Post: #176

mmm...i'm not sure what type of game you are running. I myself wouldn't use the 'good school', and young as the way to attract them. Its great to build some kind of credibility that might be true.

However a lot of times you just get meet up with people and they often know what social level you are or they might not care at all. I do agree Asians are more focused on your wealth and social background the average guy in the west.
I am not a fan of the traditional methods, and no i didn't ask them that but its pretty obvious by just observing their boyfriends in the past. These girls had plenty of rich dudes going after them of course.
But hey, whatever works for you that's great. I think if the girl thinks you are 'long term potential' maybe there will be some broken hearts when people's expectations don't match up.

Post: #177

Quote:you just get meet up with people and they often know what social level you are or they might not care at all

This is what I'm saying. I'm not really actively "DHVing" myself or whatever. I'm just being myself, but I also have the self-awareness to know what girls find attractive about me in hindsight.

I have to say though, some of the hottest girls I've banged slept with me purely off my looks/fashion and not my status in any way.

To bring this back to the thread discussion, this is why I think it's better to be Korean than Chinese.

Chinese guys are known for their stability and while this does convert to bangs, it's overall more effective for a player to be known for their fashion/style/charm which is what K guys are known for because of the media these days (even though this is an image and not necessarily the reality).

Post: #178

Holy fuck, are you guys still going on about this?

Just tell them your from NY or Cali. Panties will drop.

Post: #179

(07-15-2016 02:48 PM)jj90 Wrote:  Holy fuck, are you guys still going on about this?

Just tell them your from NY or Cali. Panties will drop.

I'm a Korean guy from LA that until very recently used to stay in NYC a couple of months out of the year. Am I going to be Super Saiyajin God Super Saiyan level with the ladies?

   

All snark aside, I think the Kpop God effect is mild but still a thing.

Post: #180

(07-15-2016 02:48 PM)jj90 Wrote:  Holy fuck, are you guys still going on about this?

We're just having discussion and I'm personally formulating more thoughts as a result.. If it's that annoying to people then maybe we should shut down this thread?

Also I didn't read the first 5 pages of this thread so maybe some of this stuff is redundant.

Post: #181

Is there a thread for Asians in regards to all countries? US, Europe, SA, etc.

Post: #182

(07-16-2016 09:50 PM)steezyy Wrote:  Is there a thread for Asians in regards to all countries? US, Europe, SA, etc.

Ask and you shall receive:
/thread-2750-page-18.html

Look through all the pages as I put you on the last one.

(07-05-2016 09:40 AM)Putin Closes Wrote:  HOD, I'm suspecting more and more you are sounds like a guy who's overcompensating online.

Quote:These dudes, are so convince of there failure and only comfortable recreating that failure

Convinced of their failure? Banged two caucasians and a chinese girl last week, not that its pretty impressive by itself, just the fact you try and say anyone going against your points is lousy with women is one that strikes as strange and bizzarre.

Quote:I doubt any these guys have actually live in Asia for a long periods of time, or perhaps not even gaming Asian girls in Asia. There just projecting there false belief about game and the reality of living abroad.

How many years have you live in SEA. A two week trip doesn't count. I am by far not the most long term resident here but have more then a couple years down my belt.

Quote:Furthermore, from my own experience, I have help so many dudes from different ethnic background get laid, get a job, or a girlfriend. Only, to find out within 6 month they would get dump by that very girl or get fire by that job. And than they would blame me for there failures. And a month later ask me for a job, a favor, or how to get a girl.

A "chinese" guy living in the Netherland Antilles saying he helps different people who later come back and blame him. Possible troll.

Quote:From my own personal experience of helping Asian brothers out, it always ends badly. Its almost impossible to teach someone to be a winner.

Ok there.

Read his post again Putin Closes. HOD was not referring to Asian guys on the forum. He was likely referring to friends back home in California.

For the record, this is not a race thing HOD mentioned. This could be friends of all ethnicities from back at home that just suck ass instead of trying to invest in themselves. I know that's the situation for me where I have old friends of all ethnicities that have resorted to being manginas.

Post: #183

(07-18-2016 09:42 PM)Brosemite Wrote:  

(07-16-2016 09:50 PM)steezyy Wrote:  Is there a thread for Asians in regards to all countries? US, Europe, SA, etc.

Ask and you shall receive:
/thread-2750-page-18.html

Look through all the pages as I put you on the last one.

(07-05-2016 09:40 AM)Putin Closes Wrote:  HOD, I'm suspecting more and more you are sounds like a guy who's overcompensating online.

Quote:These dudes, are so convince of there failure and only comfortable recreating that failure

Convinced of their failure? Banged two caucasians and a chinese girl last week, not that its pretty impressive by itself, just the fact you try and say anyone going against your points is lousy with women is one that strikes as strange and bizzarre.

Quote:I doubt any these guys have actually live in Asia for a long periods of time, or perhaps not even gaming Asian girls in Asia. There just projecting there false belief about game and the reality of living abroad.

How many years have you live in SEA. A two week trip doesn't count. I am by far not the most long term resident here but have more then a couple years down my belt.

Quote:Furthermore, from my own experience, I have help so many dudes from different ethnic background get laid, get a job, or a girlfriend. Only, to find out within 6 month they would get dump by that very girl or get fire by that job. And than they would blame me for there failures. And a month later ask me for a job, a favor, or how to get a girl.

A "chinese" guy living in the Netherland Antilles saying he helps different people who later come back and blame him. Possible troll.

Quote:From my own personal experience of helping Asian brothers out, it always ends badly. Its almost impossible to teach someone to be a winner.

Ok there.

Read his post again Putin Closes. HOD was not referring to Asian guys on the forum. He was likely referring to friends back home in California.

For the record, this is not a race thing HOD mentioned. This could be friends of all ethnicities from back at home that just suck ass instead of trying to invest in themselves. I know that's the situation for me where I have old friends of all ethnicities that have resorted to being manginas.

Putin is a young guy, I'm assuming, probably in his early 20's. We all remember how crazy we are in our early 20's.

Putin at 30 will be a lot different, in terms of his views on politics, game and etc.

He hasn't live abroad, as you and I have. Living abroad by oneself, can only give so many unique experience that cannot be related easily.

He's a young guy.

Post: #184

(07-15-2016 11:28 AM)rungoodinc Wrote:  

Quote:you just get meet up with people and they often know what social level you are or they might not care at all

This is what I'm saying. I'm not really actively "DHVing" myself or whatever. I'm just being myself, but I also have the self-awareness to know what girls find attractive about me in hindsight.

I have to say though, some of the hottest girls I've banged slept with me purely off my looks/fashion and not my status in any way.

To bring this back to the thread discussion, this is why I think it's better to be Korean than Chinese.

Chinese guys are known for their stability and while this does convert to bangs, it's overall more effective for a player to be known for their fashion/style/charm which is what K guys are known for because of the media these days (even though this is an image and not necessarily the reality).

These girls you've banged because they knew you were Korean, where are they from?

Did you tell them you were Korean or did they make the distinction based on conjecture?

I disagree with your point about being better player purely by race association and this is related to the questions I've asked above.

IMO it depends on what demographics and where you're located. Yes, it is true that the k wave has given k guys an edge over other Asian guys, but don't forget that there are an enormous number of native mandarin speakers who don't speak English whatsoever. This is where being Chinese is advantageous.

Also, let me remind you that many Chinese girls will not date outside their race.

All things being equal, an asian guy who has his shit together, dresses well, has game /speaks multiple languages will do well.

Post: #185

Quote:These girls you've banged because they knew you were Korean, where are they from?

Did you tell them you were Korean or did they make the distinction based on conjecture?

That's the thing. I'm not Korean. I'm Chinese and I don't look Korean. I'm not chest-thumping and trying to support my own ethnicity or whatever BS.

These are just my observations based on living in Asia for several years and having a good number of Korean wings/friends.

When I say that I banged girls off of my looks, I don't mean that I look Korean. I mean that I am tall and good-looking and when I asked the girls why they liked me after the fact, they said I was really handsome. I also happened to be wearing a white K-style blazer (peacocking) when I banged these chicks, and when I asked them if I looked more handsome because of the blazer, they thought about it before a second and were actually "like yeah, that made you look even more handsome."

I met these girls in China and Taiwan, so I guess in a way I have benefited from the K-wave.

Post: #186

(07-19-2016 05:54 PM)rungoodinc Wrote:  

Quote:These girls you've banged because they knew you were Korean, where are they from?

Did you tell them you were Korean or did they make the distinction based on conjecture?

That's the thing. I'm not Korean. I'm Chinese and I don't look Korean. I'm not chest-thumping and trying to support my own ethnicity or whatever BS.

These are just my observations based on living in Asia for several years and having a good number of Korean wings/friends.

When I say that I banged girls off of my looks, I don't mean that I look Korean. I mean that I am tall and good-looking and when I asked the girls why they liked me after the fact, they said I was really handsome. I also happened to be wearing a white K-style blazer (peacocking) when I banged these chicks, and when I asked them if I looked more handsome because of the blazer, they thought about it before a second and were actually "like yeah, that made you look even more handsome."

I met these girls in China and Taiwan, so I guess in a way I have benefited from the K-wave.

What you're saying then, is that K-fashion gets it wet?

Post: #187

(07-19-2016 05:54 PM)rungoodinc Wrote:  

Quote:These girls you've banged because they knew you were Korean, where are they from?

Did you tell them you were Korean or did they make the distinction based on conjecture?

That's the thing. I'm not Korean. I'm Chinese and I don't look Korean. I'm not chest-thumping and trying to support my own ethnicity or whatever BS.

These are just my observations based on living in Asia for several years and having a good number of Korean wings/friends.

When I say that I banged girls off of my looks, I don't mean that I look Korean. I mean that I am tall and good-looking and when I asked the girls why they liked me after the fact, they said I was really handsome. I also happened to be wearing a white K-style blazer (peacocking) when I banged these chicks, and when I asked them if I looked more handsome because of the blazer, they thought about it before a second and were actually "like yeah, that made you look even more handsome."

I met these girls in China and Taiwan, so I guess in a way I have benefited from the K-wave.

This has absolutely nothing to do with benefiting off of the K-wave though. It's because of the way you look combined with a few fashion pieces.

Attributing other stuff to your personal success is a bit of a self defeating mentality. I don't know why asian dudes always hold back when it comes to personal pride. It's like guys are afraid to be more than modest and self effacing.

Own your shit.

Post: #188

That's what the girls told me... Doesn't mean that I rely on that. Of course most of it comes down to your game and confidence but this isn't a game thread.

Own your shit too buddy.

Post: #189

In other news, many playas continue to get laid without mentioning K-pop and its influences.

Post: #190

(07-20-2016 06:36 AM)El Chinito loco Wrote:  Attributing other stuff to your personal success is a bit of a self defeating mentality. I don't know why asian dudes always hold back when it comes to personal pride. It's like guys are afraid to be more than modest and self effacing.

Own your shit.

Booya!!!!!

Can relate. Love the guy..but tired of seeing Jeremy Lin and Asian dudes in the spotlight playing the modesty card all the time...have some swagger & own your fucking accomplishments!

Post: #191

Randomly crossed my mind

I put on sunscreen in Asia when I'm here since I tan easily and white skin is valued (Korea, Thailand, Indonesia)

Post: #192

Having a lot of success here in 1st tier Mainland China cities like Beijing and Shanghai. European dudes here look good but mostly behave like try-hard over-arrogant "white god complex" pricks and some girls see through the act, while locals don't even register on the radar. Walking in here with a no-fucks-given-im-a-good-time vibe can really set you apart from the competition.

I do find night game to be pretty tough here though due to nearly always unfavourable ratios and rather fortified bitch shields. As an Asian dude it can be difficult to get that first interaction in the club, since it's hard to set yourself apart from the locals who just stare creepily when it's dark and music be blasting.

Social circle game and day game have been the best for me, although I have attempted very little of the latter. Tinder has yielded rather mixed results, albeit with a lot of matches -- much much better than in any Canadian or American city. Hooked up with the hottest chick I've ever met in person off Tinder (dem flakey Tinder hoes) here and she was a solid 7.5 EE girl.

I have noticed Shanghai expat girls to be much flakier than Beijing expat girls, definitely a noticeable difference in general attitude between the expats in the two cities. SH expats come for the money and parties and tend to hang out in expat groups exclusively, whereas BJ expats come for the "China experience" and are more interested in all things Oriental.

PS: I should note that I go for expat girls exclusively. Shanghai especially is a highly transient city with a ton of European tourists passing through.

Off to SEA for a mini-vacay next week to see how the scene is like down there.

Post: #193

^ Would you say the shields are down for ex-pat chicks during day in Shanghai? I kind of see where you are coming from.

For me, shields were way down in Hong Kong for daygame though it became a tough out for clubbing & gutter game at night.

Post: #194

(08-14-2016 11:55 PM)Brosemite Wrote:  ^ Would you say the shields are down for ex-pat chicks during day in Shanghai? I kind of see where you are coming from.

For me, shields were way down in Hong Kong for daygame though it became a tough out for clubbing & gutter game at night.

Off topic: The umbrellas are up during the day. It is stifling in China right now.

Post: #195

(08-14-2016 11:55 PM)Brosemite Wrote:  ^ Would you say the shields are down for ex-pat chicks during day in Shanghai? I kind of see where you are coming from.

For me, shields were way down in Hong Kong for daygame though it became a tough out for clubbing & gutter game at night.

I would say they are definitely down during the day compared to night time. However you will rarely see girls who are just aimlessly cruising around the streets looking bored or have their heads on a swivel. You see a lot of girls stomping around in a hurry with major resting bitch face, probably having a "China Day" or probably just busy to get somewhere. No time to waste in 2016.

Yeah for sure Hong Kong was definitely like that, but perhaps even worse since it's very very Western.

EDIT: gosh forgot to punch that line of space after the quote. What a n00b move.

Post: #196

^ Out of curiosity, are you working or studying in China? It sure is hotter than balls out there right now especially with pollution...but when weather gets better, could you dress well and do some food court or mall game during weekday lunch hours? (Shanghai).

Anyways, that weekday daygame stuff worked pretty well for me in HK though I had to leave shortly afterwards to see relatives in another country.

Also, how's talent of the Asian ex-pat chicks in China as well? Would you say Shanghai has hotter ex-pat gals than Beijing?

In other news, I haven't gotten much luck with the western chicks that have studied/worked in China while returning to the west....

Post: #197

Perhaps I'm missing something, but how can a girl tell your status so fast that she'll sleep with you ASAP because you're high-status (Rich)? Are you guys waving hundred dollars bills and throwing them in the sky on approaches or something?



Is this something that you guys find applies particularly to Asian dudes getting laid in Asia? I never really got that vibe in China. Sure, some Chinese people will ask me what I do for a living but I can bullshit with the best of them or just tell them the truth and have it not matter.

Obviously, I am not an Asian man so I didn't mean for this post to sound as though I'm trying to say your experiences aren't real.

-Fortis

Post: #198

(08-15-2016 05:56 PM)Fortis Wrote:  Perhaps I'm missing something, but how can a girl tell your status so fast that she'll sleep with you ASAP because you're high-status (Rich)? Are you guys waving hundred dollars bills and throwing them in the sky on approaches or something?



Is this something that you guys find applies particularly to Asian dudes getting laid in Asia? I never really got that vibe in China. Sure, some Chinese people will ask me what I do for a living but I can bullshit with the best of them or just tell them the truth and have it not matter.

Obviously, I am not an Asian man so I didn't mean for this post to sound as though I'm trying to say your experiences aren't real.

-Fortis

Social Media. Probing questions on what your parents do for a living. Whether you own or rent your apartment. Which area you live in. Overseas Chinese or domestic. What kind of car do you drive? Pretty much standard gold digger game in the states in a much more subtle way.

Post: #199

I'm a korean-american dude, been traveling all over asia this past summer. While i'm still crafting my game, being asian raised in the Anglosphere absolutely kills in Asia. It for sure gives a social status among locals because to come from America/UK/Australia is to have been well educated, rich, etc. (at least in the locals' eyes). This thread's giving me some good intel and confirming what I've been experiencing, so I guess kudos.

Post: #200

(08-17-2016 03:53 PM)Hercules Wrote:  I'm a korean-american dude, been traveling all over asia this past summer. While i'm still crafting my game, being asian raised in the Anglosphere absolutely kills in Asia. It for sure gives a social status among locals because to come from America/UK/Australia is to have been well educated, rich, etc. (at least in the locals' eyes). This thread's giving me some good intel and confirming what I've been experiencing, so I guess kudos.

Herc, how has your experience in Korea been?