Post: #1

I had this FWB thing for like a month with a really nice 21 year old single woman. We had a really great 1st date and I never expected it would turn into a FWB thing because it had potential to be much more. I kissed her on the 1st date on an escalator to subway and she loved it because she told me how she couldnt stop wanting me that day. That same evening she started messaging me and wanted to come over and giving me straight signs and telling me how we will zpend amazing night.I invited her and it turned into an amazing night and she stayed over. Next day when she left home she txted me at night and asked me how did i like it. I said it was really nice and she told me she liked it alot and do i want to have this again sometime. I said yea. And since then we been hooking up. She has been single for 8 months.

About a week ago she bailed out on me out of nowhere. We have had talks about relationships and she did mention me that she didn’t want anything serious at the moment. She one time asked me that what do i think this is.. i guessed and said that i think you like being with me and we are having fun and she said i was correct. She then asked me am i dating someone and i said no and i asked her the same and she said only me right now. One night she alerted me that this is going to end soon and that I should prepare myself. Like wtf why?

I am going out of my mind right now because last week before she bailed i started getting feelings for her. I like her a lot and I never wanted this to end. I don’t want to lose her. I want to talk to her and I miss her company because we had nice conversations and we had lots in common and it seemed we could have had something. I even cooked for her and we used to play video games before we had great sex. She always stayed over night. I sometimes took her out to a cafe and such. and she suddenly became cold and left and her excuse was that we had great time but she wanted to move on because nothing lasts forever and she said goodbye to me like she threw everythin just like that away and doesnt want to see me.This whole thing lasted for just 1 month.

What can I do ? I am planning to wait for about month or so and then contact her and see if she’d be open to restarting things. I really like this woman! I want it to be just like in the 1st date! Of course i will take it easy but i want to be persistent to show her i will work to earn her.

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Post: #3

At first I thought he's for real and felt sorry for his lost soul.
But checked the profile again, could it be a troll?

Post: #4

What you need to do is to be yourself. You should confess your true feelings for her. It doesn't matter if she's with other men, you know you belong together with her. You just need to encourage her to understand this. She's just confused, and really deep down inside she just wants to settle down with a great guy like yourself.

Post: #5

And another reason why 10 posts should be required before being allowed to open a thread.

Post: #6

(03-04-2016 08:18 AM)JazziFizzle Wrote:  What can I do ? I am planning to wait for about month or so and then contact her and see if she’d be open to restarting things. I really like this woman! I want it to be just like in the 1st date! Of course i will take it easy but i want to be persistent to show her i will work to earn her.

OP...I think the way you describe the situation (and how you feel about it) means you really need to read Roosh's "Compliment & Cuddle" book and do everything it says .

The link is here:

http://www.rooshv.com/compliment-and-cuddle

Post: #7

Well thanks guys for some help. Look, i do have other dates and women i am going on dates with them. But this chick got me good for some reason. She was so GF material you know ? I want this chick but the timing seem to kinda suck right ? Shes 21 and had only 1 serious relationship like 8 months ago.

Post: #8

Compliment and cuddle, ha ha!

The OP is an obvious troll job. Sounds like a woman telling that story, like something out of a pulp romance novel, Probably a female feminist thinking she is attacking the big bad "rape advocacy" forum. Making a fool out of the "rapists" by asking ridiculous advice.

Hacker factor

Genre: Informal
Female = 1193
Male = 551
Difference = -642; 31.59%

Verdict: Genre: Formal\
Female = 810\
Male = 365\
Difference = -445; 31.06%\
Verdict: FEMALE

Post: #9

(03-04-2016 09:07 AM)Mercenary Wrote:  

(03-04-2016 08:18 AM)JazziFizzle Wrote:  What can I do ? I am planning to wait for about month or so and then contact her and see if she’d be open to restarting things. I really like this woman! I want it to be just like in the 1st date! Of course i will take it easy but i want to be persistent to show her i will work to earn her.

OP...I think the way you describe the situation (and how you feel about it) means you really need to read Roosh's "Compliment & Cuddle" book and do everything it says .

The link is here:

http://www.rooshv.com/compliment-and-cuddle

Lol never do those things thats a joke right ?

Post: #10

I'm surprised OP hasnt been banned yet.

Post: #11

By the way I am no feminist if thats what you are implying... I simply wrote all that detail so you guys could like understand my point and i could just get little bro help here guys. I just need little guidance in how i can get this girl. I am not so good in the game you know. I seriously need some help figuring this out.

Post: #12

I'm implying nothing. I'm saying you are a woman feminist troll.

Ok, if you are genuine then either follow the compliment and cuddle method or forget her and date other women!

Post: #13

(03-04-2016 09:52 AM)Guitarman Wrote:  I'm implying nothing. I'm saying you are a woman feminist troll.

Ok, if you are genuine then either follow the compliment and cuddle method or forget her and date other women!

But that compliment and cuddling is a joke right ? I am not that horrible with women.

Post: #14

You can download the C and C method here;-
http://www.rooshv.com/downloads/Compliment_&_Cuddle.pdf

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Post: #16

I'll say it over.





And over.


AND OVER.....












TUTH, WHERE THE FUCK ARE YOU!?

Post: #17

The real life noobs/trolls that come through here in their blaze of glory before getting banned are the best. I want to compile a list of all these posts. This guy needs some tips from the "exuding alpha" troll.

Post: #18

Damn.. Why you guys hatin for? And why am i getting banned for? All i wanted just help from you guys who are better at game than me and perhaps you guys could have giving me some insight on what i can fix. I am not trolling. I want just some advice. I guess it was a mistake to come here for help. It sucks i cant delete myself from this site.

Post: #19

Jokes aside, I think everyone's going a bit overboard on this one. By hanging out on here on the internet, or with other 'red pill' guys in real life, we all forget that a great many guys out there really are this naive.

OP you don't really need to ask questions though, just read the forum in bulk. You can sort the game forum by number of views and replies too, to see the most popular threads (many of which are very enlightening).
/forum-2.html...order=desc

Post: #20

No we're not going overboard. Did the OP not read the forum rules??? /thread-13005.html
Contravene the rules and you are a troll. Be a troll you get banned. This thread contravenes rule 5 ;

"5. The members of this forum believe in a model of abundance. We consider it a waste of time to get needy with one girl who in all likelihood doesn't hold you in a positive light because of the poor game you already used on her. Once you mess up with a girl, it is almost impossible for her to change her opinion of you, no matter how good you eventually may get. In other words, if you have zero game, we don't want to hear your sob story of some girl who only wants to be friends with you. Game is about banging a lot of new girls, not one girl is 100% sure she doesn't want to bang you."

Read this also ; /thread-11115.html. In particular;

"11. Re-connecting with ex-gfs, fuck-buddies, friends, neighbors, etc:

When it comes to getting back with a girl, or making another attempt at a girl now that you have 'game' on your side, the general advice is to forget it, and spend your time looking for other girls instead. The reason for this is because you care too much; trust me on this, deep down you do. An ex can also become a crutch, inhibiting you from discovering the delicious tastes of new fruits. The real reason you want to get with an ex is because that is more comfortable for you; don't be too much of a pussy to step out of your comfort zone and try something new.

With girls you've already known for years (friends/neighbors), they've put you in their 'friend-zone' by now, so it's quite unlikely you'll ever bang them, no matter how much you've changed. "

So either "cuddle and compliment" or forget the bitch and date / approach other girls.