Post: #1

So a while ago a wrote this thread here (/thread-3839.html) about my German ex girlfriend and her anti-foreigner somewhat racist friends and their dislike for me. The guys on the thread pretty much attributed a lot of my bellyaching to me being a pussy and just needing to learn the language to win over her friends, the same friends BTW who would do deviant shit like introduce her to guys when I wasn't there and constantly tell her she needs to find a new "German" guy. That's cool, fair play and all that but I felt deep in my guy that I wasn't being a pussy and that there might be more to this as this wasn't the first time I've had run-in's with hating as friends of my girls.

Fast forward to today and my LTR from Japan who's currently living with me has new friends from her English class. They're other young girls from Mexico and they live with a host family somewhere in Bethesda. I call her my LTR but actually she's my GF, and since last year I've been trying really hard to make it work for other reasons I've mentioned in other threads. So this is my first live in girlfriend ever and the first one I decided to get serious with in a long long time. She's been talking about these Mexican girls for a few weeks and one Friday they decided to go out together for girl-night. I don't know what my GF/LTR is telling these girls, but now all of a sudden they're telling her she needs to leave me and find a better guy in Mexico. These bitches don't know how good our relationship is and that she tells me all of this, that they're telling her because she's pretty and Asian she would be really popular down there and that she can live with them. I'm like WTF at the idea of getting kidnapped down in Mexico, and also at the audacity of these fucking bitches who don't even know me to tell her to leave me. Man, girls are some scandalous muthafuckers. Why do they always want to destroy a happy relationship when they see it? And it's not the language barrier this time. So WTF.

While these bitches aren't going to derail my game, it is annoying as hell to constantly have a cockblock latched onto your relationship like some sort of negative energy sucking leech. What am I doing wrong this time to bring this on lol? Do I need to turn into a one woman guy? I don't think the right answer is just to be the kind of pussy wooped demasculated shell of a man that roams DC with their GF's purse, so how the fuck do I keep these banshee's out of my love life forever?

Post: #2

If you really like her and you are happy with her, and she feels the same about you, im sure she wont listen to what her friends at telling her, matterfact she needs to choose between you or her friends.

This is the main reason i dont date girls anymore and if i do it again, i wont take them that seriously unless i have been with them for a very long time. Keep on dating her but also fuck girls on the side, this way, if she ever leaves you, it wont get to you that much.

I also think you ''attaching'' yourself a lot with women, this can be bad, try cool down your feelings, dont take them that seriously, eliminate words such as ''love'' from your vocabulary.

Post: #3

Guys can be quick to call another guy a pussy. The whole "game conquers all" shit can get out of hand. Game can overcome alot, but not scandalous hateful bitches that whisper in your girl's ear behind your back. Women are inherently hateful. If a chick has a man, and they don't, they'll do everything to convince her that her man is somehow mistreating her. Or that they can do better. Of course, the moment one of them meets a guy they'll bail on the rest of the crew and forget all the bullshit they were talking to other chicks about THEIR man.

Basically, women don't want to see ANYONE else happy if they aren't. They don't want to see other chicks happy, and they definitely don't want to see men happy. As long as your girl is coming back to you reporting on this foolishness, she's obviously not taking it seriously. It would REALLY be great if she set these bitches straight, and actually defended you to these tramps.

Post: #4

Bitches are SO scandalous. You can't trust them. Getting fucked in an alley behind the bar by their husbands "best friend" and crazy shit like that. So dirty, but that's a whole different topic lol.

Bottom line is, if she is still friends with these girls even though they hate on you so hard, your girl probably isn't GF material.

Post: #5

(01-22-2012 06:22 PM)RioNomad Wrote:  Bitches are SO scandalous. You can't trust them. Getting fucked in an alley behind the bar by their husbands "best friend" and crazy shit like that. So dirty, but that's a whole different topic lol.

Bottom line is, if she is still friends with these girls even though they hate on you so hard, your girl probably isn't GF material.

This.

I've read a few of your other posts, and even if you had a better command of German your ex's friends would have hated even more! (i've been there!) Bitches get real jealous over things like this. If you girl looks to side with a cockblocker over you, that just affirms that your wasting your time.