Post: #1

alright so would any of you try and make a play on a chick at work or would you say this is a no go?
If so, how would you approach this?
I work at a full service car wash that employs hundreds of people, and pretty much all of the Sales girls are 8/9's, and there's some pretty decent 7/8's in the areas that I work in.
I find having a great work ethic does wonders. They see you actually knowing what your doing and see the confidence in that. But I suppose acting like a bit of a goof at times would help as well, as that sets you apart from the other guys and shows that you actually have some balls.
Any opinions?

Post: #2

"I work at a full service car wash that employs hundreds of people, and pretty much all of the Sales girls are 8/9's"

What kind of car wash is this?

One of those bikini car washes?

I would say never swoop a girl you work with.

Unless you don't care about the job. (Or you work at a Gentleman's club or P)rn company)

If that is the case, swoop away.

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Post: #3

Your boss hired those chicks so that he can bang them. They are basically community property, and you shouldn't worry about the repercussions.

Post: #4

I stay away from office dating since I got into trouble once from doing it. I banged this chick from work and was pretty upfront the whole time that it was simply a bang and nothing else. Well she had different ideas and the next morning (yeah, I know why was I there in the morning I was fucking tired as hell) she was getting all needy on me like trying to hold my hand and stuff.

The next day I tell her "Let's just be friends" and she's all like "Oh, yeah. I agree" and a couple of days later got slapped with a sexual harrassment complaint.

For me to ever walk down that path the chick has to be a super model or something.

Post: #5

(08-17-2009 12:11 PM)Trotter Wrote:  The next day I tell her "Let's just be friends" and she's all like "Oh, yeah. I agree" and a couple of days later got slapped with a sexual harrassment complaint.

Wow.

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Post: #6

(08-17-2009 12:11 PM)Trotter Wrote:  The next day I tell her "Let's just be friends" and she's all like "Oh, yeah. I agree" and a couple of days later got slapped with a sexual harrassment complaint.

What was the content of the complaint?

This is one of those things where I'll totally ignore everyone's advice, 'till I learn it on my own, and personally regret it.

If you're smart about it, I can't see how you'd get in trouble for flirting on the job. Just keep it indirect, initially, and be more attentive to her interest. But trotter's situation is different.

Post: #7

ever heard the expression, "don't shit where you eat?"

Post: #8

seen the latest Entourage season?

you gotta draw the line somewhere.

Post: #9

Off limits, for your own peace of mind. Unless you live not in the U.S.

Post: #10

(08-18-2009 09:19 AM)Hangover Wrote:  Off limits, for your own peace of mind. Unless you live not in the U.S.

I live in Canada lol. maybe I'll go for it, next hot new chick they hire.

Post: #11

even worse

Post: #12

I dated this girl who is a bit younger than me and who works in HR. As you can imagine I really did my best not to do her any harm, I don't want to get fired the next day
I just wanted to f*** her without letting her know I was interested only by sex not to have problems at work later.
So after dating her a couple of weeks, I used my standard technique when she started to ask me why I was so cold. I told her I ended a long term relationship and I was really confused, that right now my heart has no love for no one etc...
Playing the guy who lost his feelings sometimes works, well for me it works well especially if the girl is dumbish (they often are). Like that, the girl thinks she is not the one guilty and it's just bad luck after all.
We ended the relationship (I managed to make her end up) and I had no problems later at work since we talk to each other when we meet.

Just avoid fucking another girl @ work the next day and it should be fine

Post: #13

I've never hired a female based on her resume.

Why work your way to the top?

Post: #14

I banged a girl at my officeplace when I was working in Shanghai.

We did a good job of keeping it on the DL for a while but I think another girl found out. That generally shouldn't have been a problem but this other girl who found out I think had a crush on me so it made things pretty bad.

Things got dramatic after I left between the two girls apparently and the one I banged got fired. I'm pretty sure they found out that I, the intern, was banging her.

The good thing is she was older and it's Asian culture so it was sort of framed like she was taking advantage of a naive young intern. Booyah.

Needless to say, you should NEVER do that in a white collar environment because there is too much at stake. I'm not entirely sure about places like a car wash, I imagine the rules are a lot more lenient.