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And as far as beards go? I'm starting to run five o'clock shadow instead of the full beard now. If I let my beard grow out I look like Leroy bin Laden. From left to right it goes from gray to black to gray on my chin to black to gray. If I shave I can pull off late 30's. If I let it grow I look like Grady from Sanford and Son.

I can't grow a beard. I'm not clean shaven, but no one is going to stop me on an airplane.

WIA

(05-11-2016 09:04 AM)vinman Wrote:  And as far as beards go? I'm starting to run five o'clock shadow instead of the full beard now. If I let my beard grow out I look like Leroy bin Laden. From left to right it goes from gray to black to gray on my chin to black to gray. If I shave I can pull off late 30's. If I let it grow I look like Grady from Sanford and Son.

No goatee or mustache?

(05-10-2016 11:06 PM)Upper Echelon Wrote:  Lmao I just wanted to clear the air for all of my fellow african-american lurkers. Coming from a "light-skin" guy these statements are absolutely absurd & misleading. I'm what would be considered a light-skinned african american & my SMV is through the roof! Globally! I have no problems anywhere in North America or Abroad, and I travel internationally quite often; on avg. once a month. I just got back from Hong Kong a few weeks ago for the 1st time, I didn't know what to expect and when I got there women were all over me: rich girls, black girls, asian girls, euro girls; I took a new one back to the hotel every night and made lasting connections. I was vip at all the hot nightlife spots in LKF every night, unforgettable times but that's a whole nother story lol. I say that to say this, snap out of the victim mentality. Yes, the odds are against us but that's what makes it so much more sweet & impressive when you triumph. I'm a young male from inner-city Chicago, nothing but killers around me but I carry myself with a level of elegance & grace that is unmatched by even most women lol. My street smarts & style are second to none, killer combo; my swagger is pretty much unmatched in any room that I walk in. By no means am I rich (not too far off tho) but I only do high-end lifestyle: 5 star hotels, Top designer fashions (Chanel, Louboutin, LV, etc.) , Top restaurants & so forth. I love my complexion & I move thru life as if it has very little to do w/ my outcomes; I make no excuses going after what I want. I'm handsome, fit, clear youthful skin, bright white teeth & I absolutely kill it everywhere (see where I'm going w/ this?) Work on yourself, improve on as many "weaknesses" that you can, build up your status, work on your mentality anybody can kill out here no matter the color lol I love my life it's filled with foreign girls lol it gives me so much bragging rights in my city because I'm the only one out the ghetto w/ all of these experiences.

I'll wrap it up w/ this, I've always lurked on this forum for Intel on the places I travel never for game as it would be counter-productive. I'm still young & I find it amusing & sometimes downright pitiful as to how grown men can be this clueless about women & social dynamics. Lastly, I really dislike the inferiority-complexes that I see in these african-american or so called "black" threads. We as a whole people are much greater than that, that is a detrimental mindset to have.

Peace.

Very impressive although I'm not digging your condescending attitude. Couple questions if i may ...

1. What kind of girls were you pulling in LKF? Locals or expat Brit/Aussie MILFs? HK and Singapore don't strike me as cities where you can just touch down for a weekend without knowing the lay of the land and pull with ease "every single night" like in Vegas, Frankfurt or NYC.

2. Do you speak Madarin/Cantonese?

3. What do you do for a living? Or what industry if you don't want to be specific.

(05-11-2016 09:30 AM)Anabasis to Desta Wrote:  

(05-10-2016 11:06 PM)Upper Echelon Wrote:  Lmao I just wanted to clear the air for all of my fellow african-american lurkers. Coming from a "light-skin" guy these statements are absolutely absurd & misleading. I'm what would be considered a light-skinned african american & my SMV is through the roof! Globally! I have no problems anywhere in North America or Abroad, and I travel internationally quite often; on avg. once a month. I just got back from Hong Kong a few weeks ago for the 1st time, I didn't know what to expect and when I got there women were all over me: rich girls, black girls, asian girls, euro girls; I took a new one back to the hotel every night and made lasting connections. I was vip at all the hot nightlife spots in LKF every night, unforgettable times but that's a whole nother story lol. I say that to say this, snap out of the victim mentality. Yes, the odds are against us but that's what makes it so much more sweet & impressive when you triumph. I'm a young male from inner-city Chicago, nothing but killers around me but I carry myself with a level of elegance & grace that is unmatched by even most women lol. My street smarts & style are second to none, killer combo; my swagger is pretty much unmatched in any room that I walk in. By no means am I rich (not too far off tho) but I only do high-end lifestyle: 5 star hotels, Top designer fashions (Chanel, Louboutin, LV, etc.) , Top restaurants & so forth. I love my complexion & I move thru life as if it has very little to do w/ my outcomes; I make no excuses going after what I want. I'm handsome, fit, clear youthful skin, bright white teeth & I absolutely kill it everywhere (see where I'm going w/ this?) Work on yourself, improve on as many "weaknesses" that you can, build up your status, work on your mentality anybody can kill out here no matter the color lol I love my life it's filled with foreign girls lol it gives me so much bragging rights in my city because I'm the only one out the ghetto w/ all of these experiences.

I'll wrap it up w/ this, I've always lurked on this forum for Intel on the places I travel never for game as it would be counter-productive. I'm still young & I find it amusing & sometimes downright pitiful as to how grown men can be this clueless about women & social dynamics. Lastly, I really dislike the inferiority-complexes that I see in these african-american or so called "black" threads. We as a whole people are much greater than that, that is a detrimental mindset to have.

Peace.

Very impressive although I'm not digging your condescending attitude. Couple questions if i may ...

1. What kind of girls were you pulling in LKF? Locals or expat Brit/Aussie MILFs? HK and Singapore don't strike me as cities where you can just touch down for a weekend without knowing the lay of the land and pull with ease "every single night" like in Vegas, Frankfurt or NYC.

2. Do you speak Madarin/Cantonese?

3. What do you do for a living? Or what industry if you don't want to be specific.

With all due respect, whether you dig me or not has no effect on my life. I only speak english, although my french is impressive (to me at least lol I love Parisian girls) I wasn't really pulling girls in LKF, they were pulling me lol. Not saying every girl was just throwing their selves at me, that's unrealistic. Long story short, wondering around LKF at about 4am my 1st night there I hit a food spot & bumped into a DJ (black dude from US been in HK 15 yrs, late 30's. I'm in my 20's) He was being genuinely nice off back & see I'm from an extremely hostile environment so I was skeptical of him at 1st, but I opened up and he actually ended up being a really popular DJ in HK (Would've missed my blessing had I held on to that city mentality). We kicked it hard every night I was in HK, my social circle instantly went thru the roof! I didn't get to do any touristy stuff because I wouldn't be getting back to my hotel until damn near 11 am lol then by the time I woke up again it'd be 9 - 10 pm. I was absolutely beat & exhausted on my flight back to the U.S. slept the entire time. I scored a girl from England, her mother basically set her out to me, too easy & a Phil girl too. I liked her, she was a yr older than me. I wanna say she had plastic surgery because she was curvy. They both had money, especially the one from England. I could've had more girls but that's really nothing to me, I was drained & when I travel I'm looking for biz opportunities more than anything. Women are secondary, I just happen to be really good with them.

Man, I'm tired of typing. I really commend all you guys who take time & effort to write out extensive datasheets even if you fluff your stories here & there lol. I don't care to give too many details on a public forum about myself. I made right over 6 figures last yr & will at least touch that again this yr. That is no money, but I'm young, have a lot of free time & very few responsibilities so it does go far at times.

(05-11-2016 09:26 AM)Comte De St. Germain Wrote:  

(05-11-2016 09:04 AM)vinman Wrote:  And as far as beards go? I'm starting to run five o'clock shadow instead of the full beard now. If I let my beard grow out I look like Leroy bin Laden. From left to right it goes from gray to black to gray on my chin to black to gray. If I shave I can pull off late 30's. If I let it grow I look like Grady from Sanford and Son.

No goatee or mustache?

Mustache? No. I did this when I had a baby face. And I'm not trying to look like one of The Whispers. And I got sick of seeing all of the goatees years ago with all of the military contractors. So it's either a beard or shadow for me. But I noticed that a gray beard is not a detriment with Latinas outside of America.

(05-11-2016 11:25 AM)vinman Wrote:  

(05-11-2016 09:26 AM)Comte De St. Germain Wrote:  

(05-11-2016 09:04 AM)vinman Wrote:  And as far as beards go? I'm starting to run five o'clock shadow instead of the full beard now. If I let my beard grow out I look like Leroy bin Laden. From left to right it goes from gray to black to gray on my chin to black to gray. If I shave I can pull off late 30's. If I let it grow I look like Grady from Sanford and Son.

No goatee or mustache?

Mustache? No. I did this when I had a baby face. And I'm not trying to look like one of The Whispers. And I got sick of seeing all of the goatees years ago with all of the military contractors. So it's either a beard or shadow for me. But I noticed that a gray beard is not a detriment with Latinas outside of America.

I was thinking more Black Dynamite, but you do you man.

I like the look of Katerina Graham, but she always has her mouth in a side position.

Ok you lot I beg you 'llow the lizard pics, Excelsior has a thread for that expression. Let's keep this on track. Drop some smash datasheets, travel or strategy. Thanks.

Delete

Who runs day game?

How do you handle the morning rush scenario.

You're going to work
She's going to work

WIA

(05-11-2016 09:30 AM)Anabasis to Desta Wrote:  

(05-10-2016 11:06 PM)Upper Echelon Wrote:  Lmao I just wanted to clear the air for all of my fellow african-american lurkers. Coming from a "light-skin" guy these statements are absolutely absurd & misleading. I'm what would be considered a light-skinned african american & my SMV is through the roof! Globally! I have no problems anywhere in North America or Abroad, and I travel internationally quite often; on avg. once a month. I just got back from Hong Kong a few weeks ago for the 1st time, I didn't know what to expect and when I got there women were all over me: rich girls, black girls, asian girls, euro girls; I took a new one back to the hotel every night and made lasting connections. I was vip at all the hot nightlife spots in LKF every night, unforgettable times but that's a whole nother story lol. I say that to say this, snap out of the victim mentality. Yes, the odds are against us but that's what makes it so much more sweet & impressive when you triumph. I'm a young male from inner-city Chicago, nothing but killers around me but I carry myself with a level of elegance & grace that is unmatched by even most women lol. My street smarts & style are second to none, killer combo; my swagger is pretty much unmatched in any room that I walk in. By no means am I rich (not too far off tho) but I only do high-end lifestyle: 5 star hotels, Top designer fashions (Chanel, Louboutin, LV, etc.) , Top restaurants & so forth. I love my complexion & I move thru life as if it has very little to do w/ my outcomes; I make no excuses going after what I want. I'm handsome, fit, clear youthful skin, bright white teeth & I absolutely kill it everywhere (see where I'm going w/ this?) Work on yourself, improve on as many "weaknesses" that you can, build up your status, work on your mentality anybody can kill out here no matter the color lol I love my life it's filled with foreign girls lol it gives me so much bragging rights in my city because I'm the only one out the ghetto w/ all of these experiences.

I'll wrap it up w/ this, I've always lurked on this forum for Intel on the places I travel never for game as it would be counter-productive. I'm still young & I find it amusing & sometimes downright pitiful as to how grown men can be this clueless about women & social dynamics. Lastly, I really dislike the inferiority-complexes that I see in these african-american or so called "black" threads. We as a whole people are much greater than that, that is a detrimental mindset to have.

Peace.

Very impressive although I'm not digging your condescending attitude. Couple questions if i may ...

1. What kind of girls were you pulling in LKF? Locals or expat Brit/Aussie MILFs? HK and Singapore don't strike me as cities where you can just touch down for a weekend without knowing the lay of the land and pull with ease "every single night" like in Vegas, Frankfurt or NYC.

2. Do you speak Madarin/Cantonese?

3. What do you do for a living? Or what industry if you don't want to be specific.

Yeh I'm calling BS until he drops a datasheet.

Or are you too 'good' to give back instead of lurking and taking?

vinman: I have low pilosity. Can't grow decent hair, nor pubic hair, no armpit hair, no beard or mustache of course.
Never ever had to shave my chest, arms or whatever: still I have less hair than most males two-three months after puberty

Pros: no need to shave, money saved

Cons: I can feel bad sometimes when I can't even rock that 3-days beard.

^^ He basically revealed his cards by disclosing that all the interactions he encountered was the result of hanging with a celebrity (or a perceived celebrity).
I got plenty of pussy-by-association back in the day hanging wit the city's biggest dopeman who bought out every bar we went to, lol.

Bruh, that shit was an anomaly.

Damn Skip's Steps, back at it again!

(05-11-2016 04:53 PM)DimeBait Wrote:  ^^ He basically revealed his cards by disclosing that all the interactions he encountered was the result of hanging with a celebrity (or a perceived celebrity).
I got plenty of pussy-by-association back in the day hanging wit the city's biggest dopeman who bought out every bar we went to, lol.

Bruh, that shit was an anomaly.

Now imagine yourself being the person who you use to hang with, picture him & you'll get a closer perspective to me. Anomaly! Exactly. You hit it right on the head, you're getting even closer.

Every where I go I link w/ important (or perceived important) people maybe because I'm important (or perceived) lol I literally joke about it w/ myself all the time cuz it surely can't be luck at this point. There are no cards to show when this is a lifestyle.

You revealed your cards. You showed me ur a sideline hater w/ limiting beliefs guess the jokes on you.

Is anyone up on the site TravelNoire? Basically its a blog/network site of Black travelers and covers everything from expatriation to reports on off the beaten path locations. I know a few people that did their group trip last year in Dubai and had a blast, but there's a ton of good info on there even if you decide not to go to the events.

http://travelnoire.com/
https://www.instagram.com/travelnoire/?hl=en

^ If there was one piece of advice you'd give us what would it be?

How can we be more like you?

@Upper Echelon You basically proved my point about black men having a better chance overseas due to a more fair racial playing field. My "bitching" was not about having to struggle and game more for less results outside the United States. You're like the guy who's telling the person going to Harvard that college is a breeze, yet you're attending _____ State University.

And having a DJ for a homeboy would almost anyone get more tail. Way to show your Ace Card.

(05-11-2016 06:43 PM)SuS Wrote:  @Upper Echelon You basically proved my point about black men having a better chance overseas due to a more fair racial playing field. My "bitching" was not about having to struggle and game more for less results outside the United States. You're like the guy who's telling the person going to Harvard that college is a breeze, yet you're attending _____ State University.

And having a DJ for a homeboy would almost anyone get more tail. Way to show your Ace Card.

That Harvard analogy you attempted was terrible, made no sense at all. Your "bitching"? Why are you even in a position to say you're "bitching" smh that was my point in the 1st place that you shouldn't have any complaints or nothing to "bitch" about (your words, not mine). Like I said, I have no problems in the U.S. or Abroad so your analogy was just a mixture of emotion & lack of finesse.

And once again (reading is so fundamental) There are no cards to show when this is a lifestyle. I clearly play the game better for y'all to even think that was a card to show lol.

All this crab in the barrel mentality is nothing new to me lol I thrive in that environment. I grew up extremely fast tho that's probably reason I'm the younger more advanced one (more stylish, better looking etc.) lol

^ So how can mere mortals like us get on your level Upper Echelon?

Help us!

(05-11-2016 06:37 PM)Anabasis to Desta Wrote:  ^ If there was one piece of advice you'd give us what would it be?

How can we be more like you?

Damn bro those words really humble me. It's not about being about me, I'm not even fully who Ima be. I still do young dumb shit, make mistakes but I don't make excuses. I never had no guidance. I'm extremely hard on myself, that's why anyone's criticism is irrelevant it could never match how hard I go on myself. Anything I consider to be a weakness has to be worked on until it's no longer considered that. One of my last kinks I really find as a flaw is bodybuilding, I think about & research it nearly everyday. I keep myself up to a T, but I'm tall & slender and although it fits my aesthetic perfect bcuz I wear high-end fashion cloths right off of the runway (I take fashion serious) I feel like if I put on 25 lbs. it would simply be unfair out here cuz the girls be on me now & I'm skinny as fuck. Mind you, I'm dressing more elegant & stylish than most women on any given day (Can't take no days off w/ this fly shit. When you look good you feel good, never know who you'll run into & meet) so I'm auto-perceived as somewhat status but the way I carry myself is what puts the icing on the cake.

I focus on cash flow & my imperfections. I also create. A lot. I feel incomplete when I go on a head & pussy binge & get sidetracked from my goals & passions. I instantly get disgusted of the girl who put me under the spell (all that good mouth & pu**y lol told you I'm still young & dumb smh) And the funny thing is as much as I love to brag to my peers about my foreign encounters it's always the young lil 19 yr old girl out the hood w/ the fine face, juicy ass, titties, lips, hips & all that but I know I could never wife her cuz as much as I like her, she & I both know that my status is too high to deal w/ her baggage. Man some of them hood girls the complete package, almost makes the baggage worth it (I'm borderline joking/not joking).

I thirst for knowledge, while everyone my age is out partying I'm READING, READING, READING. That may have single-handedly put me ahead of 97% of my peers. The old heads joke on my generation of degenerates, shit I do too lol makes it way too easy for me. Shit the old heads be mad at me cuz I'm more smoother & advanced than them (the irony).

I have no social anxiety bro. I can stand tall, emotionless w/ a pokerface in a room full of threatening gangsters giving off a calm "I'm cool but not to be fucked with vibe" or stand firm in a room full of beautiful women, no fidgeting, strong mildly sexual eye contact, dominant body language. The energy & vibes I give off be crazy at times, it's like I can control it.

This is getting long winded although I love helping rather than trying to explain frivolous matters. Like I said before, I'm young and don't have all the answers but what sets me apart is I actually look for answers.

(05-11-2016 07:25 PM)Anabasis to Desta Wrote:  ^ So how can mere mortals like us get on your level Upper Echelon?

Help us!

Thought you were coming off genuine at first, I embrace sarcasm just as well.

Now that you asked, to keep it simple; when you young, black, educated, street smart, best dressed having the time of your life with money to blow it's like a slap in people's faces. But ya know what? The ladies love it! A man who conquers his goals, always knows the next move, & has money to have do all the hip new cool things & fun all the time! Girls love fun w/ a bad boy lol . A young black man who takes shit outta no one not even elders grabbing the world by it's horns with no fame involved imagined that; toast to against all odds.

For some strange reason as engulfed in racism as America is I've always somehow for the most part remained color blind. I can tell y'all the same type of niggaz that act shy around white people lol

But try that advice out, I guarantee results.

(05-11-2016 06:28 PM)Upper Echelon Wrote:  

(05-11-2016 04:53 PM)DimeBait Wrote:  ^^ He basically revealed his cards by disclosing that all the interactions he encountered was the result of hanging with a celebrity (or a perceived celebrity).
I got plenty of pussy-by-association back in the day hanging wit the city's biggest dopeman who bought out every bar we went to, lol.

Bruh, that shit was an anomaly.

Now imagine yourself being the person who you use to hang with, picture him & you'll get a closer perspective to me. Anomaly! Exactly. You hit it right on the head, you're getting even closer.

Every where I go I link w/ important (or perceived important) people maybe because I'm important (or perceived) lol I literally joke about it w/ myself all the time cuz it surely can't be luck at this point. There are no cards to show when this is a lifestyle.

You revealed your cards. You showed me ur a sideline hater w/ limiting beliefs guess the jokes on you.

Hey,

If you're for real, stop slinging insults at guys who are naturally suspicious (we've had a lot of trolls come through this site and this thread) and start dropping some knowledge.

Do you speak Chinese? Your results in Hong Kong sound quite impressive. I've lived 30 minutes away from Hong Kong for a year and I don't see too many brothers come through China and kill it like that.

Many black guys struggle in China and HK, but if you're killing it with a new chick everyone night, then drop some knowledge.