Post: #26

Does OP live in a tourist heavy city? Then why don't you start hitting on them. Don't be the creepy Indian dude though. I have heard stories where guys just stare without making a move.
Do you workout? How's the gym culture by the way?

Post: #27

Hey guys, got down by a bout of the seasonal illness. Here is all of my info, and id like to thank you guys in advance for all the help and support.
Physical Appearance:
Sikh Guy(Google Sikhism if you dont know about it) and wear a turban with a beard(no im not a muslim).
Pretty well built body, into hard core gyming, neither lean nor bulky, more on the strong side well definition chest and biceps. Im 5ft 5 inches tall. If anyone is wondering my turban is not something that puts me down I play more of an exotic card. I believe my deficiences stem from Beta behaviour and poor game. Age 22.

History: As a kid I was born and brought up in New York but after which at the age of 11ish I moved to India for my parents to be closer to the family. I used get emotionally attached a lot and ran after girls did all the stupidest shit ever got no dates and a few chances were missed by appearing to be needy and possessive. The only good thing i ever did even then was to never stop still kept hitting on girls and hence I have little approach anxiety or communication problems. So the game changed when i got stuck into a oneitis and breaking out of it took all of my strength and courage, came near to suicide, didn't do it though promised myself that ill fight for this chick till I can and then slowly understand that this wasnt the way its supposed to be. Got out of oneitis, by naturally developing a "I dont give a shit attitude" got my first proper girlfriend at the age of 20 ( yeah I know, a combination of India and me being Beta) didnt bang, she was too much of a kid, dumped her after 6 months and got another girlfriend who is kinda like a fuck buddy doesnt mind me being with other girls or running game.

Problems: The thing is after these two girls my train has run cold I havent had any luck since then, had a few opportunities and they bummed due to no apparent reason. Also while getting out of oneitis cause me to have a slick attitude, i has dumbed down my conversation skills and i literally dont give a shit about anything. I dont feel like talking to anyone, earlier i used to be a pretty jovial guy who could yap for hours, no its diffficult for me to get 2 words out.
Also while running came and consciously doing stuff like maintaining eye contact and escalation it feels pretty weird. Also i think that the "Game" has to be changed a little taking into account the India factor. This is where i need help. Also im trying to write down with a lot of clarity on my problems and approaches. Ill start another thread for that.

Post: #28

No game needs to be adjusted to suit a race, color, physique or whatever..game is game either you have it/work on it or you just don't. Also that is exactly how I felt reading your last post

Post: #29

(05-07-2015 01:09 PM)KC4 Wrote:  Does OP live in a tourist heavy city? Then why don't you start hitting on them. Don't be the creepy Indian dude though. I have heard stories where guys just stare without making a move.
Do you workout? How's the gym culture by the way?

No its not a tourist heavy city as such. The city is Delhi!
Yes i do workout, the gym culture depends heavily on the area you live in ranging from rich pricks who come to the gym to showoff and socialize. You do find some serious guys too, but its pretty rare.

Post: #30

You are Punjabi, A turban wearing Sikh, own it.

Post: #31

Gagan, I’m Punjabi, but I’m a clean shaven Hindu…I have lots of Sikh relatives though. How important is having a turban and beard for you? I know that for some Sikhs, that’s non-negotiable. Where do you stand on it?

I know there’s a subset of Indian women that likes turban men, but a lot more don’t. I think that you’re narrowing down your opportunities by keeping a turban.

Post: #32

^^Same here , punjabi in the house. I would lose the turban. when you go out how's your dress sense ? Casual or dressed to the nines?

Post: #33

Well i am comfortable with wearing a cap! As long as I don't have to cut the hair though. Also I'm more towards the casual side. I dress somewhat like joey from Friends...