Post: #1

I don't usually write on this forum but I don't know where else to turn, maybe the manosphere can help. I was in a relationship for about a year and a half, and things were going good, didn't have too many fights, we were happy, or so I thought we were. One day my ex meets up with me and ends things, now I was devastated, this was a girl that I fell in love with, never had feelings for another like her. Anyways here I am 8 months later, in a new city, Montreal, which might I add has some of the best putang I've ever seen. Basically since the breakup I don't feel like myself around chicks anymore, I'm a good looking dude, and quite intelligent, but for some reason i can't get over the fact that things ended so shitty and that a girl that i fell for was with someone 3 weeks after she dumped me. I'm pretty sure she was seeing him before but it's made it hard to find a girl that i trust. I've been turned off from putting myself out there and it's getting to me, I've never been in this position and I wanna get out of it, I wanna get through this and end my dry spell.

Thanks

Post: #2

(04-18-2016 03:18 PM)Aggelos Wrote:  I don't usually write on this forum but I don't know where else to turn, maybe the manosphere can help. I was in a relationship for about a year and a half, and things were going good, didn't have too many fights, we were happy, or so I thought we were. One day my ex meets up with me and ends things, now I was devastated, this was a girl that I fell in love with, never had feelings for another like her. Anyways here I am 8 months later, in a new city, Montreal, which might I add has some of the best putang I've ever seen. Basically since the breakup I don't feel like myself around chicks anymore, I'm a good looking dude, and quite intelligent, but for some reason i can't get over the fact that things ended so shitty and that a girl that i fell for was with someone 3 weeks after she dumped me. I'm pretty sure she was seeing him before but it's made it hard to find a girl that i trust. I've been turned off from putting myself out there and it's getting to me, I've never been in this position and I wanna get out of it, I wanna get through this and end my dry spell.

Thanks

Apparently you haven't been reading much here either...in 5 years

Post: #3

I used to but I stopped reading it, started to study in depth into the markets so I left this aside.

Post: #4

While not quite what OP is talking about one thing I found to be extremely effective at getting girls to get into your place is souvenirs.

This comes into play when making plans with girls a week or two out in advance, I would travel a bit and buy small little presents to give to them. Afterthoughts really, but I'd go out drinking with the girl. Walk the girl back to my place and when she stopped outside and was hesitant to come in with me I'd mention I brought back a souvenir from X country/Y prefecture. Generally some regional snack, bitches love snacks.

Anyway, it worked wonders on LMR since they could justify coming into my room to get a present.

Post: #5

(04-18-2016 05:31 PM)cascadecombo Wrote:  While not quite what OP is talking about one thing I found to be extremely effective at getting girls to get into your place is souvenirs.

This comes into play when making plans with girls a week or two out in advance, I would travel a bit and buy small little presents to give to them. Afterthoughts really, but I'd go out drinking with the girl. Walk the girl back to my place and when she stopped outside and was hesitant to come in with me I'd mention I brought back a souvenir from X country/Y prefecture. Generally some regional snack, bitches love snacks.

Anyway, it worked wonders on LMR since they could justify coming into my room to get a present.

Post: #6

OP: That is likely to happen again, so maximize your looks, read (for real this time), and go game other chicks.

cascadecombo: This may work on the right type of girl, as long as it's not too expensive, as you are gambling a certain amount of money and a hard-to-get item on a girl who isn't guaranteed to put out. I tried it once and failed. Here goes: I invited a single mom to my place (from Tinder). I chose a single mom because you can easily get the bang by faking a fatherly vibe. I used this to get her to come inside. Worked, then proceeded to the bedroom. She took the present, put in her bag, and I started escalating, but she was throwing too much LMR, and I lost the LMR battle. I ended up taking my gift back and kicking her out. (the guys who know me here know that being LMR'd by a single mom is insulting).

Maybe it would work with another girl, but I just use the "that drink I can make" line.

Post: #7

(04-18-2016 03:18 PM)Aggelos Wrote:  I don't usually write on this forum but I don't know where else to turn, maybe the manosphere can help. I was in a relationship for about a year and a half, and things were going good, didn't have too many fights, we were happy, or so I thought we were. One day my ex meets up with me and ends things, now I was devastated, this was a girl that I fell in love with, never had feelings for another like her. Anyways here I am 8 months later, in a new city, Montreal, which might I add has some of the best putang I've ever seen. Basically since the breakup I don't feel like myself around chicks anymore, I'm a good looking dude, and quite intelligent, but for some reason i can't get over the fact that things ended so shitty and that a girl that i fell for was with someone 3 weeks after she dumped me. I'm pretty sure she was seeing him before but it's made it hard to find a girl that i trust. I've been turned off from putting myself out there and it's getting to me, I've never been in this position and I wanna get out of it, I wanna get through this and end my dry spell.

Thanks

I feel you. I've been there.

Nearly every man that dates women must go through this. You are going through it for your own good. For growth. It is such an epochal event that requires a man to question females, himself and the world.

Many use this devastating 'betrayal' by a woman to fall further into simpdom, further into "what did I do wrong" In actuality, often it is the man that did something wrong. What did he do? He didn't employ game. He called too much and exhibited needy behavior. He got too comfortable with the relationship and the woman, like all women will, lost attraction.

Others, a minority, will use something like this to seek out why this is and why would my snowflake do this? They will learn about hypergamy, relationship game and avoiding needy female behavior (that is, the man exhibiting female behavior in the relationship) They will date and bang as many other women as possible. They will develop a harem. These elect have taken the red pill.

Date other women. Bang as many as you can over time. Bang so many this former girlfriend of yours is out of your system. Interact with and date so many that you not only know, but come to accept without malice, their flaky, wind blown natures. It won't happen overnight, but over years. It will help inoculate yourself, as much as is humanly possible, to the female's wiles and ways.

Will it harden your heart some? Yes, it will. But a man with too tender a heart is no masculine man. Take the pill.

Post: #8

Nothing gets you over a woman quicker than ... another woman....

Post: #9

And such are women. Oh well, her loss.

Welcome back to the dating game, start devouring these threads again and approaching daily.

Post: #10

(04-18-2016 05:25 PM)Aggelos Wrote:  I used to but I stopped reading it, started to study in depth into the markets so I left this aside.

So a datasheet on making money in the stock market is coming soon?