(05-10-2015 01:47 PM)Jaffna Wrote:  What site did you use?

Tinder, not a site.

1) Installed app again to give new photos a try

2) Set up profile and start swiping.

3) Make four left swipes. Woman eating a sandwich in her profile photo pops up. Fifth left swipe.

4) Delete profile.

5) Delete app again.

Saw this over the weekend:

"42% of people using dating app Tinder already have a partner, claims report"

Now it's the Guardian, where only 42% of the articles have an element of truth to them, but I was entertained:

Quote:Tinder shot to fame as a dating app for tech-savvy single people. Except, as it turns out, a big chunk of its users may not be single after all.

That’s according to research firm GlobalWebIndex (GWI), which released some figures on Tinder from its latest survey of more than 47,000 internet users around the world that suggest the app has a wider demographic.

In fact, the research claims that 30% of Tinder users surveyed are married, while another 12% are in a relationship. 54% classed themselves as single, while 3% were divorced or widowed.

Tinder may also be a digital stomping ground for married men, judging by GWI’s claim that 62% of its users are male and 38% female.

The research also shows, unsurprisingly, that Tinder’s users are a relatively young crowd, with 38% aged between 16 and 24, and 45% between 25 and 34.

13% are aged 35-44, 3% are 45-54 and 1% are 55-64 – although if reports in late 2014 that Tinder had 50 million active users were true, that would still indicate half a million people in that oldest age category surveyed.

If Tinder is becoming a sausage fest, I bet premium will make a killing.

http://www.theguardian.com/technology/20...lationship

It can be a pain to set up but used it when I went to manilla - faked the GPS a week before lined up some dates picked a 9 beauty with spanish look for first meet - 20 years old what a baby just graduated - and banged all weekend as I am not impressed with the quality in general in Manilla but there are lots of younger women (be careful some look too young I did check her ID). Not many above a 6 95% a 5 or below IMHO in bars/shopping centres etc (maybe personal taste I know). I tried Tinder back home and it is too easy. I like to hunt as in a challenge . Tinder is just a shag fest so I only use if I am busy at work and don't have time to waste on a 'hunt' and just need to let off some steam. It may well get a bad rep and become less useful though

(05-11-2015 09:13 AM)The_CEO Wrote:  1) Installed app again to give new photos a try

2) Set up profile and start swiping.

3) Make four left swipes. Woman eating a sandwich in her profile photo pops up. Fifth left swipe.

4) Delete profile.

5) Delete app again.

You have to get knee deep in the shit to find the pearls.

I have 2 tinder profiles at the moment.

The older one, I have turned discovery off to avoid confusion.

Not getting anywhere on this piece of shit, have 40 matches and they got no where compared to the number of dates I'm getting on OKCupid. 90% of the women don't even respond to your first message after a match.

Why would a girl have a profile photo of themselves biting into a sandwich?

Have they watched too many Carls Jr. commercials and think it's sexy?
Is it some type of signal: team appetizer?
They're a hearty eater? Not high maintenance?
I've seen it a few times at least and am not responding positively to this.

(05-11-2015 06:27 PM)The_CEO Wrote:  Why would a girl have a profile photo of themselves biting into a sandwich?

Have they watched too many Carls Jr. commercials and think it's sexy?
Is it some type of signal: team appetizer?
They're a hearty eater? Not high maintenance?
I've seen it a few times at least and am not responding positively to this.

You must be under the impression that Women think logically about these things

Some AFC is still falling for it

I've not used this app in a month and don't plan on going back. But dating apps in general have been extremely dry for me these past few months. Really not sure what's going on. I get matches on bumble and then the match expires because the girl didn't open me within 24 hours. If I've gotten 20 matches total so far then that has happened 17 times. I'm not sure why they'd match with a guy they don't have interest in talking to - I do believe not every girl realizes they have to initiate conversation for the match to take place. I can't think of any other reason.

Such a dark reversal from just a few months ago. Back in mid October I was sitting on 189 Tinder matches and content about it. Now I have no tinder at all and nothing doing on the other apps. Luckily we're getting into summer so cold approaches should be the primary source of action.

Just gotta work on that AA. I've been in OLD mode all of fall and winter.

(05-10-2015 01:41 PM)GreenHills Wrote:  I have a feeling that after Tinder introduced payed service it's become more difficult to get girls out from OKCupid. I wonder if that's true.

Why do you think this is? What's your reasoning behind this?

(05-12-2015 02:42 PM)civpro Wrote:  

(05-10-2015 01:41 PM)GreenHills Wrote:  I have a feeling that after Tinder introduced payed service it's become more difficult to get girls out from OKCupid. I wonder if that's true.

Why do you think this is? What's your reasoning behind this?

Lack of good competition in the marketplace leads to higher pricing

(05-11-2015 06:27 PM)The_CEO Wrote:  Why would a girl have a profile photo of themselves biting into a sandwich?

Have they watched too many Carls Jr. commercials and think it's sexy?
Is it some type of signal: team appetizer?
They're a hearty eater? Not high maintenance?
I've seen it a few times at least and am not responding positively to this.

It shows them being a consumer(not the eating type of consumer).

We live in a consumerist society, so a photo like that displays her ability to take part in it. She can eat out and choose a cool sandwich. In her eyes she is an apex female, and you should recognise that from her photos of her conspicuous consumption, her crotchfruit, and the bevy of other apex females she associates with and insists on displaying on social media and dating apps.

I stick by hard and fast rules on tinder.

The following get X:
short hair
fatties
older than me
main photos with more than one person in
photos of lizard with her children
lizards doing masculine activities.

They ALL get the X, regardless of how attractive they might be.

^^^^
Ha.
A "cool" sandwich....
Next time I need to scrutinize the actual sandwich more closely.

You can add then, "biting into a sandwich" to your list of no go photo's.

I am certain that monetising Tinder has caused a steady decline on the standards of women.

It reminds me of what happened to BeautifulPeople.com when it chose to put 8+ people second to thirsty men's credit cards.

Well first Tinder bang for 2015. I just log in after the bar and msg who ever was on the last. She replies. I hint to hang. She's down.

I really did no background checks aside from her Tinder pics. She looked good enough. We meet I am sorta underwhelmed, she would never be on my radar in real life but with blue balls I didn't care and would still bang.

Crazy Russian girl who had to get high out her mind to fuck. I sat around for a hour while she did lines, smoked two blunts, smokes half a pack and sips on vodka and sprite. After each hit of drugs I feel my dick get more soft. But just more proof that women can't have casual sex unless their hamster is snuffed out with booze or drugs.

She gives good head so it wasn't all that bad until she wanted to bang. She tries to stuff it in raw when she doesn't known my name, literally I was off the street not even a hour ago. I felt like I was in some cheesy PSA sounding like a woman hinting at a rubber. Sex was pretty wack. After I just wanted my bed as my hand would of been better, should of just made her suck my dick.

I had a long ass shower when I got home and scrbbed the hell out of my balls. I have no idea how a broad who lives in rich Yorkville seemed so dirty and sketch to me. Lol what a shitty notch.

^ Congrats. I barely get even a single match every thousand swipes.

(05-14-2015 11:15 PM)N°6 Wrote:  I am certain that monetising Tinder has caused a steady decline on the standards of women.

It reminds me of what happened to BeautifulPeople.com when it chose to put 8+ people second to thirsty men's credit cards.

Hypothetical sequence of events:

1. Tinder institutes pricing for 75+ swipes.

2. Attractive dudes still get mutual swipes once in a while, so they don't pay.

3. Unattractive dudes do not. They pay the premium and continue mass-swiping.

4. When you swipe a girl first, you show up early in her queue.

5. Since only unattractive dudes, who are paying a premium, mass-swipe now, the queue of hot girls is filled with unattractive dudes.

6. Girl looks at her tinder. It's the hundreds of unattractive dudes who have mass-swiped her, formed up in a long line. Unattractive guy after unattractive guy after unattractive guy. Hundreds of them. She thinks: "OMG tinder is all ugly guys now!" Two seconds later: "OMG that dog is so cuuuute I want a pomeranian!" Ten seconds later: "I'm hungry! I want pizza!"

7. She deletes her profile.

8. Quality of girls goes down because the attractive ones have deleted their profiles.

9. Quality of guys ALSO goes down because, seeing the lack of attractive girls, attractive guys delete their profiles too.

10. We bitch about it here.

Pretty bang-up job by Tinder fucking up a sure thing.

It seems like every time I give up on Tinder, something positive happens and I get sucked back in. On Friday evening I checked my Tinder for the first time in a few days. I had a message from an old match who lives 100 miles away. I'm intrigued because she looks like a model and is African American. I've never been with an African American woman. She said she's coming to my city this weekend and wants to meet up. I text her back and suggest wine tasting. She texts me back with her number. She shows up when she says. She actually is super hot (8.5/9) with a perfect body. We had a great time and hung out for over 2 hours before she had to go to her friend's birthday 1.5 hours north. She gave me huge IOIs and initiated tons of KINO, when I hugged her goodbye, she kissed my neck. If I see her again, a lay is very likely...

Oddly, I'm getting better contacts and results off OKC recently compared to Tinder.

OF the last 7 #'s I've gotten, and recent meet ups, 5 #'s and all meet ups have come from OKC. The quality on either site has been about the same. I think Tinder's market value is equaling out somewhat, as the masses have come aboard.

I think it's time to erase my current Tinder account and make a new one. My current Tinder won't let me change or add pictures.. that's surely working against me.

(05-14-2015 12:42 PM)Lizard King Wrote:  I stick by hard and fast rules on tinder.

The following get X:
short hair
fatties
older than me
main photos with more than one person in
photos of lizard with her children
lizards doing masculine activities.

They ALL get the X, regardless of how attractive they might be.

Excellent rules to Tinder by.

I don't even bother having my age search range set above late-mid 20's.

(05-17-2015 07:30 PM)Roardog Wrote:  

(05-14-2015 12:42 PM)Lizard King Wrote:  I stick by hard and fast rules on tinder.

The following get X:
short hair
fatties
older than me
main photos with more than one person in
photos of lizard with her children
lizards doing masculine activities.

They ALL get the X, regardless of how attractive they might be.

Excellent rules to Tinder by.

I don't even bother having my age search range set above late-mid 20's.

You would be surprised how many broads are dumb and don't know how to set their age in FB. Surprisingly I don't find that many old broads in Tinder and if I do I X them quickly.

I think I will have to open a new FB account and get 50+ new friends.

When I tested 29 as my age, I got lots of matches from women in their 20s. Now back at 35 and even though I still match with women in their 20s, women over 30 would have to pay a shocking £14.99 per month to match my swiping.

There's two reasons why it's not good to have a profile aged over 30 on Tinder.

Does anyone use song lyrics as their opener?

I tried "shut up and dance with me", and got 2 bites out of 4 attempts.

I mostly use the woman's name. Saves me thinking too much. They mostly answer with 'yes?' or by using my name. that's when I need a transitioner.

Anyone who wants to restart dead conversations with 18-20s,just send a single emoji. Can also be useful at grabbing hotter (but young) girl's attentions with failed openers. Eg commented on an animal she was posing with, send emoji of that animal. Commented on piece of clothing send related emoji etc etc

As for other strategies I've implemented.. don't be afraid to utilise the moments feature. And integrate 'playing dumb' into your overall vibe to stand out w/ hotter girls. Here's an actual example with a 19 year old legit 8.5:


Me- let me guess you know how to play a g chord. I need help

Her- with a g chord?

Me- ya quite difficult don't you think

Her- either you're lying or you've never picked up a guitar in your life hahaha


And go from there. Another thing I'll add is to not be afraid to move the convo forward in a sexual manner, it's a much better idea to push too far and then ask for forgiveness after. Foreign girls are almost always horny, best working line after some good back and forth is if they wanna hang out because I have 'vodka and rope'. One fuckin movie and every girl loves to be tied up I swear

Been living on the cheap for the last few weeks.. but I've got 4 new bangs with the above 'method' in the last three weeks from tinder booty calls and the 'zero date bangs method' (only recently got smart phone).

To be honest I'm very pleased with results for a little passive pussy stream on the side. I think tinder hasn't got a very long shelf life left since the upgrade so utilise it while you can gents