Post: #26

I'd respond with "I'm devastated by that". How's that for amused mastery or whatever the hell that nerd term is called

Post: #27

No response would have been the proper response. Only a hoe that's pretending not to be a hoe would be annoyed by such a remark.

Post: #28

Based on your lack of interest in fucking her, and yet, ongoing association, she has put you firmly in the orbiter bucket.

She expected you to comply with her request because she thinks she's better than you for whatever reason. It should be the other way around. She should have been hesitant to ask in the first place, why the fuck would you want a bunch of one dollar bills instead of a larger bill? People ask others/ their friends for a favor to break down larger bills. Are you going to count out a sack full of coins from her car and give her dollars on the spot? No, that's why we have banks.

Now that you are an orbiter in bad-standing, she's saying fuck you and treating you like that dumb HR cunt Debbie she hates from work. Only now she's got something new on you to complain about to her gossip girls for attention. And she's rubbing your nose in that apology of yours like she does with her dog that still pisses the carpet- the same one that she enthusiastically kisses on the lips. But she doesn't need you around for things like that. You are the orbiter (not friend or Fido) that has betrayed her feelings. A friend can throw that jab and she will shake it off. Her dog sleeps under the covers. Where are you at?

Get on that Patrice O'Neal train, and start saying "Fuck you, bitch. Jackal-kissin' hoe! I'm better than you!" Maybe not those words exactly, but she shouldn't be surprised to hear something like that come bellowing out of you if she crosses an obvious line in the sand.

And just because you're fucking them doesn't mean they won't pull this same card. Ever have a chick you were dating find out you spent a bunch of money on something other than her? She can't believe it... Starts in talking at you and you have to catch yourself listening and just interrupt- "Wait, why are we even talking about this? Your opinion. Doesn't. Mean. Shit. What's the deal with you today? You hungry or something?"

Look in the mirror. Do whatever it takes to improve. I learn something new every damn day from the guys here who are willing to share their experiences and teach me how to avoid the same traps they fell into when they went through the gauntlet. Sometimes I feel dumb that the situations they are talking about I've already failed miserably more than once. Then again- That's the reason I would guess most of us sign in all the time. You don't want to miss something you need to know.

Post: #29

(06-01-2016 12:16 AM)Travesty Wrote:  Like anything in life that comes at you yet has zero consequence if you ignore it.

Would have been a perfect time to send a birthday cat.

Post: #30

Puckerman, you misunderstood what she was saying to you.

What she said: "Be more aware of what you say to people."

What she meant: "You aren't attractive enough to flirt with me. If you were attractive enough, the comment would have been well received."

Post: #31

(06-02-2016 12:01 AM)Suits Wrote:  Puckerman, you misunderstood what she was saying to you.

What she said: "Be more aware of what you say to people."

What she meant: "You aren't attractive enough to flirt with me. If you were attractive enough, the comment would have been well received."

It appears that you have a few more things to worry about than just that. If the girl didn't giggle from a response like that odds are there are a few other things to be worrying about as I've used similar responses.

Other than that never apologize. Rule of Game 101.