(11-27-2016 07:14 AM)tobehero Wrote:  

(11-27-2016 07:06 AM)JWLZG Wrote:  In the past 5 weeks — since this current incarnation of Tinder — I've netted the following stats:
85 matches, maybe 60 of whom ended up responding
30 number closes
4 dates
1 bang
2 more makeouts out of those

Does such a match-to-bang rate seem to be pretty on par for you guys?

It's quite a gigantic effort just to secure one bang, especially when you consider that
1) some of the ones whom I did number close but fizzled out later on were really promising (more on that later).
and 2) At the same time, I met up with another 6 from OKC, Bumble, and Happn, all of which got to nowhere save for 2 makeouts and another 3 who may possibly require a longer game.

....I really need to make IRL game more of a priority this December :/

Results will vary depending on country.

These results are from Australia?
Also have you experimented with superlikes?

Yeah, Melbourne, Australia. I should add (if we're going to consider this a factor in online game) that I'm of a supposedly low-SMV minority race.

I've commented on my experience with super likes a few pages earlier in this thread.

I was really enjoying reading that tinder conversation up until the point where she goes "so dtf?" and then "that's what I use it for."

LOL

Goddamn. She can't do subtle at all.

So that's why we use innuendo! Not for the women's benefit, for the mans! I don't want to hear directly that the girls a raging slut, I would rather she subtly suggested that instead.

As for her going cold, I think that's because in two weeks you only spoke about boring logistics of arranging a meetup.

That does two things

1. Kills the fun, sexy vibe you had going. You need to keep that up, mix it up with the practical logistical talk, and keep that kind of practical stuff to a minimum. You can't expect her to still be horny for you two weeks later.

2. It also reminds and reinforces to her that it is "difficult" to meet up. You've spent two weeks trying to arrange something but you both have been busy. This along with the long time period waiting also will cause her to lose some interest.

Rather than 'calling her out'. (Almost always a bad idea with a girl you haven't yet banged) The best chance I think you have of getting her back is to try and get her interest again with some sort of intriuging or funny restart text. Maybe it can be not taking her message that she has a boyfriend seriously or something like that.

Is there a glitch that sends you notification of a new message when in fact the girl unmatched you?

This happened a few times today. I'll be chatting with someone, i'll get a notification "xxx sent you a new message" and then the chat disappears. Not bots because we were having a real conversation and she was answering all my questions.

This happens when a girl does in fact sends a last message just before unmatching. They don't realize that you will never be able to read that message because match disappears. Unmatching without a message doesn't generate a notification.

(11-27-2016 07:36 AM)JWLZG Wrote:  There was a bit of text ping-pong trying to arrange a time. Then we stopped contact for about a fortnight because of exams.

I pinged her a couple weeks ago, then she replied with: "I'm sorry, I'm seeing someone seriously right now. Hope you understand."

My first thought was, well gentlemen, the carousel stops for no man indeed.

A bit more recently, logging in to an old version of Tinder on a spare phone, I noticed that her last login was a few days ago. Her photos had changed too.

Should I call her out on that?

No, you should move on.

Miss Tinder in 2013/2014 where "Netflix and Chill" wasn't a thing and you could legit invite over cute girls to come hook up, watch a movie and leave.

After I used it again in 2015/2016 it seems infested with 2s/3s and painfully average women demanding Brad Pitt.

(11-30-2016 02:15 AM)fiasco360 Wrote:  Miss Tinder in 2013/2014 where "Netflix and Chill" wasn't a thing and you could legit invite over cute girls to come hook up, watch a movie and leave.

After I used it again in 2015/2016 it seems infested with 2s/3s and painfully average women demanding Brad Pitt.

I got three girls straight to my hotel room from Tinder in the last week. It did require some serious screening, even two of those wouldn't go all the way.

It's a hook up site that has been destroyed as it went mainstream by the common woman signing up looking for attention. I'm a bit fed up seeing every second or third profile saying "no hookups". You don't necessarily need to sleep with them on the first date, but no man is interested in a fucking prude. I unmatch from those type of profiles immediately.

Per the text conversation above you should have got her number immediately when she raised the words "dtf" and arranged something. Get them when they're hot, of course she may well have flaked anyway which is why you need others like her. I can't fathom how many flakes I've had just this year, on my last check I have well over 1,000 numbers on my phone from online.

(11-30-2016 06:57 AM)Vincent Chase Wrote:  

(11-30-2016 02:15 AM)fiasco360 Wrote:  Miss Tinder in 2013/2014 where "Netflix and Chill" wasn't a thing and you could legit invite over cute girls to come hook up, watch a movie and leave.

After I used it again in 2015/2016 it seems infested with 2s/3s and painfully average women demanding Brad Pitt.

I got three girls straight to my hotel room from Tinder in the last week. It did require some serious screening, even two of those wouldn't go all the way.

It's a hook up site that has been destroyed as it went mainstream by the common woman signing up looking for attention. I'm a bit fed up seeing every second or third profile saying "no hookups". You don't necessarily need to sleep with them on the first date, but no man is interested in a fucking prude. I unmatch from those type of profiles immediately.

Per the text conversation above you should have got her number immediately when she raised the words "dtf" and arranged something. Get them when they're hot, of course she may well have flaked anyway which is why you need others like her. I can't fathom how many flakes I've had just this year, on my last check I have well over 1,000 numbers on my phone from online.

Whereabouts in Asia are you now, Vincent? What do you think is the reason you've had such success over there? Are they all Asian women you're matching with there?

Tinder in the West, like most dating apps, has been ruined in just the last three years by one thing: CONVENIENCE - it requires no effort now to download/join one of these apps. This has resulted in two things:

1) Proliferation of thirsty men
2) Women using it as just another low-investment social media tool

It's perhaps five guys in the last week entering this thread crying about how bad results they're getting and the world is going under and it's all because of SJW and on and on. Guys should stop taking it too serious, if you get upset to the point that you need to go online and whine when not getting the results you expect, then you should simply delete the app and stop waiting your time on it. It's not like girls are obligated to go bang a guy as soon as she download the app and get her first match. It's low investment both for girls and guys. Like Jasmine on the top of this page, she even apologized for rejecting JWLZG. In my eyes that's very respectful of her, instead of setting up dates she flakes from or perhaps even ghosts from.

(11-30-2016 01:26 PM)Satoshi Wrote:  if you get upset to the point that you need to go online and whine when not getting the results you expect, then you should simply delete the app and stop waiting your time on it.

This is what I have done some time ago.

Quote:It's not like girls are obligated to go bang a guy as soon as she download the app and get her first match. It's low investment both for girls and guys.

It may be low investment, but guys are using these apps to try for bangs, girls tend to use it for validation. The problem with social media and internet dating is that it has changed the dating landscape remarkably. I think it's an important topic.

(11-27-2016 07:36 AM)JWLZG Wrote:  




There was a bit of text ping-pong trying to arrange a time. Then we stopped contact for about a fortnight because of exams.

I pinged her a couple weeks ago, then she replied with: "I'm sorry, I'm seeing someone seriously right now. Hope you understand."

My first thought was, well gentlemen, the carousel stops for no man indeed.

A bit more recently, logging in to an old version of Tinder on a spare phone, I noticed that her last login was a few days ago. Her photos had changed too.

Should I call her out on that?

Meh from my experience with Tinder and online chat is quite pointless. Most of the examples I've read from people here in the forum alligns with my own experience: in order to get one bang via cold first touch from Tinder, Instagram or wtv the success rate is disgustingly low. I live in Portugal and let me assure you guys that if it weren't for visitors and erasmus girls we would be facing extinction at an alarming rate. So in conclusion, no point , I have done both things ignore after something like that and pursue: always ends up with a non response. Don't waste your time and your mood cause I remember getting really pissed off about the things you just talked about and in the end it is literally pointless. Stopped answering: next please!

I just think of it as fun.

Every girl is replaceable until she's proven without a doubt she isn't. And i'll tell you, nobody have proven that to me yet.

I still had two bangs in NL and dates with 4/5 other girls in NL over the last 2.5 months with Tinder. Bangs were 5/6s though, but insane in bed.

Still lined up a couple of girls for dates so I will see. Isn't too bad yet.

(11-30-2016 09:56 AM)griffinmill Wrote:  

(11-30-2016 06:57 AM)Vincent Chase Wrote:  

(11-30-2016 02:15 AM)fiasco360 Wrote:  Miss Tinder in 2013/2014 where "Netflix and Chill" wasn't a thing and you could legit invite over cute girls to come hook up, watch a movie and leave.

After I used it again in 2015/2016 it seems infested with 2s/3s and painfully average women demanding Brad Pitt.

I got three girls straight to my hotel room from Tinder in the last week. It did require some serious screening, even two of those wouldn't go all the way.

It's a hook up site that has been destroyed as it went mainstream by the common woman signing up looking for attention. I'm a bit fed up seeing every second or third profile saying "no hookups". You don't necessarily need to sleep with them on the first date, but no man is interested in a fucking prude. I unmatch from those type of profiles immediately.

Per the text conversation above you should have got her number immediately when she raised the words "dtf" and arranged something. Get them when they're hot, of course she may well have flaked anyway which is why you need others like her. I can't fathom how many flakes I've had just this year, on my last check I have well over 1,000 numbers on my phone from online.

Whereabouts in Asia are you now, Vincent? What do you think is the reason you've had such success over there? Are they all Asian women you're matching with there?

Tinder in the West, like most dating apps, has been ruined in just the last three years by one thing: CONVENIENCE - it requires no effort now to download/join one of these apps. This has resulted in two things:

1) Proliferation of thirsty men
2) Women using it as just another low-investment social media tool

I was in Korea, singapore and Vietnam, got an absolute shedloads of matches. In other asian countries like Japan they don't use online dating as much but have had bangs there as well from other online game. In the UK and US recently my results on Tinder in comparison have been piss fucking poor, and that's with the same identical profile.

(11-30-2016 02:07 PM)griffinmill Wrote:  

(11-30-2016 01:26 PM)Satoshi Wrote:  if you get upset to the point that you need to go online and whine when not getting the results you expect, then you should simply delete the app and stop waiting your time on it.

This is what I have done some time ago.

Quote:It's not like girls are obligated to go bang a guy as soon as she download the app and get her first match. It's low investment both for girls and guys.

It may be low investment, but guys are using these apps to try for bangs, girls tend to use it for validation. The problem with social media and internet dating is that it has changed the dating landscape remarkably. I think it's an important topic.

I don't think girls use tinder to get validation. From what I've seen girls are either;

1. Looking to get fucked.
2. Looking for a relationship.
3. Looking for friends to hangout with.
4. Not looking for anything, she just downloaded it to try it because her friends told her.

Interesting article here about a professional validation seeking Tinder addict.

We know it, but here's proof - women use dating apps purely for attention, validation and compliments. No intention of meeting anyone.

Screen for these types guys:

Tinder Addict Confession


She is a SIF and I love this quote “I’ve seen a guy physically lose interest in me, the spark go out of his eyes. That hurts. It puts you off to a degree.”

There is surely attention whoring on the site, but you just have to learn to notice it and not waste much time with it. I tend not to send too many messaged before trying a meet up, so either way if they refuse then not much time is wasted.

(12-02-2016 01:45 PM)DRE Wrote:  I tend not to send too many messaged before trying a meet up, so either way if they refuse then not much time is wasted.

Great point! I can't count how often I've invested time interacting with a chick only to get flaked on and/or she pull a disappearing act. Whereas, I used to just charge it to the game, I think now, it would be wise to be direct as possible and propose a meet in the most public place possible to avoid time wasters.

Hey guys ! Am I the only one to have the problem that, since they made their BIG update (Boosts and stuff), my number of matches seem to have DRASTICALLY dropped ?
Used to have 4/5 interesting matches every day, now I am happy with just 1 ..

Sucks :/

(12-03-2016 11:33 AM)Killarmy Wrote:  Hey guys ! Am I the only one to have the problem that, since they made their BIG update (Boosts and stuff), my number of matches seem to have DRASTICALLY dropped ?
Used to have 4/5 interesting matches every day, now I am happy with just 1 ..

Sucks :/

Pretty much the same for me, well I still get 5 or so matches a day. But in Asia I got 50 with an identical profile. There's a reason why everyone thinks Tinder is a fucking pain for men to use in the west.

(12-03-2016 01:49 PM)Vincent Chase Wrote:  

(12-03-2016 11:33 AM)Killarmy Wrote:  Hey guys ! Am I the only one to have the problem that, since they made their BIG update (Boosts and stuff), my number of matches seem to have DRASTICALLY dropped ?
Used to have 4/5 interesting matches every day, now I am happy with just 1 ..

Sucks :/

Pretty much the same for me, well I still get 5 or so matches a day. But in Asia I got 50 with an identical profile. There's a reason why everyone thinks Tinder is a fucking pain for men to use in the west.

Well, yes, of course, in the ''west'' my Tinder number of matches would be lower than where I am living, Colombia.
But my point is that since they made the big update, it seems like my number of matches dramatically dropped. Really sucks :/

No shameless self promotion thing but I've figured out a way to auto swipe on tinder using android so you can increase your matches to 30 a day minimum
https://godismanblog.wordpress.com/2016/...on-tinder/

Your phone needs to be rooted though but it allows you to other shit like play your ps4 or leave your phone autofinding bitches for you whilst you're at work then you can just reply to you matches/siv out the fatties on your lunch breaks

Even after you got matches the bots really fucking ruin this thing.

Talking to a girl and her responses are no doubt automated, doesn't read anything I say. Then a couple of other ones trying to get me on video chat, probably to record my cock and use some sort of blackmail later.

I've had two "girls" this morning trying to use the verification code scam. Which is a way for them to get you to pay for "verification".

https://techcrunch.com/2016/07/25/a-tind...-accounts/

Any posts anywhere on best recommendations for tindr?

The marketing teams at Tinder HQ and Uber HQ must be reading RVF.

I've been seeing profiles for 20% off your first Uber.