Post: #1

Here's the deal: There's this cute blonde hottie who works in the shoe store in one of the malls in town who flashed me an IOI on Saturday. The IOI went as follows: She was approaching from the opposite direct in the mall. As she gets closer, we exchange direct eye contact, and she turns away for a split second but then looks back at me with a flirty smile. I then do a double take about 2 seconds after she had passed me and I caught her looking back at me smiling.

So, on this basis, I have reason to believe that she may well be open to an approach, even though I've never spoken to her before. I've previously caught her casting glances at me when I was in the store where she works, although the fact that's she quite hot had led me to ruling myself out of approaching her up to now.

Now, she seems quite a bubbly type from what I've gleaned of her character, so I doubt that she would be scared of a direct approach. She's also got quite a few tats, which has got me wondering whether she's quite slutty, too, although I'm looking first and foremost snag at least a couple bangs to break my megaslump, rather than to wife her up. I'm generally put off by tats on a girl, but this girl has pornstar looks (blonde bob, very sassily dressed in tight jeans, pert tits, the works) and so it might even mean that she's more DTF than would otherwise be the case, which is fine by me, if true.

Anyway, given that there seems to be clear interest from her side, I was wondering how to play it from here. I intend to pay her a visit on Monday again after work, but have been pondering over whether to go direct by telling her that I find her quite cute and asking straight up for a date or whether to use the props in the store to get into a conversation and then segueing into asking more about her. The problem with the latter is that, although it gives both of us a certain plausible deniability, she's going to know its bullshit and might think that although I look quite edgy, I don't have the balls to straight up put my cards on the table, thus resulting in her losing interest. I've found in my daygame approaches that many German girls can be quite sexually direct and won't take offence at you opening them on cold if they like what they see and they jive with your vibe.

I was also thinking of using the fact that she's got quite a few tats on her arms as itself an opener by cheekily asking whether she's also got them elsewhere on her body, but don't know whether this would be the best an an opener or to ask her this only after I'd already opened her with something else.

I'd be grateful for any ideas from fellow RVFers, however madcap.

Post: #2

"You. Show me shoes"
"Wow, tattoos"

"Hey do you work here?"
-duh
"Why don't you help me out then?"
-with what
"With putting down your number in my phone"

"Nice tats, do you wanna see mine?"
-maybe
"It's on my ballss.. sleeves. See"
-no
"Well, put down your number in my phone anyway"

"Hey, don't you get bored standing here all day?"
-kinda
"Let me take you out for coffee, when's your shift over?"

"Are you a natural blonde?"
-ya
"Really?"
-ya
"Are you serious?"
-ya
"Cool. I'm Feldeinsamkeit. You?"

*Whistle*
-what
"You're cute"
- ya
"Wanna go out?"
- yaaaaaaaa

*Show her shoes you picked*
"What do you think about these?"
-cool, buy 'em
"Think carefully, I'll wear them on our date"
-omg, take my number already.

"Do you even work here or just stand there?"
-i work
"You twerk? Cool"

Does this count as madcap? (I don't know what's madcap)

Post: #3

(03-19-2017 08:05 AM)Feldeinsamkeit Wrote:  Here's the deal: There's this cute blonde hottie who works in the shoe store in one of the malls in town who flashed me an IOI on Saturday. The IOI went as follows: She was approaching from the opposite direct in the mall. As she gets closer, we exchange direct eye contact, and she turns away for a split second but then looks back at me with a flirty smile. I then do a double take about 2 seconds after she had passed me and I caught her looking back at me smiling.

You think youre the only guy she smiled at that day?,,,doubt it

Don't over think this one. Dont think at all. Just approach and chat with intention (dont tell her she's cute....just ask for her number or better yet a date). This girl is down to

Post: #4

Fuck

Post: #5

(03-19-2017 10:33 AM)Harami Wrote:  Fuck

^^^Did Harami see the ban hammer coming at him?

Post: #6

(03-19-2017 10:41 AM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  

(03-19-2017 10:33 AM)Harami Wrote:  Fuck

^^^Did Harami see the ban hammer coming at him?

Cobra and me were trying to help him out. Too bad though, there are lots of weird Indian guys out there

Post: #7

You: You look like a girl who would know about good shoes.
Her: Haha really why?
You: You just do.
Her: Well blah blah blah
You: Yeah. You also have nice tattoos.
Her: Thanks
You: I'm sure your taste in good shoes means you have some good taste in tattoos.
Her: Well yeah.
You: Look at that one, what does that mean?
Her: Blah blah blah
You: Yeah, you must have some tattoos in other areas, maybe some naughty ones. *sly smile*
Her: OMG blah blah blah.
You: Yeah, I know you have naughty tattoos.
Her: *blushes* blah blah blah
You: Yeah, you seem nice. Wanna get a coffee?

Post: #8

Take a deep breath, and dive in with zero fucks given attitude. Then improvise. That's the best you can do. She's one of many. Yesterday, there was a hot chick at a traffic lights awaiting green light. I started to care how to approach her. Then she immediately entered Topshop AND I lost her. I started to care. Had I not, I would've spit at least mediocre game when I saw her, maybe get her number, maybe not. Now, I can only regret I passed on this opportunity because I started to care about the outcome. She's one of many. Zero fucks given, my friend. Be like a jazzman appreciated for his skills to catch the tune on the fly and play out a beautiful solo without much thinking. The less you care, the better (non-verbal) game will flow. Remember, she's one of many and she doesn't care about you. So why should you?

Post: #9

"Hi"

Post: #10

You need to start one thread about your re location to Germany.

We don't need all these threads basically asking the same thing.

ZFG.

Post: #11

(03-22-2017 10:46 AM)ksbms Wrote:  Take a deep breath, and dive in with zero fucks given attitude. Then improvise. That's the best you can do. She's one of many. Yesterday, there was a hot chick at a traffic lights awaiting green light. I started to care how to approach her. Then she immediately entered Topshop AND I lost her. I started to care. Had I not, I would've spit at least mediocre game when I saw her, maybe get her number, maybe not. Now, I can only regret I passed on this opportunity because I started to care about the outcome. She's one of many. Zero fucks given, my friend. Be like a jazzman appreciated for his skills to catch the tune on the fly and play out a beautiful solo without much thinking. The less you care, the better (non-verbal) game will flow. Remember, she's one of many and she doesn't care about you. So why should you?

Well, I did exactly what you recommended, even before I read your post. After getting snubbed by the hot 8 with an ample rack who works in the discount store who I'd been running slow roast game on, I thought, fuck it, in for a penny, in a for a pound and headed defiantly to the shoe shop. I saw the tatted-up blonde and immediately went up to her as she was arranging some flowers next to the shoes, opening by making on a comment on the flowers whilst alluding to her tats (it's a bit complicated to explain the word play here). Unfortunately, I did it in English and it became clear that she wasn't really that fluent in the language. On the plus side, I noticed that she seemed to be acting really girly around me and quite nervous, but smiling and giving me really good fuck me eye contact as I was joking about her tats and the flowers with her, before she moved away unsure of what to say. In hindsight, I really should have opened her in German, but it's not the words that count, but the body language and overall vibe and that was pretty good, I would say.

I'll have to go back and game her in German and really be consistent in adopting the ZFG mindset recommended here.

Post: #12

Here ya go man. Always go digging thru the archives from time to time. Theres gold all over the place if you look hard enough

Line for fast food girls: /thread-10456...#pid160840

Post: #13

I thought she was flashing you and you were wondering how to open her after that. Thoroughly disappointed.

Post: #14

Do you ever approach 10 girls so you won't be so preoccupied with one particular set going well? Not exactly cutting edge advice but it works.