fucking hot, she's a 9 easily." If you believe this, you'll be coming from a position of weakness. That's if you think beauty is the only thing a woman can provide. But if I feel i'm a 10 out of 10 and this girl only looks good but needs to show she's fun, then we come in at an equal wavelength. You won't be afraid to say or do the things you want if you come from this mindset.

5. Words are only like 13% of communication. Don't worry about what you say. Like I said earlier, I don't really focus on words. I can just make faces, make noises, grab the girl and pick her up, spin her around, anything. That shit is far more effective than having witty lines to use when you talk.

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If you follow those rules, you'll do way better than any game manual, scripts, lines or anything else you memorize. But I will say this, if you want to get even better at this natural way of game, then I will recommend one product. The Blueprint Decoded. That's the best game product I've ever come across, and will shatter your expectations about what RSD is. It's all about getting into "State" where you can do practically anything you want. It is not about spam approaching, or any of that nonsense at all.

If you have an aversion to RSD, then this will be the only other piece of work that I will recommend on Game.



That book is the player's guide to the galaxy.

Post: #9897

(05-31-2017 12:08 PM)kaotic Wrote:  Guess the guy in question has an MO for cheating whores then eh ?

Yeah, it probably doesn't help that he's blind (can only use a smartphone if it's an inch from his face), so he can't see the thousand cock stare. You'd think he could tell by their cavernous vaginas though.

Post: #9898

(05-30-2017 07:55 PM)YoungBlade Wrote:  One of my buddies let me know someone thought I was too forward with a girl at a party yesterday. Gotta remember to keep my game on the down low.

As long as they don't have any power to stop you from talking to girls, ignore that. If you put yourself out there and approach and be direct, you are going to attract haters and lovers. If they can't hang then fuck 'em. Don't water yourself down.

Also, strong game can go unnoticed to those who aren't affiliated. It can be super stealthy.

Post: #9899

Thanks soup, I'll keep that in mind. I've gotten in trouble for having too intense a personality before, so I may just be overthinking my intentionally strong game.

Post: #9900

I had a plate who was getting too clingy so I had to cool her down.

She was a nice girl but probably had high notch count. I didn't want to burn bridges or piss her off because karma plus I wanted to leave the legs door open for future bangs.

She kept texting me to hang out so I sent her a text like this:

"Hey I don't think I can hang out, I'm kind of getting into a serious relationship and think it'd be best if we didn't mess around."

This way:
-She isn't hurt
-Says I still like her enough to respect her
-Shows that I was banging other chicks
-Increased jealousy ^^
-I'm being "a good guy"

I had been reading a lot of YaReally so this sort of open relationship stuff was on my mind. It worked out well.

She was totally cool about it and we kept texting on and off. A few weeks later I was bored and horny so I texted her to hang out. AFTER banging she asked what happened with the other girl, I said "oh it wasn't working out." That was the end of the discussion.