Hi guys

probably I already complained about Tinder in Ireland, but I will do again

WHY THE F*** girls love putting 5 pictures with at least 4 people in each?

Does it happen in Canada too? US? etc?

for christ sake

So had my first run in with a tinder SJW. We met for drinks. I had a feeling this pencil head whore was going to be late so I didn't leave the house until 15 minutes after our meet up time. She met me outside some restaurant and we went to a hipster bar. Outside she looked about a blonde 7, with nice ass. Inside, she began to make these super ugly faces while describing things(dropped to a 4.5) and I was instantly turned off.

Best part she doesn't drink and thinks all the refugees need help and if anyone thinks negative things about them they are the ones at fault. I turned on the asshole game to wrap this up and after 20 minutes she hit me with the "i'm tired line." Gave her some of my 2 week old candy in my pocket and hugged it out. Never been so happy to be back at home watching Samurai anime and eating junk food on a friday night. Beginning to think something is really wrong with 90% of women doing online dating.

-CD

@CD a buddy of mine says the same thing about chicks from online dating. I actually had him read the forum but he never joined. The stories I've heard from him gave me a pretty good outlook on why a lot of the chicks are dating online to begin with.

(11-20-2015 11:04 AM)Designate Wrote:  Over 300 matches in Lima in a week's time.

I'd be lucky to get a third of that in a month back in the States.

Location, Location, Location.

It is bitter-sweet when Tinder correlates with what we know about our relative values in the Anglo dating markets versus, well, nearly everywhere else.

I tested Stockholm to see how I'd fare in a feminist city compared to the UK. I matched regularly with 9s and 10s and had decent conversations with them before they realised I wasn't in Sweden.

In the UK, I struggle to match with 7s and conversations are non-existent. The women seem to like the matching validation. The exception this is European women living in or visiting my city. With them I am matching with 8+ and they engage.

(11-20-2015 10:48 AM)keegs Wrote:  How long do y'all usually wait to engage after matching?

Just not immediately but you should engage as apparently the algorithm penalises people who frequently match but rarely send a message.

(11-20-2015 08:58 PM)coverdoc Wrote:  So had my first run in with a tinder SJW. We met for drinks. I had a feeling this pencil head whore was going to be late so I didn't leave the house until 15 minutes after our meet up time. She met me outside some restaurant and we went to a hipster bar. Outside she looked about a blonde 7, with nice ass. Inside, she began to make these super ugly faces while describing things(dropped to a 4.5) and I was instantly turned off.

Best part she doesn't drink and thinks all the refugees need help and if anyone thinks negative things about them they are the ones at fault. I turned on the asshole game to wrap this up and after 20 minutes she hit me with the "i'm tired line." Gave her some of my 2 week old candy in my pocket and hugged it out. Never been so happy to be back at home watching Samurai anime and eating junk food on a friday night. Beginning to think something is really wrong with 90% of women doing online dating.

-CD

Samurai Champloo?

(11-21-2015 04:25 AM)Fury Wrote:  

(11-20-2015 08:58 PM)coverdoc Wrote:  So had my first run in with a tinder SJW. We met for drinks. I had a feeling this pencil head whore was going to be late so I didn't leave the house until 15 minutes after our meet up time. She met me outside some restaurant and we went to a hipster bar. Outside she looked about a blonde 7, with nice ass. Inside, she began to make these super ugly faces while describing things(dropped to a 4.5) and I was instantly turned off.

Best part she doesn't drink and thinks all the refugees need help and if anyone thinks negative things about them they are the ones at fault. I turned on the asshole game to wrap this up and after 20 minutes she hit me with the "i'm tired line." Gave her some of my 2 week old candy in my pocket and hugged it out. Never been so happy to be back at home watching Samurai anime and eating junk food on a friday night. Beginning to think something is really wrong with 90% of women doing online dating.

-CD

Samurai Champloo?

Hell yes

-CD

(11-20-2015 10:48 AM)keegs Wrote:  How long do y'all usually wait to engage after matching?

Depends on the time of day.

If the match occurs during regular daytime hours, I'll wait a few hours to engage.

If the match happens at 1AM on a weekend night, then I will engage right away since it's likely that she has a hookup on her mind.

I try to only have conversations during night time hours. Odds are that at night she is either at a bar or bored at home with some wine or Netflix. During the day she'll be too distracted by work or school making her unlikely to be in "hookup mode." No point wasting text game on her then.

Deleted the app a month ago after a breakup (counterintuitive, right?) because it serves as a crutch to not do daygame as I pretend to. But now as I am on a business trip, its value shines to get some lays while out of town where you know nobody. Even if you discover a girl who isn't as hot as the pictures, be open to getting invited to parties with her friends, that's what I did and ended up connecting with some very cool guys. Next time I return to this city, I'll hit up my new friends here for partying instead of relying on Tinder only.

A little pro-tip with the latest version of Tinder.

You can create albums on facebook with all of your best pictures (even ones that are not on facebook) and set them as visible to "only me". You can now use these pictures for tinder (previously you were not able to). Therefore, there is no longer a need to go through the process of creating a fake account to add your best pictures to tinder.

How different must the picture used on tinder be for not getting any match on a reverse image search if you have a similar picture posted on the web?

Let's say you take two portrait pictures 10 seconds apart and the pictures look reasonably the same, is it likely that a reverse image search would match the two pictures?

Been trying some "weasel" game on tinder dates lately, worked pretty well. Last 3 girls I met ended up back at my place which was in the last 4 days. Basically either say I just got home and gotta eat something when we are meant to meet then they can wait in my building because it's really cold here or another one is my phone has no battery so wait inside my building while it charges.

1st came into my room without hesitation although I think it was part due to some guy standing in the hall. Had 2 dates today, both were more hesitant and we're happy to just stand in the building downstairs, talked to them for 10 mins and the other about 30 before both came back to my room. Much easier to escalate and more relaxing for me. I was meant to go for a walk with 2/3 and the other wanted coffee. Gonna keep trying it, the first 2 girls I met this week were probably the most attractive I've met from tinder.

Hey,

anyone of you tried to Change the date of the Smartphone after reached the daily match Limit? I was able to swip right but I'm not sure if this really Counts as a swip as I got Girls again and again.

Also I got 5 matches per day, all on the first right swips, is there a Limit on matches per day with the new Version?

Forgot who said it originally, but the "Tinder says'd we'd have beautiful children" line has been working wonders for me.

^^^^

Have you tried that line in the west?

I haven't been home in 2 years, but it works on western girls abroad

disabling the last online feature totally sucks ! i mean now some girls i've matched with and started a conversion which showed that they are really interested and some of them even super liked me some of those girls suddenly stopped replying ! wtf ?
i mean if a chick is not interested even after she matched coz u are dump or cant keep a good conversation it will be clear and understandable and u should be the one who has to bail out first but for a girl that initiated the conversation is strange !
the latest update really ruined the app !
another thing .. i guess even when using tinder plus in a foreign city somehow ur profile doesn't appear on top even if u only like like 5 girls a day !
really cant figure how it works !
btw has anyone tried tinder in dubai ? the amount of talent is incredible !

(11-25-2015 11:24 AM)Jaguar Leader Wrote:  btw has anyone tried tinder in dubai ? the amount of talent is incredible !

hmm I wonder why?

http://www.tagthesponsor.com/

The new update to Tinder has reached Australia. New icon, new layout, no moments and no last online.
Had to remove my university and job as well. I don't want those on my profile.

@NewMeta nah it's not what i meant , i mean every one that had been to Dubai can easily recognize that's its full with all kinds of hookers

but I'm talking about flight attendants,foreign language teachers or just chicks working at intentional cooperates or even ordinary travelers

most of those girls are single and feel bored in that "sand box" as they always complain

so if u got the right game and look decent u can easily pull one of those hotties

and based upon personal experience i can tell u this
my first visit ever to Dubai was a day stop over and guess what within less than 1 hour inside Dubai mall ( which is BTW nice spot for gamming )

i managed to pull a solid 8 Russian cutie (and i am really picky guy so it might be 9 for others) that has just arrived since one week and started working for the emirates and of course she was by herself in the city
the only downside was that i had to go back home the next day and she was extremely dissapointed when i told her so at the end of the day coz she probably was looking for a LTR or something.

bottom line regardless of the p4p scene in Dubai it still is an amazing city for pulling 7+ 8+ or even 9 if u played it right .

I have to agree with Jaguar. Although Dubai is filled with many hookers and "sponsored" whores, there is a niche market for the well versed player. The only catch is that most gentlemen wouldn't spend their valuable leisure time in Dubai, unless brought there for work.

Which is why I passed through there a few times, just for work. I fired up my tinder and was surprised by the attractive girls I matched with. Most of them being flight attendants. Really attractive women that normally wouldn't look twice at me in a normal setting. But there are not too many good looking (younger) western guys in Dubai, so our market value goes up. With all that said, I would never go to Dubai for leisure.

Quite new to tinder. How long do you usually wait before escalating? (getting #, ask to meet up) Text game not that strong, so besides the girls that were obviusly interested to begin with, i have difficulties how to proceed. I find it boring and time consuming writing with girls who may or may not be interested

(11-26-2015 02:51 PM)Fury Wrote:  I have to agree with Jaguar. Although Dubai is filled with many hookers and "sponsored" whores, there is a niche market for the well versed player. The only catch is that most gentlemen wouldn't spend their valuable leisure time in Dubai, unless brought there for work.

Which is why I passed through there a few times, just for work. I fired up my tinder and was surprised by the attractive girls I matched with. Most of them being flight attendants. Really attractive women that normally wouldn't look twice at me in a normal setting. But there are not too many good looking (younger) western guys in Dubai, so our market value goes up. With all that said, I would never go to Dubai for leisure.

That is exactly how I found my tinder experience in Dubai. Western and Far Eastern women value the European man more than he is valued in Europe - especially the UK.

I really want to find an air hostess. They are my hired guns.

@seabridge: I follow the K.I.S.S. principle: Keep It Stupid Simple. Once you match, wait 5-10 minutes then simply send "Hey, how are you? I thought you were cute. We should hang out sometime, would you like to?" Wait for her reply, in positive case just write "Good, put your WhatsApp here". Once you have the number, send her a text with your name. From then on you have to gauge her willingness to meet ASAP or maybe after some back and forth texting (not too much or you risk fucking up the attraction she had for you when she swiped right).

In my experience, if this doesn't do the trick I won't bother convincing her. If she is interested she will give you her number, else she will keep you in her match list for validation only.

That's why I only use Tinder while traveling. In my home city I'd rather cold approach instead of swiping through fatties and attention whores.

@topdog
Thanks. Thats also the method im using. Not trying to create attraction, i just mass text my matches and see if theyre interested