She's embarrassed and you likely didn't do enough comfort game. If you really want to see her invite her to sushi or brunch or etc. Doesn't have to be expensive.

(06-14-2016 08:42 PM)Roardog Wrote:  How does a "7" not pass the boner test? Your scoring system is off my friend.
Fair enough if you were too tired, she was a bitch, etc, but a 7 passes the boner test by definition.

She was nice I was tired. I guess that was important information. it was after 12, and I'd been drinking on an earlier date for a few hours. My scoring system is standard.

(06-18-2016 07:26 PM)realologist Wrote:  

(06-18-2016 07:11 PM)General Stalin Wrote:  

(06-17-2016 01:08 PM)General Stalin Wrote:  Cute OKC girl I was chatting with online was interested in going out. I gave her my number told her to text me. Next day she texts me:

Her: Hey, it's xxx from okc
Me: Hola xxx whats shakin

(no response)

She texted me this afternoon (3 days later) with this:

Her: Hey!! Sorry I just found this in my junk texts. What's up?

...That's a new one.

Didn't know text messages had a spam folder. Has to be a major slut to have a set up like that

She's lying. The only way this is possible if you intentionally forward texts from a certain number as "spam." She likely was busy talking to/dating other people that she was more excited about than me but then had a minute of boredom and decided to try and pick my text back up.

I responded 4 hours later:

Me: ? Whos this
Her: xxxx from okc, you texted me on Thursday and I replied late haha
Me: Hmmm pic?
Her: (okc username)
Me: I'm not at my computer just text me a pic

(no response)

These broads got no respect.

Preaching to the choir here: push boundaries as far as possible.

I pulled a girl I was on a tinder date with into an alley in a quiet residential block for heavy make out, but then I relented cuz of some heavy lmr and walked her back to her place, but it turns out she had like 3 roommates so I couldn't smash there and then she ghosted on me. Should've just went for the home run then and there.

^meh man we don't want you to be the next guy caught by two random Swedes "raping" an "unconscious" girl. I try to avoid trashey alley sex whenever possible.

I've been a lurker on this forum for quite a while now and still can't get out of my head. It's so frustrating at the moment and it's killing my game.

Went out yesterday with a few friends that I haven't seen for a long time and got a bit drunk to try calm the approach anxiety but ended up getting too drunk. Only managed to 'approach' two girls, which is horrible:

1st girl HB 6 - Walking to the club seen her sitting on a bench. Asked her why she is sitting here all alone. She "tried" to reply but I couldn't understand a word she said. She definitely was too drunk to have a conversation with

2nd girl HB 7 - This is where I fucked up. Got into the club and had a drink with my friends. I went to the bar to get a second round in and HB 7 tried to push in front of me. I called her out on it and told her that I see what she is trying to do. She smirked and didn't say anything. I kept my back turned to her to not show too much interest. I didn't follow up after this. But surprisingly she asked me where I am from. At this point I thought I had to challenge or tease her a bit. Told her I'm visiting town and asked her if she was one of those "local girls". She said she wasn't and that she came from another place I didn't recognise. So told her to describe where in England it is. She went on to say that she isn't posh but the place she is from is known for being where most our prime ministers went to school (eton college).
I teased her about this and said that whenever someone starts off by saying they are not something, chances are they are that which they are denying.
During this interaction, I bought my drink and told her that I'll see her around and went to see my friends. I should've stayed in set here.
However this gets worse! After 15 mins, I seen her on the dancefloor and she grabbed me and introduced me to her friend. I didn't realise what she was trying to do here and I was drunk by then. So after saying hi to her friend, I went back to having fun with my friends. Similarly in the smoking area, she tried to get my attention when I was having a deep conversation with one of my friends but I waved her away! Writing this I realise how my chances she gave me and I threw away.

After these two girls, my friends peer pressured me to get involved in what they were doing (drugs) and the night just got out of control there.
I know I had a lot of fun with friends I haven't seen for ages but I would like to improve my game and I seem to chicken out of approaching girls. I need to do 10 approaches next time I go out

(06-18-2016 07:52 PM)kaotic Wrote:  Starts telling me why I'm not in the south for her, how she's never been this turned on in her life.

Eventually I tell her "come here" and she says "to suck your dick ?" "yeah, I mean you're on your period anyways" "wellll I guesss"

She's actually got pretty good BJ skills, but she didn't fucking swallow, which is BS. Made a goddamn mess of me.

Anyways, I take her home, get some food, she told me text her when she gets home, I didn't.

Send her a follow up text saying I had fun, we should do it again. She wants to see me before she leaves late next week. I'll have some time, so hopefully it'll be a sealed deal by then.

Ended up swooping her up last night, went bowling, rolled to my house, had her naked....and she had a tampon in. Fuckin a man.

Straight told me we aren't having sex, I laughed, kept cool, kept going, she started playing her pussy using my dick, eventually stops.

I kept pushing and pushing, then I was just over it. She gave me another great BJ which I unloaded in her mouth, she didn't swallow of course.

Cleaned up came back, she tells me she get super attached if she has sex with someone, and reiterates she's only had sex with 2 guys, oh well.

Drop her off, she leaves Thursday, doubt I'll be seeing her again.

At least she was fun to get a blowjob from.



I believe this my longest new notch dry spell.

As far as the short end of game is concerned, for me nothing is more gratifying than seeing a long-term conquest come to fruition.

I moved to this part of the country about 10 months and got a new job locally about 8 months ago. Not long after I started there was this new cleaning girl that started coming into the office every other Friday. Cute tall Mexican girl (5'9" long dark hair slim body etc) I'd give her a soft 7. Anyway she is really quiet and shy and for some reason I never opened her or anything. For ~6 whole months the only communication I had with her was "how are you" small talk and when she asks "can I vacuum?" Maybe part of it was not wanting to make things in the office weird if she turns me down. I love shy girls but they give me approach anxiety for some reason because I'm so in my head about scaring the cat.

So anyway the other day she comes in and I put it in my head that I'm making a move on this girl. I ask her about weekend plans and ask her to come out with me that night. She works till midnight and didn't seem like she was going for it. So I throw a hailmary - before I leave I write my personal cell number on one of my business cards and tell her to text me this weekend.

To my surprise, she texts me! We chat a bit and I angle for a date and she's down. Make plans for the next evening (last night). She's such a cutie; when I tell her where/when to meet:

Her: I have a question hehehe?
Me: ?
Her: Should I wear jeans or a dress?
Me: Dress of course dear

We get together and she is looking so fine. Go to this rooftop lounge/pub and have a small bite and chat (yeah I bought apps am I beta?) Talk is sparing because she is so shy, also her English is not super strong. We finish up and go for a walk by the river. We talk about dancing and music. She likes to dance bachata and I pull up a song on YouTube on my phone and have her "teach" me. Some token kino, guiding her around by the small of her back, arm over the shoulder chuckling "comforting" her when I tease her, etc. I stop us at a bridge over looking to water and I have us trade glasses to compare how poor our eyesight is - she looks better without glasses. I pull her in for a kiss and I thought I was getting rejected: I lean my face into hers and she is pulling away hard. As I make contact with her lips I was expecting a forced Peck then a pull away - but she gets comfortable quick and we have a long makeout with her biting my lip and everything. It's on.

We walk around some more and she is loosened up after the kiss. More touchy and affectionate. We kiss some more as we walk and stop. I tell her lets get outta her and we walk back to our cars. I ask her if she likes wine she says yes. I tell her I have some wine at my new place a friend gave me as a house warming gift lets have a glass or two and I'll show you my studio. She is down and follows me to my house.

We get there, she's not digging the stale cheap wine but it doesn't matter at this point. We lay on the giant love sack in my studio, I play some guitar for her, we cuddle up and go for the makeout. Start getting heavy. There's neck kissing, light biting, ear sucking, heavy breathing; it's going the direction I had hoped for. I pull her dress up and suck on her titties. Awesome. I work my way down and plan to get the panties off and chow down. She shows some token resistance when I try to get between her legs but my persistence gets me in, although she doesn't let me take her panties off.

It's hot so we move to my living room couch where it's cooler. Put some Latin music on and go back at it. After some work I get my hand in her panties and rub her clit but she stops me from getting a finger inside. I end up on top of her and she gets my pants off pulls my dick out and strokes it a bit. I try pulling her panties off again but no go. I'm disappointed but not frustrated. It's getting late and she keeps saying she has to go but stays and keeps kissing me and touching me. Says she wants to stay the night but has kids she has to be home for. I'm not the type to press the issues these days so I tell her she'd better head home before she gets into trouble.

Round 2 for the kill gents. I've banged a good amount of women over the past 6 months, but few things are more exciting than having a "crush" at your place laying with you fooling around. Watching this girl breeze through my office every other Friday for months thinking "man that girl is cute... I'd love to touch her body, haver her touch mine, see what it's like to kiss her" then making it happen. See girl. Get girl. That's game.

Another crazy weekend. My game is as tight as it's ever been. My fuse has also never been shorter though... got kicked out of my regular club for starting an altercation on Saturday night.

Talking to a solid 8 at a small round bar table, really good flirty chats... then some drunk guy falls back onto our table and spills our drinks on both of us. I keep my cool, but let him know dismissively 'Watch where you're going cockhead'.

He arcs up 'what did you say fuckwit?!' and then I DO lose my cool a little, 'I said watch where you're going cocksucker, you knocked our drinks over'.

He pushes me a little, and then I push him right through the table and stand over him. People are holding us back. The two girls he's with get through and start trying to hit me hard as they can like a child chucking a tantrum. Security get involved and escort us both out in different directions.

I do a little bit of smooth talking at the end and they let me stay while I gather myself. A girl comes by to security and tells them that she'll escort me out.

How would you guys deal with this sort of situation?

_________________________

Didn't get laid that night (girl who escorted me out had church the next morning at 8am lol), but decide to head to a rooftop bar for an afternoon Sunday session. Friend goes home early but I'm determined and go to a techno club.

Within a couple minutes at the new club, I get approached by a hottie by the bar who asks how tall I am and then we get really close. The mother hen lesbian of the group comes in and tells me to fuck off, that's her girlfriend. The girl I was talking to keeps reapproaching me, and the feminazi lesbian chick is seething more and more every time.

It gets to the point where every girl I talk to, this crazy lesbian chick is coming over and interrupting my sets, telling them I'm a fuckboy. Security comes over and tells me to leave her alone. Absolutely ridiculous.

I make a chat with one last girl who tells me 'I can tell you're trying to hook up. My friend really likes you. Stay here'. Friend is maybe a 6-7. Brunette. She drags me to the dancefloor aggressively and shoots in for the make out. 'Come chat with me' she says as she takes me out to the smokers area, I sit down and she sits on my lap.

And of course she is in the same group as the mother hen. She goes off at me again. Brunette says we should go separate directions and meet another time. I go to leave the club.

_____________________

On my way out I see a sexy-bodied blonde in a crop top carving up the dancefloor. We have a bit of a grind. She's very aloof however. Looks at me dismissively and shakes her head. She says her and her friend are going to another bar and walks away from me. Her friend comes back over to me however and says to come with them.

We don't really chat much going from bar to bar, but suddenly the blonde has now grabbed my hand. She tells me she is from Slovenia.

We get inside, go dancefloor, I go for the make out and she turns her head. I roll my eyes at her and she drags me away to a quieter section of the bar.

'I know what you're after,' she tells me 'I'm just letting you know that I don't have sex with guys like you, I mean, we haven't even had a chat yet. Who do you think you are?'

I tell her to come with me and have a chat. We sit. I tell her that I'm scared if I tell her about me and my life she'll run away and never want to see me again. I tell her some dark shit about my past, my childhood, my breakups. I've never ran this sort of 'game' before but she laps it up shares her stories and hugs me. 'Never let me go' she says. We make out and I tell her we should go for a walk.

___________________

Outside I sit down on a bench, she lays her head in my lap and we talk some more. She says she can't come home with me because it's not a good idea. I tell her she should just come to mine to have one drink... and if she's not feeling it she is free to leave. She says okay.

We get an Uber to mine, she leads me to my room, takes off my pants and starts sucking. Incredible body. Great sex. She's coming over again tomorrow.

Game is all about persistence.

I have been banging this girl with bipolar disorder recently.

Incredible drama, out of control. My shit test passing game has tightened up substantially because of it.

(06-21-2016 12:41 AM)Prof. Ligate Wrote:  Talking to a solid 8 at a small round bar table, really good flirty chats... then some drunk guy falls back onto our table and spills our drinks on both of us. I keep my cool, but let him know dismissively 'Watch where you're going cockhead'.

He arcs up 'what did you say fuckwit?!' and then I DO lose my cool a little, 'I said watch where you're going cocksucker, you knocked our drinks over'.

He pushes me a little, and then I push him right through the table and stand over him. People are holding us back. The two girls he's with get through and start trying to hit me hard as they can like a child chucking a tantrum. Security get involved and escort us both out in different directions.

I do a little bit of smooth talking at the end and they let me stay while I gather myself. A girl comes by to security and tells them that she'll escort me out.

How would you guys deal with this sort of situation?

That seemed like an honest mistake from the other guy, you didn't need to call him a cockhead.
You should have punched him right after he pushed you hopefully giving you a few seconds to look at your surroudings, those girls punching like a child easily could have been some guy with a bottle already inches from your face.
Since it's your regular place you should probably apologize to the guards about what happened in case they want to ban you, i wouldn't be surprised if after you talk to them they side with you next time something happens.

(06-21-2016 12:56 AM)storm Wrote:  My shit test passing game has tightened up substantially because of it.

Lord almighty is not this the truth.

Bipolar chicks are like a minefield of bitchfits or monkey firework sex. Just march through the jungle, sweat, and pray.

Omg it is so difficult to get going again.
Went out to approach som girls, saw many, couldnt man up and do it except with one who i just told were cute.
This is bullshit, I'm going to go out tomorrow again.

(06-21-2016 01:05 PM)Burn Wrote:  Omg it is so difficult to get going again.
Went out to approach som girls, saw many, couldnt man up and do it except with one who i just told were cute.
This is bullshit, I'm going to go out tomorrow again.

Similar problem. Next day, next chance
http://www.rooshv.com/just-keep-going

Got a facebook message from my ex. I broke up with her almost two year ago. She must have unblocked me. Sent me a video that pretty much said she's happy we broke up because she wouldn't have found this new guy or some kind of shit.

Thought it was hilarious and blocked her.

(06-21-2016 04:47 PM)Remington Wrote:  Got a facebook message from my ex. I broke up with her almost two year ago. She must have unblocked me. Sent me a video that pretty much said she's happy we broke up because she wouldn't have found this new guy or some kind of shit.

Thought it was hilarious and blocked her.

Don't you love when they try shoving shit in your face ?

Best part is, she's being shady to her new man by reaching out to you.

Someones gina is tingling for an old flame.

This is why I'm glad my ex unfollowed me, eventually I blocked her on FB (we don't have mutual friends thankfully). It helped me not creep on her shit and move on.

(06-21-2016 04:47 PM)Remington Wrote:  Got a facebook message from my ex. I broke up with her almost two year ago. She must have unblocked me. Sent me a video that pretty much said she's happy we broke up because she wouldn't have found this new guy or some kind of shit.

Thought it was hilarious and blocked her.

"Who are you?"

(06-21-2016 04:51 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

(06-21-2016 04:47 PM)Remington Wrote:  Got a facebook message from my ex. I broke up with her almost two year ago. She must have unblocked me. Sent me a video that pretty much said she's happy we broke up because she wouldn't have found this new guy or some kind of shit.

Thought it was hilarious and blocked her.

Don't you love when they try shoving shit in your face ?

Best part is, she's being shady to her new man by reaching out to you.

Someones gina is tingling for an old flame.

This is why I'm glad my ex unfollowed me, eventually I blocked her on FB (we don't have mutual friends thankfully). It helped me not creep on her shit and move on.

Yea, it was pretty amusing when I saw that message. She was just a girl I dated for a few months. Bunch of red flags that I discovered once I started dating and ended it. I was most likely the only guy whoever lost interest in what she was selling.

(06-21-2016 06:06 PM)Remington Wrote:  I was most likely the only guy whoever lost interest in what she was selling.

(06-21-2016 04:47 PM)Remington Wrote:  Got a facebook message from my ex. I broke up with her almost two year ago. She must have unblocked me. Sent me a video that pretty much said she's happy we broke up because she wouldn't have found this new guy or some kind of shit.

Thought it was hilarious and blocked her.

She is your alpha widow. She still wants you and thinks about you often. Play on playa

(06-21-2016 08:25 PM)General Stalin Wrote:  

(06-21-2016 04:47 PM)Remington Wrote:  Got a facebook message from my ex. I broke up with her almost two year ago. She must have unblocked me. Sent me a video that pretty much said she's happy we broke up because she wouldn't have found this new guy or some kind of shit.

Thought it was hilarious and blocked her.

She is your alpha widow. She still wants you and thinks about you often. Play on playa

The woman needs therapy.

(06-21-2016 08:42 PM)Remington Wrote:  

(06-21-2016 08:25 PM)General Stalin Wrote:  

(06-21-2016 04:47 PM)Remington Wrote:  Got a facebook message from my ex. I broke up with her almost two year ago. She must have unblocked me. Sent me a video that pretty much said she's happy we broke up because she wouldn't have found this new guy or some kind of shit.

Thought it was hilarious and blocked her.

She is your alpha widow. She still wants you and thinks about you often. Play on playa

The woman needs therapy.

Did you ever hear back from the one from that epic post?

(06-21-2016 10:16 PM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  

(06-21-2016 08:42 PM)Remington Wrote:  

(06-21-2016 08:25 PM)General Stalin Wrote:  

(06-21-2016 04:47 PM)Remington Wrote:  Got a facebook message from my ex. I broke up with her almost two year ago. She must have unblocked me. Sent me a video that pretty much said she's happy we broke up because she wouldn't have found this new guy or some kind of shit.

Thought it was hilarious and blocked her.

She is your alpha widow. She still wants you and thinks about you often. Play on playa

The woman needs therapy.

Did you ever hear back from the one from that epic post?

Link to said epic post?

Was talking to an asian math MS tonite. Table between us, her finger is curling locks of her hair like she's trying out for Annie... but both of our logistics are fucked and I can't seem to bring the topic to "fun" things.

Specifically.

I tried asking the girl for adventurous or crazy things she's done but this one lived the most boring life imaginable. I tell my own stories but she can't really say anything herself...

Basically, I can't escalate physically because I fucked myself with the table (it was the only way to get her out of her nerd work tho) and I can't escalate verbally because she is a bookworm.

How should I have proceeded?

(Invited her to dance lessons w me tomorrow)

(06-22-2016 12:10 AM)storm Wrote:  Was talking to an asian math MS tonite. Table between us, her finger is curling locks of her hair like she's trying out for Annie... but both of our logistics are fucked and I can't seem to bring the topic to "fun" things.

Specifically.

I tried asking the girl for adventurous or crazy things she's done but this one lived the most boring life imaginable. I tell my own stories but she can't really say anything herself...

Basically, I can't escalate physically because I fucked myself with the table (it was the only way to get her out of her nerd work tho) and I can't escalate verbally because she is a bookworm.

How should I have proceeded?

(Invited her to dance lessons w me tomorrow)

Dance lessons are a good start. Things where she can cut loose and/or at least you can get a little physical. even something like going for a walk in a park or along a river. Has a romantic element to it, and you can tease, tickle, jab, dance, whatever. Is she tiny? Compare you hand size to hers.

Some girls are just stuck in a shell and it can be pulling teeth to get them out - also some girls just might not dig what you're putting down. You want to at least try to get her talking, specifically about her self and things that make her feel. Making a girl feel things is the linchpin of attraction.