Post: #126

Where did you meet those Philipinas? Was she your co worker in multi national corporation? (just guessing) Or was she a some chick from the bar?

I said 'Personally I won't touch those girls because I look down on them'
If you like them, go ahead.

(01-02-2016 03:37 AM)El Chinito loco Wrote:  

(01-02-2016 03:28 AM)Sebastian Wrote:  I honestly don't get it about banging philiphinas. In my 'own' standard, that's something I won't be proud of at all and I would be ashamed of it.
(there was a thread about why Aussie guys don't touch thai girls even though they could just have it in Thailand. Some guys wrote honest statements saying you will be looked down doing that from other aussie fellows)

Bring one of those 'easy' girls to the states and try to attend social parties. I am pretty sure how people are going to look down on her. (It's not about just her skin color. I can take white trash girl to asia and people can spot it too.)

Just because they are Thinner doesn't mean they are hotter either. But I guess we all have different eyes. To me personally, they (girls hangingout in nightlife district) are equivalent to white crack whore woman.

Are you retarded?

You realize not all Filipinas look alike or are from the same class background.

Also guys regularly put asian women on a pedestal in the U.S. at least far more than in asia. Australia is a bit different but we're not talking about australia.

Post: #127

Sebastian, have you been drinking?

Quote:Where did you meet those Philipinas? Was she your co worker in multi national corporation? (just guessing) Or was she a some chick from the bar?

I said 'Personally I won't touch those girls because I look down on them'
If you like them, go ahead.

There's this thing called a local social circle and there's this other thing called the internet where you can meet filipinas from many different class backgrounds without working at a MNC. This isn't a p4p forum so...no, most of us aren't visiting the bars you've probably heard about on that 20/20 special with the scary music.

Some filipinas you date actually do work at MNCS too. Some of them also work in banks. Some are teachers. Some carry handguns and work security. Some work in hotel receptions. Some as cashiers.

Post: #128

American-born Asian male getting butthurt about guys going to Asia to bang hotties?

Well I can't say that it's anything new.

Surprising that it came after 1,000 posts though.

Reminds me of when Samseau called all guys dating Asians "beta".

Post: #129

All this "you're a loser if you sleep with women in SEA" vs "you're a loser who bangs ugly white broads back home" is over-simplistic and judgmental and grates on my nerves.

There are options for quality tail in both types of enviroments. A man should be where he wants to be and not waste time worrying what the hell other men are doing or thinking.

I don't grudge Sebastian for not wanting to go abroad for dating prospects. But looking down on all southeast Asian broads and all the men who date them as trash is ignorant. There are so many different levels to this ignorance I don't even know where to start.

And I do think such hasty judgements ignore that many posters who talk about their SEA exploits are also repped by members who met them in the West and commented on their game there. You don't have to be desperate to have a healthy sex drive.

The same could be said is true for anyone who implies all white girls are fat, bitchy feminists. It's so far from the entire picture that it's comical. Run of the mill stereotyping.

In any case, let's leave the man shaming to the women.

Beyond All Seas

"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe.
To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes
frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." - Kipling

Post: #130

I don't consider myself Asian-American since I came after high school.

Anyways, I am not butthurt about guys banging those trash girls. I really don't care.

Just because I am Asian doesn't mean, I have to defend other asian people.
Honestly, we look DOWN ON those people. Truth is some guys are banging girls even some Asian guys won't even look at. that's just a fact which is part of racist asian culture.

Honestly, I really don't care if a white dude talk about any asian girl fantasy at a bar.
(IMO, more than average guys never talk about Asian girl fantasy. that's my experience)
I Prefer it since white dudes get offended if I talk about some white girl just walking by. If they talk about asian girls first then I am allowed to talk about white girls.
I've only banged mostly white girls and few latinas.

Bottom line, I will go after white girls. Some guys will go for those asian girls they talked about. Let's respect each individual's tastes.

(01-02-2016 03:58 AM)dreambig Wrote:  American-born Asian male getting butthurt about guys going to Asia to bang hotties?

Well I can't say that it's anything new.

Surprising that it came after 1,000 posts though.

Reminds me of when Samseau called all guys dating Asians "beta".

Post: #131

(01-02-2016 04:15 AM)Sebastian Wrote:  I don't consider myself Asian-American since I came after high school.

Anyways, I am not butthurt about guys banging those trash girls. I really don't care.

Just because I am Asian doesn't mean, I have to defend other asian people.
Honestly, we look DOWN ON those people. Truth is some guys are banging girls even some Asian guys won't even look at. that's just a fact which is part of racist asian culture.

Honestly, I really don't care if a white dude talk about any asian girl fantasy at a bar.
(IMO, more than average guys never talk about Asian girl fantasy. that's my experience)
I Prefer it since white dudes get offended if I talk about some white girl just walking by. If they talk about asian girls first then I am allowed to talk about white girls.
I've only banged mostly white girls and few latinas.

Bottom line, I will go after white girls. Some guys will go for those asian girls they talked about. Let's respect each individual's tastes.

Just like many white guys don't want to hear minorities gushing over white girls like they're the secret to health wealth and prosperity in the US.

To me, it's ok if you just don't like white guys coming to Asia to bang 'your' girls, in fact I think it is a perfectly healthy reaction and I would say if you don't feel even a slight agression when foreign guys bang your local women, then there's something wrong with you.

Likewise, I would find it strange with any guy who didn't have the urge to try to get with local women when travelling. You know, like you do in the US.

What you're writing about being embarassed and being looked down upon. You have to realize that Western White people are not crippled by Asian shame culture. You see, I've lived long enough in Asia, to know what that means. Quite a few westerners simply do not give two shits about how they're perceived, and if they're not lauded for it, mostly they're at least respected for sticking their neck out.

Then there's the class issue, that's another less than attractive quality in Asia. I understand white people coming over and banging/supporting poor girls upset the class system. The middle class in particular hates it. They always live in fear of becoming a lowly peasent again.

And even if westerners hook up with low class girls, why would it be a problem?

What gets me annoyed sometimes is if someone brags about all the girls he's banging and you see them and they're obvious prostitutes and semi-pros, but hey, that's really not worth getting upset over either.

Post: #132

(01-02-2016 04:15 AM)Sebastian Wrote:  Honestly, we look DOWN ON those people. Truth is some guys are banging girls even some Asian guys won't even look at. that's just a fact which is part of racist asian culture.

Ah, you're Asian. I see...

I have a feeling I'm wasting my time here, but let me get this straight...so, you insist the rest of the world not only be just as racist as Asians but share their same criteria for their value judgements of other Asian people as well? For example, white and black guys should completely stay away from dark-skinned Asians just because other Asians have decided they are inferior?

I actually prefer light-skinned Asian women, but nonetheless, that's ridiculous and extremely close-minded.

It may be your culture, but you're not going to convince white guys any time soon that you have some kind of monopoly on deciding what makes a beautiful woman and what doesn't. We have the luxury of not being confined by that BS.

For the record, though, I've dated plenty of Asian girls that have no shortage of wealthy Asian men drooling over them and vying for their attention. You assume every white guy is scraping the bottom of the barrel. It just isn't true, even if you look at the bottom of the barrel just based on the paradigms of your own culture.

In my years on the continent, I've come to have many of the same tastes in women. I think that's a cultural rub-off you can't quite resist. However, I'm still of the opinion that you guys need to get over yourselves in the way you expect everyone else to share in your bigotry with you.

And your insistence that foreigners living here are only meeting women at bars is selective observation of the highest degree. On top of all that, you appear to be meeting your white girls in bars too, judging by your post.

Sure, there's a difference between a Southeast Asian bargirl and a girl in a bar in California, but in 2015, there are plenty of venues in places like Thailand and the Philippines where you can meet middle class to rich women in scenarios that are far removed from anything even resembling p4p.

Are most guys still hitting the girl bars instead?

Sure they are.

And I've noticed a lot of Asian guys still dip into that pool on the side too, albeit at different bars. Especially if they're here on holiday.

But to pretend that's all that goes on does nothing but reveal that you have no clue what's is really up even as you consider yourself in the loop. Some of what you're saying may have held true decades ago, but the dating scene for white guys and Asian women on the continent grows more dynamic and complicated by the year.

You might as well get over it.

Beyond All Seas

"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe.
To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes
frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." - Kipling

Post: #133

I can go to SEA, bang those 'easy girls' or get married with fresh 18 year old at older age.
But meeting a Decent woman from good background would be a different story.
If I want to meet a decent woman, I would have to put an effort. I need to have some type of root in their culture because Decent local girl can see that.
What are you doing to meet a decent local girl? do you know their language? do you understand their culture? do you have local friends? do you see yourself living as let's say Thai?

Yes, I meet American White girls at a bar. But it's not the type of bar where they mingle with foreigners straight off the boat. It's just a local bar where they hangout with their fellow white people whom they grew up with. I walk in there on my own with my asian face. So how to break into those groups?
Speak their language, act like them, understand their culture, know their humor etc.

Is this what you are doing at a local bar in SEA???

I am talking about guys running around with other foreigners who don't know jack shit about language and culture so they have to stay within tourist district. Girls in those foreign district are not Quality girls. Decent girls in the society won't go for those foreigners.
Honestly, think about it. If they came because they loved the country, then that's a different story. But if they came because they couldn't get laid in states, do you think he will spend time learning those?

Can you even write something in their local language? Can you read their newspaper?

(01-02-2016 04:56 AM)Beyond Borders Wrote:  

(01-02-2016 04:15 AM)Sebastian Wrote:  Honestly, we look DOWN ON those people. Truth is some guys are banging girls even some Asian guys won't even look at. that's just a fact which is part of racist asian culture.

Ah, you're Asian. I see...

I have a feeling I'm wasting my time here, but let me get this straight...so, you insist the rest of the world not only be just as racist as Asians but share their same criteria for their value judgements of other Asian people as well? For example, white and black guys should completely stay away from dark-skinned Asians just because other Asians have decided they are inferior?

I actually prefer light-skinned Asian women, but nonetheless, that's ridiculous and extremely close-minded.

It may be your culture, but you're not going to convince white guys any time soon that you have some kind of monopoly on deciding what makes a beautiful woman and what doesn't. We have the luxury of not being confined by that BS.

For the record, though, I've dated plenty of Asian girls that have no shortage of wealthy Asian men drooling over them and vying for their attention. You assume every white guy is scraping the bottom of the barrel. It just isn't true, even if you look at the bottom of the barrel just based on the paradigms of your own culture.

In my years on the continent, I've come to have many of the same tastes in women. I think that's a cultural rub-off you can't quite resist. However, I'm still of the opinion that you guys need to get over yourselves in the way you expect everyone else to share in your bigotry with you.

And your insistence that foreigners living here are only meeting women at bars is selective observation of the highest degree. On top of all that, you appear to be meeting your white girls in bars too, judging by your post.

Sure, there's a difference between a Southeast Asian bargirl and a girl in a bar in California, but in 2015, there are plenty of venues in places like Thailand and the Philippines where you can meet middle class to rich women in scenarios that are far removed from anything even resembling p4p.

Are most guys still hitting the girl bars instead?

Sure they are.

And I've noticed a lot of Asian guys still dip into that pool on the side too, albeit at different bars. Especially if they're here on holiday.

But to pretend that's all that goes on does nothing but reveal that you have no clue what's is really up even as you consider yourself in the loop. Some of what you're saying may have held true decades ago, but the dating scene for white guys and Asian women on the continent grows more dynamic and complicated by the year.

You might as well get over it.

Post: #134

(01-02-2016 05:39 AM)Sebastian Wrote:  I can go to SEA, bang those 'easy girls' or get married with fresh 18 year old at older age.
But meeting a Decent woman from good background would be a different story.

No one has argued that. You're straw manning because you have a chip on your shoulder.

Instead of responding to any of my very clear points, you're just reiterating your own prejudiced views yet again.

Quote:If I want to meet a decent woman, I would have to put an effort. I need to have some type of root in their culture because Decent local girl can see that.

Who argued with that? I sure didn't.

In fact, a lot of us long-term expats are constantly reminding people of that on this very forum.

In any case, it depends what you mean by decent. You're pretending there's a stark dividing line between "poor girls and bar whores" vs. "marriage material" (most guys here not looking for marriage anyhow), with no in-between. Typical Asian idea but are you applying that same lens to the girls you meet in American bars?

Asia is catching up to America fast concerning sexual norms. Wake up.

Quote:What are you doing to meet a decent local girl? do you know their language? do you understand their culture? do you have local friends? do you see yourself living as let's say Thai?

Yes, yes, and yes. In most countries I do exactly that.

But thanks for judging me based on the color of my skin.

Quote:Yes, I meet American White girls at a bar. But it's not the type of bar where they mingle with foreigners straight off the boat.

They still get fucked by guys like me on a daily basis - so what's so decent about them? I mean, are we doing apples to apples here or not?

But yes, I already said it's not the same thing. You ignored the part where I said there are plenty of other places to go that are nothing like those ones.

You don't have to go to a whore bar or predominantly tourist bar to sleep with local women in this part of the world anymore.

You don't even need to go to a bar.

Quote:It's just a local bar where they hangout with their fellow white people whom they grew up with. I walk in there on my own with my asian face. So how to break into those groups?
Speak their language, act like them, understand their culture, know their humor etc.

Is this what you are doing at a local bar in SEA???

Yes. What you've described is what I do to. Thanks for asking instead of jumping to conclusions.

I'd hate for you to seem like an asshole.

Quote:I am talking about guys running around with other foreigners who don't know jack shit about language and culture so they have to stay within tourist district. Girls in those foreign district are not Quality girls. Decent girls in the society won't go for those foreigners.

Did you even read my post? Or do you just enjoy having your pulpit all to yourself? I don't run with other foreigners, by the way.

Quote:Honestly, think about it. If they came because they loved the country, then that's a different story. But if they came because they couldn't get laid in states, do you think he will spend time learning those?

I didn't come because I can't get laid in the states. I have zero problem getting laid in the states. In fact, I'm not even here for women.

I just sleep with them and date them because I'm here.

Many guys I meet here are the same, but among those who actually are here because they like the women, many of them do fine in the states too.

There are plenty of dorks here, but again, you're being judgemental and simplistic and putting everyone in the same box.

Are you even reading my posts or having a conversation with yourself?

Quote:Can you even write something in their local language? Can you read their newspaper?

No, and that's not necessary. Very helpful, of course, but reading and writing in a new language is not a prerequisite to dating normal women in a new country (evidence by the many traveling players on this forum). It's a good idea to start if you want to show them them you're serious, yes.

In the Philippines (a country you specifically mentioned), even speaking the language is unnecessary for well off broads.

By the way, are you living under the illusion that all middle class and rich women are "decent" and don't sleep around the same way white American girls do? It's not 1980, bud.

My point is there is middle ground between poor bar whore and higher class marriage material these days.

You're making yourself look like a tool.

Beyond All Seas

"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe.
To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes
frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." - Kipling

Post: #135

Have some empathy BB. Our friend must be traumatised from his recent adventures with a cross dressing tenant.

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Post: #136

I read a few more of Sebastian's recent posts:

-He's probably from a mainland Chinese background with very awkward social skills and his english comprehension is good but not great. His grammar errors seem to indicate Mainland Chinese.

-He pedestalizes American women..light skinned white or latinas. The idea that America and its culture is the pinnacle was probably drilled into him early on by some cucklord relatives.

-He feels as if he has something to prove now by succeeding in the U.S. thus the pedestalization and classist attitude.

-He has an attitude that immigrating to the U.S. has put him above all asians living in asia. This attitude is unfortunately not uncommon with asian-americans visiting asia and they are usually in for a rude awakening.

-Seems bookish (probably some STEM field) and very socially awkward. Doesn't get nuance well.

-From a privileged background and his condescending view of lower classes indicates a life of relative privilege. Low alpha high beta lifestyle. Silver spoon asian. Mommy fed.

I wonder what Sebastian thinks of asian guys born in the U.S. who grew up dating the american women he pedestalizes but still prefer foreign women..abroad.

Post: #137

Post: #138

Sebastian, you don't know what you're missing brah. I'm here in Shanghai and have dates lined up with a HB7 22 year old teacher, an HB8 18 year old cosplay girl, and a HB6.5 23 year old engineer and that's just next week. And all this took minimal effort to arrange. I could care less if you "look down" on me because I'm banging Asian girls. But please send me some videos of you spending quality time sparring with white cunts in America so I can laugh my ass off at my good fortune when I have a minute.

Post: #139

(01-02-2016 03:28 AM)Sebastian Wrote:  I honestly don't get it about banging philiphinas. In my 'own' standard, that's something I won't be proud of at all and I would be ashamed of it.

If you had said, "I honestly don't get it about banging VERY POOR UNEDUCATED "philiphinas" from some poor barrio. In my 'own' standard, that's something I won't be proud of at all and I would be ashamed of it", your post would be quite respectable I guess.

But as you strongly implied that all Filipina women are worthless, are women that one should be ashamed of... , your post then becomes nothing but a crude xenophobic insult directed at the people of Philippines. What have they done to you, pray tell, to deserve such scorn? Filipinos and Filipinas are, in general, a humble, hard-working, God-fearing, basket-ball crazed, non-threatening and endearing people (who never willingly started a war). Also, each year they experience, with silent dignity and suffering, huge lethal tornadoes, and just start again building their towns... So, I'd say they deserve some respect.

Post: #140

Damn BB took a blow torch to Sebastian and rightfully so.

I actually recently spoke to an Asian newbie forum member and I heard some of the same insecurities regarding how white guys don't include him or just take away stuff that he should also be "entitled" to.

I'm not some white nationalist and not defending white guys. I'm actually an Indian-American guy that's good friends with enough of them (Americans) to know what they value and how much more or less they make an effort to understand other cultures. A lot of times those white guys will not make an effort to understand other cultures especially in America. However, I don't blame them. Why the fuck should they when they are trying to perpetuate their own culture in a country they practically created and run. I'm not butt hurt by this as an immigrant that's made an extremely active effort to understand American culture, make friends with American people and pursue American women.

One of the reasons I always respected Beyond Borders is the higher effort than he makes other white dudes to understand other cultures. He's an immigrant as well in another country. So that makes sense in his context but other white dudes I'm talking about are Americans living in America, not immigrants/expats to another country like him.

Understanding the above concept for minorities living in America is extremely crucial because there is always the us vs them pressure they receive from some of their communities that cause them to quite frankly, hate white people. It takes a grueling understanding of inner game to get over this misconception and be a normal human being to all the races around you. So it is not a huge surprise that Sebastian did not respond to my earlier post challenging his inner game.

I'm really taking this thread off the rails here but I'm sick of minorities like this fitting themselves into a stereotype and perpetuating it to the level that causes others to believe that all Asians or even minorities may be this way.

I'll leave you with this gem because it's not the first time he has dropped the soap:
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Post: #141

(12-29-2015 07:36 AM)RichieP Wrote:  I'd argue that China is now just getting a taste of what Thailand, Phils etc has had for years. Those places are ridden with creepy sexpats, dipshits and sleazy young guys openly trying to rack up notches.

The answer is simple: dont be one of those dudes, and signal it clearly. Chicks still dig high-value guys.

True players know how to avoid being pattern-matched as "sleazy" or "playboy". And to offer a win-win experience that leaves girls better than they found them, even when you're playing the field.

Just because some dodes put these vids out doesn't mean they're "ruining Asia". If you can still pull quality in Bangkok or Manila, which are by any means the honeypots for western weirdos/losers/sexpats, then I wouldn't worry about a couple of viral vids in China.

This is a great post, but can you comment more the distinction between sleazy sexpats and true players?

Post: #142

(01-02-2016 02:49 PM)churros Wrote:  This is a great post, but can you comment more the distinction between sleazy sexpats and true players?

Good question. It's just opinion, but here's my take:

Sleazy sexpat: Tends to be vulgar, offensive to locals, seeks only to get his rocks off and doesn't care who he offends along the way. Relies largely on his foreigner status to get sex, sees no need to learn game or create value. Treats girls like trash. Tends to hook up with desperate girls drawn to him because of white skin / cash /gullibility. Generally found in dive bars swilling beer and complaining loudly about the local culture. Get's minimal results in western countries. Generally someone to avoid (IMO).

True player: A creator, writes his own adventure. Socially skilled. Does things discreetly and smoothly. Despite playing the field, treats girls well and leaves them happy to have known him. Cultivates relationships with high-status/interesting locals and expats alike. May leverage his "exotic foreigner" status, but doesn't depend on it exclusively. Relies on strong social skills and solid game. Can do well on home turf and western countries as well as Asia. Generally someone worth knowing (IMO).


Both are gross stereotypes of course. You'll find all manner of expat abroad and they won't neatly fit into boxes, but... you get the idea.

Post: #143

(01-01-2016 07:07 AM)Sebastian Wrote:  That's what I see. Guys can't compete in their own country but want to show off they've got something without changing their reality. I am sick of these guys talking about 'game'. They think they know about women all of sudden.

If you just want to have it easier, then fine. go to the places you can live easier.
BUT don't tell guys in U.S, you are doing it better over there.

LOL. Where did this come from? So far as I can see this thread was an internal debate between SEA guys and nobody was comparing themselves to anyone. It's you who crashed the topic here and started the comparisons. Why I wonder. Some frustration/bitterness at work?

(01-02-2016 03:28 AM)Sebastian Wrote:  I honestly don't get it about banging philiphinas. In my 'own' standard, that's something I won't be proud of at all and I would be ashamed of it.

Bring one of those 'easy' girls to the states and try to attend social parties. I am pretty sure how people are going to look down on her.

LOL. Maybe you need your pussy approved by social parties in the west, but I guess we do not. Also your statement is deluded. If I introduce a Philippines flight attendant to my working class mates back home they are going to be delighted and charmed.

I wonder what is it that you're banging that is so much better. Maybe you're pounding some philosopher pussy there?

Post: #144

(01-02-2016 06:49 AM)El Chinito loco Wrote:  -He pedestalizes American women..light skinned white or latinas. The idea that America and its culture is the pinnacle was probably drilled into him early on by some cucklord relatives.

-He feels as if he has something to prove now by succeeding in the U.S. thus the pedestalization and classist attitude.

-He has an attitude that immigrating to the U.S. has put him above all asians living in asia. This attitude is unfortunately not uncommon with asian-americans visiting asia and they are usually in for a rude awakening.

-From a privileged background and his condescending view of lower classes indicates a life of relative privilege. Low alpha high beta lifestyle. Silver spoon asian. Mommy fed.

Possibly an inferiority complex at work. Either racial or personal. He's doubtful of his own worth and therefore clings to classism and racism that supposedly sets him up above some of the others (SE Asians) all the more. Also it might be that is where his thirst for white pussy - which he clearly places on top of some hierarchy - comes from. - Possibly he needs it to dampen the fear of being inferior to a lot of the whites in the US.

Post: #145

It's funny to see an Asian guy trying so hard to be American that he burns all roads to Asia and further alienates himself in insisting his new peers do the same...

The coolest Asian guys I have met want that white vagina but also like Asian girls (as another poster mentioned, they often prefer Asian if they were raised stateside) and they "get it" even when a white guy is with a girl that probably wouldn't do it for them, as long as she's half decent.

In fact, I'll often be out with a girl or girls in various locations over here and an Americanized Asian guy who is here visiting family or on vacation will come up and bullshit me and get my number for next time he comes through. Because he can see I'm a cool guy with decent birds rather than an all-out sex tourist and that I'd be fun to hang out with.

That's called men connecting on common interests instead of trying to bash each other down. Say what you will about westerners but that's one thing we're very good at, and those particular Asian guys exemplify something Sebastian would do well to follow if he means to ever truly fit in over there...instead of sitting there in bars waiting for guys to say something about Asian girls so he can bitterly spill the beans on his white girl fantasies in some kind of twisted revenge.

I'm sure you've heard enough of your share of comments from drunken white boys to make your skin boil, but I'm also sure the majority of people you meet are civil and respectful. Yet there you are (judging by how you describe your nights out) waiting for your excuse to let loose what you really think. I can only imagine what that means after a few to many beers down.

Living over here, one of the most un-pc regions on Earth, I've heard my share from drunken local idiots too on race and white women, or especially directly racist comments like the nonsense spewed in this thread. Or even the good guys, given how it's so un-PC in SOutheast Asia, as I mentioned.

But I don't wear it like a chip on my shoulder. I brush it off as ignorance or lighthearted fun and move on. Then again, America ironically breeds hate towards white men, so it's no surprise an immigrant would go there and leave with increased resentment.

Fortunately, you meet even more Asian guys, both local and visiting, who are normal hot-blooded males who understand we're all just guys who want to be free to have fun and who satisfy our natural urges to bed women from other cultures.

That makes us more alike than different, and it's only the guy who can't break free of his own cultural baggage to enjoy life unencumbered that can't see that.

Beyond All Seas

"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe.
To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes
frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." - Kipling

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Post: #147

To be fair, Sebastian is an outlier in that he criticizes those who hook up with low class girls.

If you want to see repressed homicidal rage, try getting a flirt going with a real down to earth, virginal Chula/Thammasat girl while her male orbiters are around. They'll get aggressive very quickly and attempt to forcible remove her. Provided you're not in their social circle. Most Asian guys don't consider westerners a threat to the sexual market.

Post: #148

Do we seriously have a forum member encouraging us to join him in looking down on people who had the misfortune to be born without the same golden spoon that his mouth came equipped with at birth?

Game isn't a competition to bang the women who have the highest objective value.

It's simply a tool to allow us to connect with the women who we personally value.

If a man values a connection with a woman who has nothing, but works hard and has made every effort to improve herself, what type of a person would criticize him for that?

Only someone who deep in his soul, believes that poor people deserve their fates and are objectively inferior.

I love the precious blend of classism and racism in Asia. If it's not one, it's always the other.

Post: #149

(01-03-2016 12:33 AM)Suits Wrote:  Do we seriously have a forum member encouraging us to join him in looking down on people who had the misfortune to be born without the same golden spoon that his mouth came equipped with at birth?

Yeah, the more I look at what this is guy is saying, the dumber I feel for even bothering to respond.

Quote:I said 'Personally I won't touch those girls because I look down on them'

Quote:Honestly, we look DOWN ON those people.

Note that he was referring to Filipinas in general rather than just poor girls working in bars too. Wearing his disdain for people from poorer Southeast Asian countries on his shoulder like some badge of honor.

I mean, this attitude is nothing new to me, but it's not exactly something you'll get anywhere arguing with.

I also find it hilarious how you hear this type of thing from East Asians, especially, and yet their men are down here in droves now burying themselves in the vagina, spending fortunes on their girlfriends, and wifing these women up on the regular. I mean, these guys spoil their Southeast Asian women so much that there are even prostitutes who reportedly won't go anywhere near a white guy anymore because of the way the Asian guys prop them up on the pedestal (I've had my share of dinners on these guys indirectly though haha).

But a white guy dares step foot on the continent and he's a thirsty, no-game beta...



In any case, this whole "looking down on people" thing is nothing to boast about.

Beyond All Seas

"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe.
To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes
frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." - Kipling

Post: #150

(01-02-2016 06:07 AM)Beyond Borders Wrote:  By the way, are you living under the illusion that all middle class and rich women are "decent" and don't sleep around the same way white American girls do? It's not 1980, bud.

This is a common delusion for men throughout the world, that some how a superior class of women (the sort their mother would approve of) aren't just as slutty as the supposedly low quality women that they despise.

That way, when the final settle down with a woman that their parents approve of (a requirement to keep that silver spoon firmly lodged in their tonsils), they can believe that she isn't an opportunist dick gobbler like every other woman and that her unwillingness to have sex with him is just a matter of her personal sex drive and is unrelated to his own level of betaness.

Of course, when your rich parents (whose carefully dispensed money is the only thing separating you from joining the masses who you despise) are going to dictate who you marry, it's all the better if you believe that the high classed slut that they select is a superior choice to every other woman out there.