Post: #9026

@MediumRare and Tex

I'm talking about understanding that not every girl you meet can go in the win column. Every female has potential to be charmed by you and spread her legs for you, but not every girl will.

There are certainly "types" of girls. That doesn't mean those girls can't be reprogrammed or taught to be different as woman's nature is somewhat fluid, but either way "type" is not what I'm talking about exactly. I'm talking about realizing that some females you meet just don't jive with you. Hell, it's even possible that you met a female on the wrong day and under other circumstances maybe it would work out but on that particular day/night she wasn't feel open or social enough.

That girl I went on a date with was not jiving with my personality. I was being my normal lighthearted, talkative, carefree self and we did have a decent time chatting and venue hopping, but at the end of the night I felt next to zero sexual chemisty from this girl. I unmatched and deleted her number right when I got home as I knew I wouldn't be texting her again and she wasn't going to be texting me. It happens.

Post: #9027

I love it when I see a girl with a choker on.
you can smell the blood in the water

Post: #9028

(11-27-2016 07:59 PM)Mufasa Wrote:  I love it when I see a girl with a choker on.

They seem to be coming back in style. This is a positive development.

Post: #9029

I re-read Roosh's "7 Things You Can Do To Improve Your Game Right Now".

He wrote it in 2007, but the advice is timeless. Good for me to re-read it just now and re-learn things.

http://www.rooshv.com/7-things-a-guy-can...-right-now

Particularly like this re-frame:

From here on out, no girl is hot, and there are no tens. She’s either “cute” or “alright.”

After all, I'm the prize.

Post: #9030

Is this a shit test?

Went on a date with a girl I've been fucking for a few weeks. It was good, art gallery followed by amusement park.

Afterwards she came home with me. We were chilling on the couch watching Californication. The topic of affairs comes up and she tells me she cheated on her last boyfriend.

This annoyed me but I didn't show it. I've never cheated on a LTR but I've been cheated on once, and relayed the story to her. Basically, I found out a girl I dated fucked someone else. The moment I found out I packed my bags and left her apartment in the middle of the night without speaking a word to her, while she was crying and begging me to stay (true story). Went complete no contact.

At this, current girl seems a bit taken aback and says "So I'm a bitch". I just say "I'm sure you had your reasons" (didn't dig into her story because I have no desire to hear).

Later we fucked and she spent the night. Throatfucked her and came on her face and tits for good measure.

Feels like I could've handled it differently. Did I overshare by bringing up the perspective of being cheated on? Is my game slipping if a girl feels like she can share things like this?

She's adamant about seeing me again. I started to catch feels prior to her share, but this made want to clamp down on that and start to mentally next her.

Post: #9031

^ DF, I don't think it was a shit test. She was probably telling the truth.

You were annoyed by this because you're with a girl who admitted to cheating in the past, and you don't want to go through the same experience again (getting cheated on).

Up to you whether you want to keep her, but this is a red flag. Tread carefully.

Post: #9032

Clean slate gave the correct answer. My personal opinion is once a cheater always a cheater. She was likely taken aback because perhaps your story subtley let her know that she sort of disqualified herself with that bit of information.

Post: #9033

I think is that cheating is one of the biggest red-flags possible. Don´t close to her.
When she was starting with the guy she cheated on, she also didn´t think she will ever do it.

Post: #9034

(11-28-2016 09:19 AM)General Stalin Wrote:  Clean slate gave the correct answer. My personal opinion is once a cheater always a cheater. She was likely taken aback because perhaps your story subtley let her know that she sort of disqualified herself with that bit of information.

Women self sabotage all the time.

Any female that volunteers that kind of information is definitely a red flag.

If she truly liked you she would hide that shit forever, never mentioned it, and stay loyal to only you.

But keep in mind, you're still exploring eachother (mentally) afterall you've been only banging a few weeks.

You aren't anything yet, just hanging out and talking.

Stalin is absolutely right that she realized volunteering that info sort of backfired on her.

If you're just hanging out and having fun - then the comment isn't serious - if she wants commitment....well that's another story.

Post: #9035

(11-28-2016 01:02 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

(11-28-2016 09:19 AM)General Stalin Wrote:  Clean slate gave the correct answer. My personal opinion is once a cheater always a cheater. She was likely taken aback because perhaps your story subtley let her know that she sort of disqualified herself with that bit of information.

Women self sabotage all the time.

Any female that volunteers that kind of information is definitely a red flag.

If she truly liked you she would hide that shit forever, never mentioned it, and stay loyal to only you.

But keep in mind, you're still exploring eachother (mentally) afterall you've been only banging a few weeks.

You aren't anything yet, just hanging out and talking.

Stalin is absolutely right that she realized volunteering that info sort of backfired on her.

If you're just hanging out and having fun - then the comment isn't serious - if she wants commitment....well that's another story.

I agree that she should have kept that to herself and it is self sabotaging however she may not see it that way. Some girls think that when they like someone they have to share all of themselves with that person, warts and all. So strangely she may think that by telling him this she is actually being honest and it will make him trust her more.

Post: #9036

There's just something about having a girl come over after the gym, calls you daddy and knowing she's your "little", blows you, swallows, and then politely leaves after a bit.

I haven't even fucked this girl the last 3 times we hungout, some girls just love giving the sloppiest blowjobs ever.

I salute you ladies.

Post: #9037

(11-28-2016 09:57 PM)Roardog Wrote:  

(11-28-2016 01:02 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

(11-28-2016 09:19 AM)General Stalin Wrote:  Clean slate gave the correct answer. My personal opinion is once a cheater always a cheater. She was likely taken aback because perhaps your story subtley let her know that she sort of disqualified herself with that bit of information.

Women self sabotage all the time.

Any female that volunteers that kind of information is definitely a red flag.

If she truly liked you she would hide that shit forever, never mentioned it, and stay loyal to only you.

But keep in mind, you're still exploring eachother (mentally) afterall you've been only banging a few weeks.

You aren't anything yet, just hanging out and talking.

Stalin is absolutely right that she realized volunteering that info sort of backfired on her.

If you're just hanging out and having fun - then the comment isn't serious - if she wants commitment....well that's another story.

I agree that she should have kept that to herself and it is self sabotaging however she may not see it that way. Some girls think that when they like someone they have to share all of themselves with that person, warts and all. So strangely she may think that by telling him this she is actually being honest and it will make him trust her more.

Exactly! Add in the fact that a large percentage of American girls have grown up being coddled and immersed in slut culture, they simply have no sense of shame over things that should be shameful, so they feel comfortable revealing that to you.

You handled it well in my opinion. You didn't judge her but still made her feel bad for it. Yeah you probably shouldn't marry her, but you can still see her although eventually you risk getting attached.

Post: #9038

(11-29-2016 07:38 AM)RedPillUK Wrote:  Exactly! Add in the fact that a large percentage of American girls have grown up being coddled and immersed in slut culture, they simply have no sense of shame over things that should be shameful, so they feel comfortable revealing that to you.

Ya this this is irritating as fuck. I matched with this girl on bumble and she asked me if I knew a guy and then she said he's a "bumble boo" from a while ago and that he hasn't text her in a few weeks.





me: you just brought up a dude you used to fuck that you haven't text in "a few weeks" that normal for you?



She starts back peddling and shit.

shits so unneccissary, like did this chick really think I was going to let that slide?? Do most of the guys in her life let her get away with this shit?



She's coming over wednesday tho.

Post: #9039

^ Were you still talking over the app?

Even so that's kind of funny. I like to let this bitches put their foot in their mouth so I can classify them accordingly.

Post: #9040

Nope straight out of the text message conversation. she then proceeded to throw 3 shit tests in a row after that. Stayed calm cool and collected in the pocket tho. #TomBrady

Post: #9041

me: wed, tomorrow (tuesday aka today), or sunday pick one

her: I don't wanna lead you on I just got out of something and honestly am not open to anything right now! You're really nice and I liked hanging out with you though and maybe one day when I'm past this we can hangout?

backstory: ran into this girl and her friend while me and my boy were out. We chat them up and go grab a drink. Eventually they have to run to the bathroom and my friend says to me "they're just ditched us let's bounce." i agree and we go to another bar.

About 30 minutes later we end up back at the bar and i get seperated from my friend and a pack of his friends and i run into the two girls again. They're on some "where we're y'all blah blah blah you ditched us" type shit. I brush it off an take one of the girls dancing with me. We start gettin get saucy, i'm nibbling her ears and shoulders; we make out as well. Eventually me, her, and her friend leave to go get some fresh air on the patio/deck.

we make out somemore and i eventually hit her with my cake close which for the first time fails. She says she has to go home with her friend dispite her friend telling her to go have cake with me (i'm dead ass right here). I walk them to their car, make out with my girl one more time and split.

That was friday.

Saturday:

While leaving downtown to head home i run into her friend. We chop it up and she tells me that my girl was talking about me the whole ride home.

She sends me that text message today.
For the record i'm pretty sure that's text is full of bullshit i just don the know the play here.

what's the best move going forward?
I was thinking: some let's take it slow shit just to get her out then game her ass usual. but if she is being honest is going for the same night lay a bad idea?

thought about putting this in the "what should i text next thread" but id like to know the moves beyond that's as well.

Post: #9042

I'd completely ignore the text. Wait a couple days and hit her up on a new subject, couple more days again and after some banter on a high note, invite her out again. Find out schedule first so you don't look like you have an entirely clear one. Giving a chick three options for days (or more than one really) isn't ideal. Don't know about verbalizing "let's take it slow", seems a bit beta BF-y which is where she's trying to put you already, but maybe guys can make it work.

Don't forget about plausible deniability, just because you've made out (and sometimes especially because you have) doesn't mean you can skip giving them a reason to hang out. Or maybe you did and didn't post it. Either way. She says she has whatever night off - "that's tequila night at my favorite Mexican spot/my friend is having a party. Stop moping, let's hit it!"

You invited her home last time so you might as well again if you get her out and drinking. Always plan for a SNL but be ready for plan B if you can tell she isn't into it.

Post: #9043

And now I need to invest in Plan B - I just can't not raw dog an 18 year old not on BC.

Nothing gets me fucking harder - the girls virginity I took came over tonight I haven't seen her a few months.

We basically lost contact for awhile - turns out she got a "purity ring" after we banged and lost contact - she told me this after we had sex of course.

She's "old school" on religious beliefs (of course she fucked me on our 3rd meetup then fucked me just now).


I said I'd let her go easy last time, but I made sure to let her know that I can't have any relationship right now since I work too much anyways - I do have somewhat some of a conscience and don't want her to become jaded, she's a neurotic gal but sweet.

I got a 2nd date lined up tommorow, a 1st date thursday, and probably will bang that pin up girl again Friday.

The biker girl I've been seeing has been sick so she'll feel better by this weekend. I actually really enjoy being around her, especially when we lay in bed even before sex.

Also picked up a few more cutie numbers, cycled out old leads who were mediocre looking girls at best.

I find myself not even trying to chase boring girls who don't text back immediately or call me when I request them to - I just don't care at this point - there's always a better more interested girl.

Things aren't looking too bad for a harem during the holiday season.

Post: #9044

(11-29-2016 04:02 PM)Mufasa Wrote:  me: wed, tomorrow (tuesday aka today), or sunday pick one

her: I don't wanna lead you on I just got out of something and honestly am not open to anything right now! You're really nice and I liked hanging out with you though and maybe one day when I'm past this we can hangout?

backstory: ran into this girl and her friend while me and my boy were out. We chat them up and go grab a drink. Eventually they have to run to the bathroom and my friend says to me "they're just ditched us let's bounce." i agree and we go to another bar.

About 30 minutes later we end up back at the bar and i get seperated from my friend and a pack of his friends and i run into the two girls again. They're on some "where we're y'all blah blah blah you ditched us" type shit. I brush it off an take one of the girls dancing with me. We start gettin get saucy, i'm nibbling her ears and shoulders; we make out as well. Eventually me, her, and her friend leave to go get some fresh air on the patio/deck.

we make out somemore and i eventually hit her with my cake close which for the first time fails. She says she has to go home with her friend dispite her friend telling her to go have cake with me (i'm dead ass right here). I walk them to their car, make out with my girl one more time and split.

That was friday.

Saturday:

While leaving downtown to head home i run into her friend. We chop it up and she tells me that my girl was talking about me the whole ride home.

She sends me that text message today.
For the record i'm pretty sure that's text is full of bullshit i just don the know the play here.

what's the best move going forward?
I was thinking: some let's take it slow shit just to get her out then game her ass usual. but if she is being honest is going for the same night lay a bad idea?

thought about putting this in the "what should i text next thread" but id like to know the moves beyond that's as well.

I'd soft Next her and then hit her up again in a couple of weeks. If that is the stance she is taking right now you're not going to change her mind.


On a different note, it is so satisfying when you're walking along with a hot girl on your arm and she points out how Beta other guys are.
Walking past a cafe with my main girl today and she sees some guy who is letting his gf put his hair in a "palm tree", she hugs my arm to her, rests her head against my shoulder and says "that is so Beta, I'm so glad you're not like that."

Post: #9045

(11-30-2016 02:33 AM)kaotic Wrote:  I find myself not even trying to chase boring girls who don't text back immediately or call me when I request them to - I just don't care at this point - there's always a better more interested girl.

Many mistakes were made over this very point.

But a good night with a lot of girls giving you the right kind of attention can snap me out of it and get back on point with this.

Tonight was one of those nights.

Nascent oneitis goes *poof*

Post: #9046

Quick question, I did a search and couldn't find any results.

I'm looking for an android app for cleaning/filtering photos for online dating. Does anyone have any good suggestions?

Long term I'm looking to get some professional shots taken, but for now I want to test with/without filters.

Post: #9047

Been out with this girl from tinder two times now. I haven't banged.

First time she drove 20 minutes to see me we had two drinks chatted then we left. The second time she came to pick me up and we went to her town. It was awkward at first but as the drinks started flowing and we got on pretty well.

To cut a long story short I suggested going back to hers for "another drink" but she declined.I know she's a typical british sloot from the conversation we had.

The problem is I don't have very good logistics as I live in shared housing where I just have a room but share a kitchen etc. I don't really want to go to her town again (even though it's better) because she controls the situation i.e. its her house.

Any tactics to how I can smoothly progress this into the bang. I'm not very good at this meaning I either fuck them on the first date or I never see them again. Thanks

Post: #9048

It's been a while gents, but I've noticed something quite funny.

Last week, while at a house party, I (somehow) ended up hooking up with three girls at the SAME time. Like tag teaming. I probably could have gotten the foursome (my god), but I decided to go for the sure thing and bang the most willing. The other one found another guy, and the third one was a bit drunk for my tastes.

So anyway, word spread fast. Next thing I know, I get girls messaging me out of nowhere asking what I'm doing this weekend that are friends with them.

I mean they all heard the story too, guaranteed. I'm just laughing my ass off at the whole situation.

Post: #9049

@tylerdurden, you could always get an AirBnB

Post: #9050

(12-01-2016 02:15 PM)ballsyamog Wrote:  @tylerdurden, you could always get an AirBnB

can't believe I never thought of that. Do you have any experience getting AirBnb's late night like you would do a hotel/motel or is it a preplanned ordeal?