Post: #1

I’ve been dating/hooking up with this girl 5-6 times in the past 3 weeks.

She texts me daily and I respond sometimes 5-6 message convos.

I’ve heard I shouldn’t be doing this.

Like for instance she just said

Today at work was nuts. Glad to be home with the dogs (halo emoji)

Should I turn that into telling her I’ll bring some wine over or just ingnore or what?

We have a date planned on Wednesday so what should I do?

Post: #2

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Post: #3

Dude where do you fall on the autism scale? In your other thread guys gave you great advice, and even specifically addressed what you're pointlessly asking for a second time in this thread.

You are wayyyy overinvested in this girl. Calm down, way down, and stop giving a fuck. You already set a date for Wednesday, so assume you'll see her then and stop second guessing your plans. As someone else mentioned in your other thread, replying with an invitation to drink wine on the same night as her latest text is incredibly needy and desperate.

If you keep acting so needy and outcome dependent, she WILL pick up on this, and pretty soon you'll be getting one word answers in text, then ignored, then ghosted. She's not your girlfriend, she's not the love of your life, she's just some girl you're banging, so treat it as such.

Post: #4

In terms of forum use, look up the posts of recent user kbronik who lasted a few days on here. Posting multiple threads and ignoring advice one has already been given on previous threads is a bad way to go.

You can probably see that more clearly in someone else's forum use than one's own.