Post: #1

Is that attraction?

WIA

Post: #2

You gotta make that call. I mentioned this before and I gotta try it next time I'm getting pissed at a chick but you stick your fingers in your glass and spritz her in the face with it. I think you're taking about a different kind of annoyed though.

Post: #3

or you could just throw some shit on girl

Post: #4

A chick that is being annoying is an instant boner killer for me. Your mileage may vary though.

Post: #5

@kaii that's the normal order of operations.

Sometimes a chick will have extended contact and just get on your radar. If one is generally stoic departures from that may...or may not be a signal.

Post: #6

I want space away from them immediately when this happens, so no.

Also like Roosh said, the boner is king. When they act this way I quite literally feel my boner recede. Biological evidence.

Post: #7

turns me off in every way. unless I'm being "annoyed" because she's playing hard to get...

that pisses me off to the point where I'm thinking "see, now I'm going to make it a point to fuck you HARD and WELL. make you want more and leave your ass"

Post: #8

Every time I get annoyed with a girl, it's another nail in the coffin of our 'relationship'.

Women very rarely understand the difference between challenging someone to improve, and challenging to be argumentative. Instant boner kill.

"I'd hate myself if I had that kind of attitude, if I were that weak." - Arnold

Post: #9

Attraction to choke her.

Post: #10

Fatties annoy me and I am not attracted to them.

If she is a hot chick and annoying you then you may be into her frame which is not good. This is not necessarily true, but just have that in mind because some dudes become annoyed when a girl flakes or shows no respect in other ways.

If that's a playful annoyance in a sense of her teasing you then play the same game, you'll both like it.

Post: #11

How satisfying would it be to grab her head and shove into a pillow while you are fucking her? Like that .gif that's been floating around here.

Post: #12

Sometimes. Not all snark is equal at least to me. My ex was absolutely annoying with snark to the point where I would look at her and say ,"no" ... and walk away.

Other snark just makes me laugh and is more of a "game on" type of deal. I have surprisingly success with type A girls who are too smart for their own good. They eat my game up.

Hard to explain, but I think the main difference between snark I like and don't is her projecting her frame. The one I don't like I can instinctively tell that she wants me to buy into her orbiting beta tampoon splooge. The other is more fiesty fun and is a good way for me to figure out if she is DTF.

Post: #13

Hello. New to forum.

(12-20-2013 03:57 PM)frenchie Wrote:  Hard to explain, but I think the main difference between snark I like and don't is her projecting her frame. The one I don't like I can instinctively tell that she wants me to buy into her orbiting beta tampoon splooge. The other is more fiesty fun and is a good way for me to figure out if she is DTF.

Can you elaborate? Maybe with some examples? Would like to know what to avoid/discourage.

Post: #14

(12-21-2013 05:07 AM)Don Baez Wrote:  Hello. New to forum.

(12-20-2013 03:57 PM)frenchie Wrote:  Hard to explain, but I think the main difference between snark I like and don't is her projecting her frame. The one I don't like I can instinctively tell that she wants me to buy into her orbiting beta tampoon splooge. The other is more fiesty fun and is a good way for me to figure out if she is DTF.

Can you elaborate? Maybe with some examples? Would like to know what to avoid/discourage.

Hey Don, welcome to the forum!

Honestly, it seems to all be preference. I have an issue with submitting to other individuals that are not worthy of my submission.

My ex has a habit of talking down to guys in a way that makes my blood boil. We never met at a bar which is why I say we would probably never have dated meeting in a bar. We would have fun with me trying to pick her up at a bar which really just throws an obnoxious bitch shield in my face which I then go and tell her what she did.

I have a few examples of me being in a venue and some girl makes eye contact with me, comes up, says something snarky, and then me looking at her and laughing back at the whole thing.

I guess the main difference being is approach. I normally get girl bitch shield snark when I approach girls. When a girl approaches me, it's normally some wanna be "alpha" girl trying to shake the frame so to speak.

It's complicated. I tend to rely on my gut when I should eject and push forward. Do you have any situations along the lines of that?

Post: #15

(12-19-2013 01:27 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  Is that attraction?

We aren't chicks. When we're annoyed, we're actually annoyed.

   

Post: #16

This gets at the whole thing of guys feeling like they have to game themselves, and second guessing what they are thinking.

You shouldn't have to mental gymnastics or hocus pocus on yourself.

It should be clear to you what you want, especially for most guys on here. If you aren't sure about what you want, that's square one in getting it together.

The rest is just trial and error and doing what needs to be done to get what you want, regardless of how you feel.