Post: #1

Hi!

I already have his book, but I cannot find anywhere passages where he is talking about being married as a true red pilled man.
I think it would be interesting to see what a ''red piller'' would have to say about being married in these times where I personally cannot find too many reasons to join such a risk with the current high divorce rates combined with the present divorce laws.
So it would be interesting to listen to his thoughts on this one.


Does anyone know some articles which are written by him about this topic and about his marriage?
I would highly appreciate if someone could link me to them.

Regards,
Highlander

Post: #2

I don't have any specific article, but one piece of advice if for searching websites...google this:

"my marriage" site:therationalmale.com

Post: #3

(12-29-2015 09:34 AM)heavy Wrote:  I don't have any specific article, but one piece of advice if for searching websites...google this:

"my marriage" site:therationalmale.com

tried of course googling a bit myself already, before I have created this thread.
But did not find something too interesting.

Post: #4

I used to read his blog, before I got bored of basically the same subject matter being posted over and over.

In his blog posts he has often used examples from his own family. You'll have to read the blog to find them.

Post: #5

Yeah, but in my opinion he mostly does not talk straight enough about this.
I would have liked that there is maybe some material outside where he is explaining his reasoning for getting married in today's world and what his screening, precautions and expectations look like.

But maybe there is not such a thing yet.

Post: #6

(12-30-2015 01:16 AM)Highlander Wrote:  Yeah, but in my opinion he mostly does not talk straight enough about this.
I would have liked that there is maybe some material outside where he is explaining his reasoning for getting married in today's world and what his screening, precautions and expectations look like.

But maybe there is not such a thing yet.

I thought he has been married for over 20 something years..and shit has changed alot since then.

Post: #7

(12-29-2015 03:51 PM)GlobalMan Wrote:  I used to read his blog, before I got bored of basically the same subject matter being posted over and over.

In his blog posts he has often used examples from his own family. You'll have to read the blog to find them.

I also stopped reading his blog some time ago. But I do remember him mentioning several times that his wife is a physician of some kind, and that she's two years older than him.

Post: #8

I still read his blog.

Found one reference, and another one.

Marriage is not a "one size fits all". You should be very picky in who you drop your "Next" card with.

His views are less on "why should/shouldn't you". He describes dynamics of inter-gender aspects.
He does talk about it in this post.

Hope this was helpful.

Post: #9

(12-31-2015 03:34 PM)TheMaleBrain Wrote:  I still read his blog.

Found one reference, and another one.

Marriage is not a "one size fits all". You should be very picky in who you drop your "Next" card with.

His views are less on "why should/shouldn't you". He describes dynamics of inter-gender aspects.
He does talk about it in this post.

Hope this was helpful.

Great!
Thanks a lot man

Post: #10

I also stopped reading his blog some time ago. But I do remember him mentioning several times that his wife is a physician of some kind, and that she's two years older than him.
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If those aren't red flags I don't know what is.

Post: #11

Searched his blog.
Could not find any reference to what you are saying.

Post: #12

(01-02-2016 08:48 AM)TheMaleBrain Wrote:  Searched his blog.
Could not find any reference to what you are saying.

http://therationalmale.com/2012/07/30/16-years-on/

Quote:When we met my wife was dating two very rich men (we were non-exclusive, remember?), I had 2 nickels and a beat up pickup truck to my name. Mrs. Tomassi is a medical professional and the men she’d dated prior were E.R. doctors and specialists; guys making well over $300K annually. They had boats, cars, large homes, status, dispoasable wealth, and yet despite all of that I’m the one she pursued and locked in with (her Mom thought she was insane to marry me at the time). They had it made, but for all that wealth they were still clueless when it came to being Men – they were uncomfortable in their own masculinity. A lot of guys mistakenly believe that having a large bank account is the key to getting women, and while that might help in the short term, in the long term it’s to your own detriment (she’ll end up with half after the divorce) if you don’t ultimately kill the inner AFC and fearlessly embrace the postiveness of your own masculinity.

I couldn't find anything about her age though.

Post: #13

Good call.
Could not find reference to her age as well.