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(10-31-2016 05:15 PM)Serious Sam Wrote:  You've got to own that shit, OP. Dance floors are gold mines of sexual energy. Back when I was in college and had weak approach game, dance floors became my default location for gaining leads. Although girls will act like they're so innocent (like a broken fucking record) and say, "it's only dancing," grinding one's ass on a man's dick is most definitely sexual. Women will not dance with men they are not attracted to except in the rare cases of dancing with dudes with special needs or ultra omegas to give them pity dances, but even then they don't get nearly as physical as they do with men they're attracted to.

So if she's grinding hard on you, ramp up the sexual energy. Utilize your manly strength and grab her hips, pull her closer. When she leans back and places her face next to yours, rubbing her hand through your hair, kiss on her neck, slide your hands slightly up her shirt (lower abdomen area). I've had women grab my hands and place them on their tits when doing this (not every time, but it happens). There is a reason people make out on the dance floor--sexual tension is rampant. Read the situation and continue building from there.

You're naturally going to get hard or at least chubbed in these situations. Don't feel bad about it. Grinding on a woman is a sexual action, even if it is "just dancing." If you amp up the sexual energy, you can work some of these situations into same night blowjobs and lays. Hell, sometimes you can get same location blowjobs/lays if there's a semi-private back corner or if your car is parked out back and there isn't anybody around. It strokes a girl's ego when she turns a man on. This is her purpose on a biological level, after all--to arouse a man sexually so he'll mate with her, put a baby in her, and take care of her. Now, of course you're only looking to fuck her, which is why we go through safety precautions to avoid 18 years of child support.

Don't feel bad about your boner. Own it. She definitely feels it, and if she continues grinding on it, it means she likes it. So build from there and make sure she ends up taking care of it.

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Huge DHV Wink

For real though. I wish I got boners more easily when dancing with broads at the club. If a girl feels that hotdog in the bun and she keeps griding? Green light.
11-02-2016 09:28 PM
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Big dicks get chicks
11-02-2016 11:01 PM
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Take pride in what you have. It's yours. Own it.
11-03-2016 01:09 AM
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I asked some girls about this a couple years ago and they all had the same answer. If they're the ones who initiate and continue the grinding, they *want* to feel a boner. If they don't they won't think you're attracted to them.
11-03-2016 01:30 AM
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(10-31-2016 05:27 PM)wi30 Wrote:  I have a hard on when taking girls out for coffee, let alone dancing.

Whenever I get a boner around a girl, I grab her hand and put it on my dick. She knows what to do from there.

Seriously. I'll get hard in an ice cream shop and grab her hand and put it on my dick. It doesn't matter where you are, grab her hand and put it on your dick.

Girls love it. And they love grabbing dicks.

Putting this on my wall and framing it.

"And They love grabbing dicks."

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11-03-2016 04:02 AM
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I read about this topic on a different forum and saw a youtube video with women reactions about this issue.
The responses of the women were something like that: "It's gross, it's creepy, disgusting" anyway it made me realize that I can't stand western women anymore, not even for ONS

You should let her feel it, it's natural, why would you hide it?

So my answer to all the cucks who are ashamed:
Tie your cock to your leg with a tape so the lady won't feel anything cause that what real men do.
11-03-2016 06:44 AM
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(11-03-2016 06:44 AM)dsalsa Wrote:  I read about this topic on a different forum and saw a youtube video with women reactions about this issue.
The responses of the women were something like that: "It's gross, it's creepy, disgusting" anyway it made me realize that I can't stand western women anymore, not even for ONS

For every western girl saying things like that, there's a cousin, friend, or sister of hers that's getting dick from the same "creepy" guy. Happily.

11-03-2016 07:36 AM
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(10-30-2016 04:52 PM)travolta Wrote:  I'd recommend taking a few dancing lessons if you need to.

Thanks for the encouragement everyone. Next time I will def not "hide" it anymore. I see it makes total sense.

What type of dance classes are recommended in order to have success on a club dance floor?
11-05-2016 03:12 AM
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(11-05-2016 03:12 AM)idane Wrote:  
(10-30-2016 04:52 PM)travolta Wrote:  I'd recommend taking a few dancing lessons if you need to.

Thanks for the encouragement everyone. Next time I will def not "hide" it anymore. I see it makes total sense.

What type of dance classes are recommended in order to have success on a club dance floor?

Swing.

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11-05-2016 03:33 AM
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(11-05-2016 03:12 AM)idane Wrote:  
(10-30-2016 04:52 PM)travolta Wrote:  I'd recommend taking a few dancing lessons if you need to.

Thanks for the encouragement everyone. Next time I will def not "hide" it anymore. I see it makes total sense.

What type of dance classes are recommended in order to have success on a club dance floor?

I enjoy electronic music and prefer clubs that play music that I like. I do "house" dancing for this reason. Also you don't need a partner to do it, so I don't have to stand around with my dick in my hand if I don't have a dancing partner. I've taken salsa classes but I found it boring and pointless since I never go to Salsa clubs. Maybe that'll change someday if I go to Latin America.. I don't really know any partner dances but it's something I need to learn. I'd say just learn whatever type of dance makes sense for the types of clubs you enjoy- if you like hip hop music then learn hip hop dancing, if you like electronic music learn house dancing, if you like Latin music learn salsa. As Suits mentioned above, Swing might be good, but I cannot comment on that.

IMO dancing works best if you're genuinely having fun while doing it. Personally I don't do it specifically to get laid. Sometimes I catch myself dancing in a way trying to impress people, usually I look like a tool and don't feel entirely comfortable when doing this. This probably sounds like pretty shitty advice, but the most important thing is to have fun doing it.
11-06-2016 03:05 PM
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(11-05-2016 03:12 AM)idane Wrote:  
(10-30-2016 04:52 PM)travolta Wrote:  I'd recommend taking a few dancing lessons if you need to.

Thanks for the encouragement everyone. Next time I will def not "hide" it anymore. I see it makes total sense.

What type of dance classes are recommended in order to have success on a club dance floor?

Vote goes to salsa dancing, can do really well in America at least (Colombia might be another story) if you are good at it since most guys are not.
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(11-06-2016 03:05 PM)travolta Wrote:  
(11-05-2016 03:12 AM)idane Wrote:  
(10-30-2016 04:52 PM)travolta Wrote:  I'd recommend taking a few dancing lessons if you need to.

Thanks for the encouragement everyone. Next time I will def not "hide" it anymore. I see it makes total sense.

What type of dance classes are recommended in order to have success on a club dance floor?

I enjoy electronic music and prefer clubs that play music that I like. I do "house" dancing for this reason. Also you don't need a partner to do it, so I don't have to stand around with my dick in my hand if I don't have a dancing partner. I've taken salsa classes but I found it boring and pointless since I never go to Salsa clubs. Maybe that'll change someday if I go to Latin America.. I don't really know any partner dances but it's something I need to learn. I'd say just learn whatever type of dance makes sense for the types of clubs you enjoy- if you like hip hop music then learn hip hop dancing, if you like electronic music learn house dancing, if you like Latin music learn salsa. As Suits mentioned above, Swing might be good, but I cannot comment on that.

IMO dancing works best if you're genuinely having fun while doing it. Personally I don't do it specifically to get laid. Sometimes I catch myself dancing in a way trying to impress people, usually I look like a tool and don't feel entirely comfortable when doing this. This probably sounds like pretty shitty advice, but the most important thing is to have fun doing it.


I go to Salsa clubs, although I prefer House and Electro music much more. What exactly is House dancing, can you post an example?
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