What have you guys done for LTR's birthdays?

My current chick has really impressed me so far. Basically worships the ground I walk on, slaved in the kitchen for 4 hours baking me a special birthday dessert, loves cleaning and cooking at my house...So giving her a bag of skittles seems like a slap in the face. She's very sweet, and I'd like to continue to reward good behavior. What would be appropriate without being lavishing or gushing?

I was thinking of a hand written love letter.

(08-17-2015 09:14 PM)Checkmat Wrote:  What have you guys done for LTR's birthdays?

My current chick has really impressed me so far. Basically worships the ground I walk on, slaved in the kitchen for 4 hours baking me a special birthday dessert, loves cleaning and cooking at my house...So giving her a bag of skittles seems like a slap in the face. She's very sweet, and I'd like to continue to reward good behavior. What would be appropriate without being lavishing or gushing?

I was thinking of a hand written love letter.

How a player writes a love letter.

Dear Kylie,

I love you with all of of my heart.

Signed
WIA

But my name is Lourdes

(08-17-2015 09:14 PM)Checkmat Wrote:  What have you guys done for LTR's birthdays?

My current chick has really impressed me so far. Basically worships the ground I walk on, slaved in the kitchen for 4 hours baking me a special birthday dessert, loves cleaning and cooking at my house...So giving her a bag of skittles seems like a slap in the face. She's very sweet, and I'd like to continue to reward good behavior. What would be appropriate without being lavishing or gushing?

I was thinking of a hand written love letter.

The amazing young lady I spent the weekend with had some insight into that. She said she finds gifts (a product of some kind) hard to accept graciously. She would prefer to be given a new experience; something to remember. Maybe you can do something with your main that she has talked about but not done before (like attend a dance class together, or take a trip to a nearby landmark that you know she would like to see and hasn't yet). Some event/experience you do together.

(08-17-2015 09:14 PM)Checkmat Wrote:  What have you guys done for LTR's birthdays?

My current chick has really impressed me so far. Basically worships the ground I walk on, slaved in the kitchen for 4 hours baking me a special birthday dessert, loves cleaning and cooking at my house...So giving her a bag of skittles seems like a slap in the face. She's very sweet, and I'd like to continue to reward good behavior. What would be appropriate without being lavishing or gushing?

I was thinking of a hand written love letter.

Rewarding a girl with your time says more than your money.
Put some thought into a nice day/evening out, take her somewhere she's wanted to go.

However don't lose frame and do something you hate. You need to show her you appreciate her but that you're still alpha.

I'm trying to avoid asking newb questions too much in game and have searched the forums for people using hot or not (one rp site I read suggested using this for feedback on improving looks) and was just curious if any of you have used this? Thought this may be a better place to ask than an entire thread.

^

I've used it and I've banged one chick out of it. This chick was a smoking hot blonde funny enough. Actually one of the hottest chicks I've been with but personality like a bag of rocks. I linked her on Hot or Not (works like a Tinder match but called a 'connection') and I was visiting my boy at university in her city and invited her to the spot I was at. I felt she was a little cold at first but somehow we ended up talking about Frank Ocean and she opened up after that. Strange. Hit the dancefloor and I started getting physical and then we started making out and I got her straight out of there.

I ended up going back to her uni house and hitting it. I didn't contact her again cause she was dull as shit. She was a singer though, I have a thing for girls that sing/dance. Not this one though, I guess that's the game.

I score high on Hot or Not but I think it mostly comes down to high picture quality. It's not as popular as Tinder so 'connections' are a little sparser. It's alright. Worth a go if you got good pictures I reckon.

Thanks Blackwell.

I was originally using it more for seeing how I rated for looks, hoping to get some feedback on pictures and different looks, but I noticed that female land whales (who most of us would rate below a 1) are getting ratings of 5.5, while the "high rated dudes" in my area that look like this guy are getting ratings of 8. The other funny thing is girls, who are very close to 10 (if not 10), have ratings of 8 too.

I suppose Tinder doesn't score a person?

(08-18-2015 12:56 PM)SunW Wrote:  Thanks Blackwell.

I was originally using it more for seeing how I rated for looks, hoping to get some feedback on pictures and different looks, but I noticed that female land whales (who most of us would rate below a 1) are getting ratings of 5.5, while the "high rated dudes" in my area that look like this guy are getting ratings of 8. The other funny thing is girls, who are very close to 10 (if not 10), have ratings of 8 too.

I suppose Tinder doesn't score a person?

Crap that guy is "only" an 8? No homo but if that's the case I'm lucky to be a 5 on a good day

This girl did not seriously piss in my fucking bed last night...

Talk about your nice awkward situations; someone got blackout drunk off a fairly tiny amount of vodka. In fact, I didn't even realize she was so drunk until she suddenly had to throw up. This girl's tolerance was way higher when we dated last Winter, so needless to say I was a bit shocked by that... and more shocked to wake up to a damp bed at 2am!

If this was a random girl, I'd be "pissed" but what the fuck do you do here? She was still kind of out of it, so I let her save face and just said she must've got some puke on the bed, and I changed the sheets. Did not plan on spending my evening doing laundry.

That was yesterday, but still worth mentioning: I got SIF'd by a chick I met online. She was at least 10kg over what she looked like. Fuck, I was on a 3-day dry spell and went for the bang anyway. Easy lay, no LMR.

Her nickname being my favorite dessert should have rung a bell before.

(08-18-2015 12:59 PM)OregonToSoCal Wrote:  

(08-18-2015 12:56 PM)SunW Wrote:  Thanks Blackwell.

I was originally using it more for seeing how I rated for looks, hoping to get some feedback on pictures and different looks, but I noticed that female land whales (who most of us would rate below a 1) are getting ratings of 5.5, while the "high rated dudes" in my area that look like this guy are getting ratings of 8. The other funny thing is girls, who are very close to 10 (if not 10), have ratings of 8 too.

I suppose Tinder doesn't score a person?

Crap that guy is "only" an 8? No homo but if that's the case I'm lucky to be a 5 on a good day

And it's as bizarre for the girls too; a girl like this (or better looking) will be rated like a 7-8 and a girl like this will be a 5 and a half.

I can't remember which author suggested it as a way to get feedback on how you look, but I thought a really hot person is only an 8 and an ugly person is a 5, seems like the measuring system is a little off.

Met up with the marine girl again, she came over, we hungout and watched shows.

She sarcastically called me a fuck boy and netflix and chill - I smiled and told her she's acting like a basic bitch. That bugged her, talk about qualifying !

Kept grabbing my dick while we made out, I played with her tits then I realize....damn she's actually got a decent body, wish she had longer hair, oh well.

She knew exactly what I was doing, so I couldn't go for the bang no matter how hard I tried. I ended up kicking her out after a bit and handled some shit at the pad.

Text me today after a sarcastic conversation said, "You're an asshole and it sucks because I'm still somewhat attracted to you."

Of course I responded with, "coming from the biggest asshole"

Gotta love her recognizing what I'm doing to her.

That black italian girl I nexted reach out to me, wants to grab a drink, I apparently spanked her the right way because she requested more of it. I hoping meet up 3, with blackilian and marine girl will seal the deal.

(08-17-2015 09:14 PM)Checkmat Wrote:  What have you guys done for LTR's birthdays?

Get creative, buy some shit you both can enjoy.

For example with sex - whips, cuffs, binders, blinders, edibles, etc.

Do stuff in a bang out of the ordinary, fuck her somewhere exciting and dangerous, cum on her face, etc.

Gifts - get creative, sure the love letter, get her something unique with some of her favorite flowers (bitches love their flowers) - just don't make it a habit.

Travel - do a staycation, do a day trip somewhere that YOU want to go, do a weekend trip to another city, go to a spa, couples massage, a great restaurant you want to try, a live show.


Just make sure you're wanting to this stuff already and she's tagging along for her bday.

Make it memorable and interesting - that'll leave an imprint in her mind - just like cumming on her face.

(08-18-2015 05:11 PM)SunW Wrote:  

(08-18-2015 12:59 PM)OregonToSoCal Wrote:  

(08-18-2015 12:56 PM)SunW Wrote:  Thanks Blackwell.

I was originally using it more for seeing how I rated for looks, hoping to get some feedback on pictures and different looks, but I noticed that female land whales (who most of us would rate below a 1) are getting ratings of 5.5, while the "high rated dudes" in my area that look like this guy are getting ratings of 8. The other funny thing is girls, who are very close to 10 (if not 10), have ratings of 8 too.

I suppose Tinder doesn't score a person?

Crap that guy is "only" an 8? No homo but if that's the case I'm lucky to be a 5 on a good day

And it's as bizarre for the girls too; a girl like this (or better looking) will be rated like a 7-8 and a girl like this will be a 5 and a half.

I can't remember which author suggested it as a way to get feedback on how you look, but I thought a really hot person is only an 8 and an ugly person is a 5, seems like the measuring system is a little off.

Ok yeah, that all needs to be thrown out. For my subjective tastes the "8" is an 11 in my book and the "5" is a 1 putting it generously...

(08-17-2015 09:14 PM)Checkmat Wrote:  What have you guys done for LTR's birthdays?

My current chick has really impressed me so far. Basically worships the ground I walk on, slaved in the kitchen for 4 hours baking me a special birthday dessert, loves cleaning and cooking at my house...So giving her a bag of skittles seems like a slap in the face. She's very sweet, and I'd like to continue to reward good behavior. What would be appropriate without being lavishing or gushing?

I was thinking of a hand written love letter.

A girl once told me that bitches like things that they normally wouldn't buy for themselves. Girls also like crafty home made shit if you are into that kind thing.

I think this has some merit. You don't want to be that guy trying to buy clothes for a bitch. I saw on instagram an old fuck buddy whose boyfriend had gotten her yoga shorts and protein powder. That's no good.

Casted a decent net today on tinder today. got about five numbers, couple are out of town right now so I didn't line a date up yet with them; however, I did line up round two with the 30 year old from last week for Friday and some super sexy 22 year ole recent college grad for Saturday night at a place right next to my office which I visit everyday and know everyone that works there. Meanwhile, I'm trying to line up a Venezuelan that is in my city on vacation. That'll be a new flag but we will see how everything plays out.

Called a bitch out on her shit in person.
She tried to defend herself.
Failed.

She said, "Calling me on my shit was hot"

She was sucking my dick shortly after.

Textbook game - say what you want from a chick, and be willing to walk when you don't get it.

___________________

From a different thread

"traditional as fuck (read, don't put out easily; good for the man who wants marriage, bad for the average RVFer who wants to slay pussy like mad). The only chicks I know who put out easily are usually damaged as fuck "

This always reads as game denialism to me.

Don't care where you go in the world. Chicks want to fuck. No matter what social conditioning they've gone through, her essential nature never changes. That's what she was built for. And if you can get her attracted, then alone, then give her some plausible deniability, she'll fuck.

Might not be good sex, but you can't screen for that shit before hand*.

WIA

*If one of you has a surefire tell for great blow jobs, please share.

Went out with a visiting work colleague for a few drinks last night that ended up becoming a bit of a bender. Got home at 2am this morning and then had to front up to work feeling quite dusty.
However ran into some South Americans in the last bar we were at and number closed a cute little Colombian girl. Tried to game my way into her pants but her friends were around and weren't having any of it. Will see if it pans out, would be nice to get the flag.

(08-19-2015 10:55 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  Called a bitch out on her shit in person.
She tried to defend herself.
Failed.

She said, "Calling me on my shit was hot"

She was sucking my dick shortly after.

Textbook game - say what you want from a chick, and be willing to walk when you don't get it.

Funny you mention this scenario WIA.

Last night I had this Black/Italian girl shooting pool with me, had a few drinks and a shot, this was our 3rd time hanging out.

The first time, she didn't bang, gave me a great head session, she REALLY know how to work it, I'd say top 5 sessions ever.

Second time around, when in doubt whip it out, she wouldn't do anything, claimed she was on her period. She bounced and I told myself I wouldn't reach out to her.

Third time, she texts me first, last night she shoots pool with me, had a few drinks and a shot. I teach her some trick shots, how to angle and line up the ball. She tells me she's nervous and a bit intimidated.

We get home, hot and heavy, she won't bang, I call her on it, tells me she's only had sex with one guy and "doesn't just give it to anyone" I laugh and day "bs" "I'm also not anyone" "you're still here for a reason".

She starts hamstering and I flat out say, "I don't waste my time and I don't play games" She gives me a hard no and talks about how she did give me great head....I follow up with saying "show me, there's always room for improvement"

She gives me even better head, I let her spend the night because she was pretty wasted, no cuddling or any of that shit.

Then we get in this discussion today:
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This conversation is on going, looking back I can tell I got a tad bit frustrated but played it off cool.

Her hamster is coming in strong - to me I don't care if I don't see her again or if we do bang.

If she really had one partner then I can understand why she's being so defensive....even though she's blown and swallowed my load twice.

It's only a matter of time until she hops on the carousel.

What do you think WIA ?

(08-18-2015 12:56 PM)SunW Wrote:  Thanks Blackwell.

I was originally using it more for seeing how I rated for looks, hoping to get some feedback on pictures and different looks, but I noticed that female land whales (who most of us would rate below a 1) are getting ratings of 5.5, while the "high rated dudes" in my area that look like this guy are getting ratings of 8. The other funny thing is girls, who are very close to 10 (if not 10), have ratings of 8 too.

I suppose Tinder doesn't score a person?

The HoN app is shit in my opinion. They don't match people who rate each other well, so it's likely that you'll have like 50 chicks who have rated you "hot" which they tell you for your score, but only 5 matches after a thousand swipes. Approximate values, of course. Because it's not a simple rating app but you can also message, the probability of a hookup skews ratings. Skinny, busty attention whores with bikini shots on the beach get "not" votes by guys who know she'd never vote for them and want to knock her down a peg, but that chubby whore with pimples might message them back so better vote "hot" just to be safe. Add to that anyone can vote for anyone else of any gender and it's pretty much worthless for ratings.

I even tried purchasing the upgrade to see if they would do better with matching then, but all it does is show you who's voted you "hot" that you've also voted on, doesn't make it any easier to vote on people who vote on you. For that they still show popups to share on FB. Not in the same league as Tinder, even with the hotter girls on it. Nope, no Tinder ratings.

(08-18-2015 12:59 PM)OregonToSoCal Wrote:  Crap that guy is "only" an 8? No homo but if that's the case I'm lucky to be a 5 on a good day

I was a 6.5, not that I'm bitter or anything Hey, I still pull on Tinder and the world this side of the screen.

(08-18-2015 01:17 PM)Rawmeo Wrote:  Her nickname being my favorite dessert should have rung a bell before.

Flan?

I believe someone posted about priming girls by mentioning words that could have sexual connotations while out to get them in the mindset. All I have to say is that shit was gold. I was out with this one Italian girl today. Eventually the conversation went towards gambling and I began mentioning "slots" and "hitting jackpot" as well as "shooting in the hole" when talking about how I use to gamble with my friends over games of Put Put golf at the mini-golf course. I then proceeded to show her Delicious Tacos' blog(lowkey shout out) and she busts out laughing at the fucked up sexual perversion.

Walking back to my car thinking it was all a bust with her and about to take her home due to only light kissing, but then she pushes me against the car saying she wanted to blow me right behind the venue which is where the owner and the girls working the counter come out to smoke. Easily the most nerve wracking and fun head I've received in a while. Bitch gave A grade head though. Cheers.

Met up with my new Saigon fuck buddy today again. Said she had feelings for some expat dude. Took her home and banged her while her phone blew up with notifications. Feels good to be on the winning side for once.

Is it worth it to rent an apartment if you just use it for logistics every weekend?

It's really far away from my place, though, I'm still living with my parents.

(08-21-2015 09:10 AM)dassad5a5 Wrote:  Is it worth it to rent an apartment if you just use it for logistics every weekend?

It's really far away from my place, though, I'm still living with my parents.

Why rent an apartment ?

Use AirBnB

Is this for the same girl or a different ones ? Why not a hotel ?