Post: #26

(09-15-2011 05:28 PM)endobendo Wrote:  

(08-29-2011 10:48 AM)Parlay44 Wrote:  Here's another good one ..

You know I had a dream about you last night

Really peaks their interest and they have to respond.

Typical response is:

Ohh yeah was it a wet one?

Tell me more.

or just a smiley

how would u follow up? or just ignore and start another subject

The beauty of this one is that it allows you a lot of freedom to say ridiculous shit because it is under the context of a dream.

I'd say something like...

We we're naked riding on donkeys through the supermarket looking for chips and salsa.

It doesn't really matter. Just follow up with something funny then make plans to hang out. Keep it light and fun.

Post: #27

Any restart text you send CANNOT contain a question of ANY kind. This applies to all texts after that as well - preferably until you've banged her.

It will instantly reveal to her subconcious you're insecure about her and you're approval seeking. By questioning her you're hoping she'll enthusiastically respond with renewed interest that was not there before (because otherwise it wouldn't be a restart text, champ).

So:

The Roissy example is OK - the best example is just the one-word "up". It FORCES a question from the girl - they can't ignore nonsensical shit because for all the possible reasons you wrote that one might just be your a super alpha, and she has to find out.

With the restart text you're trying to reinitiate attraction. Based on how you parted with the girl last time will determine how tight your game needs to be to succeed and even then the odds are not good. Most girls can smell that insecure I-cant-get-fresh-dates-I-need-to-recycle-my-phone-book-and-screw-my-dignity-crap.

Post: #28

(09-16-2011 09:35 AM)ElJefe Wrote:  Any restart text you send CANNOT contain a question of ANY kind. This applies to all texts after that as well - preferably until you've banged her.

It will instantly reveal to her subconcious you're insecure about her and you're approval seeking. By questioning her you're hoping she'll enthusiastically respond with renewed interest that was not there before (because otherwise it wouldn't be a restart text, champ).

So:

The Roissy example is OK - the best example is just the one-word "up". It FORCES a question from the girl - they can't ignore nonsensical shit because for all the possible reasons you wrote that one might just be your a super alpha, and she has to find out.

With the restart text you're trying to reinitiate attraction. Based on how you parted with the girl last time will determine how tight your game needs to be to succeed and even then the odds are not good. Most girls can smell that insecure I-cant-get-fresh-dates-I-need-to-recycle-my-phone-book-and-screw-my-dignity-crap.

Ding Ding Ding

Post: #29

I just posted this in another thread but then I noticed this one at the bottom in the "related threads" section so I thought I'd put it here too. I think it applies, but if not, moderators feel free to remove. Don't want to break any rules. LOL

I never understood why so many guys insist on moving on so quickly. For me, it depends on a few variables. If she's not worth any effort at all, I probably wouldn't even have emailed her in the first place. Assuming she was worth the 30 seconds to message once, she's probably worth the 30 seconds to try again. Sometimes, the email doesn't go through and she never gets it. Maybe she got it and deleted it by mistake. Maybe she just got busy and forgot. Maybe she's got a boyfriend at the moment and feels guilty to pursue anything else right now, but a month later could find herself single and lonely and ready to take your invitation. There are limitless situations where a girl might not get back to you that have very little to do with how interested she is in you.

However, there is one thing that you can count on and that is that she is (obviously) not interested in you more than whatever else she's got going on in her life at the present moment. Maybe you can't compete with what she's got going on right now, but there are things you can do to help change with very little effort.

One thing that I will sometimes do when a girl doesn't get back to my email is to wait a little while, say a few days or a couple of weeks, and then send off another one. However, in this one, I do NOT ask her out or to meet me, but I use it as an opportunity to show her what she's missing out on by not knowing me.

Just a couple of weeks ago, I sent something like this:

"Hi (girl's name), long time no talk! How's it going? By the way, did you email me last week? If you did, sorry I couldn't get back to you until now. I went to Hawaii for a few days. It was a blast! Check out my pics! So gorgeous..."

Then I went on the net, looked around for a few pictures that looked like they were taken with an iPhone and attached them to the email.

Bingo. I got a reply less than 5 minutes later.

The key, I think, is to come across like it's you that now sees her as just a friend. Show no romantic interest at all while at the same time shoving her face in the fact that you're a pretty exciting dude to hang with. Obviously, the whole "I might not have gotten your reply" would only work if you're out of range, but it's not necessary to use that particular line.

Next time, I might just wait a couple of weeks and send a "touch base" email. At the same time, tell her about the awesome party I threw last weekend that had over 100 people. It's easy enough to find great party pics on the net too. Of how about the "check out these pics of me and my friends skydiving!"? (She'll never figure out that speck in the sky is not you.)

One of these emails every once in a while completely devoid of invites or any other hint at getting together just may get her all fired up for ya.

It may be considerable effort putting these things together the first time, but you can recycle them on all your new girls that don't get back to ya (and hell, even those that do who are moving a bit too slowly!) and make your work efficient.

Post: #30

"Is that a banana in your pocket or are you happy to see me?"

RESPONSE: Is this joe?

I didn't respond. After 20 minutes, she sent this text:

"If it isn't this is embarrassing. [If] it is this is still embarrassing... because i obviously have yet to save your number in my phone. whooppsss." [sic]

I'm gonna be honest guys, I'm not sure how to respond.

Post: #31

(11-06-2011 11:58 AM)Alpha Wrote:  "Is that a banana in your pocket or are you happy to see me?"

RESPONSE: Is this joe?

I didn't respond. After 20 minutes, she sent this text:

"If it isn't this is embarrassing. [If] it is this is still embarrassing... because i obviously have yet to save your number in my phone. whooppsss." [sic]

I'm gonna be honest guys, I'm not sure how to respond.

"I killed Joe and stole his phone"

Post: #32

(11-06-2011 01:29 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  

(11-06-2011 11:58 AM)Alpha Wrote:  "Is that a banana in your pocket or are you happy to see me?"

RESPONSE: Is this joe?

I didn't respond. After 20 minutes, she sent this text:

"If it isn't this is embarrassing. [If] it is this is still embarrassing... because i obviously have yet to save your number in my phone. whooppsss." [sic]

I'm gonna be honest guys, I'm not sure how to respond.

"I killed Joe and stole his phone"

Gold.

"Oh.. well just so you know, Joe owed me lunch. So I guess since you got rid of him, you now owe me lunch."

Post: #33

(11-06-2011 01:48 PM)Alpha Wrote:  

(11-06-2011 01:29 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  

(11-06-2011 11:58 AM)Alpha Wrote:  "Is that a banana in your pocket or are you happy to see me?"

RESPONSE: Is this joe?

I didn't respond. After 20 minutes, she sent this text:

"If it isn't this is embarrassing. [If] it is this is still embarrassing... because i obviously have yet to save your number in my phone. whooppsss." [sic]

I'm gonna be honest guys, I'm not sure how to respond.

"I killed Joe and stole his phone"

Gold.

"Oh.. well just so you know, Joe owed me lunch. So I guess since you got rid of him, you now owe me lunch."

Alright you got her attention and now she's hooked and laughing.

This is the part where you start to "Game" her. Make her play the guessing game with you until she figures out who you are. Give her small clues. Be very vague and playful. Use smileys and winks. Throw a lot of sexual innuendo in there to. It's ok if it takes you a few hours or the next day to respond.

Her prize is lunch or a date with you.

Try this: "Well lunch isn't my style but we can do drinks some night if you want."

Post: #34

(11-06-2011 05:41 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  

(11-06-2011 01:48 PM)Alpha Wrote:  

(11-06-2011 01:29 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  

(11-06-2011 11:58 AM)Alpha Wrote:  "Is that a banana in your pocket or are you happy to see me?"

RESPONSE: Is this joe?

I didn't respond. After 20 minutes, she sent this text:

"If it isn't this is embarrassing. [If] it is this is still embarrassing... because i obviously have yet to save your number in my phone. whooppsss." [sic]

I'm gonna be honest guys, I'm not sure how to respond.

"I killed Joe and stole his phone"

Gold.

"Oh.. well just so you know, Joe owed me lunch. So I guess since you got rid of him, you now owe me lunch."

Alright you got her attention and now she's hooked and laughing.

This is the part where you start to "Game" her. Make her play the guessing game with you until she figures out who you are. Give her small clues. Be very vague and playful. Use smileys and winks. Throw a lot of sexual innuendo in there to. It's ok if it takes you a few hours or the next day to respond.

Her prize is lunch or a date with you.

Try this: "Well lunch isn't my style but we can do drinks some night if you want."

Way ahead of you. And I went with, "Lets do drinks instead."

Thanks though, you're brilliant.

Post: #35

(11-06-2011 05:45 PM)Alpha Wrote:  

(11-06-2011 05:41 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  

(11-06-2011 01:48 PM)Alpha Wrote:  

(11-06-2011 01:29 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  

(11-06-2011 11:58 AM)Alpha Wrote:  "Is that a banana in your pocket or are you happy to see me?"

RESPONSE: Is this joe?

I didn't respond. After 20 minutes, she sent this text:

"If it isn't this is embarrassing. [If] it is this is still embarrassing... because i obviously have yet to save your number in my phone. whooppsss." [sic]

I'm gonna be honest guys, I'm not sure how to respond.

"I killed Joe and stole his phone"

Gold.

"Oh.. well just so you know, Joe owed me lunch. So I guess since you got rid of him, you now owe me lunch."

Alright you got her attention and now she's hooked and laughing.

This is the part where you start to "Game" her. Make her play the guessing game with you until she figures out who you are. Give her small clues. Be very vague and playful. Use smileys and winks. Throw a lot of sexual innuendo in there to. It's ok if it takes you a few hours or the next day to respond.

Her prize is lunch or a date with you.

Try this: "Well lunch isn't my style but we can do drinks some night if you want."

Way ahead of you. And I went with, "Lets do drinks instead."

Thanks though, you're brilliant.

Thanks brudda. I've been doing the text game for a while now.

I want a rep point if you bang this bitch. LOL

Post: #36

(11-06-2011 05:49 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  Thanks brudda. I've been doing the text game for a while now.

I want a rep point if you bang this bitch. LOL

You should go check out my 'text game' guide and add some pointers.

Shameless Plug

Post: #37

(11-06-2011 05:55 PM)Alpha Wrote:  

(11-06-2011 05:49 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  Thanks brudda. I've been doing the text game for a while now.

I want a rep point if you bang this bitch. LOL

You should go check out my 'text game' guide and add some pointers.

Shameless Plug

I'd be happy to

When you sent "Lets do drinks instead." That was fine. It was little too simple and direct though. You should cheese it up a little bit like when I said "Lunch isn't my style". It keeps it playful and fun. Plus you're controlling the situation and not giving in to the lunch that she wants. If she wants to know who you are then she'll play by your rules and agree to drinks.

You have to develop your own brand of "verbal swagger" for lack of a better term.

If you can draw it out and actually get her to meet you at a bar blind(without knowing who you are) then you definitely got her.

Then you would run your typical bar date game, kino, escalation, kiss, same night lay.

Post: #38

I sent this one the other day on Valentine's Day. It was an obvious joke.

"Happy Veteran's Day Hun"

She replied back with "Uhh Merry Christmas!!"

We went back and forth a few times and made plans to meet up for drinks.

Post: #39

I mass txt girls with stuff that I hope they actually think is a mass txt.

"Let's all have a moment of silence for the guys with barb wire tattoos"

Post: #40

(02-21-2012 06:17 PM)Fisto Wrote:  I mass txt girls with stuff that I hope they actually think is a mass txt.

"Let's all have a moment of silence for the guys with barb wire tattoos"

Haha I like it. Whats your success rate with that restart text?

Post: #41

Cool Parlay....ill try your Love line later on this week..

Post: #42

(02-21-2012 06:44 PM)FretDancer Wrote:  

(02-21-2012 06:17 PM)Fisto Wrote:  I mass txt girls with stuff that I hope they actually think is a mass txt.

"Let's all have a moment of silence for the guys with barb wire tattoos"

Haha I like it. Whats your success rate with that restart text?

I'd say it's somewhere around 80%. Even if it's just "lol" that's a response you can work into something.

Post: #43

I dont really like the "wrongfully sent text" angle. I can see it working, just not my style.

Heres one: "Hey, I had a dream about you last night. Are you allright?"

She will, of course, text you right back. "Why? What was the dream about?"

"Cant remember, just wanted to check you where ok. So, what have you been up to?"


That, or something inane like "I got bit by a mosquito" or "What goes well with chocolate trufles?"

Post: #44

I've been sending out texts lately using the girl's astrological sign. I found a dirty astrology site on Twitter. Some of them are pretty funny.

@XSTROLOGY: #Pisces favorite sex location: The Shower

@XSTROLOGY: That freak in your sheets? They're probably a #Gemini

http://xstrologyscopes.com/

@XSTROLOGY 

Post: #45

(02-21-2012 06:17 PM)Fisto Wrote:  I mass txt girls with stuff that I hope they actually think is a mass txt.

"Let's all have a moment of silence for the guys with barb wire tattoos"

This is where it's at. I think a good, low-investment ping text should read like a captivating, fun, or funny Facebook status update.

It's got to function as bait to get the girl to respond. Like Roger Rabbit:

Post: #46

The "I had a dream about you last night" bit is golden.

I don't do the "wet dream" flirty type responses to it, but more the mysterious / freaky dream thing but not explain by text. This will completely wig out her hamster, and its a perfect time for you guys to get together to talk about it. Srsly, they get so curious over that shit they can't help it... If that works, its the perfect time to run chick-crack type stuff while we are trying to figure out what dreams mean.

You can even get a book about dream interpretations and tell the chick of a certain thing that happened that involved her, in the dream, and then when you look at the book together over drinks, the "thing she did" means she wants to fuck you, or that you have some kind of destiny together, or whatever bullshit you like.

Chicks love the whole "meant to be" vibe and "there's just something about him" and any kind of setting that allows her hamster to create a "story" in her mind, where you are the male lead. Maybe you are Prince Charming, or maybe you are the Villain who steals her away... (either is good) but when she starts formulating a story in her head that involves you, her hamster will run WILD with it. Suddenly you are the male lead in her life from every romance novel she has read, and every romcom movie she has seen.

"Wow, it's like serendipity", amazing (chicks love the word "amazing")

It's just like the advice they give authors... "give them just enough detail, and the reader will fill in the rest... and they want to do that work, or they will lose interest."

Post: #47

"Herro" is one I use with the azn ladies

Post: #48

Post: #49

Saw this Tweet today:

Quote:@EpicTweets_: I text you because I want to have a conversation with you, not to get one word answers.

Don't fall into the trap of having conversations over text. Keep it short and set the date.

Post: #50

(08-25-2011 04:43 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  Been going through my address book lately and texting some girls I haven't seen in a while.

Sent this one out a few times with favorable results...

Love is patient. Love is kind. Love is better from behind.

It's good for a laugh and get's the conversation going.

After sending this- quickly received a response of, "gross".