Post: #1

Is helping me to not feel like a clown.

In the McQeen interview he talked about how monogamy should be a last resort used when it fits your life.
I'm Now in a situation where I've cut other girls out and have a "girlfriend". This goes against all the advice I've given as I usually say you need to be sleeping with at least one other girl just to "keep your mind right".

I know it sounds like s case of oneitis but this girl is the perfect girl for the attitudes I have about men/women interaction

Some gems she has dropped in conversation
"Girls who say things like that disgust me"
"I just think my role in a relationship should be to be submissive"
"You are supposed to be in charge"
"I love how you handle people around you"

It's a good chick but she could stand to gain 15-20lbs but I'm getting used to it.

This reeks of oneitis I know. I've bee around enough to know better than to invest so much that it crushes me if we split.

No point to the thread I guess other than to say their are "ones" out there and feminist BS hasn't ruined all of them

Post: #2

What was Rollo's adivice?

Post: #3

Just don't live with her.

There's nothing to lose by committing for a time, and then breaking it off when it's served it's purpose.

But if you combine possessions/lives/space, that limits your freedom. Don't do it!

Post: #4

Do what you feel is right for you.

Game theory is still useful in a situation like that.

There is nothing wrong with monogamy if you are happy, despite what is said in the 'manosphere'. You live your life for you, not to follow a belief system.

Post: #5

(11-18-2014 09:21 AM)RURALGAMER Wrote:  This reeks of oneitis I know. I've bee around enough to know better than to invest so much that it crushes me if we split.

And yet, you need to use quotes when calling her your "girlfriend"...