I was bored and hanging around one of the local big Uni today and I saw there was a guest speaking lecture with a cute looking chick doing the introductions.

As there was nothing better to do I decided to stop by and kill time then game the possibly good looking attendees. So my luck being what it is the lecture was on Feminism and now I'm stuck for the next hour.

Just walk out

Nexted the cowgirl, there just weren't any vibes there.

Went to a country bar that I know, watched a hockey game, had more fun with a random dude sitting next to us who was our team rival shooting the shit.

My date would go and line dance - I closed up tab - she went and actually did a 2 step with a guy she called a "creep". That right there was grounds for me walking out - I ended up watching the rest of the game, texting other girls, then bounced.

The 19 year old mexican girl went radio silent, I knew it was coming also. We even facetimed and chatted for awhile.

Another 19 year old plate I've banged for a year hit me back after being sick for a month to bang, but I was already out on a date.

I really need to stop going out for a bit and get rid of this entire cold, drinking and staying up late ain't helping.

At least it gives me time to rest and study for the motorcyle class all weekend.

(04-08-2016 01:46 PM)Mentavious Wrote:  Just walk out

Door was blocked until the lecture was over.

(04-07-2016 05:42 PM)germanico Wrote:  

(04-06-2016 11:18 PM)Travesty Wrote:  ^ Can you offer to do any further improvements that may take more effort to the studio or maybe other properties or favors he needs to compromise the rent price?

Not much left to improve at this point. Right now Im thinking to just ask him for his lowest price, wouldnt hurt to ask and anything I could manage to shave off from the rent would be good.

Negotiate, negotiate, negotiate. If you haven't ready Trump's "Art of the Deal" then do it!

It seems to me with some VERY little negotiating effort you could stave this off to be a 50% increase instead of 100%. I'm not sure with this guy if it would help, but with some people explaining your situation and letting him know what your needs are may help him understand not having such a big increase. You may also be able to work out an arrangement where he rents the place for short-term rentals when you are gone (if there is demand) and you keep the same rental price.

Another alternative is telling him,"let's start out with an xx% increase and then increase it every quarter for a year until it's at the full 100% increase that he wants. This is a way to let the person think they got what they wanted and you get what you want to a degree by delaying the increase.

I would only live with your brother if you have to. It's a great backup option but not a good general option (no banging of girls). Also, if your place has it's own separate entrance/exit have you considered asking him for a lease that has not quite the 100% increase he wants but that would allow you to rent the unit (still being responsible for the unit of course) short-term while you're gone?

My resolve to cool off on game is come to a head. I blew up my own spot last night because I had about zero interest in putting in work to get a notch.

Cute black girl cold messages me on OKC:

   

She texts me and I lose motivation to run comfort game and intentionally blow her up second to last message:

   

If i had been more accommodating and comforting I'm sure I could have hooked it up, but I honestly didn't give enough of a shit to run that game. Went to the gym, blasted a killer chest and tricep workout, then spent the rest of the night in a hotel room with this mexican plate of mine.

Sounds like frustration is oozing out man.

That's how it was for me last week.

She could've been down - that's for sure and you know exactly how to do it.

You just didn't care. Which is fine, bitches are a dime a dozen - I find myself holding less and less convos with girls I'm not really interested in. They gotta be super cute or easy to fuck.

Ex: This white girl who looks latina - big ass and natural tits - small waist ratio but is way closer to thick - definitely fuckable and even sent me booty shot and bra shot (unsolicited).

She's down to just come over, never meeting me. So I'm just playing comfort game and setup the time and logistics. Now she seems VERY interested - we know that could change.

It's don't fuck up and patience game.

(04-08-2016 03:33 PM)Comte De St. Germain Wrote:  

(04-08-2016 01:46 PM)Mentavious Wrote:  Just walk out

Door was blocked until the lecture was over.

Time to call the fire marshall. That shit is a fire hazard. What if a fire went off? Where would people run and escape?

I bet you if it were a "masculine men" talk, pussies who wanted to walk out would try to do so while being obnoxious. While we're more civil. We must give them a taste of their medicine.

(04-08-2016 04:32 PM)kaotic Wrote:  Sounds like frustration is oozing out man.

That's how it was for me last week.

She could've been down - that's for sure and you know exactly how to do it.

You just didn't care. Which is fine, bitches are a dime a dozen - I find myself holding less and less convos with girls I'm not really interested in. They gotta be super cute or easy to fuck.

Ex: This white girl who looks latina - big ass and natural tits - small waist ratio but is way closer to thick - definitely fuckable and even sent me booty shot and bra shot (unsolicited).

She's down to just come over, never meeting me. So I'm just playing comfort game and setup the time and logistics. Now she seems VERY interested - we know that could change.

It's don't fuck up and patience game.

That's really all it is. I would likely put in more work if she was an 8/10 and/or more eager and forward, but I just can't be bothered so much these days - which is good. This is how I prefer it currently.

I'm going to the gym, saving money, working on some new music, and getting a few personal goals taken care of. The next step is getting more invested into a couple of personal projects, namely picking up my recording business where I left off, getting back into drawing, and likely starting a new band for fun.

(04-08-2016 04:38 PM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  

(04-08-2016 03:33 PM)Comte De St. Germain Wrote:  

(04-08-2016 01:46 PM)Mentavious Wrote:  Just walk out

Door was blocked until the lecture was over.

Time to call the fire marshall. That shit is a fire hazard. What if a fire went off? Where would people run and escape?

I bet you if it were a "masculine men" talk, pussies who wanted to walk out would try to do so while being obnoxious. While we're more civil. We must give them a taste of their medicine.

Yea I personally don't see the logic in blocking off the door with people sitting on foldable chairs, but feminists don't seem to know much about shit period so you can't blame them.


Is what it is.

I approached several girls this past week. One ended up not replying after a few texts. The other one gave a fake number or didnt reply. The bootycall ended up not coming over. This blonde I sat with in class made NO effort to converse with me. This colombiana chick at the gym who borrowed my jump rope and we conversed yet still, no conversing by her I did all the question asking.

These univ. chicks man...

(04-08-2016 10:21 PM)AlphaPrimate22 Wrote:  I approached several girls this past week. One ended up not replying after a few texts. The other one gave a fake number or didnt reply. The bootycall ended up not coming over. This blonde I sat with in class made NO effort to converse with me. This colombiana chick at the gym who borrowed my jump rope and we conversed yet still, no conversing by her I did all the question asking.

These univ. chicks man...

Uni girls are some of the friendliest and easiest to talk to girls on the planet.

How do you dress?

How do you style your hair, facial hair, and how tall are you?

Would you consider yourself attractive(be honest and objective here)?

How do you talk to these girls?

I buy outfits from H&M. I have an outfit for everday so i feel good on that end. No hoodies/sweats unless gym time. I match shoes like sperrys, chukkaaS, toms; and nike huracches. and have a pretty good sense of fashion as my sister back home helped me shop since shes good at matching. my hair is in a quiff, i have a 1 full beard, 5/8 165 ,~20,% bf (got tested bodpod). workout 6x week lift 1x week do heavy bag 45min the other 5. YES, im attractive. No gonna lie haha. Not being a cocky bastard either. I talk to girls during phases...like when exama are not around the corner and im on cruiae mode. Usually just appraoch and start with "how r u?" name, what yeae r u, major, where u from, and then i just see how interested they r and hand her my fone when my gut tells me shes somehwat into me. However idk the best thing to say when handing the phone. Leta grab lunch later? Idk what it is i goto an sec school with 30000+ kids and white girls are hot here. frm experience most go after frat dick for status . Yea yea i know social proof.

^ I can see you're using your phone to post, but don't type in text speak. You'll be taken more seriously and earn more respect if you type coherently and intelligently around here. You'll also avoid suspensions now that Tuth is back in town.

Sorry. I got excited for a reply at this odd hour laying in bed. I will from now on exhibit gentleman like grammar.

I'm a 20 year old man with much to learn still when it comes to gaming girls. I will be turning 21 in July, and moving out this single dorm into an apartment. I look forward to hosting some kickbacks with girls and alchohol. Since I'm non-Greek at a school in which Greek Life is the epitome of parties and fun, I figure when I do have access to alchohol and an apartment, more females are likely to want to hang out and have a good time. I've banged two girls this semester. My success is partly due to my ex-dorm room mate with drawing from college and leaving me with a whole dorm room. I put two beds together and made a queen size bed.

I have notched 6-7 females in my life. I lost my virginity at 17. Like many like minded men interested in game on college campuses, I still have a long way to go. I want to become better at approaching, day game here won't hurt since it is such a big school. What are your inputs on the guide to college? And one more question... Do some of you feel as if college girls majoring in engineering are the "focused-non-sexual" type who are more relationship material, or can their inner freaks be unleashed as well, because I have met a few good looking females in my major, yet they are just giving off a bad vibe?

(04-09-2016 12:00 AM)AlphaPrimate22 Wrote:  Sorry. I got excited for a reply at this odd hour laying in bed. I will from now on exhibit gentleman like grammar.

I'm a 20 year old man with much to learn still when it comes to gaming girls. I will be turning 21 in July, and moving out this single dorm into an apartment. I look forward to hosting some kickbacks with girls and alchohol. Since I'm non-Greek at a school in which Greek Life is the epitome of parties and fun, I figure when I do have access to alchohol and an apartment, more females are likely to want to hang out and have a good time. I've banged two girls this semester. My success is partly due to my ex-dorm room mate with drawing from college and leaving me with a whole dorm room. I put two beds together and made a queen size bed.

I have notched 6-7 females in my life. I lost my virginity at 17. Like many like minded men interested in game on college campuses, I still have a long way to go. I want to become better at approaching, day game here won't hurt since it is such a big school. What are your inputs on the guide to college? And one more question... Do some of you feel as if college girls majoring in engineering are the "focused-non-sexual" type who are more relationship material, or can their inner freaks be unleashed as well, because I have met a few good looking females in my major, yet they are just giving off a bad vibe?

Could you retype the above post a bit more coherently before this one I actually can't read it worth shit(not being an ass I seriously don't know what you're saying the way you were typing up there, guys like redbeard might get it but he's a bit special ).

From this second post you seem to be in a good spot. 6-7 girls and lost virginity at 17 is a pretty good run compared to most guys in that range.

Some tips on college game:

-Don't spam approach. You have to be like a sniper because people WILL notice 10/10 if you're going up to every girl in a 5 mile radius.

-Start off with a cold read not a "How are you?". "Hey let me guess you're from X/you're X" or if you want to be more direct and showing interest "Hey I just spotted you from over there and had to come say hi." then I would go into a unique question or a cold read about her.

-Make them laugh. They're young and want fun. They'll love a good looking dude with a sense of humor and a sense of style.

-Don't be afraid to open up a group of people especially if it's a group playing instruments and just chilling. Stop by and listen then compliment whoever was playing. Just stop by and compliment the coolest dude in the group or sit next to them and join in on the conversation if they ever make a pause with a funny comment(fair warning: opening up a group of only girls can either be the most personally embarrassing or coolest thing you do it's lots of fun).

-Be a cool guy. If you're cool they'll think you're cool. Confidence and first impressions is what makes people popular. Pull out all the stops.

-Don't ever go a day without dressing nice(collared shirt, polo, or jacket+v-neck at minimum) you'll get eyefucked wherever you go.

-The campus coffee shop is the best place on campus to hang out and/or game. Kill time talking to people there, playing chess, and, if you partake, smoke cigs/drink coffee.

Engineering girls that are attractive are the most hit on girls on your campus because of the skewed male to female ratio. Which is why all the attractive engineering guys don't usually bother.

All the same women are women. If you game them right every woman can be a freak. Granted a good portion of women won't be into you. If you're non-Greek, make friends with everyone that's the point of dorm life. Throw your own damned party so good the Greeks will invite you to theirs to get into yours.

Build up a solid lifestyle and rep then just like in life you'll get people who want to roll with you. College is a microcosm of a society and it's fairly easy to be a big fish in a small pool. Also if you had a dorm to yourself why weren't you throwing kickbacks non-stop?

Also one last thing, in college social circle is King. Get to know as many people as possible.

Need a reality check:

Hit up a SNL from last week earlier today. She responded right away. I asked if she wanted to come over to my place for a drink afterwork and she said she couldn't but hopefully soon. I ignored.

Went out to my local spot tonight. Ran into her and her coworkers. She was friendly and flirty. I asked if she wanted to come back to mine, she said how about we go hiking. I said, oh, so that's what this is about. She copped to it and said she wanted to hang out but didn't want to just come over and just fuck. I said, ok, how about we go dancing tomorrow - which she agreed to.

I see three options:
1) Hit her up tomorrow afternoon/evening and verify dancing is on
2) Assume it's on and just go to the venue and wait for her text
3) Fuck her and go do my own thing. She was free tonight and she gave me the run around.

I don't know why this is bothering me. She's not a good long term prospect - she's super hot but a single mom and not what I'm looking for. I got another girl in between the last time I saw her and tonight. The only reason I care is that she turned me down and then I ran into her. I should have just acknowledged her and not pushed for her to come back to my place. I feel like I'm coming from a place of weakness now and should just abandon ship and look for new pussy. On the other hand tomorrow could be an easy layup if she's being sincere and she'd be a nice addition to the rotation.

(04-08-2016 04:26 PM)General Stalin Wrote:  My resolve to cool off on game is come to a head. I blew up my own spot last night because I had about zero interest in putting in work to get a notch.

Cute black girl cold messages me on OKC:



She texts me and I lose motivation to run comfort game and intentionally blow her up second to last message:



If i had been more accommodating and comforting I'm sure I could have hooked it up, but I honestly didn't give enough of a shit to run that game. Went to the gym, blasted a killer chest and tricep workout, then spent the rest of the night in a hotel room with this mexican plate of mine.

Let us know when she messages back and vows to win you over. But like you really care haha. ABUNDANCE!

(04-09-2016 02:28 AM)Ensam Wrote:  Need a reality check:

Hit up a SNL from last week earlier today. She responded right away. I asked if she wanted to come over to my place for a drink afterwork and she said she couldn't but hopefully soon. I ignored.

Went out to my local spot tonight. Ran into her and her coworkers. She was friendly and flirty. I asked if she wanted to come back to mine, she said how about we go hiking. I said, oh, so that's what this is about. She copped to it and said she wanted to hang out but didn't want to just come over and just fuck. I said, ok, how about we go dancing tomorrow - which she agreed to.

I see three options:
1) Hit her up tomorrow afternoon/evening and verify dancing is on
2) Assume it's on and just go to the venue and wait for her text
3) Fuck her and go do my own thing. She was free tonight and she gave me the run around.

I don't know why this is bothering me. She's not a good long term prospect - she's super hot but a single mom and not what I'm looking for. I got another girl in between the last time I saw her and tonight. The only reason I care is that she turned me down and then I ran into her. I should have just acknowledged her and not pushed for her to come back to my place. I feel like I'm coming from a place of weakness now and should just abandon ship and look for new pussy. On the other hand tomorrow could be an easy layup if she's being sincere and she'd be a nice addition to the rotation.

Don't know the whole situation bra. But like you said she copped to it, if you want another fb on rotation and she's hot sign her up. Why you getting hurt over a girl who was really just insecure about herself (ASD) and thats why she flaked? Plus she's a single mom who you do not have any aspirations with so no problem carrying on plowing her on-demand. Thats what I would do mang.

(04-09-2016 02:28 AM)Ensam Wrote:  Need a reality check:

Hit up a SNL from last week earlier today. She responded right away. I asked if she wanted to come over to my place for a drink afterwork and she said she couldn't but hopefully soon. I ignored.

Went out to my local spot tonight. Ran into her and her coworkers. She was friendly and flirty. I asked if she wanted to come back to mine, she said how about we go hiking. I said, oh, so that's what this is about. She copped to it and said she wanted to hang out but didn't want to just come over and just fuck. I said, ok, how about we go dancing tomorrow - which she agreed to.

I see three options:
1) Hit her up tomorrow afternoon/evening and verify dancing is on
2) Assume it's on and just go to the venue and wait for her text
3) Fuck her and go do my own thing. She was free tonight and she gave me the run around.

I don't know why this is bothering me. She's not a good long term prospect - she's super hot but a single mom and not what I'm looking for. I got another girl in between the last time I saw her and tonight. The only reason I care is that she turned me down and then I ran into her. I should have just acknowledged her and not pushed for her to come back to my place. I feel like I'm coming from a place of weakness now and should just abandon ship and look for new pussy. On the other hand tomorrow could be an easy layup if she's being sincere and she'd be a nice addition to the rotation.

There's more and more of these bitches popping up every day. The ones who come at you with the whole "I know we fucked already but I just want to know that, like, I'm not just, like, being used, you know?" routine.

What that girl wants is to see some return for her pussy. That's what 85% of these girls want.

She already succumbed to your game before and you got everything you wanted. She got what she wanted too, but she's in single mom mode now and wants to see some material or emotional investment for her cock sock.

What I've done in situations with these types is usually dropped them, because the rotation is the exact thing they are afraid of. They want you to be orbiting them and providing for them, and the whole hiking bullshit is her way of gauging you.

Absolutely, 100% trying to pull you out and soak up some of your time just so she can push/pull you. She wants to catch you leaning forward so she can pull you up to giving her something. It may be an emotional connection to fill that hole in her heart (some of these girls legitimately want to feel like they are making someone fall in love, just for fun), but it's more probably just to have an orbiter and get drinks, money, rides, company, and favors.

Your best bet for getting her in a rotation is getting her with you (dancing is ideal) and applying your old game recipe with a pinch more douchebag. Make it known you will not chase. If she pulls, do not follow. Let her think you will ghost her ass.

And make sure your logistics are solid. Once the night winds down and she has responded to your game (make sure to go for lots of kissing/kino right off the bat—she'll resist it at first out of fear of falling back into sex without material reward, it's just something to power through) put her on the train and let her ride to the bedroom.

By that I mean have all the work done and make it as seamless and easy as possible for her to go from the venue to your bed.

That will smooth the shift to the bang, which you need.

After that, I think you'll have broken her in. She'll understand what kind of dynamic it is and quit the chase for material return.

Two bangs and the horse is broken.

I could be completely wrong about everything I just said, though. This is based on my experience and intuition.

Good luck in the field.

(04-09-2016 02:28 AM)Ensam Wrote:  Need a reality check:

Hit up a SNL from last week earlier today. She responded right away. I asked if she wanted to come over to my place for a drink afterwork and she said she couldn't but hopefully soon. I ignored.

Went out to my local spot tonight. Ran into her and her coworkers. She was friendly and flirty. I asked if she wanted to come back to mine, she said how about we go hiking. I said, oh, so that's what this is about. She copped to it and said she wanted to hang out but didn't want to just come over and just fuck. I said, ok, how about we go dancing tomorrow - which she agreed to.

I see three options:
1) Hit her up tomorrow afternoon/evening and verify dancing is on
2) Assume it's on and just go to the venue and wait for her text
3) Fuck her and go do my own thing. She was free tonight and she gave me the run around.

I don't know why this is bothering me. She's not a good long term prospect - she's super hot but a single mom and not what I'm looking for. I got another girl in between the last time I saw her and tonight. The only reason I care is that she turned me down and then I ran into her. I should have just acknowledged her and not pushed for her to come back to my place. I feel like I'm coming from a place of weakness now and should just abandon ship and look for new pussy. On the other hand tomorrow could be an easy layup if she's being sincere and she'd be a nice addition to the rotation.

She doesn't want to be a booty call, plain and simple.

If all you want to do is fuck her NSA, then drop her. If you really want to go out dancing/hiking/whatever with this single mom then do that, but I'm just telling you the score. She sees your player/FB vibe and doesn't want that right now. Thats fine. Not all girls who are easy and put out quick are meant to be in the harem.

(04-09-2016 11:44 AM)General Stalin Wrote:  She doesn't want to be a booty call, plain and simple.

If all you want to do is fuck her NSA, then drop her. If you really want to go out dancing/hiking/whatever with this single mom then do that, but I'm just telling you the score. She sees your player/FB vibe and doesn't want that right now. Thats fine. Not all girls who are easy and put out quick are meant to be in the harem.

Yeah, no response when I hit her up this afternoon. I should have just dropped it. Next!

posted this in the No Fap thread last night:

(04-08-2016 08:02 PM)TrifeLife Wrote:  April 8th - one month in no porn. First times I tried kicking this I failed. Didn't realize how addictive it was until I tried and failed. Just got a strong urge to hit a quick 'new tab' keyboard shortcut and type those first two letters in that bring up the url to my old preferred porn site. I figured I'd post in here to steel my resolve.

Kicking porn has been my priority so I have not being going no fap. We are on the verge of spring and it is time to get serious about hunting. I just got home from travelling for a while and I do not have any pussy on the docket right now. I know no fap will give me extra motivation to lock something down. Going to need to do that if this streak is going to be successful.

Do not really feel like going out tonight and was not planning on it. Writing this changed my mind. Have to embrace the grind. Time for some solo lurking.

Didn't feel like going out. Went out. Got back to some chicks apartment that I met at a small bar where I know one of the bartenders and went there with him. Dropped some boyfriend bs on me after making out me, let me rub up her thigh and got all wet, then asking me to walk her home. She was 'bout it but not BOUT IT BOUT IT.. Just looking for some attention I suppose. Chick bartender that was working that night (less cute than the chick I was aiming for) seemed like she wanted to get piped too. Wasn't so busy so I was flirting with her a lot and she was feeling it. Shit like "you're the worst!!" with big smiles.

Morale of the story x% of life is simply showing up.

I did not get laid but helped picked my spirits up and made me more motivated to go get after it tonight.

For all you players with kids,

Get your kid's face painted, then go to the mall on a busy day. Damn near every girl will at least smile at you and your kid. A lot will stop and talk to your kid and you. Bonus if you have a son that looks like you.

Got a little dilemma here...I started getting back into daygame after a couple months off. Two weeks ago, I met a pretty hot Egyptian girl by asking for directions. Invited her to my room to "smoke" a couple days later, and she blew me. I'm not going to lie, it was pretty fucking amazing, probably the best hookup I've had in a while. I'd never been with an Egyptian girl before, and she was very attractive, nice curly hair, great light skin, fantastic body. Obviously I was pretty stoked after hooking up with her and looked forward to smashing for real in the future.

Fast forward a couple days, I ask her to hang out again...she responds with "I'm busy, friend". Try again later, no response.

This is irritating because she was a solid 8 in my book, and would have been a cool regular to have for the rest of the year. I might end up spending a good amount of time in the Middle East this year, and could potentially not get laid for months at a stretch. I'm trying to have as much sex as possible before the school year ends, and I am also pretty busy, which doesn't leave me a ton of time for game.

Any suggestions on how I can salvage the situation? I know the best thing to do is to go talk to other girls, but between work, school, and sports I'm not really going to have the time.