My Android phone keeps trying to auto change my gps settings when I try to open tinder... this seems new.....anyone experience this? Or ....anybody have a workaround for this?

Well, at least SNLfan *kinda* looks like Billy Zane in the blazer pic

SNLFan, RSD and online dating has fucked you up. You are obsessed with jumping through invisible hoops that aren't even there and it has destroyed your vibe. Delete tinder, the multiple okc accounts, facebook, anything else you've put up on the internet to convince chicks you are awesome. Read "No More Mr. Nice Guy," "The Drama of the Gifted Child," "A Billion Wicked Thoughts," and Rollo Tomassi and travel alone until you discover your nut suck. Women are attracted to dominance and status and what you have been doing isn't working because, despite being a surgeon, you seem to have none of either. Go muster up the courage to eye-fuck and chat up real-life chicks. Once a man has really discovered his balls and his sense of dominance getting laid is not hard.

Also I really hope that someone deletes his pictures.

(10-20-2015 03:56 PM)XII Wrote:  SNLFan, RSD and online dating has fucked you up. You are obsessed with jumping through invisible hoops that aren't even there and it has destroyed your vibe. Delete tinder, the multiple okc accounts, facebook, anything else you've put up on the internet to convince chicks you are awesome. Read "No More Mr. Nice Guy," "The Drama of the Gifted Child," "A Billion Wicked Thoughts," and Rollo Tomassi and travel alone until you discover your nut suck. Women are attracted to dominance and status and what you have been doing isn't working because, despite being a surgeon, you seem to have none of either. Go muster up the courage to eye-fuck and chat up real-life chicks. Once a man has really discovered his balls and his sense of dominance getting laid is not hard.

Also I really hope that someone deletes his pictures.

This x1000. And like others have said, you should be able to remove the pictures by going back to your original post. Having co-workers, patients and worst of all, HR, finding you on this forum would not bode well for you.

Just had a funny conversation with a tinder girl after getting her whatsapp, her words 'I believe in your bio, don't make me regret giving you my number'. Basically our chat there consisted of her saying she's not there for sex and has no interest in it. She met two guys from tinder, one is her 'friend' now and the other 'just wanted to fuck her but he is an asshole and didn't succeed'.

After a bit of texting it turns out she only had sex with 1 guy and the asshole who wanted to fuck her from tinder actually almost did only due to the fact that he couldn't get inside because it was so tight, but did 'eveything else'. I am posting this as I just find it hilarious how girls behave on the app with the 'no sex' bs, then literally after a few messages its completely out the window. I guess that's common knowledge but it genuinely gives me a laugh as I have come across girls like this personally many times.

^I had a girl say that same bs once. This was a six as well. I deleted her number. Not worth the trouble at all.

Deleted, reinstalled and tried to reactivate and get a "there was a problem getting your code please try again" going on 5 days now. Any ideas?

Matched with a girl I matched with earlier in the year. Ran what I've found to be a decent opener. She ignores it and asks if we matched before. I confirm (standard/non-witty/reply). That's that. Again I'm not all too active on the app but I swipe on occasion while I still have my plus+ subscription.

I'm curious of why she'd match me just to ask me that though.

(10-29-2015 03:20 PM)chyamor Wrote:  Deleted, reinstalled and tried to reactivate and get a "there was a problem getting your code please try again" going on 5 days now. Any ideas?

try adding a number to the end of your phone number.

for example:
1 800 867 5309 4
1 800 867 5309 9
etc.

90% of the girls on this app have convos with you but then when you ask for a number or set up a date radio silence

Or sometimes they'll just keep ignoring you on and on forever even if you send another msg. it's really fucking annoying.

The reputation that Tinder has is that everyone is on there for easy sex, both men and women. Maybe this is what it was like in the beginning, but not so any longer. Or maybe it's just where I am in the UK that's the problem.

I've had a lot of success on POF, especially with SDLs, but my investment vs reward on Tinder has been depressing to say the last. I'm only matching with girls 1-3 points lower than me in SMV, and the amount of attention-whoring is horrendous.

Take one frustration of many: around 50% of girls who match with me don't even answer the opening message. I'd expect those type of stats cold-calling on POF; but the opposite is true. So, girls who have expressed their sexual interest in you don't answer your opening message - or they give you one word answers, or engage for a little while then stop responding.

I've found Tinder to be, by and large, a dead loss. My thoughts on this are that Tinder is too easy an app for girls to download and experiment with validation-seeking and attention-whoring, with a limited percentage actually serious about it.

Meanwhile, went back on POF for a few hours last week and went straight to a chick's house on Saturday for the bang.

oh shit, that worked. Nicely done

(10-29-2015 05:10 PM)storm Wrote:  

(10-29-2015 03:20 PM)chyamor Wrote:  Deleted, reinstalled and tried to reactivate and get a "there was a problem getting your code please try again" going on 5 days now. Any ideas?

try adding a number to the end of your phone number.

for example:
1 800 867 5309 4
1 800 867 5309 9
etc.

I asked this 7+ out in the first message after matching, she agreed, i was pretty sure she would flake but she didn't, she was cool, no fnl but next meet up it will go down.

^That's rare, most chicks would try to stay on the app a bit more or try to make you qualify. I like girls like that. No bs and keeps their word.

(10-30-2015 09:48 AM)Valhalla Wrote:  90% of the girls on this app have convos with you but then when you ask for a number or set up a date radio silence

Or sometimes they'll just keep ignoring you on and on forever even if you send another msg. it's really fucking annoying.

Because they use Tinder to seek validation. When I am in Asia I also match with lots of girls I never talk to. If you know that you will match with almost anyone you swipe right, you are sometimes just swiping right for fun and without any plans to ever meet that person. And from what I have seen in their bios (some of them complain that guys are not texting them after they matched), I am not the only guy in Asia who does that.

(10-30-2015 11:24 AM)griffinmill Wrote:  The reputation that Tinder has is that everyone is on there for easy sex, both men and women. Maybe this is what it was like in the beginning, but not so any longer. Or maybe it's just where I am in the UK that's the problem.

I've had a lot of success on POF, especially with SDLs, but my investment vs reward on Tinder has been depressing to say the last. I'm only matching with girls 1-3 points lower than me in SMV, and the amount of attention-whoring is horrendous.

Take one frustration of many: around 50% of girls who match with me don't even answer the opening message. I'd expect those type of stats cold-calling on POF; but the opposite is true. So, girls who have expressed their sexual interest in you don't answer your opening message - or they give you one word answers, or engage for a little while then stop responding.

I've found Tinder to be, by and large, a dead loss. My thoughts on this are that Tinder is too easy an app for girls to download and experiment with validation-seeking and attention-whoring, with a limited percentage actually serious about it.

Meanwhile, went back on POF for a few hours last week and went straight to a chick's house on Saturday for the bang.

I can see how this makes sense. On one hand, you can say that Tinder is more restricted in who can talk to the girl as she has to make the move of at least seeing your profile and Right swiping you in order for you to gain access VS POF where anybody can message her.

BUT there are less tools on POF to attention whore. No "moment" update pictures every hour on the hour. No Instagram account being linked below the profile bio etc,.

However, this depends on what kind of girl you come into contact with. I matched with a 19 year old who looks like a big social media whore. Her instagram has well over a 1000 pictures which is a red flag. I kept matching with her over and over, as I delete my Tinder every 2 weeks for a fresh start. If she forgot about me, she now remembers me just from that and a the few exchanges we had. She is fat but face-wise, she could be a 9. I asked her for shits and giggles how many matches she has...she said over a 1000 matches on Tinder. That's a lot of men to attention whore with. You just have to know what Type of girl you match with.

My last girl off of Tinder was a career girl. She had a facebook account with less then 200 friends, and no Instagram. In less then 10 messages I had her # and we met the next day. That's the kind of girl you want, not the Young 18-22 year old who has a dead end job, or goes to school while posting selfies all day on her Tinder, Instagram, Facebook with 4000 friends. In fact, if she has her IG account attached to her Tinder, and the amount of pictres posted are anywhere near the 1000 mark....just unmatch her immediately and save yourself the effort.

Can't get tinder working on bluestacks anymore.

Anyone know of a work-around or an alternative?

My phone's screen has some problems and it means I can't modify my tinder profile.

(10-31-2015 05:16 AM)Dipar Wrote:  

(10-30-2015 09:48 AM)Valhalla Wrote:  90% of the girls on this app have convos with you but then when you ask for a number or set up a date radio silence

Or sometimes they'll just keep ignoring you on and on forever even if you send another msg. it's really fucking annoying.

Because they use Tinder to seek validation. When I am in Asia I also match with lots of girls I never talk to. If you know that you will match with almost anyone you swipe right, you are sometimes just swiping right for fun and without any plans to ever meet that person. And from what I have seen in their bios (some of them complain that guys are not texting them after they matched), I am not the only guy in Asia who does that.

Its at least 90% of the matches I get on tantan (Chinese tinder) have no interest in anything at all. Even more are simply bored. Life for many Chinese girls is boring as hell - work a lot, go home, have dinner with mom and maybe dad, sit around and play on the phone or computer. Same shit their whole life. This allows them to "be somebody".

I try for a few interesting remarks, then ask when we can meet up. 75% go silent, 10% they are busy, 10% say they won't meet up, 5% meet up.

I've given up for the moment. I also live in a bad environment. Even though its a city of 8 million people with high population density, the people are so sheltered and boring that something I consider so common, meeting someone or saying hello to someone you don't know, this causes them to freak out.

Pretty much the last few weeks have turned me off for my current location and starting the countdown on moving to Guangzhou or Xiamen. Will be doing an extended trip to both cities in Jan/Feb 2016.

Just got the number from an Asian 6 off this app. Completley rare for me, and it was under 4 messages. Should I stick to logistics or banter over text a little? I'm not the sharpest with text game so I'm thinking work on logistics and set up a day to meet.

My game was pretty much calling her out on not having a bio. At the moment I'm following Brob's text advice to build a bit of momentum.

(11-03-2015 03:19 PM)~wrIghter~ Wrote:  Just got the number from an Asian 6 off this app. Completley rare for me, and it was under 4 messages. Should I stick to logistics or banter over text a little? I'm not the sharpest with text game so I'm thinking work on logistics and set up a day to meet.

My game was pretty much calling her out on not having a bio. At the moment I'm following Brob's text advice to build a bit of momentum.

What was the context in which you asked for the number?

If it was a 'let's hang, what's your number' then just do logistics.

If it was a 'let's text via whatsapp/sms so you don't get lost in the depths of tinder' then the banter must continue (obviously).

Also, get sharp with text game. In my opinion the 'only text for logistics' concept is outdated. See a good points and good discussion from Giovonny and others here
https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-51225-page-2.html

(11-01-2015 05:23 AM)Lizard King Wrote:  Can't get tinder working on bluestacks anymore.

Anyone know of a work-around or an alternative?

My phone's screen has some problems and it means I can't modify my tinder profile.

I run it on Andy . . . at least I did while I was bothering with it at all.

(11-03-2015 09:59 PM)trawler Wrote:  

(11-03-2015 03:19 PM)~wrIghter~ Wrote:  Just got the number from an Asian 6 off this app. Completley rare for me, and it was under 4 messages. Should I stick to logistics or banter over text a little? I'm not the sharpest with text game so I'm thinking work on logistics and set up a day to meet.

My game was pretty much calling her out on not having a bio. At the moment I'm following Brob's text advice to build a bit of momentum.

What was the context in which you asked for the number?

She mentioned not having much to say for a bio and I mentioned her being able to banter over drinks (non alcoholic of course).

I also mentioned continuing the convo over text so the banter continued.
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If it was a 'let's hang, what's your number' then just do logistics.

If it was a 'let's text via whatsapp/sms so you don't get lost in the depths of tinder' then the banter must continue (obviously).

Also, get sharp with text game. In my opinion the 'only text for logistics' concept is outdated. See a good points and good discussion from Giovonny and others here
https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-51225-page-2.html

Text game is definitely improving. Its just a matter of saying what needs to be said and knowing when to say it, haha.

A really hot ass girl left me her number but I didn't know what to say to her and was busy for the next few days so I didn't text her because what the hell would we talk about and now she ignored me when I did. I have trouble keeping it interesting when we haven't met and know nothing about these Girls

Text game is almost as important as real life game now

(11-03-2015 11:58 PM)Valhalla Wrote:  A really hot ass girl left me her number but I didn't know what to say to her and was busy for the next few days so I didn't text her because what the hell would we talk about and now she ignored me when I did. I have trouble keeping it interesting when we haven't met and know nothing about these Girls

Text game is almost as important as real life game now

Try using the send image option on whatsapp and take a snap of something funny that you saw. (I'm using an ancient Egyptian statue I saw in a museum, it vaguely looks like a human and it's hand is on its crotch area i.e. wanking)
It gives you both something to talk about. Your entire statement does sound like you pedastalised that chick though.

(11-03-2015 10:22 PM)Mess O. Wrote:  

(11-01-2015 05:23 AM)Lizard King Wrote:  Can't get tinder working on bluestacks anymore.

Anyone know of a work-around or an alternative?

My phone's screen has some problems and it means I can't modify my tinder profile.

I run it on Andy . . . at least I did while I was bothering with it at all.

I'm not very eager either. It's a massive drain of time.