Over the years there is always one ex that rips out my heart. If I bump into a normal ex, I usually be nice and have a chat and walk away. Half the time it leads into a bang which is a bad move. Exs are exs for a reason and people always feel like shit afterwards if they get back due to guilt.
Some years ago I ran into my ex at a club that totally ripped my guts out in the past. She ran up to me grabbing my arm jumping up and down and I just ignore her and went cold as ice. When I looked at her I looked through her and her friend. I even had the nerve to stand their for a couple minutes and ignore her where she become so angry so me and my mate just left. I didn't mean to act this way but when people diss me, I cut them out of my life and they don't exist anymore. This way it saves me from getting pissed off at someone.
Before you guys say it's childish and not the mature thing to do. I'll give you an example. If I was nice to her and talked, it would open the Pandora box and we would be fucking which leads back to a very deep hole in the ground. I'm talking about women you had deep feelings for where it was like running a marathon to move on from.
Second option if you act like a king and don't knowledge a peasant where women have rejection issues, it would piss them off royally. I bumped into a old best mate of mine (huge fight many years ago) and he did this to me and it's been a year and still pisses me off if I have to think about him.
The reason why is cause I'm heading back to a town and my ex (another one) that was a bitch to me has major approval issues with men and I know it will hurt her good. If I do the 'nice' approach I know it's going to lead to a bang cause I have a soft spot for her and I have to stay in this town for at least a couple months... This town doesn't have allot of options
(04-13-2016 11:55 AM)muscless Wrote: If I was nice to her and talked, it would open the Pandora box and we would be fucking which leads back to a very deep hole in the ground.
I've always thought that one of the advantages of being a man was that I could enjoy fucking and not have to get emotionally attached more readily than women can.
In fact, while I thoroughly enjoy sex with women I like on an emotional level, there is something liberating about hatefux. I feel that I can truly let go and purely go animal-istic on a chick I not only don't give a shit about, but actually dislike.
If you adjust your perspective you might just find a new way to enjoy jizzing.
Secondly, going after revenge on a bitch is lame, the best thing you can do is be seen with a hotter chick by her, that'll send her hamster going spinning.
There IS reason she's your ex.
Just say what's up and bounce if you see her, play it cool, be the bigger person.
Thirdly, avoid places this bitch is at.
Why be a dog and go back and eat your own throw up.
She's going to get old and someday you won't find her attractive at all. If you see her and she acts like a bitch, just keep this in mind and be nice to her.
04-13-2016 12:53 PM
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#1 If things ended on good terms - casual and pleasant. No reason not to be.
#2 If things ended poorly - do not acknowledge and remove yourself from the situation. If it has been a very long time (i.e. many years)... you can revert to #1 if you choose.
No reason to pursue a bang unless it falls into your lap. Agree with Kaotic - there is a reason you broke up. The only thing you get out of this is a bang or two. Don't get attached again.
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(This post was last modified: 04-13-2016 03:34 PM by Gmac.)
(04-13-2016 12:20 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote: In fact, while I thoroughly enjoy sex with women I like on an emotional level, there is something liberating about hatefux. I feel that I can truly let go and purely go animal-istic on a chick I not only don't give a shit about, but actually dislike.
Is there some secret to getting chicks you dislike into bed? I'm not really trying to be snarky, this is mostly a legitimate question.
There are a couple regs at night game spots who have unpleasant personalities and I dislike, some of whom I don't engage with much and probably don't know that I do, and others whom I make no secret of it. Regardless, usually when I actively engage with someone I dislike they rapidly actively dislike me back, which (at least in my experience) doesn't seem to get the panties very wet.
(04-13-2016 12:20 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote: In fact, while I thoroughly enjoy sex with women I like on an emotional level, there is something liberating about hatefux. I feel that I can truly let go and purely go animal-istic on a chick I not only don't give a shit about, but actually dislike.
Is there some secret to getting chicks you dislike into bed? I'm not really trying to be snarky, this is mostly a legitimate question.
There are a couple regs at night game spots who have unpleasant personalities and I dislike, some of whom I don't engage with much and probably don't know that I do, and others whom I make no secret of it. Regardless, usually when I actively engage with someone I dislike they rapidly actively dislike me back, which (at least in my experience) doesn't seem to get the panties very wet.
Couple of them I wouldn't mind banging, though.
Accuse them of being into you in front of people. It pisses them off that you think you have the upper hand with them. But once it's on the table you can convert the bitchiness into sexual tension.
04-13-2016 06:43 PM
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(04-13-2016 12:20 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote: In fact, while I thoroughly enjoy sex with women I like on an emotional level, there is something liberating about hatefux. I feel that I can truly let go and purely go animal-istic on a chick I not only don't give a shit about, but actually dislike.
Is there some secret to getting chicks you dislike into bed? I'm not really trying to be snarky, this is mostly a legitimate question.
There are a couple regs at night game spots who have unpleasant personalities and I dislike, some of whom I don't engage with much and probably don't know that I do, and others whom I make no secret of it. Regardless, usually when I actively engage with someone I dislike they rapidly actively dislike me back, which (at least in my experience) doesn't seem to get the panties very wet.
Couple of them I wouldn't mind banging, though.
The less I/you/we care about banging a chick the easier it is for me/you/us to do so. Always.
Uncle Wayne's maxim
"The power in the relationship lies with whoever cares less"
Every interaction with another human being is a "relationship"
(04-13-2016 12:20 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote: In fact, while I thoroughly enjoy sex with women I like on an emotional level, there is something liberating about hatefux. I feel that I can truly let go and purely go animal-istic on a chick I not only don't give a shit about, but actually dislike.
Is there some secret to getting chicks you dislike into bed? I'm not really trying to be snarky, this is mostly a legitimate question.
There are a couple regs at night game spots who have unpleasant personalities and I dislike, some of whom I don't engage with much and probably don't know that I do, and others whom I make no secret of it. Regardless, usually when I actively engage with someone I dislike they rapidly actively dislike me back, which (at least in my experience) doesn't seem to get the panties very wet.
Couple of them I wouldn't mind banging, though.
The less I/you/we care about banging a chick the easier it is for me/you/us to do so. Always.
Uncle Wayne's maxim
"The power in the relationship lies with whoever cares less"
Every interaction with another human being is a "relationship"
(04-13-2016 12:20 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote: In fact, while I thoroughly enjoy sex with women I like on an emotional level, there is something liberating about hatefux. I feel that I can truly let go and purely go animal-istic on a chick I not only don't give a shit about, but actually dislike.
Is there some secret to getting chicks you dislike into bed? I'm not really trying to be snarky, this is mostly a legitimate question.
There are a couple regs at night game spots who have unpleasant personalities and I dislike, some of whom I don't engage with much and probably don't know that I do, and others whom I make no secret of it. Regardless, usually when I actively engage with someone I dislike they rapidly actively dislike me back, which (at least in my experience) doesn't seem to get the panties very wet.
Couple of them I wouldn't mind banging, though.
You're being too obvious with your dislike. Try being less open with your disgust -- i.e. guard your inner emotions and watch for signs. It's easier to seduce someone when you hate them as you are less attached to the outcome.
Do it for the notch.
04-23-2016 04:21 PM
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(04-13-2016 12:20 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote: In fact, while I thoroughly enjoy sex with women I like on an emotional level, there is something liberating about hatefux. I feel that I can truly let go and purely go animal-istic on a chick I not only don't give a shit about, but actually dislike.
Is there some secret to getting chicks you dislike into bed? I'm not really trying to be snarky, this is mostly a legitimate question.
There are a couple regs at night game spots who have unpleasant personalities and I dislike, some of whom I don't engage with much and probably don't know that I do, and others whom I make no secret of it. Regardless, usually when I actively engage with someone I dislike they rapidly actively dislike me back, which (at least in my experience) doesn't seem to get the panties very wet.
Couple of them I wouldn't mind banging, though.
No one in the history of men has ever put his meat in a chick's personality.
-You know the difference between a pussy and a cunt?
A pussy is that thing between a woman's legs.
A cunt is everything else attached to it-
You seem to be throwing out the baby (pussy) with the bathwater (cunt)
It's no secret at all. It's fundamental.
Not liking them makes one care less. Caring less makes it easier to bang them
She means nothing.
And when she still wants to bang you after you treat her like dirt (not dislike or like, she's simply there - like dirt), you wont have feelings for her anymore.
The biggest way to lose feelings for a chick is to realize she's nothing special. Easiest way to prove that to yourself, bang her after you treat her like she doesn't matter enough to like or dislike. Once your illusion of her is gone, it's so much easier to move past.
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