Post: #1

Just food for thought, I guess...

Maybe I'm just stumbling onto the wrong forums and websites (or right ones depending how you look at it lol) but a lot of married people out there seem to get into some freaky shit. I'm down with getting freaky but this is where I draw the line.

I really can't wrap my head around this. I'm not a jealous guy, but no way i could allow some guy to have sex with my wife or girlfriend, especially in front of me.

I'm not knocking what other people are into cause I say live and let live, but I really just can't wrap my head around why guys would be down with something like that. Let alone like it.

Any of the freakier players out there been there done that or just have an opinion?

Beyond All Seas

"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe.
To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes
frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." - Kipling

Post: #2

Wife and girlfriend are too different things for me. there are girl friends who I have b/c they are easy but I'm not that into them. So I don't mind to share them with a friend. I'd never share my wife though, thats just nasty. In fact I had a gf who my buddy introduced to me, and he liked her waaay more than me, I was never really that into her and only banged her because she was so desperate for me and there was nothing wrong with her. Not ugly, not hot, fairly good looking, nice pussy, nice tits but nothing amazing, nothing i'd ever marry. So I saw no big deal in it. Plus she was a bit crazy so it would not bother me if she left me at all.

Now there are some girls, like if I really like them, and I am in love with them I'd never share them with anyone and basically view things as you on. But these are girls I view as LTR and marriage material. I can't wrap my head why anyone would let someone fuck their wife unless they got bored of their wife and just wanted to use it as an excuse to fuck other women. The other thing is some people just like to watch their wife being fucked, and instead of getting mirror infront of their bed like I do, they watch someone else fuck their gf.

Post: #3

BTDT, not as the hubby, but as one of the dudes.

I while ago, I was involved in the local cuckold/gangbang scene and would show up at parties and events where husbands would watch their wives get pounded buy one or (more often) a bunch of other dudes. It was a weird scene, but I was basically fucking anything that moved and was female at the time, so I went for it.

One of the things that I noticed is that the women were, on average, SIGNIFICANTLY lower in quality than the average woman, or even the average housewife in the area. Tons of fatties (I don't mean 150lbs fat, I mean 200-300lbs+ FAT), and naturally plain/fugly chicks. There were some hot ones, but they were MUCH rarer and MUCH MUCH more selective with whom they "played" with.

In terms of the husbands, they generally fell into two categories. The first were guys that used other guys fucking their wife as some kind of validation that their wife was attractive. It was like "Look at all of these guys that want to fuck my wife. That means that she is hot, therefore I am a stud for having a hot wife." The irony is that, as I mentioned before, the girls were usually way below average. In truth, I think this that was also the reason for the majority of the wives who were into this. I guarantee you that those gangbangs are the ONLY places that this woman would EVER EVER have a bunch of guys showering attention on her. The only thing she has to give up for that attention is two or more of her holes to every guy in the room.

The second type of husband are the ones that are closet gays/bisexuals. These guys were focused WAY too much on the other guys' cocks. I think they use their wives as bait to lure the guys to the room to get naked, and as a surrogate for their own fantasies. IMHO, many of the husbands are imagining it is THEM, not their wives, getting filled by that big black cock. These are the dudes that lick the other guys' nut off of their wives. Also, a lot of the supposed studs that show up to these things are closet gays/bisexuals. I saw way too many instances of naked guys "accidentally" bumping into other naked dudes, or worse, "accidentally" cumming on another dude. The gay advances and ugly women are what pushed me out of the scene.

Post: #4

(12-12-2011 04:41 AM)joehoya Wrote:  BTDT, not as the hubby, but as one of the dudes.

I while ago, I was involved in the local cuckold/gangbang scene and would show up at parties and events where husbands would watch their wives get pounded buy one or (more often) a bunch of other dudes. It was a weird scene, but I was basically fucking anything that moved and was female at the time, so I went for it.

One of the things that I noticed is that the women were, on average, SIGNIFICANTLY lower in quality than the average woman, or even the average housewife in the area. Tons of fatties (I don't mean 150lbs fat, I mean 200-300lbs+ FAT), and naturally plain/fugly chicks. There were some hot ones, but they were MUCH rarer and MUCH MUCH more selective with whom they "played" with.

In terms of the husbands, they generally fell into two categories. The first were guys that used other guys fucking their wife as some kind of validation that their wife was attractive. It was like "Look at all of these guys that want to fuck my wife. That means that she is hot, therefore I am a stud for having a hot wife." The irony is that, as I mentioned before, the girls were usually way below average. In truth, I think this that was also the reason for the majority of the wives who were into this. I guarantee you that those gangbangs are the ONLY places that this woman would EVER EVER have a bunch of guys showering attention on her. The only thing she has to give up for that attention is two or more of her holes to every guy in the room.

The second type of husband are the ones that are closet gays/bisexuals. These guys were focused WAY too much on the other guys' cocks. I think they use their wives as bait to lure the guys to the room to get naked, and as a surrogate for their own fantasies. IMHO, many of the husbands are imagining it is THEM, not their wives, getting filled by that big black cock. These are the dudes that lick the other guys' nut off of their wives. Also, a lot of the supposed studs that show up to these things are closet gays/bisexuals. I saw way too many instances of naked guys "accidentally" bumping into other naked dudes, or worse, "accidentally" cumming on another dude. The gay advances and ugly women are what pushed me out of the scene.

Thanks for the insightful response, Man - and you gave me a good couple lol's. Yeah, I'd imagine you'd meet some characters in that scene for sure.

Beyond All Seas

"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe.
To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes
frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." - Kipling

Post: #5

(12-12-2011 04:41 AM)joehoya Wrote:  I think they use their wives as bait to lure the guys to the room to get naked, and as a surrogate for their own fantasies.

That is hilarious dude! I cant imagine ANY reason to WANT to be cuckolded but as OP said live and let live.

Post: #6

(12-12-2011 04:34 AM)misterstir Wrote:  Wife and girlfriend are too different things for me.

Yeah, I know what you mean. I was more talking about wives and serious gf's.

That said, I've never even been into passing around chicks at a party either though. I mean, if a girl I'm just sleeping with is running around town getting laid by other dudes, more power to her and I expect that. But I don't necessarily want him beating it up in my spare bedroom.

Unless, of course, she brings her hotter, younger sister over for me.

I guess if I was to be honest with myself I'd say I'm just a little possessive when it comes to women whether it's just a shag or not. I certainly don't cling to them, at all, but if I'm beating it up on the regular I want it all to myself when it's my shift. lol

And having two dicks in the room is just not on my agenda.

Back to the original post, the whole cuckolding thing seems super beta to me. If you read about how some of these people talk online, it's like they've got the guys convinced they're really open-minded or something like that by allowing their wife the pleasure she wants (and yeah, sometimes the guys just get off on it).

I'm all for being open-minded, but letting some guy pound your chick?

Unless you really just don't give a shit about her, could there be any more extreme form of supplication? In my own opinion, a guy who willingly hands over his ole lady to other dudes because he's concerned about her pleasure handed over his balls years ago. And she quite likely couldn't find them when she went to fish them out of her purse again because he never got them back.

Beyond All Seas

"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe.
To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes
frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." - Kipling

Post: #7

(12-12-2011 03:52 AM)Beyond Borders Wrote:  Just food for thought, I guess...

Maybe I'm just stumbling onto the wrong forums and websites (or right ones depending how you look at it lol) but a lot of married people out there seem to get into some freaky shit. I'm down with getting freaky but this is where I draw the line.

I really can't wrap my head around this. I'm not a jealous guy, but no way i could allow some guy to have sex with my wife or girlfriend, especially in front of me.

I'm not knocking what other people are into cause I say live and let live, but I really just can't wrap my head around why guys would be down with something like that. Let alone like it.

Any of the freakier players out there been there done that or just have an opinion?

Don't know if anyone else has posted this, but this is the ULTIMATE cuckold in my book. Unbelievable.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-...riend.html

Post: #8

Well I've had 3 somes that also involved 2 friends but not the same girl. Your best bet at getting a 3 some in my experience is finding those girls who seem really close and playing the whole field of them, and if all is going well after 30 minutes try to get them to your hotel room or whatever and then undress one then the other, or you can drop the D bomb, and they can both attack the dick. For me, it was 2 slutty swedish girls, slightly cuter than average one blonde one black white mixed.

I suspect that guys who are into having their wives done by other men are secretly gay but I have no proof. Anyhow, the only time/reason when I see it as ok to share a girl is if that guy is sharing girls with you or finding you girls, and I'm not going to lie, that particular guy hooked me up with 5 girls in 8 months, all average or better looking, no fatties or uglies. But if you let some rando fuck your wife for no reason or a girl your into, your not right in the head.

Post: #9

(12-12-2011 05:38 AM)Princeton Wrote:  Don't know if anyone else has posted this, but this is the ULTIMATE cuckold in my book. Unbelievable.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-...riend.html

Holy hell - that woman must have mad game. lol Is this the "new American male?"

This was one of the chicks comments on that article:
"I believe a woman should have multiple male lovers living in the home but I do not think the same is acceptable for men. Reason being a child should only have one mother (as nature intended) but multiple father is ok (as nature also actually allows impregnation by multiple men's sperm) However, I wish her the best of luck in her relationship, what a brave woman to come out and tell her story."

This bitch has bumped her head.

Beyond All Seas

"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe.
To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes
frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." - Kipling

Post: #10

I think people are just into different things. For instance, one of my friend's in UK was into tossing salad in a big way. I am still squeamish about licking quim especially since I have a keen sense of smell.

I guess there is a feeling of inadequacy to those dudes who like sharing their lizards. Possibly they envision themselves in the body of the chap pounding out their missus since they don't believe they have tools to do the right job.

That's why you have many guys pay top bucks to watch some ruffian with a big one poke their better half.

Post: #11

I would never do it but I have fantasized about it. Maybe its the fact that its so wrong, or the thought about my girl being such a slut she needs to fuck more than one guy. Just a fantasy though I would never want it to happen and would have been devastated had an ex of mine cheated.

Post: #12

Princeton Wrote:Don't know if anyone else has posted this, but this is the ULTIMATE cuckold in my book. Unbelievable.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-...riend.html

Fuck me running.

This is why I wash my hands when I touch ANYTHING in public, because there is some chance, no matter how remote, that these fucking weirdos could have touched the same thing at some point, and I don't want their bizarro bubonic super AIDS.

Post: #13

That story shows the ultimate pussyfication of the american man, back in the day a man would should another man and strangle his wife for doing that kinda shit, disgusting

Post: #14

(12-12-2011 04:16 PM)misterstir Wrote:  That story shows the ultimate pussyfication of the american man, back in the day a man would should another man and strangle his wife for doing that kinda shit, disgusting

Yeah, if that's where America's headed, I'm gettin the hell back outta here. I don't always agree with the ideas on this forum, but if this is what men are turning into in this country, I'm sure as shit glad the men on this forum exist.

Like I said before, live and let live, but there's just something about that story that seems extremely sad to me.

Beyond All Seas

"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe.
To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes
frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." - Kipling

Post: #15

(12-12-2011 11:51 AM)Riker Wrote:  I would never do it but I have fantasized about it. Maybe its the fact that its so wrong, or the thought about my girl being such a slut she needs to fuck more than one guy. Just a fantasy though I would never want it to happen and would have been devastated had an ex of mine cheated.

I just love this board. Just pure love it.
Well old pussy is always old pussy. Some times I truly imagine what it will be like having sex with with the same lady for 30+ years. Maybe when I was in my teens and still have butterflies in my belly, I could. But now at 30,a hole is just another goddamn hole.

Perhaps the guy is getting some young pussy somewhere. Perhaps the woman secretly likes black dick and can't really go out and get it. Perhaps it is for amateur porn. Perhaps the man just can't really get it up again, and this is a way to save the marriage. Perhaps the man just like the thought of DPing his wife with another guy. Perhaps the marriage stalls, and the guy is less threaten by the idea of a black guy fucking his wife than a white guy. Perhaps the wife is the one who rules the house. But I tend to agree with misterstir, I think most guys might have a phallus complex especially the ones with the hot wives.

Post: #16

(12-12-2011 11:51 AM)Riker Wrote:  I would never do it but I have fantasized about it. Maybe its the fact that its so wrong, or the thought about my girl being such a slut she needs to fuck more than one guy. Just a fantasy though I would never want it to happen and would have been devastated had an ex of mine cheated.

I give you props on admitting this when we are all bashing it. lol

Yeah, I guess some guys just run with the fantasy, eh? Personally, it's not something I've ever fantasized about, but I've certainly fantasized about some wierd shit that I would never do.

Beyond All Seas

"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe.
To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes
frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." - Kipling

Post: #17

Interesting

Post: #18

Psychology is the answer. Anything and everything can be turned into a weird fetish. I can't say I agree or understand it myself, but there will always be people who find weird shit turns them on.

Post: #19

I used to work at an adult sex cinema for a little while - and would have couples constantly coming in. Husbands or boyfriends love to see their partners being used for sexual gratification. It was amazing to see.
Some women are just nymphos and their partners can`t keep up with them so the partners take their girls to these kind of places and let her get her fill so to speak. One girl would have like 15-20 guys service her and she would still be begging for more - unbelievable
Interesting job - and nice fringe benefits as well

Post: #20

(12-12-2011 09:46 PM)Downunder Wrote:  I used to work at an adult sex cinema for a little while - and would have couples constantly coming in. Husbands or boyfriends love to see their partners being used for sexual gratification. It was amazing to see.
Some women are just nymphos and their partners can`t keep up with them so the partners take their girls to these kind of places and let her get her fill so to speak. One girl would have like 15-20 guys service her and she would still be begging for more - unbelievable
Interesting job - and nice fringe benefits as well

speak more on this job you had. i'm sure you have some crazy stories.

Post: #21

(12-13-2011 03:51 AM)houston Wrote:  

(12-12-2011 09:46 PM)Downunder Wrote:  I used to work at an adult sex cinema for a little while - and would have couples constantly coming in. Husbands or boyfriends love to see their partners being used for sexual gratification. It was amazing to see.
Some women are just nymphos and their partners can`t keep up with them so the partners take their girls to these kind of places and let her get her fill so to speak. One girl would have like 15-20 guys service her and she would still be begging for more - unbelievable
Interesting job - and nice fringe benefits as well

speak more on this job you had. i'm sure you have some crazy stories.

haha man there are plenty of stories. I did the job for like 3 years.
I have to think which ones i can tell on this board without incriminating myself

Post: #22

Yeah, do tell. Inquiring dirty minds want to know.
Never could understand the whole "gang-bang my wife" thing. If I knew my woman like a cock carousel, I'd find another chick.
But the secret teh gey explanation makes a lot of sense. Their husbands may all be in the closet.
There again, I had a buddy whole felt the whole purpose of slam dancing was to allow closeted men the chance to dance with each other.

Post: #23

Interesting. The only way I can sort of appreciate it that its sort of like watching a live porno starring your signficant other. But still, the deep rooted aversion to sharing my woman, any woman, blocks any pleasure that may bring. I concur that only one dick per room is a good rule.

Post: #24

I try not to be too critical of how another man handles his business, but bottom line, any man that gets something positive from seeing another man fuck his wife/girlfriend has issues. In a word, he's a BITCH in one form or another - maybe he's a latent or full out homo, or he's straight but so lacking in dignity and self-respect that he's THAT form of bitch. Yeah, she's got issues too, but they should be another man's issues to deal with, not yours.

Post: #25

BTW if you want to be invited to bang some dudes wife :

http://www.cuckoldplace.com/