Post: #1

opened this 8 at the gym. been talking to her on an off for a week. worked out with her yesterday and then insta-dated to grab a protein shake after gym. hit it off for like 2 hours. she friends me on facebook and much to my surprise only to find that she has a bf! next day i see her in gym...this lizard is cold and barely says two sentences to me. fuckin wasted my time and got a free meal out of it!

New to the game but i dont get why a chick whose not interested is going to spend 2 hours with a dude on a weekday.

I'm keeping on with the day approaches but feel like I keep getting put into friend zoned. how do you guys recommend not getting put in friend zone? how do u avoid the above situation?

Post: #2

(01-28-2012 02:56 AM)ASA123 Wrote:  New to the game but i dont get why a chick whose not interested is going to spend 2 hours with a dude on a weekday.

Because women love attention from men, even men they have no intention of fucking.

(01-28-2012 02:56 AM)ASA123 Wrote:  I'm keeping on with the day approaches but feel like I keep getting put into friend zoned. how do you guys recommend not getting put in friend zone? how do u avoid the above situation?

Make your intentions known earlier. I am not saying go direct approach every time, but I learned that I want the woman to know that I am interested in her sexually after the first meeting. The easiest way to avoid being put into the friend zone is to make it clear that you don't want to be just friends.

Post: #3

Doesn't mean a damn thing brotha. Most of the women I've slept with have had boyfriends at the time. Pretend like you never saw it. Keep gaming her. Invite her out for drinks. Trust me it doesn't matter.

Post: #4

My initial reaction to your story is that you sparked her interest at first but as the day wore on she got bored or unattractive. To me 2 hours is a long time. You might have just given her to much. She learned enough about you to not want to know more. I would've grabbed the smoothie , chatted for a few more minutes, got some contact info then said "well I gotta go, I see you around?"

That way at the end of the day you're that mysterious guy she got a smoothie with that she doesn't know much about, not John Doe from the gym.

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Post: #5

2 hours is way to long to go without kissing, touching, etc. I let it be known within 30 minutes what I want. It sounds liek you're being to nice if they keep putting you in the friend zone.