Post: #1

I was at the gym today and after i finished my session I was waiting in like a lounge area for my friends cousin so we could walk back to my friends home.
While I was sitting in the chair with my headphones in. This absolutely stunning Dominican girl comes over and sits across the room from me. I had been catching eye contact with her while I was training but didnt think anything of it.
So she comes over to me and starts speaking spanish,
I try to explain to her i speak very little spanish. She giggles and tells me to come over to this sofa. I go over to the sofa and sit with her. She starts talking in spanish again but i can barely understand what she's saying. She pretty much spoke no english too.
After trying to tell me she was a university student or something. "Doctora" "universidad"..
Im guessing she was trying to tell me shes a doctor student or something.
She was wearing nice tight gym clothes and her ass looked amazing in her yoga pants.
I couldnt help but notice how much she'd invested in her appearance for someone going to the gym.
However i noticed that with quite a few dominican girls. She seemed classy to put it straight. I like her.

So then, she whips out her phone and tells me to put my number in. She trys ringing my phone to make sure im giving her the correct number. Im loving how eager she is!
I make a little joke about how she needs to add my international code so she can whatsapp me.
She then said she needs to go home but told me to speak to her on whatsapp as soon as i get home with a wink.
I got home a couple hours ago and left an
Hour or two text her whatsapp . Left it a couple hours so i dont seem too eager.

It's now been almost 5 hours since i messaged her on whatsapp saying hi. Its definitely her because i can see her profile.
Yet, My message has only 1 tick, as to seem it hasnt been received. ?

Anyway to cut to the chase.
This girl obviously likes me and im into her too.
How can i escalate with her and where to go from here?

Its really didficult because we could barely communicate in person as my spanish was as bad as her english.
Also what to text her after she eventually replies saying "hey how are you!" Or something like that im guessing.

My game is in very early stages at the moment but the more material i read on this forum, the more i learn.
However, I dont want to fuck up with this chick.

My other problem is that im staying at a friends house who is a girl. She likes me but knows i only see her as a friend. Needless to say i doubt she would take well to me meeting another Dominican girl. Thats why im not telling her about this lizard from the gym today. In the afternoons when my friend is at school i could always walk to the mall though as to meet this other chick

Post: #2

She's obviously into you. The only thing you need to to is not fuck up. Meet up with her in public, for a coffee date. Talk (language barrier is a smaller problem than you think. Most communication is about vocal tonality and non-verbal.) Try to get the makeout going asap and then lead the interaction to her/your place. Don't do any stupid shit and don't over-analyse the situation. Just go with the flow and you should be good. She's a woman attracted to you, and you are a man attracted to her. You obviously don't need to to any hard game on her so just go with the flow: SMile, be funny, lead, escalate and bang.

Waiting for an update

-shy

Post: #3

The babe isn't serious, though she seemed eager in person the lack of follow up on her part tells you all you need to know. Head game is being played here, don't fall for it.

Post: #4

Girls do this all of the time. She is yanking your chain. They see you get excited and over enthusiatic about trying to contact them and poof...they vanish. Dont write her back. Wait and see if she writes back. But probably figure sge wont. Or if she does...she will, because she is bored.

I have gone through what you are going through
Better to tell her adios.

Post: #5

I think the previous 2 posters are being too negative.

Sure, it happens that women crave attention and pull shit like this. Though usually they make the guy approach them, whether it be online/offline. It also happens that people don't use their phone every 2 minutes because they actually have shit to do.

Just wait it out. If nothing happens, nothing's lost. Don't fall in an all negative 'women are all attention seeking bitches' mood. Just because this is rare for a woman to do, doesn't say it's fake. Give her the benefit of the doubt, she could be busy/switched off her phone/no reception or whatever. Her interest might just be sincere. Make sure you don't come across as needy, but that's something you should already know.

Keep us posted.

Post: #6

She just messaged me this morning. She turned her phone off last night because she had evening classes at university. I guess thats what she was trying to explain to me yesterday as she left..

To the 2 negative guys above who think she's playing me.
I never showed any excitement on my part about her hitting on me. I sat back relaxed and told her i was waiting for a friend and simply agreed to put my number in her phone.
What would she be gaining from playing with me anyway..
She was leaving the gym, yet i must of caught her eye because she came back in to talk to me.

I think I'll use a translator to message her in spanish and ask her to meet up at the mall in the afternoon for a coffee and chat like Shy said.
The language barrier could be fun actually. She kept giggling previously at my attempts to converse in Spanish with most likely some horribly broken sentences

Post: #7

Good luck, don't forget to update.

Post: #8

Quote:What would she be gaining from playing with me anyway..

Quote:My game is in very early stages

Ya don't say....




I agree with the two "negative nancies" above. I've written about similar experiences here. Unusually strong interest being presenting shamelessly usually is an attention ploy. Some may not agree but that's been my experience. These girls are not the sharpest tools in the shed and lack the subtlety more savvy girls have when fishing for attention.

Post: #9

Mate^
Not to be rude but you seem to displaying some signs of jealousy. Just because chicks dont approach you, doesnt mean they dont approach the other guys who lift and look good

Post: #10

^




Yes bro. I am jealous of an anonymous forum poster who's a self admitted newb at game. Woe is me.



Hey, do you think you can give me some pointers on how to look good like you, dude? I think I look ok but maybe you can offer some tips on how to improve on my current look:

Post: #11

(03-15-2016 10:05 AM)Ruivinho Wrote:  She just messaged me this morning. She turned her phone off last night because she had evening classes at university. I guess thats what she was trying to explain to me yesterday as she left..

To the 2 negative guys above who think she's playing me.
I never showed any excitement on my part about her hitting on me. I sat back relaxed and told her i was waiting for a friend and simply agreed to put my number in her phone.
What would she be gaining from playing with me anyway..
She was leaving the gym, yet i must of caught her eye because she came back in to talk to me.

I think I'll use a translator to message her in spanish and ask her to meet up at the mall in the afternoon for a coffee and chat like Shy said.
The language barrier could be fun actually. She kept giggling previously at my attempts to converse in Spanish with most likely some horribly broken sentences

If the chick were truly "eager", you would have gotten a more immediate response. You're still "thinking" about messaging her than actually doing it. She was leaving the gym, you caught her eye, but yet you didn't even try to take her to have coffee, ice cream, go for a walk, nothing.

Post: #12

"She turned her phone off." Next... Heard that one too before

Post: #13

My man... You need to listen to the words of seasoned players here. If she was truly eager, she would show it in her messages to you.
This might just be attention whoring, but at the off chance that it is not, arrange a meet up with her and run first date bang recipe. That is how you'll truly know if she is down or not. Use google translate if you have to.

Post: #14

(03-15-2016 11:09 AM)Ruivinho Wrote:  Mate^
Not to be rude but you seem to displaying some signs of jealousy. Just because chicks dont approach you, doesnt mean they dont approach the other guys who lift and look good

This reply.. Such a shame.

Post: #15

(03-15-2016 01:46 PM)BlackFriar Wrote:  "She turned her phone off." Next... Heard that one too before

He had one tick in the app .. So there is some truth in that.

Post: #16

Cool im meeting her tomorrow

I dont understand your negativity. It doesnt add anything to my post. The GIF's look sour.

Post: #17

(03-15-2016 03:32 PM)Ruivinho Wrote:  Cool im meeting her tomorrow

I dont understand your negativity. It doesnt add anything to my post. The GIF's look sour.

Bruh, sharing experience that you may not agree with isn't "negative". The only negativity here is coming from you, and your insinuation that I'm "ugly" and "don't lift".


In my first post I simply pointed out that you're lack of understanding "what she had to gain by playing you" showcases your ignorance of female nature. Something I imagine you didn't want to acknowledge.


Good luck with the date.

Post: #18

I guess I am old. I do not use whatsapp. I just call or text. Me and other people I know have heard the excuse before: "Oh, I turned off my phone." It is a line of baloney.

I have had a girl act hyper interested a few times. I take it cool and act aloof and then they peter out....loose interest and flake. I have even had one especially do that then she said sorry. She just caught up in the moment and was only having time away from her boyfriend and she didnt want to lose what she already have.

Women 9/10 times have a bunch of lines cast out on other guys. Even if you do not have anything going at the present time, adopt the mentality that you can or do. They have options...so should you.

Post: #19

I had to flake on her today for the date.

She re-arranged for tomorrow instead.

Post: #20

(03-16-2016 01:21 AM)BlackFriar Wrote:  I guess I am old. I do not use whatsapp. I just call or text.

I am 21 and I am neither using any of this Services. I call all the Girls I get the number from. It even seems to make me stand out of all the other guys These days.

Post: #21

(03-16-2016 01:17 PM)Ruivinho Wrote:  I had to flake on her today for the date.

She re-arranged for tomorrow instead.

I wouldn't give up yet (if she's as hot as u told us). Keep a mentality of positive Outcome. I find that many of the Forum guys next Girls too soon, in some cases. For me it largely depends on the Girls Level of attractiveness, how much effort and Patience i am willing to put into. The more experienced guys probably have a decent Level of abundance with Girls already. If you have 4 other Girls ready to fuck you, it's a lot easier and more effective to next a Girl, who is maybe playing games. However, since I figure you are a newbie as myself (who hasen't that lvl of abundence yet), I think we should be a Little more persistent. There is no shame and nothing needy in this. Don't chase her to Walhalla though .
Keep going!

-shy